i know this was ages ago but

anonymous asked:

Hi! I asked you like ages ago if it was a high Te thing to do things very efficiently and you said it didn't really bothered you when people are slow and carefree (unless you were in a group work or they didn't listen to you, I believe you said sth like that). I might be an ass, but how are you so patient? I just have this never-ending problem. (The perks of being an NTJ, amiright)

I am so zen tbh. I feel like Te is one of my strongest functions (secret ExTJ, who knows). However I really don’t care about most people unless what they are doing affects me or my work directly (group work); so they can do whatever…I’m no one’s guardian. It’s less stressful for me at the end of the day to not care, and the less I stress about other people, the more work I get done, and if that doesn’t satisfy the Te I don’t know what will. I’m not patient though xD, just uncaring, if I care you can bet I’ll be screaming on the inside.

tag thing!

Tagged by: @amazingmegara :) thanks bbb

I’m tagging 10 peeps, but you guys don’t have to do this if you don’t want! 

I’m tagging: @sleeplessphilip @princephil @blanket-howell @devilester @rosequartzlester @dawniel @twinklelightlester @blushinlester @phanniehtml @macaronidan 

RULES: Copy this post into a new text post, remove my answers and put in yours. When you are done, tag up to 10 people and also tag the person who tagged you… and most importantly, have fun!

Age: 22

Biggest fear: Heights

Current time: 11:16am

Drink you last had: Water

Everyday starts with: Putting my glasses on

Favourite song at the moment: Beautiful by TODIEFOR

Hometown: I don’t want to say because I live here (sorry)

In love with: Dodie Clark

Jealous of: Established people

Killed someone: No

Last time you cried: About a week ago I believe

Middle name: Dawn

Siblings: Two step brothers 

One wish: To one day truly know my sexual orientation (it’s a mess) 

Person you last text/called: texted - my best friend , called - my mom

Questions you’re always asked: Are you Mexican? 

Reason to smile: Music, Friends, Fam

Song last sung: 1 + 1 by Beyonce

Time you woke up: 9:30am on the dot

Worst habits: Biting my lip, shaking my leg (anxious habits)

X-Ray you’ve had: Mouth and CAT scan 

Favourite food: Chicken sandwich with fries mmm

Zodiac sign: Virgo 

TalesFromYourServer: "I'm a regular here"..so that excuses my behavior..

This is my second post on this sub and boy do I have a good one for you guys.

I’m a shift supervisor at a local BBQ chain. The following occurred earlier in my shift, about 3 hours ago.

This is a semi regular customer. I know of him because the other shift lead always has to deal with his antics, since he usually closes on Saturday. This customer is a tall, lanky, middle aged white man who has his scowls engrained on his face to project to anyone that lays eyes on him that he’s going to be an asshole.

Tonight was no different. He places his order, and as he is, I coincidentally send employee X to sweep the floor, as it gets pretty messy on the weekends. As he’s sweeping, the dude finishes ordering and speed walks to the drink station, scowling at me and X in the process.

Not 30 seconds later, asshole customer (A) approaches me (M) and the following ensues. Keep in mind, he’s yelling the entire time:

A: Hey, yea there’s something wrong with your water, it’s terrible!

M: Oh, i’m sorry about that, let me come see what’s wrong.

I follow him out, and ask which water dispenser he dispensed from, since we have two that are connected to the soda dispensers.

This infuriates him that I dare clarify which one he’s talking about. I figure out he used the right side, so I pulled the lever and let the water run (sometimes the water comes out pinkish because it comes from the same nozzle as our red Gatorade.

M: The water seems to look fine now, do you wanna taste it to see if it just needed to be ran for a few seconds?

He tasted it, and apparently it tastes the same. He responds by throwing his cup and the spoon he was carrying at the counter, nearly hitting employee Y.

I was in such shock, as this man is literally 2.5 times my age, demeaning and yelling at me for no conceivable reason, so I failed to talk to him about this.

I took the time to go grab my own cup to taste the water, which tasted perfectly normal to me. At this point, the couple he and his wife were with approached me and backed up his statement as he remained at his table.

I offered to give them sodas, bottles of water, or our enhanced flavored waters, to which the couple obliged. At this point, the man storms over to me.

A: Are you the manager?

M: Yessir.

A: Im going to report this, this is unacceptable. You shouldn’t be arguing with me, you should be fixing it for me.

M: Sir i’m more than happy to give you soda or bottled water if you want.

A: No, i’m just so ticked off about this.

I go back to the expo station and place his order out and call him up, ready to hear it all over again. When he came up, some time has passed, so he was a little bit more calm, but still visibly pissed, for almost no reason.

A: What’s your name?

M: pointing to my nametag It’s “Me”

A: Im a regular here and we’ve never had things this bad. You should tell your employee that’s sweeping to be more careful, he almost tripped me twice. The customer is more important than him sweeping, you know. I’m just so mad about the whole thing

M: Sir I can get you some water bottles or soda or whatever if you want.

A: No i’m just trying to cool off, i’m still so pissed.

M: Okay sir enjoy your food.

Thankfully that was the last I saw him today. The prick even sent his wife over to get to go boxes. I really wish i’d have said something about him throwing the cup and spoon at my employee, but me being in my early twenties and not used to standing up for myself or others to adults got in the way of that.

Let me know what you think! Sorry for the long post!

By: xAmity_


I was tagged by @fivestrings-attached, thank you! ^^

A - age: 18
B - biggest fear: Death probably
C - current time: 7:44pm
D - drink you last had: Water
E - every day starts with: Now, that I don’t have school anymore I usually start my day with reading or writing, then I do a bit yoga and have breakfast
F - favourite song: Too many!
G - ghosts, are they real? Maybe… I don’t know :P
H - hometown: Cologne
I - in love with: The moon
J - jealous of: Organised and successful people perhaps :D
K - killed someone: Nah
L - last time you cried: A couple of days ago
M - middle name: Michelle
N - number of siblings: 1 sister
O - one wish: To be happy
P - person you last called/texted: My mum
Q - question you’re always asked: Why do you like Scotland so much?
R - reason to smile: It’s springtime and Beltane is coming :)
S - song last sang: Mo Dhòmhnallan Fhèin by Julie Fowlis
T - time you woke up: 6:45
U - underwear color: Black
V - vacation destination: Scotland
W - worst habbit: Procastination
X - x-rays you’ve had: My jaw/ teeth, my foot and my middle finger I think
Y - your favourite foods: pasta, fruit and sweet stuff
Z - zodiac sign: Libra

I tag @cnatab, @demwindgeboren, @torradh @pagan-pride, @death-is-only-everlasting, @prideandperdition and @carelessreaper

For @prairiepirate who wanted the boys teaching Lucy (and Rufus) how to shoot. Also tagging @garcynetwork and @qqueenofhades for reasons:

“Are you going to explain yourself now?” Lucy asks when Flynn stops at the edge of an open field. It feels like they left the house ages ago, between the drive to nowhere and then a hike, but in reality it hasn’t been much more than an hour. Flynn and Wyatt hadn’t provided any sort of explanation when they’d woken her and Rufus up before the sun was even up (although they had at least provided coffee and breakfast), and she was damn well hoping to get one.

“We’re teaching the two of you to shoot,” Flynn replies, opening his pack to reveal what look like several empty cans. Lucy stares.

“I know how to shoot,” she says. 

“You know how to pull a trigger and get lucky,” Flynn corrects. “There’s a difference.” 

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Was tagged by a couple people! Sorry for not doing this earlier, life got me hehe

RULES: Copy this post into a new text post, remove my answers and put in yours. When you are done, tag up to 10 people and also tag the person who tagged you… and most importantly, have fun!

A) Age: 19

B) Biggest fears: i’m terrified of spiders (manly man I know :P) but they’re creepy little thing.. Crawling and building things everywhere hmmmhmm

C) Current Time: 10:16 AM

D) Drink you last had: had an espresso like 20 minutes ago :o

E) Every day starts with: going back to sleep :P – well head to morning work.. And a coffee hehe

F) Favorite song at the moment: im loving the tune of Say Nada - Remix by Shakka

H) Hometown: near Toronto, Ontario

I) In love with: cars, zootopia, and all related things :P oh and all you guys! You all rock and i love you so :)

J) jealous of?: ARTISTS~ erhm. I mean artists! They’re so talented and put alot of work into their arts and I adore their skills and how amazing they are as people :0

K) killed someone?: absolutely. No im just kidding. No im not. Yes i am.

L) last time you cried?: not to be depressing, but in the shower last week. You think too much about life then :( but it’s nothing serious, pick yourself up, and keep on keepin on!

M) Middle name: Don’t have one..

N) siblings?: I have an older sister who acts like a baby :P

O) one wish?: would it be a bad answer to ask for a dream car? Id ADORE a good drift car :O. But i think a proper correct answer would be to have more of my life planned out and promising. I feel like i have a good plan.. But everyone always has their doubts. So a good job and security would be a blessing :P

P) person you last called/texted: The great people in the  Zootopia Discord!

Q) question you’re always asked?: whatcha up to? Well ill have you know im texting you, you curious person ;)

R) reason(s) to smile: because everyday is a great day worth living, and everything is going to be alright :D

S) song last sung?: I’ve tried to get the high note of believer by imagine dragons… never can.

T) Time you woke up: 6:30am. I’m a late sleeper/early riser hehe

W) worst habits?: i tend to procrastinate alot on things.. I think everyone’s had that issue. My outlook is im doing to have to do it eventually, sooo why not now haha

X) X-ray you’ve had: whole lotta tooth x-ray’s. My teeth are pretty screwed up.. Soo gotta get that fixed haha

Y) your favorite food: love pizza! Good snack food. A good steak is also very good

Z) zodiac sign: not sure.. Dont really follow that stuff haha

Thanks for reading! Hope you know a bit more about me now :P

anonymous asked:

Could you recommend some fics, chosen one? *

Hi baby! I’m gonna mention fics that haven’t been updated for a while or finished ages ago because I’m not currently reading any new one: @evvr12691 has two really good finished fics on her blog. @aficaboutsomebloke-blog and @pjtheresalight are two of my favorites and although their fics are unfinished in theory, there’s some kind of closure to the stories so you won’t be let down with a cliffhanger at the end. @eddievedderfanfic is also really interesting, she’s a really good writer and @iariotact has a blog with many different stories, some are one-shots and some are longer ones.
I hope this helped and if anyone knows about new current fics, please tell me because I crave something new to read!

Dapper Prom!Owls and Cats from @silvercistern​‘s fic Character Development  

If you haven’t already read this fic, do yourself a favor and read it. If you have, then please re-read it haha

Jack Zimmermann was accustomed to dealing with difficult situations; he was captain of the Samwell Men’s Hockey team after all, but this? This was never in the job description.

“Can I tell you a secret?” Bitty whispered into the side of Jack’s neck, breath hot and sweet against his skin. The kegster ended a while ago but Bitty was still feeling the effects. When he fell off the coffee table attempting to dance to All the Single Ladies, Jack swept in ready to piggyback him to bed.

“Alright,” Jack said, mouthing I got this in Lardo’s direction before heading to the stairs.

“I don’t wanna be a single lady anymore,” His voice faltered and Jack became acutely aware of Bitty’s thighs around his hips. “I want a person. Everybody else has got a person.”

“With moves like that I don’t think you’ll have to wait long,” Jack said, supressing a chuckle.

“Mmhmm,” Bitty mumbled, fighting a losing war against sleep. Jack pushed open the door to Bitty’s room with his foot and ducked inside.

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John’s hands. One on Sherlock’s nek and the other on Sherlock’s arm. Doesn’t it remind u something? It’s exactly the same way Sherlock hugged John in TLD. Coincidence? Nope. In this show coincidences don’t exist. It means, if you think about it, that Sherlock not only remember how John hugged him, but also that Sherlock thinks that it is the way John want to be hugged, I think. It is the way John makes feel someone loved and safe and it is probably the way Sherlock felt and so Sherlock did the same when John needed, he hugged him with one hand on John’s nek and the other on John’s arm. Bacause in that moment John needed love and to feel safe.

I…I don’t know if it makes sense but this hug, John’s hug, hit me and reminded me of Sherlock’s hug.
I don’t know what to think now, I need a blanket.
Also, I feel really stupid cause probably someone just noticed it ages ago soooooooo now it’s time for me to go. And hide. Bye.


I know they say that the space between
Can make it stronger than we’ve ever seen
They might be right but I disagree
‘Cause I’ve
never felt stronger than when you’re with me 

bless this Guy