i know people who can't

Dear Tumblr

Please stop recommending p-shifters/wing growing blogs to me

popular tumblr post: don’t date or be friends with people who [trait i have because of my personality disorder]

me: :-)

If you haven’t watched Soul Contract, YOU SHOULD. It’s on Youtube, subbed by Bayi Subs. 

Reasons to watch:

  • An interesting story with supernatural elements
  • Surprising twists
  • The humor (lots of meta and self awareness!)
  • BL flavor that goes beyond baiting
  • Relationships that change and evolve 
  • Character development, whooho!

It took me some three or four episodes to get into it because at the beginning it felt weird and now I’m suffering because it’s over. I NEED MORE.

I don’t think people realise… that if Trump wins it’s not just going to impact America… It’s going to impact the entire world and not for the better… like this isn’t just about America anymore… 

anonymous asked:

Bro i totally agree with you on tsukauchi being the traitor i always thought he seemed a little suspicious

Right? for example how he’s dressed exactly like Kurogiri

kinda suspicious indeed

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but it’s better if you do // panic! at the disco

Dear people who think they might be aromantic: it’s okay to care. If you love deeply it’s okay. If you experience sexual attraction it’s okay. If you adore your friends and care for them a ton it’s okay.
You can be all of those things and aromantic. If you don’t think you are in love, then chances are you’re not. Don’t try to force feelings. You can love very deeply and still not love romantically. It’s okay. You’re okay.

Wait, do I like you? (coloured version of this sketch) - by Advancedtreelover, for Hondocember

I love a lot of people who
can’t love me back; rejection
feels less personal when I
can blame something else for
it. Some people only need to
be hurt once to never get over
it - the truth is I never want
to be not loved again the way
you didn’t love me.
—  Rebeka Anne, from now on I’m in charge of who hurts me

there will be people who use you. they are good at getting close so you care about them. when they see your scars, they’ll flash their own. you will feel kin to them. you know what it is to struggle with things.

and at first you think: they’ll help me if i help them.

but it doesn’t happen. you love them deeply so you always pick up the phone. it doesn’t matter that you have a test the next day or that you’re going through things of your own. you support them.

they are good at pretend. they will play like they are your friend, so you endlessly give to them. after a while you realize: it really doesn’t matter what’s happening in your life, some more pressing emergency is always happening to them. it is a hard thing to recognize, because you don’t want people to hurt like you do. 

i have a friend who never asks me if i’’m okay. she only ever texts me to tell me she wants to die, but never goes to therapy or does any of the things i tell her to do to help herself. once when i came back from my grandfather’s funeral she demanded to know why i’d been gone, and when i explained, she said that without me, she’d almost passed out of this world. i had to lay down on the floor; nothing made sense anymore. i want her to get better. i want to help.

but there are people out there who will use you. who don’t care about getting better, they care about you giving up your time, your effort, your everything. until you are drained of it. i don’t mean those who give back, who will gladly do anything for you, who you know you can trust. who you don’t mind giving up the test for, because you know they’d do the same in a similar spot.

i mean those who don’t know you. who pretend that they care about you but are using your empathy as a sore spot. who take more than they need. who demand your attention all of the time but don’t care if you bleed.

to those of you who don’t know who b.a.p youngjae is - lemme just learn u the basics

1. he is the biggest little shit okay like bambam levels only worse ESPECIALLY with friends like seriously prepare for a lot of jaebum’s jaw

2. he’s loud and extra (let’s see who out-extras who) and will probably spend a majority of his time trying to annoy jaebum and i am so READY

3.  take this all with a grain of salt he might actually be sweet on jaebum (but most likely since they’re friends he will be a little shit idk if he can keep that contained)

happy Christmas everyone~♡

Unbelievably we have made it to almost the end of the year, and since I’m not actually making a christmas fic or anything, I’m going to do a shortish post on all of my favourite writers since they all deserve love and you will definitely benefit by reading their pieces  (✿◠‿◠) 

Originally posted by starricks-moustache

@givemesomeseoul

 I’m going to start with a few words to a really good friend of mine, someone who I’ve not known for the longest of times but admin Yuuko is honestly one of the nicest people I have ever met and writes the best things too. So of course I’m going to recommend you check their blog out (there’s two other admins if I’m right…) because they write about all my faves - including Monsta X, does it get any better - to a proper, top notch quality. But Honestly, I’m so thankful that we started talking (I can’t remember why but probably over Xiumin… we gotta stop having the same biases) because the daily heart attacks you give me are unreal but enjoyable (ill do it for rapmon and jooheon)


@duizhangdeluxe

@sue-bts

@universitykpop

@schmudt

@keypea ♡

@btsfiles

@palpitate-hyperventilate  ♡

@modestlydreaming ♡

@noonatrash

@thesammtimes

@kainks ♡

@dreamsthroughthewindow

@ninanevip

@kawaiifirebouquet ♡

@suho-mochi

@lovesehunright and all the other members of allkpopnet ♡

@mini-jimin, @namjoonsarms and all the other members of btswriters


To everyone who I have and haven’t mentioned, I hope that you all have a wonderful Christmas and that you get some snow (if you’re not into that, come to my home land of Southend since it hasn’t snowed here in about 6 years and we can celebrate in the rain instead) and I hope that you have a happy new year to top it off! Here’s to 2017, and I hope that you all achieve your goals in the new year ♡ ♡

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camisado // panic! at the disco

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❄️   M e r r y    C h r i s t m a s    a n d   H a p p y    H o l i d a y s !   ❄️

[TL;DR] Can we all (ARMYs) just take a chill pill and wait for BIGHIT to make an official announcement for more WINGS TOUR dates when they are ready? Please understand that there are processes and procedures to follow through not only internally but also externally (which in this case involves countries outside of Korea).

Keep reading

The signs as Steven Universe songs

Aries: Like a Comet

Taurus: Do It For Him/Her

Gemini: Steven and the Crystal Gems

Cancer: Steven’s Lament (I Don’t Want That For You)

Leo: Stronger Than You

Virgo: Giant Woman

Libra: Love Like You

Scorpio: Strong In The Real Way

Sagittarius: Be Wherever You Are

Capricorn: What Can I Do For You

Aquarius: We Are the Crystal Gems

Pisces: Let Me Drive My Van Into Your Heart

Re: Third parties.

Certain states were never going to be a contest. Massachusetts, for instance, will probably never be red unless the apocalypse really does happen (I’m not discounting it, but hopefully the world keeps spinning tomorrow or we wake up on January 1, 2017, and someone’s like APRIL FOOLS). In that case, absolutely vote third party if you want to, particularly in smaller races.

But it takes a LOT of privilege to vote third party in a swing state. I won’t completely say “fuck you” for it because literally every prediction site was giving Clinton a nearly 100% chance of winning up until today, but I will say that I really hope you’re okay with four years of Donald Trump and what that will mean for your less privileged friends.