i know those people

I think what’s fucked me up most is that I’ve become the same kind of person I admired most as a kid which is incredible and weird but like…. what a lonely life man

anonymous asked:

Nobody gives a fuck if you're straight or not (although even if you're not straight, you're into dudes and nobody who isn't into dudes would ship something as crappy as OQ tbh), but everyone can see you have horrible taste.

Okay, that’s like saying only lesbians can ship a queer ship. GTFO with your bullshit. If straight people can ship Dragon Queen or Swan Queen or Red Queen (and they do), lesbians can ship het ships like OQ (and they do). Sexuality and shipping are not dependent on each other - which is exactly my point.

Also, taste is a matter of opinion. I have friends who would fall over dead for Cate Blanchett and she does absolutely nothing for me (sorry girls). And I’ve seen people who think Lana is ugly, and I think she’s just about the hottest thing on two legs. I think those people are bananas, but, y’know, their taste is not my taste. 

I happen to like scruffy, dimpled Irish boys. What can ya do.

“You should have seen her group fail in class just now.  It was painful to watch.”

Yeah, as if you didn’t cause that.

I clenched my fist, then forced myself to relax it.  If we were all guys, this scenario would be totally different.  I was in the best shape of my life.  I could have swung a few punches from the very start, caused a bloody nose or two, maybe.

Why exactly is it that “boys fight, girls bully” is a thing? Oh right, gender roles.

It’s no wonder people are salty over those.

I know I would have lost the fight in the end, getting shoved to the ground by force of numbers and kicked while I was down, but things would have ended there, instead of dragging on like they were here.

Fights have an ending.

Bullying campaigns, however? Not if the bullies can help it.

I’d hurt physically for days afterwards, but I’d at least have had the satisfaction of knowing some of the others were hurting too, and I wouldn’t have to sit through this barrage of insults.  If there was enough damage done, the school would have to take notice, and they wouldn’t be able to ignore the circumstances of a one-against-nine fight.  Violence gets attention.

And that’s one of the reasons for the endless nature of bullying. It’s not noticed.

Except of course in this case the bullying has been noticed, and Taylor is refusing to give anyone enough information to help her.

But things didn’t work that way here.  Girls played dirty.  If I decked Emma, she would run to the office with some fabricated story, her friends backing up her version of events. 

It’s one against nine.

And the one would be the aggressor.

For most, ratting to the faculty was social suicide, but Emma was more or less top dog.  If she went to the principal, people would only take things more seriously.

Funny how that works, isn’t it.

Isn’t it.

By the time I got back to school, they would have spread the story through the grapevine in a way that made me look like a total psycho.  Things would get worse.  Emma would be seen as the victim and girls who had previously ignored the bullying would join in on Emma’s behalf.

And the odds worsen from 1:9 to 1:15, or something. I don’t know how many girls there are in total.

reading fics, looking at art, honestly i’m so confused by people describing/drawing young h anzo as thin or bony or i’ve even seen him described as delicate before like bruh

have u seen young h anzo?

bruh all i see is compact muscle and a thicc boi like

shoutout to the survivors who are not forgiving, who do not believe that what happened to them was ‘for a reason’, who know they did not deserve it, who are angry at what happened to them, and who do not show the typical 'good victim’ trope. You all get so much shit from people about how you should act from your trauma because only 'good victims’ are deserving of empathy and support. You deserve so much more than that.

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anonymous asked:

Hey uh.. not to bother you by any means.. but can I get a link to those tips for drawing people crying you did once?? I looked through all the tags and couldn't find it myself, sorry..

Oh, it’s no bother! http://whatisthiscutenonsense.tumblr.com/post/147379834506/eruhamster-retroautomaton-some-crying-tips 

But honestly, I’m not actually too happy with those anymore. They’re pretty old. I still sort of hold the same value when I draw them, but here’s some more updated tips, if that’s alright. 

One of the biggest complaints I got with those tips was that just a single tear is good enough. Well yes and no. Tears are just a helpful tool, and of course not everyone cries the same, so yes, a single tear can be just as impactful, as long as your emotion and context carries the message. 

On the opposite end of the spectrum, there’s heavy crying. And this can take many forms. Again, the face has to carry the intensity of the emotion; the tears are just there to emphasize it. More intensity, (for some people) does tend to include more liquids and leaking. 

And of course none of it has to be perfect or even. As I love to touch on, crying is messy and ugly. It brings out the most strained emotions. So none of it has to be symmetrical to get the point across- if anything, it gives it more movement. 

I of course draw in a more cartoony fashion, so if you did want to go on the more realistic end of the spectrum, you can focus on the actual physics of tears and how act and react on the face. More realistically, they come from the inner eye, and are much smaller. They tend to fall in wayward paths, slowly, but  sperraticly, and in droplets or thin streams. You can also add streak marks and flush up the face, depending on the subject. 

I’m glad you liked my old tips, and I hope these new ones help! 

d&p recently joking about with the whole ‘bro’ culture is the best and funniest thing . i am alive and well because of this .

Me, an age regressor: I dunno I’m just stressed and my head is always spinning and sometimes I just need to relax and act like a child, ya know? I don’t really want to identify with a community because all the drama is just so confusing. I’m just a kiddo, I like toys and bugs and paw patrol-

Anti: Got it. K1nk.

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just two guys….bonding… i can’t believe this is my first contribution to this amazing show…

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she’s a handsome woman || panic! at the disco

A personal headcanon of mine is that Lea was an orphan who got tossed around family to family all his life due to him being something of a problem child until Isa’s family took him in (and they gave him a snazzy scarf for his first birthday in the family)

Years later he gets to learn that he can build a family, not have to have the one he was born to that left him behind. Probably why he’s so desperate to keep the ones he was part of together.

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hurricane // panic! at the disco

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I’m so sorry but the idea was too good