i just want ppl to like me again

hi, i just would like to say that i will no longer respond to any other asks that i find either uncomfortable or offensive to answer (related to the aroace and the issue of my jeans). all the things that you pointed out actually honestly made me both overwhelmed and anxious because it is my first time to encounter that much asks regarding only one or two issues. and tbh im pretty much already exhausted of repeating my stand. however, know that your insights regarding these matters actually helped me grow/improve so that i may be able to become a more productive member of the society! i have learned so much after having intellectual discussions with everyone! so for that, thank you very much! i also would like to apologize to anybody who has been offended by any of my posts in any way. i did not intend to attack or offend anyone i swear. i promise to be more careful and aware next time! as a matter of fact, i have been presently reading articles regarding different oppressed communities and movements. once again, i apologize for the trouble i might have caused and thank you for your kind understanding! wishing you all a good night! :)

anonymous asked:

Does anyone get jealous?

not really! Neither of us are really jealous at all!!

- L

I feel like less ppl talk to me abt Lillie because they know ill just end up talking about how great she is and honestly it’s a shame i just want to talk about my girlfriend

- M


Dear dogblr.

I wanted to write this out for you all because I want the community back.
I don’t expect everyone to make up and be besties but at the very least be kind to those who have no ill intent.

Every now and then we have a member within our community that sets fires and leaves the rest of us to deal with it.

Last time it was gatorthepyrador, who set out to destroy reputations and telling people to end their lives. Gator did not stop until I had enough and messaged their entire family on Facebook, letting them know what was going on.
We lost a lot of good members during that time, for example Neo and his human.

We all know what the current situation is.
We are all pissed off, hurt and some more than others.
But we can not let this come between us and ruin the community.
Instead we should let it be a lesson, to always ask for proof during fundraisers, to keep our minds open but be on alert.

I have made so many friends from here and I know I’ll make more.
I want that to be an option for newer dogblrs too, to experience the community the way I did when I first started.
You guys are the most supportive, understanding and kind people I have ever met.
I know it’s hard sometimes and friendships split and people leave, but we can not let it break us. We can’t.

This is where I come when I’m happy, when I’m upset, when something happens, and you guys have never ever failed to be there for me.

I just wanted to tell all of you that I am thankful for all of you despite arguments and disagreements because I know that when it comes down to it, you guys will be there.
I appreciate you and I hope you guys know that.

This post is a mess and is all over the place but I’m an exhausted emotional mess that wants people to know I believe in them and I want this place to feel like home again.

anonymous asked:

Hello. Your post showed up in the tae/kook tag, and I got curious. You're saying other shippers are "taking" jikook things, such as "the hotel room". Can you tell me what that thing is? Being a tae/kook shipper myself, I just fangirl over things I find cute, I don't go out of my way to "take" things from others just because. So now I must know what you guys felt was actually a jikook moment.

I apologize for my post showing up in the tae/kook tag! I try to not post asks with hate towards other ships without a ’/’, so I’m sorry that one slipped past me.

I don’t think I mentioned the hotel room, because I do believe that was a cute tae/kook vlive and not a ji/kook moment since no one knows who or what was in the room with Kook. I also don’t really like taking moments away from ships since I know all of BTS are close and that every ship is real in the mindset of brotherly bonds.

The things that some (not all obviously) Tae/kook shippers have taken away are the jeonlous tongue thing and satellite jeon. And by “take away”, I don’t mean Jungkook doesn’t do those things with Tae as well, I mean that it started as a Ji/kook thing but one or two shippers changed it into a Tae/kook thing.

What I mean by this is: Jeonlous started out in the ji/kook fandom before the jealous tongue thing even started, shippers would freak out because Jungkook has been shown to be jealous when people (mainly Hobi lol) were around Jimin. Then, the jeonlous tongue thing started to get popular in the Ji/kook fandom (before anyone says anything, it started in the ji/kook fandom first back in 2015, so don’t give me that “its a ______ thing not ji/kook!!” shit), and yoon/min and tae/kook shippers accused us of shipping a toxic relationship and shipping abuse ?? which makes 0 sense bc everybody gets jealous, even of friends and siblings? and jealousy doesn’t equal abuse. But after Ji/kook shippers were shamed for this, multiple gifsets showed up in the tae/kook tag with the “jeonlous tongue” and highlighted how ‘cute’ it was. When ji/kook shippers got mad, and called the people out, tae/kook shippers said it was never a ji/kook thing. ji/kook shippers then clarified that it’s more than likely a nervous tick, but jungkook does it around jimin 90% of the time. They also pointed out that it’s not necessarily (it could be) a tae/kook thing because kook’s done it around jin, namjoon, and hobi when they were near jimin. But again, some tae/kook fans denied it completely and called us delusional.

Then satellite jeon became a tae/kook thing as well. “Satellite Jeon” is a term Knetz came up with because at award shows and stages, they noticed that more often than not, Jungkook was following Jimin around like a lost puppy. This has been in the ji/kook fandom since the start of time, yet tae/kook shippers used it to refer to jungkook being near taehyung. Again some drama like above happened, and ji/kook shippers were shamed for shipping ‘in/cest’ or whatever ppl came up with and we had to explain ourselves again.

I’m not saying ji/kook shippers don’t do this as well (istg if i see one more person take away from a jin/min moment im going to fight them). But it’s just kind of unfair for tae/kook shippers to accuse us of being delusional and shipping abuse only to then use those same things to glorify tae/kook??? like it doesn’t make sense to me.

And i mean, if you want to know what I think an actual jikook moment is…. go through my blog??? like there’s tons of them out there lol.

Ppl want beach episode in Season 3

Me too, me too… 


Wanted to draw them more stylized ‘cause fun

Galra feet, ugh.. just what do they look like. I merely got some info from episodes with Ulaz and BoM, but for real, how to draw them? Even do all Galra have the same feet? Dear creators, I need answers.

Throk dilemma once again - dude, how do I put sunglasses on you? Swimming goggles r cool but not enough fabulous. 

anonymous asked:

What do you think would be signs that you're doing well in recovery? Sometimes having a concrete idea of behaviors/things you want to work towards helps

so you sent this awhile ago and at first i was kind of like UgHHhH don’t wanna think about that lmao sorry


i think it’s an important question (and i like it compared to the reverse ie focusing on when you’re not doing well) (sorry if i get into that territory though, it’s hard to talk about one without comparing to the other)

obviously the list is extensive but i’m realizing that a huge thing, and what i most ‘want back’ is emotional energy. like yeah physically feeling better will be great, but i want to care about things and the people in my life again. i want to have the emotional energy in invest in people’s lives again, bc the disorder does a very good job at shrinking my world until it is just me and the insignificant issues i choose to dwell on. people have shown me such amazing support recently, ppl that are going through things themselves, and i want that to be a 2-way street lol 

other things:

  •  when i’m doing better i can see outside of the immediate present; even starting to see my life a few months ahead and plan around that, rather than adapting a ‘fuck everything nothing matters no consequences 2k17′ attitude, is a huge improvement. 
  • honesty becomes a thing again?? whatttt?? values?? trying to live according to them?? crazy right (this is something that i need to work on even when i’m ~*doing well bc tbh…those ‘negative core believes’ are called ‘core’ for a reason lmao…and the belief that i am intrinsically ‘wrong’  seems to be p deep rooted unfortunately)
  • less focus on other people’s recovery!!! i know i talked about being emotionally invested again and how that will be good, but on the other end, when i’m doing well it is so much fucking easier to separate myself from the competitive nature of comparisons. browsing the recovery tags, going on the Hell that is the instagram recovery community….luckily i lose a good deal of interest in that and i’d like to say i become less judgmental, although that judgements always kinda there bc ……it is ridiculous lmao i stand by that
  • obviously all that fun stuff like maintaining a healthy weight, exercising for enjoyment rather than compensation, etc etc etc – it’s easy to gloss over that rn bc it feels repetitive, but those things really are the heart of it – especially being flexible with food!!! and  for me, it’s when food loses it’s power and i am able to find a balance between enjoying it yes, bc food tastes good, and knowing it’s literally still…just food…and that each meal or snack doesn’t have to be the most ~*perfect thing ever bc guess what body,…you’ll get more soon i promise!!! and then again!!!

so yeah i rambled and i knew i was going to lol but those are some key things thank you for the question!!!

Small Talk

This is a b-day present for @sncwbaz (go wish her a happy birthday!)

In which Simon texts the wrong number

(set in the summer before Carry On)

Italics is Baz

Bold is Simon

(Bc = because)

(Idc = I don’t care)

Can u believe it?

They were holding hands, P!

Sorry, who is this?

Oh shit, sorry. Wrong number

Not a problem.

Do u ever wonder why things happen to u? And why u have to take responsibility of things that are beyond your control or knowledge?

Why are you still texting me? And yes. On a regular basis.

Bc Im bored

Why are u replying?

What happened to P? Ignored you?

Busy w/ her boyfriend

U didnt answer my question

I guess because I’m a disappointment to myself.

What? Why? 4 texting an interesting stranger?

For wasting my time. Come on, interesting?

I slayed a dragon once

I didnt want 2, but I guess thats sth unusual

Uhm. Sure. A. Dragon.


Told ya :)

What else?


Once I ate 30 scones in a row

and I puked them 30 s later


Your turn. Tell me sth about u

I’m a vampire.

Hahahaha, nice 1

Tho u kno, they do exist

I know. I am one.

WICKED. So, u kill ppl?

No. I’m not a murderer.

Srry g2g

Care homes suck, they wont let me use my phone :(

Oh. That’s sad.


Morning vampy!

Call me that again and I swear I’ll kill you with my own fangs.

Touchy, arent we?

Don’t get into trouble for texting me.


No way. Just wouldn’t like you to blame me if you got grounded or something.

Im grounded 24/7 so no worries



Cant wait to start school next week

Me too, actually.

We must b like the only 2 teenagers on earth willing 2 go 2 school

Why are you guessing I’m a teenager? I could be a teacher.

Shit. True

Are u?

No, silly. I’m in A-level.

Omfg me 2

Do u live in England?


Cool! I live in London

Star Wars or LOTR?

Why do I have to choose?

Lets ask random questions 2 kno each other better!

Okay. Lord of the Rings, then.

Rembrandt or Van Gogh?


Day or night?


Coffee or tea?

Tea. W/ scones.

Outside or inside person?

Definitely inside.

Basketball or football?

Football. But Im not v good

Rain or sun?


Do you spit or swallow? (gum)

This question is disturbing

You said RANDOM. And I’m disturbed.

Im still not answering


U kno what? U really wanna kno sth abot me?


My girlfriend just left me


And I dont even care

Sorry about your girlfriend

Well dont b. I have much more fun texting u

Anyway, g2g

Text u later

Until later, then.


Wow. Eloquent.

Whuts goin on on taht baeutiful miiind?

Im on ur magickal mysstery riiied

Are you drunk? Did you just quote John Legend?

Funny spelling of MAGICKAL, though.

I leik u sooooo much.

I’m flattered, but sorry. I’m hopelessly in love with my roommate, actually.

And you don’t even know my gender.

Fcuk taths tru

I didtn think abot it

You didn’t think?!

Deos it mutter?


Answeeeer mee!!1!

R u madd?

I suppose it doesn’t matter. But there’s still my roommate. So, sorry.

I’m a boy, by the way.

its ok

im a bloke 2

i wish my roommate were liek u

my roommate is irky af n sooo posh n strong n graceful n ruthless n tall n smart n bloody perfect u dont understend

That’s a lot of adjectives.

Are you sure you don’t like them?

No I haet him!


n he hats me 2

he pushed me down the stiars!

Go to sleep.

ok ill do it only bc u tell me 2

Good night.

niiiiite ily!! ilysm

Hey, srry about yesterday!

I was pretty pissed…


But don’t worry. I understand.

So, I was thinking… would u like 2 meet?

I kno it sounds weird but I really like u and it would b great if we could, u kno, talk face 2 face?

Well, sounds nice. What do you suggest?

Theres this b-day party 2nite at a friend’s of mine from school. Her name is Anna, shes pretty rad

Anyway, is the only day im allowed to go out

I’ve got permission from the Queen

The party starts at 7

Okay, send me the directions and I’ll be there.

(You’re lucky I love driving)

ill wear worn out jeans n a red jumper

Good. I’ll wear a dark green suit.

See you then.

See u later

Too many people wearing a red jumper.

Wait ill go to the entrance







Baz wait! Dont go

Pls come back





About u being hopelessly in love w/ ur awesome roommate?

I’m pretty sure I didn’t use the word “awesome”.

Glad u stayed yesterday?


Glad u kissed me?

YOU kissed ME, Snow.

I rlly want it to b monday already, so we can b 2gether again

Just because we snogged doesn’t mean we are TOGETHER

I want 2 try

Im terrible at this


Yes, fine.


Yes, what?

You can be my terrible boyfriend.




I have 2 go get everything ready

Cant wait 4 monday!!

See you on Monday, love.




Ari: Hope you like this! <3 </p>

I also posted it on AO3, here’s the link.

It’s kind of sad that I still see the old “There is no point to having a female mc” argument in persona. I mean, yes they should focus on making the story/characters/gameplay great but I see ppl say that it shouldn’t even be an option for dlc. And it’s mostly coming from straight men saying it would “make them uncomfortable”. From what I’ve seen in the story so far and I’m pretty close to the end. Nothing I’ve seen in persona 5 relies on the mc’s gender. The first boss, maybe? But past that?
I liked playing as a girl in p3 despite a lot of ppl telling me it sucked and “There wasn’t a point to adding a girl”. Is it so wrong to hope that maybe just maybe they’ll let me play as a girl again? (And maybe not label her as not canon as an excuse to never include her in any persona merch or spin offs)
I’m sorry for this long ramble but it just baffles me that some ppl still don’t understand why other fans want this.
As girl playing a jrpg, I would love to play as a girl. Just like how there are fans that want a gay romance option because there are gay men that would like to be gay. (Shocking, I know)

anonymous asked:

(please post this) Thank you for not rebloging Nostalgicphile's crap. I'm so disappointed on all the Gillovny who did and have forgotten who she really is. She has divided the fandom, insulted, bully and mock JHH & ISYL over and over (she's the reason they left). She's a Gorgonite and now she thinks she can post about Gillovny? I wish all the real Gillovny fans would delete their likes and reblogs and she understands she has no right to post that stuff now. #neverforget

Since you are the 6 anon about that topic…

Well the only thing you have to do is just search the # of a blogger to see where they stand and stood… it’s not that much work to look up what was posted under Peter Morgans name…

I don’t like people going with the wind first insulting others calling them crazy stupid etc. and now acting as if nothing ever happened.

If people wanna forgive or ignore that’s okay and everybody is entitled to do what they want. But I won’t like I said before interact/talk/follow etc people who behaved like they somehow were superior and made insulting comments their hobby and than played it like it was all just good old fun.

And before anyone asks no I don’t follow her and therefore don’t know and don’t wanna know what those bloggers are up to because to me once you treat ppl like shit and insult them you will do it again. And changing “sides” ( we all know there are sides) to me is just to gain followers again…

anonymous asked:

man it annoys me so much that now some fans are angry bcs some other ppl call out ht on his behavior, like please?? we all like him but sometimes he behaves like a piece of shit with superiority issues & he did so AGAIN in the last chapter & that's kinda okay characters are complex shit happens sometimes we all make mistakes but then we gotta make up for it & there is no need to throw a fit every time someone questions he tian's behavior it's questionable okay

(quietly points up)

anonymous asked:

What books do you recommend ppl read? Any good books or books you've been wanting to read?

i actually jUST started reading for leisure again after like a five year break bc i was always swamped with school readings which made me hATE books in general for a while ㅠㅡㅠ

bUT before that epoch, i read a lot of classics like little women (still my favorite book), little men, the secret garden, heidi, king arthur and his knights of the round table, the anne of green gables series, treasure island, a little princess, etc. i also really liked the inkheart trilogy by cornelia funke when i was little as well as the goose girl and princess academy by shannon hale haha damn those were the good ol’ days!

and even though i said required school readings turned me off books for a while, i really really loved the odyssey for some odd reason… i remember annotating that book like mad sophomore year of high school bc i was so absorbed lol. i think brave new world and 1984 are musts as well (i prefer the latter) + the adventures of huckleberry finn, the great gatsby, lord of the flies, and to kill a mockingbird but you’ve probably read all those for middle/high school.

the information bomb and the society of the spectacle are great reads that get you to think beyond the pages so i thoroughly enjoyed those as well. and my god i’m going to hate myself for recommending this book but i low-key thought a history of russia by riasanovsky was super interesting despite the class i was reading it for was the bane of my existence lmfao.

and now i’m currently reading life lessons by elisabeth kubler-ross and david kessler which is a book my dad recommended. before that, i picked up looking for alaska to end my reading drought and i thought it was ok!

after i finish my current book, i want to finish hegemony or survival by noam chomsky—a man of many talents who my mom recommended and adores—and start on his other books like understanding power, manufacturing consent, how the world works, failed states, and profit over people. i also have the swiss, the gold, and the dead and betting on famine by jean ziegler (another author rec’d by my mom) on my to-read list.


I will.

tweek: He’s just staring at us! You don’t think he’s going to kill us, do you? Those shears could chop one of our heads off clean! I DON’T WANT MY HEAD TO GET CHOPPED OFF–

craig: Tweek, chill. Anyone can beat the shit out of Donald Trump. You, especially. You spar with Mike Tyson every Friday, for Christ’s sake.
craig: No one’s gonna chop your head off.
tweek: Nnrgh–you’re right… 

clyde: Our beloved homosexuals, Craig and Tweek, obviously!
jimmy: R-round of applause for the haa…
jimmy: the huaahah…
jimmy: …the happy couple, fellas!

tweek: Um. Thanks, Craig.
craig: …yeah, yeah.
clyde: I think I still have some yaoi fanart of you two at my house.
jimmy: You th-think? I saw one in a little picture frame in your living room.

tweek: No–well–sort of? It’s been four years, nn, everyone that we hadn’t told eventually found out that we were acting…
tweek: We still have to pretend, though.
craig: Facebook official for the adults. Because they’re dumb enough to have another breakdown if they figure otherwise.
craig: Some of them want us to be really facebook official.

tweek: You know what, I change my mind, fuck you.
craig: What.

tweek: What the hell, man! Just, just press ignore already, no wonder dad keeps asking me about how much you use facebook! He won’t stop!
craig: I don’t use it. Well, I look at it, but I can’t post or like anything…
craig: Dude, I don’t want to make your dad cry again. It’s just sad.

anonymous asked:

why the heck do you like negan lol

  • he’s fucking hilarious
  • basically rick from another life, too far gone rick. hes funnier, taller, more insane rick.
  • he thinks hes actually saving the world. i mean thats got to count for somethin
  • his wives thing makes me,,,,….//// but then again it is ultimately up the woman and she can leave whenever she wants and even when hes married he doesnt force anything so .. but still …..
  • he loves carl sm  ( just like me!!)
  • like actually he loves carl aaaggghhh
  • very very very attractive good by e
  • such an interesting character
  • there are so many sides to him
  • will kill ppl if they sexually assault or rape
  • loves to dance what a nerd
  • very attractive
  • one of the best villains ever
fans; who they stan and what they're like
  • scoups: honestly. cannot stand his aegyo like the rest of us and will FIGHT him. (probably just to touch his arms.) HATES the fact he so boyfriend material like....stop...
  • jeonghan: prob the most chill. they know he's gorgeous. HE knows he's gorgeous. they're torn on whether to ship their personification of mother nature with joshua or scoups.
  • joshua: the kindest creatures just like their sweet dorky onion head. they're chill most of the time but they FREAK OUT when joshua is being extra. can go from 0 to 100 REAL QUICK
  • jun: greasy just like him. picked a great lane tbh i mean jun prob built the pledis building. eternally screaming because he just keeps getting hotter and hotter like STOP
  • hoshi: a lot of them make really good edits?? they're so cool just like hoshi like...,,,are you guys related..,,can't get enough of their squishy fluffball
  • wonwoo: they constantly DIE because of him. he's so savage like his jawline is stronger than my wifi connection tbh. they prob have an aesthetic blog and, of course, ship meanie.
  • woozi: they make such great posts?? like woozi they're so talented like wth. have such nice blogs and edits it makes me cry. will fight ANYONE but they're so smol...,,,
  • dk: they're so happy and cheery..,,have to dim the lights when they see pics of seokmin smiling. they are such mothers and will support their sunflower at all costs. prob friends with hoshi stans tbh.
  • mingyu: half the time they're crying half the time they're ready to FIGHT HIM. they would probably do both when they meet him. i'm so sorry for them and their germy son like please..,,,sanitize him..,,,.free him of sin...,,,
  • minghao: they're so cute?? but once you get to know them they're so cool and amazing like..,,..half of them are dancers tbh and dream of meeting minghao to have a dance battle..,,,...love his poodle hair to NO end....,,,,
  • seungkwan: alright hold up listen. these people are prob THE MOST MOTHERLY PEOPLE I'VE ENCOUNTERED. they will FIGHT ANYONE who dares offend their cute jeju son. all of them prob reblogged a seungkwan appreciation post. (but then again, who didn't.) listens to him sing 24/7.
  • vernon: memes. really cool ppl but memes. always supporting their son from discrimination. if you bring up smtm4 their soul will be lifted into the heavens and you won't see them anymore.
  • dino: so rare..,,,. if you find a dino stan treasure them...,,, they're so underrated just like their smol son..,,,please help them..,,, they gotta scroll down to every seventeen scenario post because their son is at the bottom..,,,#stopscoopsprivilege
◤༝ ♡ ° › TXT from LIDO !
  • LIDO: so i've been watching killer kids all day and i just gotta say
  • LIDO: idk why ppl think i'm anything less than a saint i could've literally turned out murderous but instead i'm just like
  • LIDO: vaguely annoying
  • LIDO: anyway now i can't sleep and children scare me again