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I ! am ! finally ! done ! This was one of those were you go, eh, I’ll start it, I’ll doubt I’ll finish it, but whatever. So here’s Anders, kudos to @timesorceror again, for making this a thing.

Take a moment to think of just
flexibility, love and trust

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Lean On Me | A belated birthday gift to my stupid friend @seveanteen

LOVE is not a GAME

It’s been weeks and I’m just so struck by the fact that the whole theme of Sherlock throughout the years was…“The game is on!”. Sherlock using the distraction of his detective work as a substitute high, and honestly a way to keep himself at arms length from ‘humans’ and any emotional and/or romantic relationships of course.

And then there’s THE FINAL PROBLEM and in comes Eurus Holmes, setting up this game for Sherlock, and putting Molly Hooper’s life in danger, and during that call we get all this…

  • Is this one of your stupid games? No, it’s not a game.
  • I’m not an experiment, Sherlock. No, I know you’re not an experiment, you’re my friend, we’re friends.
  • You know why. No, I don’t know why.
  • Because it’s true, Sherlock. It’s always been true. Well if it’s true then just say it anyway.
  • Say it like you mean it. I love you. I love you. 

He spends the whole phone call worried and pleading and as soon as it’s done he tries to shut all that off and get back to the game so he says…”Eurus, I won, I won…I won, I saved Molly Hooper.

But then you have Eurus coming back with that EMOTIONAL CONTEXT speech and being like, HAHA NOPE, silly boy, you just lost, you proved yourself wrong, you have emotions, you do care.

And the writers had Eurus use Molly Hooper against Sherlock, like this, to facilitate this exact epiphany, (disproving everything he’s said over the years, that he’s not a hero, that he doesn’t have a heart) because MOLLY HOOPER does count, she matters the most, he loves her, and LOVE IS NOT A GAME.

AND I JUST CAN’T GET OVER HOW IMPORTANT THAT SCENE WAS! NOT JUST FOR THIS SHIP BUT FOR SHERLOCK’S ENTIRE ARC OF CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT!

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I Can’t Think Straight (2008)

Context: Leyla, a Muslim British-Indian woman, is coming out to her mother, telling her “I’m gay.” Her mother reacts with horror and disgust, telling her “You’re up to your neck in sin” and going so far as to ask “Who did this to you?”

But it’s this scene that sums up the reality of LGBTQ+ desi youth. Our parents may very well love us and want the best for us, but the absolute bottom line is: our parents do not want us to be happy. They want us to be appropriate, to be respectful, to have children and well-earning careers, to fit into the mold of heteronormativity and gender roles, to be religious and pious. But no, they do not want us to be happy. Happiness doesn’t fit into it. To them, happiness is indistinguishable as a separate characteristic because according to them, doing all of these things should already be making us happy. The ideal created for desi children is that they shouldn’t strive to do what makes them happy, but what makes them “good.” Unfortunately, under this context, good is defined as anything that isn’t seen as immoral or out of the norm. 

A woman who is not straight is rejecting her role as a wife, and to a lesser extent, her role as a mother. She is rejecting the notion of subservience to men, of obedience and inferiority. Under our current system that is hugely patriarchal, a woman who does not submit is a threat. 

Now, I’m not saying desi parents are bad parents or hate their children because it’s pretty clear this happens in nearly every other culture in the world. But I am saying that desi parents do not make their children’s happiness a priority, they make their children’s success a priority: successful careers and marriages and children = successful lives. So if you ask a desi parent “do you want your kid to be happy?” they’ll immediately say “yes, of course.” But if you add on “do you want your kid to be gay if that makes them happy?” the answer will be a lot less positive.

This movie tackled Leyla’s sexuality and coming out to her parents absolutely head-on with no coyness about it. She goes straight up to her mother and admits that she’s a lesbian. But her mother’s reaction is really the thing that most “coming out” stories try to gloss over, or sugarcoat, or just in general avoid. Her mother admits with frank and brutal honesty the truth that all LGBTQ+ desi kids know: our parents would rather see us miserable and straight than queer and happy.

At first I just wanted to draw the little mouse. And this happened.

CLICK ON THE LINK below to read the comic ! (I hope this time it works..!)

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@pocpotterweek march 20th: ootp or death eaters or professors

knowledge comes, but wisdom lingers.

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A little watercolour Hermione in the Gryffindor girls’ dorm. I know some people just don’t click, but it must’ve been pretty lonely for Hermowninny.

Hey!

The year is coming to a close, and I thought I should show a little love to the amazing friends I’ve made and the people who have really inspired me this year so here’s a little appreciation post. Thank you all so much for brightening up my dashboard and just being incredible people! (I’m sorry if I forgot anyone)

(Close friends are bolded. Thanks for sticking with me!)

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@a-filthy-casual @a-pile-of-joltiks @aeducans @aeroura @aldia @allur2024 @arahir @argentuums @artseed-wonderworld @ataashii @belgania @bethesdas @bloodborne-ruler @bloodofelves @bookerduhwitt @buttcanine @candlemaiden @cartaloupes @childishzombiejellyfish @chilllrend @cleriicbeast @combatty @cowboybebutt @crycestar @danynaerys @delsinsfire @djurito @dovahcaine @dullaprutten @dunwall @eileen-the-crow @elbereths @elizabethcomstalker @elved @emberknight @emhyrs @esteljune @frogspawned @frostfall

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@g-e-r-a-l-t @gaysualizing @gravelorded @happylifecrisis @hawkeing
@heyinterstella @highchaosemily @hindarsfjall @ioayneco
@kaldwen @kaldwinn @killaqueens @kovir @lavellaning @loga-boga
@lyriumnug @lyriumrain

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@mccreeing @melgeeart @mellobird @mervley @midhrastic @midnightparadox  @misshufflpuff @miyku @mossknight @ninaqueenbee @nyiro @paiveus @parviocula @piers-niwans @punpun1 @rahgot @rapturezoo @raviollies @re-dye @rhetoricalrogue @roberthouse @rottenplantt

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@sailortoke @sapphireswimming @shinesdifferently
@sometimesicryofjoy @spaceprincessleia @steamedtofu  @steve-the-pencil
@sublimepoint @swordofmoonlight @tarmie @the-north-howls
@theashenphoenix @theblackmegadeus @thefilfymonkey @theillusivewoman @theknifeofdunwall @theladyhawke @vallaslin @veetlejuiced @witchdelilah @yeneferofvengerberg @yennever @yhorm @yocalio