ok real talk @ chris stans: you all really need to realize that infantilizing him and reducing him to some weird dream guy in your head is like. really fucking creepy. you don’t know him at all. and to say that you’re worried bc he’s obviously “not okay” is like? fucking weird? just because he hasn’t tweeted in a while doesn’t mean you need to full on stalk the dude, and honestly acting like you know how he’s feeling all the time is majorly not okay. we literally have no idea why he cancelled. if it was just because melissa isn’t going, i mean, kinda crappy but okay, whatever. but don’t insult people who did nothing wrong just because you’re now figuring out that you’re not his number one priority in life
i came out as bi today to just my mum and she reacted okay. she said she'll always love me and won't love me less but it's difficult for her to accept it because of her beliefs. but i don't feel proud or a weight gone. i just feel... sad and scared. like im constantly in need of reassurance it's okay. and she keeps saying i have to tell my dad which has made me anxious and i really don't, i just wanted to tell my mom for now.