But if you’re really a Kara stan, you should want her to be happy, doesn’t matter who it’s with. I’m most and foremost a Kara Danvers stan and just want her to be happy. Now, she’s clearly breaking apart. And it’s breaking me apart. She has lost so much in her life, and she finally had everything she wanted, only to sacrifice the one she loved the most to save the city / earth. She’s a true hero, a hero of earth. More powerful and strong than Superman, proved in this episode. She’s willing to sacrifice her own happiness and love for others to have theirs, even if it breaks her. That woman has not changed by being in love, if anything, it made her stronger.
So don’t give me crap like “Kara deserves better” Because she’s clearly her own person, capable of making her own decisions. Whether it’s who he wants to be with, or what she’s willing to sacrifice. She is a strong, capable woman. Just because she’s in love, doesn’t make her weak. Love changes people, it changed the person she wanted to be with, because he wanted to be better for her. He wanted to be a man worthy of her, and that is love.