ok real talk ive been really really happy and accepting of my pansexual identity after years of first identifying as asexual, then questioning/unsure, then finally pan and aro. it feels really good finally knowing what i actually am after all these years (also the pride flag is cool)
i’d also like to say that it’s always ok to change or question your identity, no matter how long you’ve been identifying as it. i used to id as just asexual for a very long time until I had access to better language to describe myself and realized it wasnt accurate and didnt think it fit well for me anymore. its never too late.