i keep seeing these things floating around

Elriel thoughts.

Okay, I honestly don’t know who I ship Elain with yet. However, I keep seeing things floating around about how shes got a mate so that’s got to be the end game. Honestly it annoys me that we as a fandom are trying to force a character into this box. Sarah is all about feminism and how women can, will, and need to make their own choices. If Elain chooses to ignore the mating bond then dammit I support that 100%.

I also feel strongly that soul mates aren’t always our romantic partners. I believe that sometimes we need our soul bonded to be a friend, a mentor, a sibling, and so on. Perhaps Elains purpose will be to show the world that mates can be more than romantic. They can share a friendship so deep nothing compares, while also having romantic partners with whom they share a completely different and equally unbreakable bond.

I’m not saying this is what I want to happen, becuase truthfully I’m not sure. However I refuse to put all of her worth as a character in her mating bond.

anonymous asked:

does daehyun and himchan really hate each other? a lot of fans seems to say so.

I truly believe that they don’t. Daehyun and Himchan have one of the strongest bonds in B.A.P. There’s so many instances where they’ve proven that they love and care for each other so so much. I’ve seen the same type of rhetoric floating around and I don’t know how they’ve drawn that kind of conclusion. 

  • During his birthday stream Daehyun called Himchan because he wanted to hear his voice and they uploaded bad photos of each other x x
  • Himchan was also the only one to make it down to Busan to watch Daehyun perform during Hiatus, you can see how happy they both were to see each other and hang out x x
  • Himchan is happy Daehyun talks to him like a friend and they have rooftop talks x 
  • These cuties switched name tags x 
  • To Himchan, Daehyun is the existence of love and To Daehyun, Himchan is real x
  • Himchan bought Daehyun a birthday present x
  • This whole Grazia Interview
  • Constant cuddling x x x and a kiss x
  • Constant dinner dates, even on Christmas x x x 
  • Himdae practicing together x 
  • “I can be with this person for my whole life keke” x 

There’s so many more instances where Himchan and Daehyun just like to have fun and enjoy being around each other. No friendship is perfect but they definitely don’t hate each other. I don’t know how people can think that these two sweet beans hate each other. 

I keep seeing little mumblings and mutterings floating around regarding the possibility that Carol and Daryl are going to have some sort of fight because of Daryl’s choice to lie to her about Glenn and Abe (and everything else awful that happened when the Saviors came).

And here is a thing: there is no way in this universe she will ever be angry with him for lying to her. I mean here is her face while she’s explaining why she had no choice but to leave:

[.gif by poee-dameron]

She’s broken. Sobbing. Destroyed by even the thought of her family being hurt by the Saviors (and she knows what they’re capable of – she’s seen and experienced some of it herself).

So Daryl lies. The truth is that I doubt she even entirely believes him. He hesitates too long and she knows him much too well. But for the moment, she wants to believe because doing anything else might make her shatter.

The very idea that she’s ever going to be anything other than an exploding ball of love and gratitude when she finds out what he did and understands why (like for example the fact that it was all 100% for her, given that I’m sure he could have used some emotional comfort in this moment) is – quite honestly – a ludicrous reach by people who clearly do not watch this show very closely. 

And y’all know I don’t even make predications about this damn show like, ever.

6k of you? Seriously?!

So, you guys did it! Today I reached 6k, three days before my one year on Tumblr. You guys are fucking incredible. I DO NOT deserve you at all.

So, to celebrate one year on tumblr AND more than 6k of you following, you crazy loons… I’m going to do 30 days of Jensen and Dean Drabbles/Blurbs/One Shots.

So here are them rules…

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Operation OTP

A/N: A request from @minim236 for a Spencer x Reader where they are secretly dating, but the team doesn’t know and are still trying to get them together. @coveofmemories

                                                                —-

“Should we tell them?” Spencer asked you, after reading the message on his phone. 

It was 8 AM and you were on your way upstairs. Since you’d started at the BAU, and realized how close you lived to Spencer, you’d carpooled in each morning. After about six months, you realized how much you liked each other and started dating, but you’d been carrying on your relationship right under the noses of your friends and co-workers. Apparently, they also thought you were a match, because they had been trying to get you together for months. “Nah,” you replied, “It’s too much fun seeing how they’ll try to get us together next.”

“Well, tonight, Morgan’s plan is to get us all to go out drinking,” he laughed, taking another look at his phone. “He claims that if I get drunk, I’ll work up the courage to tell you how much I like you.”

Spencer didn’t need any alcohol. He’d revealed to you after a particularly rough case what you meant to him, and you told him you felt the same. At the time, he had been a little shy, but that all fell to the wayside when you kissed him. That night had ended with some heavy making out on your couch. “If he only knew,” you laughed.

                                                               —-

As they walked off the elevator, Emily, Morgan, Garcia and JJ sat against their desks trying to figure out how Spencer and Y/N hadn’t started dating. “They are meant for each other,” Garcia exclaimed, throwing her ring-clad hands in the air. “He’s a genius, she’s a genius. They are both the sweetest people in the world. They’re both cute, why aren’t they dating?” 

“You’re a little too invested,” JJ laughed. “I agree, but breathe. It will all happen in time. We’re gonna make it happen.”

Garcia sighed dreamily, craning her head in the direction of the hallway that led to the coffee shrine, which is where they were undoubtedly headed. “I know. It’s just…they’re my real life OTP, and I wanna make it happen.”

“OTP?” Morgan asked. “What the hell does that mean?”

“One True Pairing,” Emily, JJ and Garcia said simultaneously. 

While Spencer and Y/N grabbed their morning coffees, undoubtedly downing one a piece even before leaving the room, Emily made sure that she, JJ, Garcia and Morgan were in a separate text feed. They needed to make sure one of them didn’t accidentally let either one of them know that the whole team, including Hotch and Rossi (to much lesser degrees) were rooting for them to get together. “I think they’re coming back,” she said quickly. “Abort mission. Fan out. Stay tuned.” As they all walked back to their desks, Emily waved her phone in the air. They had tried to push the two of them together on a couple of different occasions recently, but they were getting closer. Just another little push or two…

                                                              —-

Throughout the day, the four matchmakers exchanged a string of texts, trading ideas and attempting to figure out which one would work best for their one true pairing. 

M: These two are getting on my last nerve.

JJ: Why?

G: Because we’re pulling out all our best matchmaking moves and nothing is working.

M: Exactly.

E: Something has to work. We know they love each other. They know they love each other. It’s just going to take something really romantic to get things going. I can feel it.

JJ: They definitely are the romantic types. Okay, so let’s float around some ideas. What are Spence and Y/N’s favorite things?

M: Books.

G: Coffee.

E: Chocolate.

JJ: Star Wars.

G: Good, let’s work with this. What can we set up, involving one or more of these things, that might get the two of them to come out? And I suggest that we make it a group thing and the six of us will conveniently be late.

E: Agreed.

M: Wait…there’s a chocolate expo coming into town for a limited time.

JJ: How the hell do you know that?

M: I keep seeing flyers in my neighborhood. There’ll be sculptures and tastings and all that shit. What if we get them to go there?

G: Omg yes, and those expos normally have private viewings or classes, so we can book one of those for the two of them, say it’s for all of us and then wait in the background and watch the sparks fly. This is totally going to work. Look at my Statuesque God of Chocolate Thunder bringing out the chocolate expo!

M: I’ve always got your back, babygirl. 

G: I know you do, baby.

E: Down, children. Okay, so Garcia, you okay with looking into what kind of viewing or class we can book for them?

G: It would be my honor to be the catalyst of my OTP’s first kiss.

JJ: Smh

JJ: I think we’ve finally nailed down a fail-proof plan. Commence Operation OTP.

                                                             —-

“So what do you guys think?” Garcia asked you and Spencer. “We’ve all been under so much stress lately, and who doesn’t love chocolate? They have this chocolate making class you can go to. We can all go and learn how to make chocolate and then we can eat the chocolate. It’ll be so much fun.”

“I’m in,” you replied, knowing this was another one of their elaborate plans. “I could eat chocolate all day every day, so I’m definitely in if I get to eat some of the chocolate.”

Spencer swallowed, barely noticeable to anyone but you. He knew what they were trying to do. “Yea, I guess so. What time is it though? Because it’s on a Saturday, and we’ll be off from work, which means if I can’t sleep late, I’m not going,” he laughed. 

“You’re safe, Spence,” JJ replied, knowing how late he liked to sleep on the weekend. He was normally in a coma when he walked in no matter the day, prior to having his morning cup of coffee that is. “It starts at noon and goes until 6. The expo does. The class is only a couple hours.”

“Then I’m in,” he said, taking another swig of his coffee. “It’s next Saturday? Not this Saturday?” Emily nodded, taking solace in the fact that they’d come this far in their plan. “Dammit, now I want chocolate. To the vending machine I go…”

                                                            —-

One Saturday passed and the next arrived, which meant it was the day that Emily, JJ, Garcia and Morgan would execute their perfect plan. “This is so going to work,” Garcia clapped as they walked into the expo. Spencer and Y/N had already texted that they were waiting in class. “I can feel it this time.”

As they made their way into the convention center, flashing their badges, which served as their tickets, they scanned the masses of people to see if they spotted the soon-to-be lovebirds. “There’s the area for the cooking class,” Rossi said. “I can’t believe you managed to put this together.”

“I mean, I know we’ve all been hoping for them to get together,” Hotch laughed, “But this is dedication.”

“You know I am nothing if not dedicated, sir,” Garcia replied. “There they are!” She splayed her hands outward, keeping everyone from moving another step. “Let’s observe.”

                                                           —-

“They really have gone to amazing lengths to get us together over the past few months,” you said, turning your back to Spencer so he could tie your apron behind your back. “Maybe we should finally give them the satisfaction of knowing we’re together. I think they ship us.”

“Ship?” he asked bewildered. 

“To ship means to endorse a romantic relationship,” you replied.

Spencer raised on eyebrow. “I was just starting to pick up on slang from the 80s and 90s,” he said. “I’m so lost…but if that’s what it means then I definitely ship us.”

“I ship us too.” You could see the team out of the corner of your eye and told Spencer as much. “Gimme a little kiss.”

With a smile, he leaned up against the counter just as the teacher of the class said they’d start in ten minutes, and planted a chaste kiss on your lips, before jutting the tip of of tongue out ever so slightly. When you opened your eyes again, you smirked, silently telling Spencer to look back and give the team a wave.

                                                          —-

“Operation OTP is a success!” Garcia cried, clapping wildly as the rest of the team said it was about damn time. 

“Wait?” Morgan said. “Those sneaky…”

“What is it?” she asked. Morgan took her head in both hands and turned it back toward Spencer and Y/N. They were waving back at them. Everyone’s mouths had dropped open in disbelief. How had they not picked up on that?

“They’re already dating?!” Garcia screamed.

PARAMORE’S AFTER LAUGHTER SENTENCE STARTERS/MEMES

HARD TIMES

  • “all i want is to wake up fine”
  • “tell me that i’m alright.”
  • “i still don’t know how i even survive”
  • “i gotta get to rock bottom.”
  • “gimme some fort of sign.”
  • “gonna make you wonder why you even try.”
  • “tell my friends i’m coming down.”

ROSE - COLOURED BOY

  • “i just killed off what was left of the optimist in me.”
  • “wars are raging on.”
  • “i’m right at the end of my rope.”
  • “don’t make me laugh, i’ll choke.”
  • “just let me cry a little bit longer.”
  • “we can’t all be like you.”
  • “i want you to stop insisting that i’m not a lost cause.”
  • “leave me here a little bit longer.”
  • “i don’t want anybody seeing me cry now.”

TOLD YOU SO

  • “for all i know, the best is over and the worst is yet to come.”
  • “is it enough to keep on hoping when the rest have given up?”
  • “i hate to say i told you so.”
  • “they love to say they told me so.”
  • “you like when i admit that i was wrong.”
  • “at least i try to keep my cool.”
  • “throw me into the fire.”

FORGIVENESS

  • “you hurt me bad this time.”
  • “i cried til i couldn’t cry.”
  • “your voice is a gun.”
  • “i just can’t do it yet.”
  • “there’s still a thread that runs from your body to mind.”
  • “you can’t break what you can’t see.”
  • “it could take me all your life to learn to love.”
  • “i haven’t even begun.”
  • “if it’s all up to us, we might as well just give up.”
  • “don’t you go and get it twisted.”
  • “forgiving is not forgetting.”
  • “i’ll never forget it.”

FAKE HAPPY

  • “i love making you believe what you get it what you see.”
  • “i’m so fake happy.”
  • “everybody here is just as insincere.”
  • “i’m quite alright.”
  • “it’s easy when i’m stomping on a beat.”
  • “if i smile with my teeth, bet you believe me.”
  • “don’t ask me how i’ve been.”
  • “don’t make me play pretend.”
  • “you think i look alright with the mascara tears?
  • “if the lights are low they’ll never see my frown.”
  • “when things were going good – that’s when i’d get knocked down.”

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  • “you really know how to get someone down.”
  • “everything was fine until you came around.”
  • “wasn’t i the one who said to keep your feet on the ground?”
  • “hold onto hope if you got it.”
  • “they say dreaming is free.”
  • “you got me tied up.”
  • “i’m hoping that maybe someday i’ll just float away.”
  • “survival will not be the hardest part.”
  • “the hardest part is keeping your hopes alive when the rest of you has died.”
  • “let it break your heart.”

POOL

  • “as if the first cut wasn’t deep enough.”
  • “i’m not into giving up.”
  • “no one breaks my heart like you.”
  • “when you kiss me, i wish we could see what happens next.”
  • “if i doubt you, would you come through?”
  • “this time, you don’t leave me sinking.”
  • “you are the wave i could never tame.”
  • “if i survive, i’ll dive back in.”
  • “is it better to get it over with?”
  • “drain the fantasy of you.”
  • “dive right back into you.”
  • “now, i know you.”

GRUDGES

  • “strange how we found ourselves exactly where we left off.”
  • “you’re shaking my hand like it’s the first time.”
  • “are you recounting all my faults?
  • “could it be that i’ve changed?”
  • “stop asking why we had to waste so much time.”
  • “we just pick up and start again.”
  • “we keep holding onto grudges.”
  • “time is a bastard.”
  • “aren’t we so brave to give up a fight?”
  • “now i feel you by my side.”
  • “i can feel that we’ve changed and we’re better this way.”
  • “come on, we’ll laugh til we cry.”
  • “we can’t keep holding onto grudges.
  • “why did it take so long?”

CAUGHT IN THE MIDDLE

  • “i can’t think of getting old, it only makes me want to die.”
  • “i can’t think of who i was.”
  • “you got the point.”
  • “i’m just a little bit caught in the middle.”
  • “they’ll call me a quitter.”
  • “i was dreaming life away.”
  • “nostalgia’s cool, but it won’t help me now.”
  • “a dream is good if you don’t wear it out.”
  • “no, i don’t need no help.”
  • “i can sabotage me by myself.”

IDLE WORSHIP

  • “don’t hold your breath.”
  • “i never said i’d save you.”
  • “if i was you, i’d run from me.”
  • “you’ll see you’re not the only one who’s hopeless.”
  • “put your faith in something more.”
  • “you’re not as alone as you feel.”
  • “we all need heroes, don’t we?”
  • “there’s not a single person here who’s worthy.”
  • “don’t let me let you down.”
  • “i’m gonna be the one to let you down.”
  • “what if i fall on my face?”
  • “a little grace would be appreciated.”
  • “remember how we used to like ourselves?

TELL ME HOW

  • “i can’t call you a stranger.”
  • “you may hate me, but i can’t hate you.”
  • “i won’t replace you.”
  • “tell me how to feel about you now.”
  • “do i suffocate or let go?”
  • “i think i’m tired of getting over it.”
  • “i’m getting sick of beginnings.”
  • “my own convictions are stronger than any addiction.”
  • “no one’s winning.”
  • “you keep me up with your silence.”
  • “of all the weapons you fight with, your silence is most violent.”

anonymous asked:

Hey, congrats on 2, 000 followers! :) Can I maybe have a drabble with 65. "I don't want you to stop" and 6. “I need a place to stay.”? Thanks!

(cont.) for the 65 and 6 request can I have Jughead x Reader?

Thank you so much! and of course!


You chase Jughead to the back of the drive-in theatre, and when you walk in you stop in your tracks.

“What the hell?” you say quietly, but he still hears you.

“(Y/N), I told you not to follow me, why didn’t you stop when I told you to out there?” He turns to face you, taking a few steps towards you. 

“I’m your girlfriend, Juggie, I wanted to know why you got so upset at Archie out there. I didn’t know that there would be a mattress in the middle of the room.” You gesture to the said mattress, laying on the floor with a simple blanket laying over it. 

“It’s not like many people have ever come back here.” he scoffs, not able to look you in the eyes.

“Why is it here? What’s going on?” You question him further, taking more steps closer. 

There’s a silence that hangs in the air for what seems like hours. It’s unbearable. Only when the light from the movie flips on do I see that his eyes are misting over. 

“Jug…” you say calmly, finally closing the gap between you and encasing him in your arms.

“I need a place to stay.” he whispers, and it feels like it took all of his strength to say those words.

“What?” you ask, your hand going to hold the back of his neck, fiddling with the loose ends of his hair as you hold him. 

“The drive-in is closing, and I need a place to stay.” His arms finally wrap around yours, and he pulls you in so close. It’s like he’s floating out to see, and you are his life vest keeping him afloat. 

“Jughead, why didn’t you tell me any of this?” you close your eyes, trying to focus on his heartbeat, trying to calm him. 

“I didn’t want you to think… I don’t know.” he shakes his head, and you pull back from one another. You wipe a wetness from under his eyes with your thumbs. You’ve never seen him this emotional about something, but yet again, the drive-in is one of Jughead’s favorite things. 

“Stay with me.” you say. 

He looks at me, stunned, “Your parents would let me?”

“They love you, of course they would.” you say to him, reassuring him with just a look that everything would be okay now. 

Your hand cups his chin and you place a kiss on his lips. His hands find your waist and you just stand there like this for a few minutes, lips touching, hands on each other. 

“I’m sorry.” he says afterwards, your foreheads still touching.

“Why?” you question.

“I don’t want you to stop. Please never stop being you.” he says. 


Hope this is okay!

-Kinesis Prompts

Aerokinesis

  • I can control the air but that doesn’t do a lot so I just got a few wind turbines for my property, so I get power for free. It’s a small win, but I like it. 

Biokinesis

  • I can control what happens inside human bodies so I frequent the hospital in my area, trying to fix imbalances in people’s bodies. You’re a nice med student who helps me pinpoint what the thing is and what it should be doing. 

Cryokinesis

  • I can control cold temperatures and what forms they take so I make really detailed ice sculptures that last well into parties to supplement my income. I’ve been in your neighborhood for a while and your pet recently passed so I leave a really detailed one on your porch so you can hug it.

Electrokinesis

  • I can control electricity so I make electrical storms build up in my area a lot but never cause any outages, mostly because I’m really calm whenever there’s a thunderstorm. Scientists everywhere are flocking to my city to see this new electrical storm phenomena. 

Ferro/Metallo-kinesis

  • I can control all metals with my mind so I use it to melt down the old junk metal stuff that I buy to make really cool crafts. I can make a life size bust in about 3 days, depending if my friend at the junk yard has a lot of your wanted metal in.

Geokinesis

  • I can control every kind of mineral so I like to compress some minerals together to imitate finding deposits of gemstones while digging to make a living but recently, I keep making a bunch in your window garden and house plants because I want you to think of me.  

Hydrokinesis

  • I can control water so I use it to break away around me so I can explore shallow to deep seas in the comfort of my car like on a road trip. I bring you around because the giant squids and lions mane jellyfish freak me out and you’re good at scaring them off.

Magnetokinesis

  • I can control magnetic fields so I can easily just remove gravity from a specific area so I use it to make a low gravity room for myself and sometimes I invite you over for ‘moon tea’ (where we have tea and snacks, but as if we’re on the moon).

Microkinesis

  • I can make things very small and then back to original size, but not bigger, so I just sneak things in and out of places in microscopic sizes. Animals? People? Foods? Money? Any and all of these things. Because of that I’m a high profile deliveryman and I can keep sensitive items in the comfort of my shirt pocket.  

Photokinesis

  • I can control light, but I haven’t found a really practical use, so I like to make lighting really dramatic for me so whenever someone sees me I’m always back-lit with heaven-like rays blurring the lines around me. Sometimes I use it to keep my plants in perfect lighting conditions or to aid in other’s aspirations to be dramatically back-lit.

Pryokinesis

  • I can control fire but I’m always very scared about it because it can still hurt me. So I spend my time listening in to fire calls and driving past, making the fires diminish dramatically so that damage is minimized. 

Telekinesis

  • I can move things with my mind so whenever I want to think really hard about something I make everything in the room float around and you don’t even care. You just walk in, sit by me, and attempt to keep your drink in your cup while we sit in pleasant silence. 

Thermokinesis

  • I can control temperatures so I like to spend absolutely no money on heating or cooling, especially with temperature sensitive pets and people around me. Everywhere around me is just the right temperature for snuggling.
A little rant about the weight thing :)

Wow. I can’t believe that there are actually people who claim to love Chanyeol and then bodyshame him. Why do I see comments floating around his IG telling him to lose weight? Why? What did he do to deserve that kind of treatment? He writes songs for us and tries to be happy for us and all some people do is give him sh’t. I am not only saying this because he is my ultimate bias and this group is the only thing that keeps me going on these days, but also beause I know how it feels to struggle with extremely fluctuating weight since my early childhood. Why do some people always try to get involved in other peoples business? It’s his body and he owes you nothing! Just because he is a celeb and you like to look at him does not mean he needs to starve himself in order to please you. He looks totally healthy and handsome and he does not need abs to do so. I really hope that he does not see the comments asking him to lose weight but the words of support from the people who actually love him.

You are not a fan if you are only focusing on his stomach and not on the art he is creating for himself and us.

I am sorry for the long rant but I needed to let this go off my chest.

anonymous asked:

What's so bad about SWDBS? I mean, obviously the (hopefully unintentional) homophobia is Less Than Ideal, but other than that I'm quite enjoying it? (Just curious of your opinion because I really respect it)

It’s funny that you should ask, because I was just re-reading an old @dramatic-gwynne post that discussed enjoying problematic dramas. She had a lot of good, truthful things to say, and compared watching morally tricky shows to finding a cockroach in a bowl of ice cream. You can overlook the cockroach, you can mitigate the damage it caused by scooping out of the ice cream around it, or you can throw away the whole bowl. I’ve loved lots of shows that were deeply problematic, and I sometimes even found writing about their problematic aspects to be a pleasure. But there are just one too many cockroaches floating around in this particular bowl of ice cream for me to keep watching.

SWDBS is cute, and I can see why people like it so much. I even kind of regret dropping it now that it’s clearly hit peak cute. But from spousal abuse to cartoony brawls with gangs of thugs to crazy, mask-wearing kidnappers, there is no aspect of this show that is free from the taint of casual violence. The only thing more pervasive in it is misogyny—the second male lead is a controlling jerk, and Bong Soon interprets his condescending disregard of her agency as a sign of his affection. I thought we’d gotten past the belief that boys being mean to you on the playground was proof that they liked you, but I guess not. 

The male lead isn’t free of sin, either. First he teaches Bong Soon to control her power, because presumably in like three days of knowing her, he somehow developed insight into her condition that generations of women in her family couldn’t suss out for themselves. How did that happen, again? And then he actively hindered Boon Soon’s professional growth so he could continue to lord his chaebol power over her. There’s a reason bosses shouldn’t date their subordinates, and that is it. And while I suspect this gets better in later episodes, his first response to Bong Soon’s attempt at creating a game is to utterly dismiss everything she has to say. The girl summed up casual gaming, you lout! That’s an enormous engine in the global gaming market today, and you could learn a little something about it by listening to her. Not every game needs to include a big-breasted woman with a sword. (As unlikely as that may seem, based on the signage in your gamer-gate-friendly workplace.)

And let’s not even get started on the face-twisting horror every single character experiences at the thought of homosexuality, or the swishy stereotype of a gay man introduced as one of Bong Soon’s coworkers in episode 10. I know this show wasn’t created for me and I shouldn’t judge it as if it were part of my culture, but to me this represents plain old hate speech, and I won’t be a party to it.

Before I started writing this post, even I didn’t realize how much simmering hatred I had for this show. The final verdict, though, is that there’s just nothing for me to enjoy here. The deeper I look, the more problems I find. Even Bong Soon’s special powers—the conceit the entire series is built around—are carefully engineered to make her something other than a regular girl. While being a regular girl isn’t enough for this production team, it is enough for me.

Addressing a Few Things.

Hi loves~ I hope you’re doing well! I’ll try to make this little post as brief as possible while still addressing some concerns people have, so everybody can see where I’m coming from and I can set some records straight in reply to some of the rumors that have been floating around as of late. Keep reading if you’d like to learn more, if not have a lovely night~ <3

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anonymous asked:

Hayley, I keep seeing this "met at a gay gym" thing floating around that Harry said (apparently it's the new "don't knock it till you try it") but do you know what interview it's from?? Also this album is AMAZING AND I LOVE IT. And the clips I've seen of Harry from today are BEAUTIFUL HE IS SO GIGGLY

it was the radio 2 one. and i know, today was such a gift.

anonymous asked:

Do you still believe there is more to Robron's story?even after hearing about boring twists like Adam making a move on Vanessa again. Everything seems really predictable right now.

Hi anon, 

Yeah I have to say I am a little disappointed that they’re going there with the Adam/Vanessa thing again. I’m going to hold out judgement on it until I actually see it though. I hope it’s just a kiss and that they don’t actually end up sleeping together because Vic really does deserve better than that. But both Adam and Vanessa are going to be in pretty bad places so it could happen. 

As for Robron, I am still convinced that there is more coming. I’ve seen a lot of theories floating around, and to be honest I’ve been able to see parts of most of them working at one point or another. I keep bouncing between theories right now so I’m not going to hang my hat on any of them as being ‘the one.’ I’ve done that too many times now and always been wrong, lol.

But whilst I don’t know which theory I am most on board with right now I am pretty certain there is more to this SL than we are seeing right now. There are just too many inconsistencies for me. I can understand a couple of things just not adding up, with the amount of people that work on the show I can see how easy it is for things to slip through the cracks, writers not knowing the characters, or just forgetting things (Kerry and her diabetes) but it’s been a continuous stream of things that just don’t add up. Characters doing/saying things that just seem off. Things being said one day, and then the opposite coming out the next. 

I know a lot of people will say ‘it’s a soap’ we’ve got to expect this kind of thing, as I said before it’s going to happen occasionally with so many different writers but it’s the whole SL that just doesn’t add up. Add to that the fact that we have heard nothing from anyone about this SL. We always get actor interviews after a major story development, but we’ve had nothing from Ryan or Emily, which is another thing that makes me think that we haven’t had the twist yet. 

Personally I believe that there’s more because I refuse to believe that the people that brought us the amazing SL’s we’ve had this past year would be so lazy and sloppy as to give us this tired cheating, baby daddy SL where nothing actually makes any sense. We know they can write amazing stories; Ashley, SSW, Belle and her mental health, Aaron and his abuse SL, Pierce and Rhona. Yep, they do miss the boat sometimes with their smaller, shorter SL’s but with the big stuff, the long running SL’s they get it right. I have to believe that there’s more to this, and they’re going to deliver again.

I’m in the middle of rewatching 2x03 “Better Angels” and I wanted to delve into a particular exchange between Peggy and Daniel without sticking a piece of meta in the middle of a long reactionary post:

Peggy: “If he thinks I’m just gonna drop this, he has -”
Daniel: “He’s not wrong.”
Peggy: “Are you on his side?!”
Daniel: “You know I’m on your side. I believe you. But you’re kicking yourself so hard for what happened to Wilkes -”
Peggy: “I got him killed, Daniel.”
Daniel: “He went into that lab of his own free will.”
Peggy: “He was a civilian, a rare bird trying to do right in the world, and I treated him like a soldier.”
Daniel: “All I’m saying is, I think you’re on to something with the Arena Club, but if you keep acting like the Lone Ranger, I cannot help you.” 
Peggy: “I’m doing what needs to be done. If you’re unwilling and unable to help -”

I’ve noticed that commentary on this particular interaction tends to begin with “You know I’m on your side” and end with “I believe you.” But I think it’s really the beginnings of the major emotional (and, yeah, romantic) arc of the season: Peggy’s often volatile response to guilt and grief and how Daniel plays a role in balancing, tempering that. 

I think that whole arc was a risky, albeit successful, move on the writers’ part: it’s very real-life, people’s strengths and weaknesses balancing the other’s when they’re well-suited to each other - but it’s also the kind of territory that so-called “strong female characters” are rarely allowed to step into. There’s so much focus on creating women-who-don’t-need-men that a glaring reality is often ignored: people are never at their best when they are without support. It’s one of the things that has made Agent Carter so unique - it’s acknowledged from the very first episode that Peggy’s greatest need is support, and that her greatest fault is having a difficult time accepting that support, especially when she needs it. The show has done a wonderful job of showing that and showing how others have rallied around her and supported her.

But it’s Daniel’s response to her volatility here that is, I think, one of the healthiest responses to it we’ve seen on the show. He tells her that he’s behind her, that he supports her, but he’s not going to get caught in the havoc she’ll wreak if she doesn’t stop with the self-destructive behavior. And while that’s a hard pill to swallow - we all want to be supported no matter what - it isn’t fair to ask that he let himself get caught in the wreckage. Fiction is full of characters who do, and it never ends well. It’s an undeniably reasonable and mature response for him to say “You know I’m on your side. I believe you.” but qualify that with, basically, “If you keep acting like you have no support, no people who care about the work you’re doing, then I can’t be on your side.” Self-preservation, maybe, but the good kind.

We never get the end of Peggy’s response, as things start floating around her, but that whole conversation does a really nice job of setting up the way they gradually shift into being a stronger team throughout the season - supporting each other, calling each other out, establishing boundaries. It’s lovely relationship setup, really, and I hope the show comes back someday so we can see the results of it. 

So, I came across a list aphobes made of shitty things that ace/aro people have said/done on here. And don’t get me wrong, they were shitty things.

But there is a huge difference between aphobes making a list of every shitty thing an ace or aro person has ever said on this site and using it to claim that an entire orientation and everyone who is part of it is bad.

And inclusionists making a list of every shitty thing that aphobes have ever said/done on this site and using it to show how disgusting aphobic rhetoric is overall.

It’d be like if T(W)ERFs made a list of every shitty thing trans people have ever said/done on this website to claim that trans people are inherently bad.

There would be a whole lot of fucking shit on that list too. Would it mean that the entire trans community and everyone in it is bad?

No.

Would it be the same as trans people making a list of every shitty thing T(W)ERFs have ever said/done on this site?

Also no.

There is a difference between making a list like that in an attempt to demonize an entire group of marginalized people and making a list like that to demonstrate how harmful and disgusting a hate group’s rhetoric is.

OK guys i’ve been doing some thinking

So I keep seeing this post floating around about how you shouldn’t strip the Gods of their harsh parts or sharp edges. And don’t get me wrong, I agree with that. But I feel like the Gods aren’t the same for every person that worships them. And I do think that they still have their rough edges, it’s just not at the forefront of their being for some people. 

In my case, I’ve been thinking a lot about Ares, who he is to me, and what he means to me. I associate him with things like fighting, blood, fangs, and hardness/toughness, but he also seems to have his gentler side. 

The easiest way for me to describe how he presents to me is to think of someone who teaches a martial arts class. They are obviously very strong, very tough, and know exactly what they’re doing. But they are also the type to help those who are hurt; to pick them up and make sure they are okay before they continue. 

Maybe I see Ares like this because that is the kind of protector I need in my life. Maybe He doesn’t come across like this to other people, and I understand that. I just know how He shows up for me, and I am growing to love Him more and more each day for it. 

THIS IS IN NO WAY MEANT TO BE A CALL OUT POST FOR THAT POST OR ANYONE WHO DOES NOT AGREE WITH ME. YOU DO YOU, THIS IS JUST MY OWN THOUGHTS, PROMPTED BY SAID POST. 

Writing Accountability Post

Or: “Here is exactly how fucked I am.” I keep seeing people doing this, so why not?

Ongoing projects:

Accidental Burglar: Finished, posting chapter 2 of 3 this week.

Better Angels of Our Natures: Final edits in progress.

En Avant: Chapter 8 out for edits / beta feedback. 

Sing For Me: Long term plotting done, writing w/ Nox & Iris. Currently working on chapters 10 & 11, side fics being discussed for the AU.

Stealing Shadows: On hold

Teach ‘Em How To Say Goodbye (HamilWatch) - Ch. 1 finished, outlining ch. 2 & 3

Projects in plotting

Blood, Sweat, & Tears (SuperCorp): Not my usual neighborhood, figuring out a few things for the ideas floating around.

Candyfloss Sequel: No outline yet. Rough ideas.

Temporal Mechanic Sequel: Two scenes plotted, bulk of story needs figured out.

Untitled Commission series: Working on initial outlines to send to commissioner for approval. 

Untitled Lemon Tea smut for Nox: Intro written, need to flesh out and add the actual smutty bits.

Untitled Wizard Triumphant piece: Kicking scenes around, no outline.

Also consulting on Racing AU w/ Nox, Soulmate AU for Iris, Balld AU & Protomen AU for Noir, and will almost certainly find myself writing unexpected stuff like PSA too.

(And I am terrified to think about the EPU stuff that is currently stalled but I am trying to throw a few ideas in there when they hit me.)

anonymous asked:

Can we have your Mommy!Superman headcanons? They're so cute!

Ahh of course hmmm this will be a mix of DCEU and DCU so pls bear with me!

  • Clark’s morning sickness is the worst. Sometimes it took him a whole morning just retching in the bathroom while Bruce patting his back.
  • Clark also gets weaker during pregnancy. His invulnerability isn’t stable and everyone agrees it’s best he stays at home. Kara and Kon anf Chris promise to protect Metropolis in his stead (Luthor secretly ceases all evil plans and bribes other villains to lay low for a while too, though he will never admit that to Clark)
  • Clark develops strange taste for weird stuffs. Cue Arthur and J'ohn bring him a lot of…unearthly cuisines and Bruce sweating a lot in the background because adjfksk the hell are y'all feeding him.
  • Clark knits. A lot. “Are we going to have twin? It’s too soon how could you tell?” “Hush Bruce.” (Im tempt to throw in some angst like in Fables but eh maybe not)
  • Clark breastfeeds, of course (I honestly don’t understand what’s with Westerners and the fear of breastfeeding it’s honestly the most normal thing here in Asia). He’ll feel pain at first, of course, like all his invulnerability is shut down at the end of his pregnancy (or else it’d be dangerous while giving birth i guess? Let’s all attribute it to Kryptonian biology), but he loves those moment most because he gets to see his baby closer and she’s so tiny it makes his heart ache and he’s suddenly crying (i always like to think they have a girl first)
  • Speaking of crying Clark cries a lot during that time too. He’s emotional at usual already (*sigh* i love crybaby type of character)
  • Clark doesn’t want anyone disturb their little family the first few months so it’ll take a while before other heroes get to see the little princess.
  • The kid floats. Right after a few days. I always think it’s a shame DC doesn’t let Jon’s power manifest during the time he’s a baby. It’s made for priceless storylines tbh. Sometimes Bruce comes home seeing both Clark and their kid floating around the house while Alfred tried to keep the amusement off his face.
  • Clark puts on a little weight, which surprises him because it’s never happened before??? Bruce says it makes him sexier.
  • Both Bruce and Clark prefer to homeschool their kids. I still don’t know how will they deal with the whole secret identity thing tbh.
  • Also, I’ve mentioned it before but I like to thing it’s Clark who gives birth to Jon not Lois. See this doujinshi for further information.

That’s all I can think of for now! If anyone has any other ideas I’m happy to hear about it! X3