i just wanted to try out my new action

I'm in love
  • Me(via text): I know you won't read this till morning but I needed to say this because it's all very very true.......ready?
  • I love you, so much all of you, your personality your looks, your laugh, your likes and dislikes, the way you're obsessed with Attack on Titans, Smite, and Ark!, how you can play video games with me and just be a total derp. I've never been in love nor have I ever said "I love you" to someone and actually meant it. But you're different, you have brought emotions out of me that I would of never guessed were even there, you make me actually want to sleep?!?! And wake up early?!?!?! (Wat😳). You make me question my actions, try new things, want to turn my life around for the better, make me think of my future and what it's going to be like. Thinking ahead you're there, I'm in love with you, and every aspect of you. You are so smart, kind, gentle (when you want to be 😏), by far the biggest dork I have ever meet, only gentleman in the world as far as I'm aware, you're cautious (WHICH IS A GOOD THING), you have a clear understanding of how the world works and what you want and how to get it (that's hot). Seriously I love you, I love laying in bed all day playing video games with you, or just cuddling, watching game of thrones, Attack on Titan, movies that I clearly need to be watching but because I'm ridiculous and a derp I just haven't until you make me which I love!, when we have sex, you literally make me feel things I've never felt before and I'm sorry I'm addicted, I'm new to this stuff. Remember your a drug to me, I wasn't kidding.
  • I really don't mean to say I'm sorry all the time or try to feel bad about things that I can't control it just happens, and it only happens because well, I'm in love with you, and since this is the first time for that, I don't want to fuck it up even if it's the smallest thing in the world like poking you in the eye (I AM STILL SO SORRY YOUR POOR EYE IS ALL RED 😭) or bumping you when we wake up or are goofing around. I want to be good enough for you because you're to good for me. I have only ever dreamed of someone less than you in my life and it's like you're an being created by the gods sent to me; They took one look at this clumsy, dorky, hot headed girl, with a huge heart, and said "That girl. She needs HIM the perfect HIM, beyond what she prayed for, or dreamed of. HIM." You. That's only a theory I'm pretty sure you're like and alien or angel but we will discuss that another time lol. But I adore you so much, you're everything to me I enjoy bragging about you to people, buying you gifts, going on dates with you, everything all of it not a second goes by where you aren't on my mind. I love you. You are the love of my life and I don't plan on you leaving my life anytime soon. I'm sorry for the book but it had to be said you've got me head spinning what can I say ☺️ alright I'm actually going to try to sleep now. Maybe. Night💘
  • Him(via text): Oh baby I love you so much. You truly are the moon of my life 🌖 I had all but given up on finding someone who would love and appreciate me for me and not only that but be willing to give back just as much as they take. I never have had to question whether you really love me and I know I never will. You have given me everything I have been so lucky to give you and more. I don't mind the small pokes, bumps, or bruises. Nothing so petty could ever endanger my impression of you or the way I feel about you. At times I cannot believe I have been so blessed to be able to share my life with someone who knows me, who loves, and who understands me. I am beyond exhilarated to know I can make you feel the way you do, both emotionally and physically 😊 you never have to worry about bothering me or annoying me with cuddles or kisses because I always remind myself that you do this because you love and desire me, and there is nothing more in this world I could ask for than that. I love you beyond words, and I always will 💗💕💞 oh and good morning😂
The closer I am to someone, the harder it is to come out

gckinsey submitted: 

 I first came out as ace last year on Ace Day/Cake Day by tweeting a selfie of me wearing my black ring. I’m generally a very private person, so I found it a bit odd that coming out to a bunch of random strangers online felt easier than telling people I knew in real life. Even later, when I did start coming out to people face to face, I realized I was much more comfortable telling new friends I’d just met than ones I’d known for a long time. I was torn between wanting to share this truth about myself with my closest friends and being terrified to say anything.

It’s unfortunately so easy to have your asexuality invalidated. People might not believe you because of your actions. They might try to help you figure out what’s “wrong” with you or what you’re “missing.” They might not even think your orientation is real. And the closer you are to those people, the higher the stakes. That’s why I tweeted something I ordinarily would have told my best friends first.

Over the course of the last year, I did come out to each of my three closest friends and my mom. With my friends, it went better than I could have asked for, and their support means the world to me. Things didn’t go quite as smoothly with my mom (I had to come out/explain things multiple times before she really “got it”), but we’re finally at a place where she understands and supports me, so things are good overall.

When I really think about it, the hardest person to come out to was actually myself. I didn’t know asexuality was an option until I was in my late 20s. My questioning process lasted about two years. And during that time, I fell into the trap of invalidating myself at every turn. But once I finally got on the other side of that way of thinking, and did come out to myself as ace, I felt unbelievably happy and complete.

I recently made this comic about the journey I went through in discovering that I’m ace and coming out. And I hope it helps other aces in whatever way they need, whether it’s coming out, explaining asexuality to someone, or just understanding themselves a little better. Happy Coming Out Day, fellow aces… stay strong, and remember that you are not alone. :)