i just think if that one is too big

borjo1 asked:

You know whats really fucking funny? You say you are an anti-mra... yet you are very respected among mras. People in the movement like you because your old self is the actual representation of mras lol. There are only 2 reasons you arent an mra: You are too lazy to actually see what mras go for and you dont like big groups, they make you uncomfortable, plus big groups are bound to have stupid people and people that express themselves poorly (they think silly catch phrases suffice, just like you)

You often write me to explain myself to me, and that is tiresome. 

I an anti-MRA for the same exact reason I am anti-feminist: because the problems we now face with society taking an antiquated view of how people should conduct themselves based on gender are not going to be solved with a one-gendered approach. 

One of the most quoted things I have ever said on the topic of feminism (and I’m about to probably butcher my own quote here) is that “feminism tried to solve the issues of both genders by focusing on only one.” Change the word from feminist to the MRM and it still works. 

And I am against groups. And it’s for good reason. It’s a reason best summed up by Agent K from Men In Black (1997): “A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky, dangerous animals, and you know it!”

I do know it. You, on the other hand, still need to learn. And stop with this stupid “the student now surpasses the master” bullshit. You’ll never know me better than I know myself, and your attempts to do so are becoming so fucking tedious. 


I have no idea how we even got to that topic, but a girl from uni and I started talking about our bodies and looks. First thing she said: “you’re very colourful today. Don’t you think it’s too much in your hair?” Much colour? In my hair? When it’s not even all the colours I want in there? I just told her that I like my hair the way I have it - why else would I have my hair like that - and that was the only thing important. She doesn’t have to like my hair, nobody has to, except me. I have to like my hair and I do and that’s all that matters.

Next point was that I was wearing dungarees one or two sizes too big for me. “You look like someone dropped you into a bag.” Oh yeah? “You’re a stick. You shouldn’t wear things too big with your body. You should wear nice things, things that show your very good shaped body.” Fucking what. I’m a stick? First of all: nope. second: Did you ever think about that I like the way I dress and that I wear these clothes because I like them, not to cover up my oh-so-skinny body (which isn’t that skinny btw)?

I embrace my body the way it is, with all its flaws because it is fucking beautiful. I am beautiful. I am not a stick in a bag. Just because I don’t wear super skinny clothes all the time doesn’t mean I want to complain about my body all the time or cover up certain areas I don’t like or something. And just because someone has another body type doesn’t mean they’re not beautiful. You are beautiful. I know it is hard to accept your body like it is. I was self-conscious about mine. Very self-conscious actually. But at one point I just stopped caring about the opinions of other people and started to care only about what I like, what I want and what I think about myself. I stopped letting people talk into it. I changed the things I didn’t like and voilà, here I am. 

now, this got way longer than I expected and it also got really messy but I just had to say this.

anonymous asked:

You think gems can change size when they regenerate? I always thought of regeneration as how gems "age" (obviously they don't actually age) so if they wanted to, could they become taller? I mean Amethyst did make one arm and one leg way bigger, but I was just wondering what you thought.

hmm… I’m think they can but that they shouldn’t. Garnet comments that Amethyst’s ‘big’ form was “unsustainable”. I think it probably stresses their form if they force it too much out of the ‘mold’ when reforming and its not something they can keep up as a default form. It distorts or ‘deflates’ like Amethyst started to while fighting the slinker.

anonymous asked:

I can't help but grin like an idiot when I see scully's little hands next to mulder's big ones in the baseball scene ahhh

Meeeeeeee too. I love that scene - I think just about everyone is fond of it in some way. :3

Sleeping Androids (1/?)

A/N: okay so for my 200th post I thought ‘what would be more appropriate than some of my dumb writing??? because i am a dumb child!!!!’ Idk i’ve always loved the sci-fi genre and robots in general and i mean i reference it a lot and i love it and i mean why not write what you love??? even if its poop???

so i do that thing i always do where i make like three drafts of a story and then publish it without even having it beta read so if there are some oopsies and ding dongs you find please tell me! Also feedback! Tell me what you think my children!! I am a children too! this is weird.

ALSO part 1/???? If you guys like it I have the entire thing done and ready to go but I mean maybe no one will read it and i will just have a big pile of writing to do with as i desire???? that delete button looks awful tasty. 

Also why is Joel always my protag????? he is a big dumb nerd baby why does he always show up????


can you tell i’ve had 0 sleep. i swear my writing is 100x more comprehensible than this god awful author’s note i am so sorry to the english language.

End A/N

Genre: Sci-fi (they’re in space!! danger danger will robinson!!!) 

Word Count: 3474

Rating: PG-13 (it just contains swearing)

Warnings: None

Pairings: everything is hinted like theres no explicit line saying x likes y its just kind of like hidden like on the down low you dig??

Bonus points to whoever can tell me what the title is referencing!!!

It all starts under the cut……

Keep reading

one piece has been a part of my life for like 5 years (which is a pretty big chunk of my life considering I’m A Youth) and I too often forget how good it is

like if you asked me what’s influenced my art and ideas in general THE MOST I’m pretty sure I’d only ever say one piece

it’s just… it’s so thick with this energy… this creative space of so many different ideas and concepts that you can’t believe it’s all part of one story

I don’t think anything’s made me feel the sheer EMOTIONAL RANGE that one piece has tbh

anonymous asked:

I have mixed feelings about emily and sarah I mean I get that sarahs mom and dad aren't good parents but i don't think sarah is stable enough to be on her own I think she needs some kind of adult figure to step in and help take care of her and get her the help she needs and no offense to emily but she can't be the one taking care of her emily needs help herself in my opinion

Yeah, there is a big caretaker role right now. I actually think it’s going to be really good for Sara, though. From the sounds of it, she’s never had anybody on her side. And I feel like having Emily and Caleb looking out for her, that’s going to do so much for her. But I am worried too :/ I just want Sara to be okay.

sagagemini4 asked:

Can you tell me something more about Shiryu/Shunrei? Any ideas for dating, favorite places, favorite way to spend the free time. Does Shiryu likes every dish made by Shunrei? Maybe he helps to her with cooking? This is too much but I love your hc. \*o*/

You’re asking about my SS otp, it’s never too much!

Ah, let’s see, dating. I don’t think they ever did the whole ‘Will you go on a date with me?’ thing to start their relationship. They were just always used to being together and going to places together and one day they just kind of started holding hands when they did so, and that was that. Perfectly normal, no big hubaloo.  That’s kind of how I see a lot of their relationship to be honest, they don’t have these huge declarations of love and stuff, they just know how they feel about each other.

I think now, dates for them are for the most part everyday things they have to do. They need groceries? They go together and maybe grab lunch when they’re finished.

As for food stuff, I think Shunrei’s a decent cook, nothing special, and she’s not too adventurous with trying new dishes. So long as she keeps to the stuff she’s used to it’ll taste good though. As for Shiryu helping her cook, I think he tries, but he’s not very good at it, and Shunrei finds he gets in the way a bit so she gives him really easy things to do to keep him busy, like peel vegetables, and setting the table.

That’s all I’ve got for now, I’m sure there’s more about these two floating around in my brain somewhere.

We all know that Jared and Jensen are best friends who are so close their children refer to each other as uncles. And we all know that Jensen and Misha are adorable together and that “Misha is the funniest thing that has ever happened to [Jensen].”

But I think we too often overlook how great Jared and Misha’s friendship is. They are both silly goofballs who absolutely love to tease one another, so much so that they have even gone overboard a few times. They are both outgoing and big-hearted and quick to joke and laugh together. And they just light up a room when they are together. 

I mean look at these guys:

They make each other laugh so hard they are literally in tears:

They are silly:

And sweet:

And supportive:

And inspiring:

From the ALWAYS KEEP FIGHTING campaign page: “ We have a close friend (though much older than we) that “Randomly” performs certain “Acts” that change the world, and people’s lives, for the better. It’s been an inspiration, and we thought, we should do that too!”

Their prank war has entertained us:

And their affection for one another is obvious:

I just love when we get to see Jared and Misha interact. We are so lucky to have a cast of people who all genuinely love one another so much.

(X X X X X X)

anonymous asked:

Ah!!! Aah!!!! Zill and Kayla with 12 (or whichever one was Eskimo kisses ahh) I'm sorry sorry sorry

I got a few asks that aren’t my chars, but I think this is the only one of those that I’m gonna do, cuz they are friend vivziepop ‘s characters and I naturally love them c: I hope I didn’t butcher them too badly, even if it’s just a doodle.

I still don’t know what Zill is.

Big Jo is a webcomic about growing up while being overweight.

It’s generally a funny and light story, with a no-nonsense, positive protagonist. But I felt that I needed a page like this one. Maybe other people will relate to it, I don’t know - but this is just how I feel sometimes. Like your heart gets a little …sore.

And one thing I assure you guys - this is not a “makeover” kind of story. I think we already have too many of these, and they’re not always realistic or even doing any good. This is instead a story about overcoming difficulties and self acceptance.

I need acceptance. We all need acceptance :)

anonymous asked:

Do you think this might also be to get his name in the headlines, I think they recently found out he's still not very well known like in Barcelona he was in the balcony and no one recognized him, he had to wear the bracelet on stage for people to find out about the clubbing. Today everyone was confusing him, he still isn't that well known, they tried the clubbing with girls and it didn't work so they're trying this now?

Nah. It’s just more of the same.  We were getting a little too high on the Larry interactions, and trending Larry last night, and Harry being a rainbow cupcake today.  They needed to put the brakes on a tiny bit. That’s all this is.

Dan Wootton may write one of his fanfics this weekend, but it’s all just a big pile of nothing. Just keeping us from getting too ahead of the plan.

And tbh, I think the clubbing stuff has worked really well (as well as the golf and Liam’s charity stuff - and Sophia).  People that didn’t know his name before do now.  It’s not just Harry and the Pips now, it’s Harry, Louis, Niall, & Liam.  That’s wonderful!!!

anonymous asked:

7// talk about your biggest insecurity

I’m pretty perpetually afraid of not being wanted. I’m always worried I come on too strong, and that people are secretly just putting up with me, or only want me around if I’m the one putting in the effort. I’m a big baby and need praise and reassurance on a regular basis until I really know someone. I was in some pretty bad relationships which dealt quite the blow to my interpersonal confidence.

I think the worst part is that when I try to talk about it, I just feel like a burden and I’m worried I’ll just make people not want to be around me even more. I don’t wanna be a downer, I just need someone to be like “I want you here with me” or ask me to hang out first sometime, ya know?

I’m actually excited for my online summer class! It seems interesting and not too stressful. There’s a group project but it’s just a PowerPoint so I don’t think it will be too big of a deal. Plus it’s a class about race and gender and one of our first materials was the Kat Blaque video on race and gender re: Rachel Dolezal/Caitlyn Jenner so I’m feeling good about this.

Weird things I have learned about America so far
  • The meals are huge. HUGE.
  • I ordered a half-serve of nachos andit was one and a half Australian full meals; I always thought Australian meals were too big.
  • Seriously; the food is big. Really big. You just won’t believe how vastly, hugely, mind-bogglingly big they are. You might think there’s a lot on your plate in an Australian restaurant, but that’s just a small serve of peanuts compared to America. They are so big…
  • Hotsauce everywhere. EVERYWHERE.
  • Californian toilets are weird. Don’t know if this is an American standard or not.
  • Power points don’t switch on or off. They’re always on and you just plug stuff into them. This sounds like a safty issue but it’s also really convenient.
  • What’s less convenient is that if there’s no ground pin you have no idea which way to plug a device in. The plug can go in either way.
  • The students of SDSU seem smart, but they all really like Apple Macs for some absurd reason.
  • There are a lot of people here.
  • The money is impossible to use. Impossible.
  • Tipping and tax make calculating a restaurant bill several times more difficult than it needs to be. 
  • Television.
  • A Three Musketeers bar is just a Milky Way. A Milky Way, on the other hand, is a Mars bar. And Mars bars do not exist.
  • Californian public water is sterilised via heavy chlorination and yes, it tastes like a swimming pool. I can see why people buy water bottled in other states here.
  • Starbucks failed in Australia for a reason.
  • McDonald’s is not the worst American fast food.
  • The cheese is exactly how TV would lead youto expect it is.
  • Denny’s is delicious, but absolutely nothing like I expected.
  • Fruit has no flavour here. You guys remember how impressed I was with European fruit compared to Australian fruit? It’s the reverse here. This place makes Australian fruit look like European fruit. But the tasteless fruit is often HUGE.
  • Everyone will assume that Australians are English. Somehow, our accents sound the same to Americans. This makes no sense to me.

“OH THE PAIN!” you cried as you entered the lounge are in the tower, hoping someone would come to your rescue. However neither Tony, Clint, Bruce, Steve, nor Thor seemed to respond; thinking it was just one of your random dramatic moments. Natasha’s only response was to leave the Tower, thinking she didn’t want to deal with it. “IT HURTS TOO MUCH UGHHHHH!” you cried once again, purposely falling onto Tony’s lap with your hands over your head.

“What is that god awful whining? It sounds like a dying moose.”Clint responded as he was polishing his bow and arrow.

“Im in pain, Clint Barton. I feel like the big guy is punching my poor stomach with no mercy. My emotional state has been jacked up and I just can’t stop crying.” You continued to cry and cry on Tony’s lap, not giving him any chance to slip out of your embrace.

“There…There.. little child. Don’t cry.” Tony said as he awkwardly pat your back, which only made you cry louder. He looked at the Bruce, Steve, and Clint mouthing help.

“Y/N…Just take deep breaths and breathe.” Steve added, but that only ended up in you taking bigger gasps as you continued to sob.

“No. No. Guys. It’s Y/N. She’s a girl. Just leaver her alone.” Bruce said, but everyone was so confused at what he was trying to explain.”As in…she’s at that time in the month where her…blood cycle is you know..happening..and..needs to go through this phase.” The more he was trying to explain it the more uncomfortable Bruce was getting.

“I do not quite understand Banner? This is normal in females like Y/N?” Thor questioned, but then that’s when your savior had arrived with bags in her hands. Natasha had stormed into the tower saying “Basically she’s on her period, gentlemen.”

You picked your head up from Tony’s lap and nodded crying “Yeah. It’s hurts to move.” 

“Don’t worry kiddo. I got you covered. I have Hershey bars, Advil, green tea, chocolate ice cream, and The Longest Ride movie.” You picked up your head again and you were silent, grinning the biggest grin. Even Tony was grinning, mostly because he thought he was safe from all of your crying and wailing, but once again you cried. This time with tears of Joy.

“NATASHA! THANK YOU SO MUCH. I HAVE SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS ME!” you cried. ”I love you guys so much.” hugging every single avenger in the room.

C: I hate that the black woman stereotype is being loud, dramatic, rude and sassy…but I see these qualities in myself? As soon as I started high school I knew my looks weren’t going to get me noticed, so I had to build up this big persona to make up for it, which I now hate. It’s too much. It’s too intense. I shout over everyone and I don’t mean to, just to have my voice heard because I feel like no one’s ever really listening. I am sarcastic all the time, so that I have the upper hand, and people can’t offend me. When I was younger I think it suited me being a hyperactive teenage girl, but now at 17 I’m not like that anymore and I see everything so differently. I am a lot quieter, but when I’m around my friends I have to keep on being loud. If I stopped, they’d think something’s wrong, and then I’d have to explain all this to them and it definitely wouldn’t make sense.

What I think was great about yesterday was I got to see my guy around all his boys. Just actin a fool and laughing and roasting each other. But also breaking bread together too. And it was nice that he didn’t treat me any differently. On the bus one minute he’s talking to his guys and the next he’s kissing my fingertips and reaching for me to sleep on his shoulder. It’s like that every time I’m around him and other people. He’s this big funny happy guy that people are drawn to. But he never leaves me by he wayside and always lets my little introverted self know that I’m not far from his mind

So, I just had a thought. 

As much as I wanted to originally post the novella in one big post, I also didn’t really count on it being 40k words either. I mean conception through the first month is 14k alone. And I feel like if I waited until it was completely done and ready, a post that big might be too big to even load properly and I feel like there’s potential for all kinds of issues. Also, given that you’ve all been waiting very patiently, I feel like it’s time.


With that in mind, maybe it would be a better idea to post the novella in sections (by month) so I think there would be a total of 9-10 sections over the next week or so ish? It’s still the novella and it’s still one large single piece and should be read as such, but this might be a better idea and a good compromise for everyone. And, once all the sections of it are posted, I can see about putting them into one large single post and seeing if that will work, so that anyone that wants to can (potentially, if it works okay) read it in one large post and it will be there as I originally wanted it to be too. 

How does that sound? I know it wasn’t my original plan, but I would be happy with this plan too. Please, please let me know your thoughts and feelings about this idea, so I can decide for sure. Love you. xx.