i just want make outs is that so hard

Guess what? I’m back!

So turns out….I was probably a little depressed. I don’t want anyone to think that I am making light of that fact if you are experiencing any of those emotions yourself. It’s just how I deal with hard topics. I make light of it or use sarcasm to lighten the load on me. 

I made some life changes…hopefully taking more positive steps, and I am soaking up as much time as I can with Gemma. I still have a hell of a long way to go, but I am going forward. I think, at the end of the day, that’s all that matters. But I will save most of these musings for my mommy blog lol…the point is that I freaking missed the hell out of Tumblr…and I want to come back. 

If you guys let me that is :D. Pleaseeeee!

Much love, 

Lauren 

anonymous asked:

Hello! I'm an INTP and I just started my senior year in highschool. I'm concerned about college and my future. My interests are so scattered that it's hard to focus on one passion/career path. I'm afraid I'll never really be able to dedicate myself to one thing and be successful. I really want to make something out of my life. I don't want to mess it up because of indecision!

All right.

First of all, you’re in high school. I know this is probably ridiculous-sounding to you, but you actually don’t have to decide what to do with your life right now.

In fact, “deciding what to do you with your life” is kind of an iffy statement that bothers me a little bit. Because it sort of implies that you are going to go into this particular major in college and get this particular type of job. That you’re going to be doing one thing for the rest of your life.

You realize, of course, that history is peppered with people who actually did more than one thing with their life. While it’s true that our current society pushes you to follow a particular path, I actually think that we’re missing the bigger point.

I think it’s way more important to be a decent person, to focus on what you’re going to make of yourself rather than what you’re going to make of your life. Are you going to teach yourself discipline and good manners and courtesy and graciousness and hard work? It’s way more important to learn these traits than it is to find a particular field in which to study.

That job will come. Things work that way, believe it or not. But those character traits won’t just automatically appear. Those are the things worth working for and developing, and you can do that right now, even if you don’t know what you want to do later.

See, it’s hard to mess up your life from going into one major instead of another in college. But it isn’t hard to mess up your life if you’re a nasty, inconsiderate person. You see what I’m driving at? There are bigger things to think about than choosing a career.

And while I know this probably sounds like a really super unsatisfying answer, it is the best I have to offer right now. I hope it helps, and thanks for stopping by.

anonymous asked:

lance gets his fingers stuck in one of those paper chinese finger traps and can't get them out, but keith wants to troll him and stuff i imagine this happening tbh

imagine keith coming up behind lance and hooking his fingers under lance’s arms and lance squeals and tries to elbow keith away but his stupid fingers are stuck so he ends up just falling back into keith’s chest and giggling while he yanks desperately at his own hands with no use

and he’s just like ‘k-keithhhh get me outta this thing ahhghhgfdfg” as he snorts around his laughter

like you wouldn’t think those finger traps would make you that helpless but lance learns the hard way that they are the devil. keith has access to his hips, stomach, everything basically, and all keith needs to do is hold one of lance’s wrists up and the other will follow because his fingers are stuck 8)

Fanfiction Writers Appreciation Day

I know I’m a little late to the party, but it’s been a crazy day!!!

I just wanted to say thank you to all of the people who take their own time to write amazing, well thought out stories. Story that make me laugh, bawl like a baby or begging for another chapter. 

I know it’s hard work, and I know we don’t often get enough acknowledgment for the work you put in. But I appreciate it, and you need more than just today to realize how amazing you truly are!!!

Tagging some authors but I know I’ll forget many: @just-another-busy-fangirl, @atc74, @amanda-teaches, @kittenofdoomage, @deansdirtylittlesecretsblog, @ilostmyshoe-79, @thing-you-do-with-that-thing, @oneshoeshort, @leatherwhiskeycoffeeplaid, @winchester-writes, @torn-and-frayed and so many more.

But I also want to give a shout out to the new fanfic authors. The one’s that don’t have a lot of followers. Keep going, keep writing!! And if you want, you can tag me!! I promise I try to read as many as I can!!!

The Fic Writer Appreciation post no one asked for

Welp, it’s Fic Writer Appreciation Day and I really wanted to make a nice eloquent post about how much I love you all but–

What better way to express myself than a word dump ovo

Theoretically, it’s not so hard. You start with idea and then you write some and it comes to life and bam! A fanfic is born. Easy, right? Right? Probably not.

Sometimes the image is in your head and the words just don’t come out. So you try and try and try some more to squeeze the sentences out. Sometimes, it works. Sometimes you revise that one sentence over and over again until the cognitive friction starts a little fire in your brain. Sometimes there’s nothing.

Okay. Then you have a fanfic. Then what? Then you revise and realize that grammar is an evil thing in this world and it’s out to get you. You get some help but then you also wonder if your beta thinks you’re an idiot.

And then you finally post the fic. But it’s not over, because you wonder if your readers will like it, or if you’ll get any readers at all. You fret about the hits and the kudos and whether people are commenting because they know you or if they really like what you’re writing.

And there’s always doubt along the way, because you’ve put a piece of yourself in every line and you really want someone to see that. Sometimes you don’t get the attention you deserve, sometimes you hit a wall. Sometimes you wonder if it’s worth all the trouble.

(Hint: It is)

To all of you writers who are struggling to find readers: hang in there, your fics are just as important, your ideas are just as wonderful!

To those writers writing in their second language: It brings a smile to my face to see you work so hard to communicate with native English-speakers, who sometimes take you for granted. You are amazing, and we would love to see more of your works~

To those who are struggling with writer’s block. Take your time, your readers will wait C:

To those writers who write rarepairs, thank you for representing!!!!

Those those writers who are struggling to please their fans, you, the person behind the fic, are just as important as the content you write and your readers want you to enjoy yourself too!

To those writers who project their struggles onto their fics, we hear you!

Those those writers who have written fics but are hesitating to post: Just do it. Throw it out there. Let your fic get the love it deserves

But most importantly, to every writer out there, thank you. Thanks for taking the time to share your ideas with us, for putting up the frustrations and anxieties of writing, for replying to those rambling comments, for providing us comfort without even knowing it. You are a blessing, and all I ask is that you remember this in your own moments of doubt and loneliness. There is a person behind every fic, and we see you C:

Happy Fanfic Writer’s Appreciation Day

Okay, why am I just learning about Fanfic Writer’s Appreciation Day like four hours before it’s over? I want to spread some love to the writers that I follow and look up to. You’re all wonderful and your work make my day. I’ll also leave a link to their ao3 or blog so go check them out if you haven’t read them yet.

@lawlicht4eva I always go to you for LawLicht fluff. They’re so sweet and I love how you portray these lovable dorks (here)

@just-servamp-trash your oneshots and drabbles are so cute and thank you so much for writing them (here)

@faecakes your mikutsuru fanfics in one gif (here)

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@wonderfulchaos69 your AUs and smaller drabbles always entertain and are just perfect (here)

@rubyleaf I’m patiently waiting for the next chapter of Guilty Pleasure Friends. It’s so amazing how consistently great your multi-chapter fanfics are so keep up the great work (here)

I don’t have a lot of time to read everyone’s work in the fandom so I’m sorry if I missed someone.

Fan Fic Writer Appreciation Day~

I don’t know many of the writers in this fandom yet so I can’t really make a list of people but I just wanted to say to all the writers out there whose working hard now, who have quit, who are having a hard time, who don’t feel like they’re writers any more or are frightened to write–thank you for being a writer. Thank you for carving diamonds paths out of your words. Thank you for weaving beautiful moonlit settings from your mind. Thank you trying and failing, for crying and stressing, for publishing or keeping your stuff to yourself.

Thank you, because you’re giving parts of yourself to the world every time you write and no one asked that of you. Thanks for dreaming big and sharing that dream with us, even a little.

You’re all awesome people worth the highest of praise and don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise.

zoegts  asked:

Dude! I frikin love you! I probably said this before but I just can't get enough of your art man!! I feel a real connection when lookin at your art photos! Duuuuuude I just wanna congrats you and hug uuuuu!!!! \(^_^\) x It's just so beautiful *sniff sniff* Getas face and gokus so innocent yet so saiyan like 😍😍😍 Ohhhhh it's perfect!!!!! Haha sorry if that was a little much 😅 I rlly needed to come out of me to tell u. 😅😅ehhe sorry x

THANK YOU I TRY SO HARD I really want to tell stories with my drawins and to make people smile or laugh or feel something when they look at my shit. So this means a lot wow-weeee 💙💜 you’re so kind thank you again 💕💕💕

anonymous asked:

Hi~ so I've just been dying over your sets as of late and was wondering if you could ever make a tutorial that focused on the layers themselves and how it is to isolate a certain color by still making it vibrant but also not having it affect the parts that you don't want to be colored? I'm just having a real hard time trying to figure it out and it's overwhelming me to say the least. Thank you in advance :) 💕

hey pal !! of course i can!!! firstly, thank you so much for being so kind about my gifs, it really means a lot :). i use photoshop cc and we’ll be going from this

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Don’t forget Gorillaz fans, Jamie Hewlett exist! He made all you’re favorite band members come to life in the music videos, shorts, ect! He continues drawing them countless times and works day and night to give you new content with the band members! So please appreciate him!!! ❤❤❤

the signs as i’ve known them irl

Aries: you’re feisty and confident and loud but also ridiculously naive and quite childish. your smile is blinding and you’re fiercely protective of your friends and would go to the ends of the world for their sake. i like you. although i wish you’d learn to read situations and be more tactful, i admire your sincerity and honesty. you’re refreshingly genuine.

Taurus: you’re so hard on yourself, it’s as if you’ve put a boulder on your chest and refuse to take it off. you don’t need to handle all this pressure, but you put in on yourself anyway, and are incredibly stubborn about it. it’s okay to relax and enjoy yourself. being alive is not a punishment. you’re so much happier when unrestricted by worries; know that you don’t need to handle everything alone.

Gemini: you’re intelligent and very talkative with those whose company you enjoy. you want someone who’ll click and can engage you in conversation, whether intellectual or random. you’re so used to changing yourself to suit other people’s tastes that you aren’t sure how to be yourself anymore; to you, all of those personalities somehow seemed like genuine sides of yourself.

Cancer: you’re always so friendly and welcoming and kind with everyone, but at the same time, you always felt very distant to me. part of me feels like i wrongfully infringed on your personal space by trying to get closer, even though that’s not the case. from time to time i feel like i can see glimpses of your true feelings, but it always disappears back into a facade just as i notice.

Leo: you’re kind and helpful– and cheerful, to some extent. you really like attention. some of you are lowkey about it and some of you have zero subtlety about it, but regardless, you want to be recognized for your hard work and efforts. you feel overshadowed by people who are better than you and want to improve yourself, but may feel lost sometimes as to how to get there.

Virgo: you’re so stubborn, hardworking, and determined; i’m not sure if it’s frightening or annoying. it’s also a huge pain in the neck to argue with you because you firmly believe that your views are The Right Ones and completely disregard any arguments against it. you’re organized and neat and intelligent. i understand your feelings to some level, but i wish you were more open-minded.

Libra: you’re not a bad person, but you’re not exactly morally upstanding, either. and that comes from your ability to see situations from all sides. it’s a bit infuriating trying to ask your opinion on things because of this; you see and understand all views and end up confused and unable to decide. you’re good with people but tend to hold most of them at a distance to avoid getting hurt.

Scorpio: you have a wild sense of humor and are rather sarcastic, but it’s mostly there to cover up your insecurities and feelings. you’re passionate but try to keep it subdued (and it works quite well, if i’m honest). it’s alright to have feelings. i don’t know exactly who hurt you in the past, but you don’t need to hide your emotions behind a quirky persona. it’s okay to let it out and just be

Sagittarius: you’re very sarcastic and funny and sometimes just plain mean on the outside, but you’re so sweet and gentle and kind on the inside; the contrast always makes me melt a little. you’re quite intelligent and try to see the bright side even if it’s hard. you don’t like sharing personal information or revealing how you feel easily. you genuinely care for your friends and want to help them.

Capricorn: i worry about you. you’re hardworking and diligent but somehow lazy at the same time. you’re also hard on yourself and have deep insecurities and strong feelings about things that you hide rather than open up about. you’re bitingly sarcastic and i love your sense of humor. you’re also incredibly kind to others, which can hurt you when others don’t show you the same kindness.

Aquarius: flighty. you’re kind and compassionate on the outside but hold a deeply-rooted bitterness within you. i dislike how you always blame everyone but yourself for your own problems, especially when they could be easily resolved if you simply lightened up a bit. part of me wonders if you care more about global and societal issues because you don’t know how to deal with the personal ones. 

Pisces: you’re passionate and emotionally fragile, though experience has taught you to hide it behind walls. when you love, it’s with full force and zero inhibitions; that’s why you get hurt so easily. you’re not easy to understand and people have ostracized you because they misinterpret your words or actions. i feel sorry for you, but at the same time i know that misguided pity is the last thing you want. 

How to learn a new language FAST!

Hi guys! Recently people have been asking me how come I am fluent in so many languages. And although I find this compliment to be very flattering, I do feel the urge to share my best tips with you guys. So I speak around 6 languages, but I am completely fluent in English, Croatian and Italian which always seem to interest people the most. Learning a new language does take time, but hopefully with these tips, you will be able to do it a lot faster!

1. START OUT BY LEARNING A LANGUAGE CLOSE TO YOUR OWN

For instance, if you are from Spanish speaking area, you might want to start off by learning Portuguese or Italian since all those languages have a similar sound and sentence structure. This way learning process might go a bit faster.

2. BE CONSISTENT

For best results, try leaving out at least 10 minutes or so every day to do something in that language. It can be something as simple as listening a song, even listening someone speak. Just be consistent and I promise you, you will find yourself understanding the language algorithm in no time.

3. LISTEN TO OTHER PEOPLE SPEAK

It literally doesn’t matter if you understand or have no idea what the heck are they talking about. When I first started learning Italian, I just spent hours watching one Italian movie after the other and God knows I didn’t understand a thing, but I begin to understand the way they formed the sentences and noticed the way they repeated same words but in different context. This is a very important tip because every language has that part that can not be translated, nor explained, only understood by Italian speakers. So just find youtubers, movies or podcasts in language you want to learn and take our dictionary with you and listen.

4. LEARN A FEW WORDS EVERY DAY

It’s not that hard, really. There are also app to help you (such as Duolingo). Pick a few words and think of a way to make a sentence out of that word. Then try turning that word in an adverb and then try using that in a sentence. For instance, if you were to learn English and your word of choice was ‘beautiful’ use it first as an adjective: “This apple is beautiful.” Then use it as an adverb: “She drew his portrait beautifully.” This way you will learn a few words that go together and be closer to understanding the language structure. Also, start simple. start off by learning the most common and the simplest everyday sentences.

5. SPEAK

It doesn’t matter if you’re bad or lacking words, just speak. It is important to use what you’ve learned and practice it. Find someone to speak with. Internet is a huge place and you will find someone to speak with you. Even better if you find a native speaker (who knows, maybe they come to your town as a tourist?) since they will probably be willing to correct your mistakes and you will learn something from them.

6. WRITE

This goes with the previous one. If you don’t have anyone to speak with, then write. You will practice your vocabulary and challenge yourself to learn the words that are missing to form a good sentence.

7. DO NOT FOCUS ON GRAMMAR

Grammar will come, focus on vocabulary first. Grammar will come as you begin understanding the language itself. So it takes time, but listen to songs, watch movies and try reading books in that language.

8. HAVE FUN

Enjoy yourself. Learning a new language is such a noble thing to do. You will have your mind so much more open and you will be richer for another experience.

Also, if you need help with anything, I will be more than glad to help you. My askbox is always open. 

Good luck.

DREAM DADDY X JC LEYENDECKER?? Just kidding… it’s an original piece but it was heavily influenced by his style. A print for Fan Expo @ table A37!
Just finished the sketch AHAH. This is actually my first time planning out my own composition for a print and it was SO HARD because I wanted to challenge myself (just kidding there was no Leyendecker piece with 7 people). But I felt like last time people lowkey thought I was cheap for taking his compositions LOL. Ok but really I looked up so many references and had a lot of trouble fitting them in and making it look unified and just good. Friends were actually asking me when I was going to make fancy suit daddies LOL. It’s supposed to look like a formal picture but I tried to make each of their personalities very evident. Robert is the only one with his shirt open and flower on the wrong side because he’s problematic. I originally had Hugo do the funny bunny ear pose on top of Joseph but my sister told me it was so out of character. Gonna spend the next few days painting this and I’ll post the final soon.
(Sorry for the WIP I didn’t want anyone to steal it because it’s been happening)

in the end, it mattered.

So, I… was not expecting to open up the news tonight and feel like I’d been kicked in the stomach. I’d barely even thought about Linkin Park in years. They were my brief, embarrassing nu-metal mallgoth phase. They were everyone’s brief, embarrassing nu-metal mallgoth phase. Then they were the band even nu-metal posers made fun of. By that point 15-year-old me had plunged down the rabbit hole and discovered Rammstein, and the Smiths, and the Sisters of Mercy, and KMFDM, and I had so much awesome music to wallow in that I barely had time to feel self-conscious that I’d never really stopped loving Hybrid Theory. (Although I did, a little, because I was 15 and nothing was too stupid to feel self-conscious about.)

But holy fuck did I love that album. “Crawling” is the first music video I have any actual memory of seeing on TV. Linkin Park was the first rock concert I ever went to. (And fuck you, they were awesome.) I loved it for the exact reasons my entire age cohort found it embarrassing as soon as we were out of middle school. It’s a primal scream of rage and anguish, artfully bottled up and beautified, that manages to articulate a lot of the nuances of how people hurt each other and what it’s like to be hurt so badly you can barely hang on. Which means it had its finger squarely on the pulse of what it’s like to be 14. Stuck in a rat cage with a few hundred other rats, all of you hopped up to the gills on hormones, clumsily figuring out all the ways people can hurt each other, how and when to protect yourself, how to judge others’ behavior. And because people learning how to judge get awfully enthusiastic about it and nobody likes the primal anguish or the pants-on-head stupidity of their 14-year-old self, it didn’t take long for us to start finding Linkin Park embarrassing. Their angst is utterly sincere, and sincerity is uncomfortable. Especially when it reminds you of the utterly sincere, solipsistic, overblown, ridiculous angst over trivial shit that your adolescent hormones were pumping through your veins in middle school. Getting over yourself is healthy.

Coming back to listen when I’m pushing thirty, though, nothing on Hybrid Theory makes me think about my mid-teens melodrama. Some of it makes me think about friendships and relationships that turned into the kind of fucked-up shit that makes me want to grab my past self and shout “run while you can.” But most of it–speaking as a grown-ass adult here–most of it makes me think “holy shit, I want to find whoever did that to this kid and kick their ass six ways from Sunday.” It is so fucking unbelievably obvious in retrospect that none of the shit Chester Bennington is screaming about is something you just get over once you’ve grown up a little and escaped the shitheads you went to high school with.

Transmuting pain into art is a natural, almost universal impulse; doing it well is hard. Getting close enough to grab the beating heart of it, pulling it out to dissect it, ruthlessly rearranging it into something with structure and clarity, stepping back far enough to judge what you’ve made… the strange, disconcerting realization that you’ve turned it into something beautiful. Something that will appeal to other people, make them relate it back to their own pain even if it’s not the same. (Something vulnerable that can be criticized and judged and sneered at.) Maybe at first it’s for your own benefit, help you process and understand it, let out a bit of that primal scream… but let me tell you, the first time someone says “thank you” or “I needed this” or “you articulated what I couldn’t” or “this got me through a dark place”… that doesn’t just make it worth it, it humbles the shit out of you. And it makes you want to keep doing it forever. It turns the pain into shared understanding and an offer of comfort.

Unfortunately, it doesn’t make the pain go away.

Chester Bennington was really fucking good at transmuting his pain into art and offering it up with utter sincerity.

So RIP, dude. I don’t know the details of what you were going through, but you gave the world a pretty good glimpse of the broad outlines. And that glimpse got a lot of kids through adolescence, my dumb ass included; I can only imagine what it did for people who were going through the same stuff as you. Life may not be some fairy tale where turning your demons into art is always enough to save you from them, but I wish you’d made it. You saved a lot of other people. Whatever peace eluded you here, you deserve to find on the other side.

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💢 PLEASE DO NOT REBLOG TO NON-KINK BLOGS 💢

An open letter to Klance shippers from a Shaladin:

Hey guys!  So, I’m sure if you’re in this tag you know what this is a post about, so I won’t waste my words on explaining, and just wanted to say a few things.

If you’re a Klance shipper who isn’t an anti: you’re fab, just keep doing what you’re doing

If you’re a Klance shipper who is holding to their anti guns: Yikes, my guy, watch out for that hypocrisy; careful not to reach too hard or your arms are gonna fall off

If you’re a Klance shipper who is thinking about dropping the ship after the news: Please, please don’t do that.  If you’re invested in it and it makes you happy, don’t let some dumb shits wreck it for you.  Because here’s something I want to emphasize: the holes in the anti argument have been gaping from the beginning, and those arguments were only created to take out the competition.  Any Shaladin worth their salt (and trust me, we have a lot of it) will have your back.

While we’re at it, I want to emphasize one thing:

Literally no Shaladins/Sheithers actually think Klance is pedophilia.  This is a satirization of how antis will take anything that might remotely have any kind of age gap and dub it such.  Trust me, we don’t think you’re pedophiles.

If you’re a Klance shipper who still doesn’t like Sheith: Bro, that’s fine.  I have plenty of NoTPs.  Just don’t judge the people who do.  We can coexist.

If you’re a Klance shipper who was an anti but is now realizing that the anti movement is bullshit: Confession time: I used to be one, after a fashion.  It’s so, so easy to get caught up in that sort of whirlpool of toxicity and manipulation.  You can get out, and there is a really nice section of the Klance fandom who you can still hang with, where you can focus on uplifting your ship instead of tearing other ones down.  Trust me, it’s so much more rewarding, and spending time with things you love instead of things you hate will make you so much happier.

If you’re feeling up to it, check out this post.  Please consider what you’re doing.  And know that there are plenty of people willing to help you out if you need it.

I’ll also say: I won’t fight with anyone over this.  If you reblog this to complain, or with negativity, you’ll just find yourself blocked.

guess who ;)

anonymous asked:

How do I stay motivated to write on a schedule? I want to write more, and I thought planning writing out might help.

Hey, nonny, thanks for your question! I’m pretty sure every writer has faced this problem at some point, and motivation can be hard to come by. I’m currently in a writing slump, and really I’m just making myself write every day. You’ve kind of asked two questions here - how to stay motivated/write on a schedule, and the benefits of planning, so I’ll address both. 


How to Write Consistently

Unfortunately, there is no magic solution that will solve all your problems and make you want to write all the time. Sometimes, you lose motivation or inspiration, and you don’t know how to get past it. Here are a few tips to keep you writing on a consistent schedule:

  • Set yourself a goal to reach every day. Whether it’s 100 words or a 1000, give yourself something to work towards when you write daily. For me, the site 750 Words has helped me write a consistent amount every day. 
  • Try writing sprints. If you’re really pressed for motivation, just set a timer and start writing as much as you can. Sprints can get your creative juices flowing.
  • Learn to write even when you don’t have motivation/inspiration. You may not always feel like writing, but if you realize that sometimes you have to write when you don’t want to, it can make things a lot easier and help you push past a bout of writer’s block. Be careful you don’t overwork yourself, though.
  • Set yourself a literal schedule. Set aside some time every day where you just write, and you won’t be distracted. If you do it daily, you’ll set a routine that you can follow, and make writing a habit.
  • Choose a place where you write. If you can, write in the same place every day - make it feel official. Write wherever you’re not going to be distracted, and where you’re most comfortable and motivated. 
  • Tell someone about your plans to write every day (or however often). If you tell someone, or post it somewhere, that you’re going to write consistently, odds are you’ll feel a lot more motivated to actually follow through on your promise.
  • Keep track of when you write/reach a word count goal. Mark it down on your calendar every day you sit down and write.
  • If you’re really not feeling your story/fic/novella or whatever you’re writing at the time, write something just to keep yourself in the habit. Make a diary entry, or a one-shot, or a blog post. Just make sure you keep the habit. Who knows - maybe after writing something unrelated, you’ll get more inspiration for your main work!

Planning or Pantsing? 

Read: Do I plan it or wing it? 

Personally, I am more of a panster - I tend to let my story take me where it wants as I write, and I don’t plan a lot of it. However, I do plan the rough plot points and arcs - but I usually end up changing something while I write. So, take my opinion on planning and pansting with a grain of salt. 

Planning

For some people, planning their story to a ‘T’ helps them stay motivated - they know what scenes they want to include, they know how all of the scenes and plot points fit together, they know how their character arcs tie into the subplots, etc etc.

However, for some people, knowing too much about their story before they write it can hinder them and make them lose motivation. They might feel restricted by their original plan.

Pantsing

When some people write a story, they like to know nothing about it as they go into it. There are varying degrees of this - some people have a general plot, some just have an inciting incident and start from there. They might feel that this gives them more freedom with their story and boost their creativity.

On the flip side, not knowing anything about their story can make some people feel lost. They might not know how to connect scenes and plot points without a plan, or how the story should continue.

Originally posted by fuckyeahdragrace

So, how do you know which one suits you, you ask? That’s up to you. You just have to see which one works for you through experience. (Generally, even if you’re pansting, you’ll probably have some idea of where your story is going, even if it changes.) Don’t be afraid to stray from your plan, or rewrite something you don’t like. It’s up to you!


Hopefully this helped you out! Here are all of our posts about outlines, if you want to start planning more. If you have another question, feel free to ask, and good luck writing!

-Mod Gen


If you need advice on general writing or fanfiction, you should maybe ask us!

bts// getting turned on by your moans

requested :)

jin

you would have been working out all day at the gym. your muscles were tired and sore. you just wanted to get home and rest. 
  when you did get home you noticed jin was home early from practice. you said your hellos from across the aprtment and fell down on the couch, completely exhausted. 
“uhahhh.” you groaned, your muscles finally relaxing. 
  from the kitchen, jin’s ears perked up from the sound you had just made, his cock twitching in his pants. 
he walked into the living room, looking at your tired structure, “are you sure you’re tired y/n? because i really need you right now.” he practically whined. you cocked your eyebrow at him in response. “i’m sorry, it’s just i love the sound of your moans.” with that, you weren’t tired anymore.

Originally posted by jungkookandyugyeomwhores

suga

  you had a hard and long day at work, your boss making you work two hours more than usual. you came home and practically collapsed on your boyfriend, yoongi. your head was on his lap, your eyes closed and his hand running through your hair. the feeling of his fingers running agaisnt your scalp and brushing each strand of hair just felt so good to you.
‘ahh that feels so good yoongs.” the sound of that made something click in yoongi. he realzied how close your head was to his cock and your warm breath fanning onto his skin. 
“i think i can make you feel even better jagi.” he said as his hand in your hair dragged down your body into your pants. 

Originally posted by scartic

jhope

  you being an idol yourself, you had to practice your dances a lot. so, one day hoseok practically begged to come to your dance practice. for the whole day you and hoseok stayed in the practice room. he watched your body twist and turn around the room. he was already semi hard just from watching you. but when you let out a moan of tiredness, he lost it. he was behind you in the mirror in a second, his hands on your hips and pulling you into him. the feeling of his cock in your ass made you gasp and look at him in the mirror.
“its just something about the sounds you make, i love them.”

Originally posted by morekpopmore

rap monster

 you and namjoon were heading to a big dinner for the boys’ comeback. you were in a fancy dress and he was in his best suit. you were drving and almost there, you getting extremely nervous because you had never met any of namjoon’s managers before. for reassurance namjoon placed hsi hand on your thigh. from being surprised, you let a little moan, both of your ne cks snapping to look at eachother. 
“what was that jagi?” namjoon smirked at you, his hand moving closer to your core.
“um nothing.”
“mh, let me hear your sounds.” he said as he fully placed his fingers onto your most sensitive parts. 

Originally posted by bangtangirl-cutennes-v

jimin

  jimin was sleeping in the other room, tired from practicing all week for bts’ new comeback. not wanting to wake him up, you decided to entertain yourself with video games. and tbh, you sucked at video games. so every five seconds you would lose, making you completely frustrated. 
“ughhh.” “ahhhh” “uhhh” from your loudness, jimin woke up in complete awe. something about your groaning just turned him on so much. so, he walked out into the livingroom and wrapped his arms around you from behind the couch. 
“babyy, your little groans make me so turned on.” his whinned into your ear, making a smirk appear on your face, knowing exacly what he wanted.

Originally posted by watch-me-park

v

 it was late at night when taehyung woke up to you squriming beside him and moaning. at first he was thought you were awake and ept asking what you were doing. but then he saw your closed eyes and knew you were dreaming. 
“ahh tae mhh ahh” you moaned loudly, making taehyungs eyes widen. his cock immediately reacted and twitched in his boxers. your squriming and moaning continued as he dragged is hand down your body to your soaked panties. from the contact you woke up and looked at taehyung. 
“sorry babe, you were moaning my name and you know i can’t control myself when you do that.”

Originally posted by jimin-bts-trashs

jungkook

  it started out as just a little game between you two. he would be watching tv, or making some ramen or even showering. and you would just come up behind him and moan into his ear. both of you would laugh at first, thinking it was funny. but the last time you did it, something in him switched. his cock automatically started to get hard, and he needed you. he was sitting on the couch so he pulled you don onto him, making you straddle him. 
“i think that’s enough of your fake moans, i want to hear your real moans kitten.”

Originally posted by baekyeolkaisoogirl

Min Yoongi

**REQUEST: if you are taking requests can i ask a yoongi smut where you ask him to teach you how to give a bj? ( sorry for my bad english 🇦🇷)**

Type: Smut

Summery: Theres no need to be nervous around Yoongi, he’ll take care of you and make you feel good no matter what it is you’re doing. 

W/C: 1881


You’re not doing it right if your not doing it!

‘What a bullshit article’ You thought tossing your phone across the couch. There was no reason why giving a blowjob would be something that made or broke your sex life, especially with Yoongi. He’d never asked you to do it so why should some stupid article make you feel like there was something wrong with you? That you were boring him?

You scoffed and got up from the couch forgetting about the show you were watching before you stumbled across the article. As you made your way to the kitchen you couldn’t help but glance into the home studio Yoongi had just finished putting together and smiled.  He had insisted in turning the guest bedroom you never used into an office for him just so he could be at home with you more. You stared at him for a half second too long as he bobbed his head to the music that could faintly be heard through his headphones, now feeling even worse about never returning the favor when it came to oral.

“Hey babe.” He said with a sweet smile before turning back to his computer.

“Want anything to drink?” You said shaking your head, wanting to rid yourself of the feeling that you weren’t pleasuring him enough.

When he nodded and threw you another sweet smile you turned, he must be onto something since he usually never talked to you when he was working. You grabbed his usual drink of choice out of the fridge and walked across the hall over to him. He thanked you before pulling your hand softly so your cheek was in kissing distance.

“You look upset, why are you upset?” He said, the smile that tugged at the corners of his mouth dropping.

“Its nothing. Just stupid thoughts.” You said smiling sweetly before standing straight again and running your hand down the back of his head.

“If it was nothing you wouldn’t be thinking so hard.” He said crossing his arms.

“Its just… Its nothing, don’t worry about it Yoongi.” You said smiling to try and get him to drop it.

“Jagi just tell me, you know I won’t be able to focus if you don’t.” He sighed.

“Why don’t you ever ask me for Oral?” You blurted out. Your sudden forwardness caught him off guard, his eyes widening slightly before falling into their natural state.

“I just figured it grossed you out… I didnt want to make you uncomfortable.” He said while reaching for your hands.

“Thats very sweet.” You said biting your lip. You were torn now. Part of you wanted to try it, just to see if you liked it, but part of you were nervous, you’ve never really done it before.

After a few minutes of letting you think Yoongi squeezed your hand and watched as you stood up straighter, making your decision on what you wanted to do.

“Yoongi I… Ive never given a,” You cleared your throat, now was not the time to act like a school girl. “Blowjob before.” You said watching as he just nodded.

“Id like to try it, but id need you to be honest with me and tell me what to do.” You said, proud of how you kept your composure.

“Are you sure? You don’t have to if you don’t want to.” He said, there was an excited spark in his eye that was telling you that he was more than ready to let you try this out.

You nodded making him smile and bite his lip gently. He looked back at his screen and hit the space bar to pause what ever music he was listing to before standing up, pausing only to look at you slightly before leading you to the back of your home where your bedroom was located. Before you couldn’t even close the door and turn around he was already sitting up against the end of the bed, his jeans and shirt on the floor next to him. You chuckled at how eager he was and couldn’t help but notice all your nerves were gone. He held up his arms for you and when you were close enough he wrapped his arms around your waist and dipped his head into your chest

“If you don’t want to do this, or at any time feel uncomfortable just tell me. But know you’re in for it.” He’d say making you chuckle as he pinched your butt before pulling you down with him as he laid on his back.

He kissed you like he always kissed you, with so much passion and love it made your head spin and your heart flutter. The feeling of his bare chest underneath you was enough to make you  want to pleasure him that much more, to be that much closer to him. You were the one to pull out of the kiss first and slide down the bed till he was sitting back upright and you were kneeling on the floor in front of him.

You looked up, your hands now on each of his hips, only hooking your thumbs under the band of his boxers when he gave you a sweet smile and a nod. You didnt even realize how hard he had become and pulling the thin material off of his lower half only seemed to make it harder. You looked up to him again and he took a deep already shaking breath as you wrapped your hand around his member.

“Lick the tip.” He said so quietly that it took you a second to realize what he had said.

You immediately responded by just placing enough of the tip in your mouth that he couldn’t see your tongue, but you still had full use of it. You started by going clockwise and every four full circled you’d change direction. Each time you did this he’d take another deep breath, as if to silently praise the simple pleasure. You changed it up, remembering something you saw once and started to flick your tongue quickly over the center where you could already taste him leaking. If anything boosted your confidence, that was it.

“Take it in your mouth.” He growled, now propping his body up by his elbows.

You seemed to have no concept of space and your eagerness took over you causing the tip you had just been caressing to hit the back of your throat just hard enough to make you extract him quickly. You looked up covering your mouth to see him covering his eyes with one hand to try and hide the back he was chuckling.

“Dont hurt yourself Jagi.” He finally said moving the hand to reach for your cheek.

You tried again, this time taking him in your mouth slower so you could figure out just how deep you could get him before it got uncomfortable. Although you weren’t looking directly at him you could still feel  him shift under you and groan once more. Going back to what you had already known about blowjobs and thinking about the few tips the article you had read early gave you you started. You pressed your tongue against the bottom of his member and curled your lips just slightly before starting to bob your head slowly. You could feel him fight the urge to buck his hips up, at first it was just a few but as you started to try different things with your mouth and including his balls, the bucking became more frequent. Soon he was sat back up and his hand was weaving its way into the messy bun you had been sporting.

The feeling of his hand lightly guiding you as you increased the pace got you hot, you did love it when he was controlling your every move, seeing him in a place of power was a huge turn on. He started cussing under his breath to the point where you let your eyes trail up his now overly flexed body. Seeing you like that, with your lips wrapped around him and looking up into his eyes was enough to send the rapidly building orgasm to the top of the ladder.

“Baby- ah, baby I’m going to cum.” He said in a broken breath before trying to pull your head off of him.

There was no point though. You were here giving your first ever blowjob, why not get the full experience. You ignored his tugs and quickened your pace once more as you gripped harder to his hips. He came so hard you were shocked, thankfully the feeling of his release hitting the back of your throat wasn’t nearly as harsh of a feeling as his dick, but still it caught you off guard. You hadn’t even realize you were holding your breath till after you swallowed every last drop and sat back to see him better.

He was now fully collapsed on the bed, arms outstretched on either side of him. Small chuckles kept leaving his mouth as he came down from his high, causing you to bite your lip in anticipation. You didnt care that he just came, you wanted to know how you did.

Finally he propped himself back up and looked at you with those same gleaming eyes. You couldn’t tell what was running through his mind but as he stammered to find the right words you were hoping that they were all good thoughts.

“Fuck y/n.” He said through a smile. “Fuck.”

You bit your lip nervously and watched him as he held a hand out to you. Taking it you let him pull you up the bed till you were laying right next to him. He chuckled again and rolled his head too look at you allowing you to pin the look in his eyes as admiration.

“Are you sure that was your first time?” He said rolling over so he could slip a hand under your shirt and trace circles across your skin. “Fuck.” He said again with another chuckle pulling your hips towards him as you nodded.

“Good fuck or…” You started, taking your lip in your mouth again.

He looked at you like you were crazy for even asking such a thing and instead of verbally answering you right away he pulled you across the blanket till you were pressed up against his naked body and his lips were feverishly intertwining with yours.

“Amazing fuck.” He finally said before pushing you on your back so he could kiss you even deeper.

He was quick to return the favor, the song he had been working on completely forgotten as he trailed kisses down your body. He would make sure you’re pleasure matched what he experienced. The moment your legs started to quiver around him he’d be back up to eye level readying himself to finish what you had started. For the rest of the day every very time the two of you rolled over panting while wrapping your naked bodies around one another to catch your breath you’d only find yourself smiling at one another for a split second before another round would start.