i just needed this to be a thing okay

Okay, I really wasn’t going to adress this, just bear with it, but since it has happened multiple times now by different people, either subtly or not very subtly, I guess it’s time to post this.

I have been posting a lot for and about GotG in the past few weeks or so. That’s true. It’s also true that I’m having an absolute blast with it, and I do know that quite a few people enjoy what I write and post, and that makes me happy to no end.

Simultaneously, though, I’ve been posting less BNHA or BNHA headcanons in the meantime. And that, now that seems to disappoint quite a few people.

And while I am slightly sad to disappoint other people, because making others happy is one of my favorite things to do – I will not apologize for posting more about GotG than about BNHA at the moment. I won’t start posting more BNHA or requested BNHA things because people have had enough of my GotG headcanons and want me to “go back”.

You all are very welcome to send me ideas, headcanons, or ideas, for any fandom that I know and post about. GotG, BNHA, - do that! Send it to me! I love to see it. And if inspiration strikes me, then I will write about it with great gusto.

Do not, however, demand of me to write for a particular fandom, or to post more about that fandom, because that is what you think I have to do. Here is the catch - I do not have to. I am not a one-fandom-only blog, and this is my blog, and I will post about whatever I’m interested in, whatever makes me happy or happier at the moment. Even when there is slight guilt for long-time followers who could be disappointed, I have learned that my happiness is worth something, too. And I will pursue that.

As I said, you’re all very welcome to send me asks, to PM me whenever you want. About whatever you want. Just know that, if you do request a particular idea, it could take up to days, weeks or months until I write for it, because inspiration cannot be pressured, neither can writing. (And I currently have around 120 asks which are mostly requests, so there’s that, too.)

And demands or “advices” how I have to blog will be met with snarky answers, ignored or altogether deleted, whatever seems most appropriate.

Okay Imma do a small rant - as much as I love malec and just want them to adopt those babies already and live happily ever after, I don’t think I’ll be able to be happy for them until they talk about that whole body switch thing. Alec needs to apologize. Not just “Im so sorry for everything you had to go through” no no boy. Alec you need to grab that mans hands, look him in the eye and say “Im so sorry for what I did. Im sorry for not believing you and not being there when you needed me most. I understand if you need time.” He needs to acknowledge that not only did Magnus have his body taken from him, he was tortured and made to relive memories of his past that clearly traumatized him. Saying “I love you” to him right now isn’t what Magnus needs since he had begged Alec to believe him if he loved him, and he didn’t.

I hope something like that happens in the next ep. Not just Magnus opening up about his past but the whole body switch needs to have closure. This isn’t something we can just let go of. Magnus deserves it and so do we.

anonymous asked:

What happens if the missus is pushing and she's crying in pain, she's sweating, she's so miserable and tired, it's been almost two hours and still no baby but she's almost out but she's telling harry she can't do it anymore, how does he get her back into it and encourage her ?


He just holds her and whispers sweet things to her, gentle touches to her cheeks, squeezes to her hands. He’ll swipe a cool cloth over her face and neck, just small gestures to try and get her comfortable again. At that point, I don’t think she’d really be in the headspace for him to give her this huge, motivational spiel, you know? I think in that moment she just needs him to tell her that she’s okay and that he believes in her. It’s a lot of gentle reassurances and comforting. 

And if it gets to that point, they’ll usually switch to a position where she’s really letting Harry physically support her. He’ll tell her to hang on to him, that he’s got her and he’s there. He’ll tell her how well she’s doing, how close she really is, that he can see the baby, He’d wipe her tears away and kiss her forehead and tell her how proud he is of her and how well she’s done, and that it’s “Jus’ a bit more, baby. Just a little bit more, I promise. You’re so close. And then we get to snuggle ‘em, yeah?” xx.

inattentivecatlady  asked:

I dont know about anyone else but a big reason I tend to say 'like' or 'um' a lot is because I speak too fast, usually because I'm trying to get all my thoughts out before I forget or I dont want to seem slow, so I figured I'd remind people/give the advice to be conscious of how fast your speaking and dont be afraid to slow down and take your time, it really reduces the amount of times you say 'like' and 'um'!

Absolutely! “Like” and “um” are what’s called “placeholder words”: things we interject to give our thoughts and mouths a chance to sync up. I’ve read articles that say that people who do this a lot are actually more intelligent than people who don’t do it often, because their thoughts are just always going so much that they need the space to get the words out. So either way, it’s okay to say them and it’s okay to try and slow yourself down so you don’t say them.


anonymous asked:

Isak stealing Even's clothes (Like a hoodie) and wearing it around the apartment/in puplic/in school? I have read like 2 of those and I need mooooore please and thank you❤️

Hi, Lovely!

  • i could probably just curl up in you. by milominderbinder
    Isak is away at a cabin with the guys when he gets a text from Even. hey, babe, did you take my favourite hoodie?. He is, of course, outraged that Even would accuse him of such treachery. The fact that Isak is wearing the hoodie at that very moment has nothing to do with it.

  • i can feel the weather in my bones by EvenbechNeiheim
    Okay, and if those Penetrator hoodies were something—the Even sweater is the next big thing. The thing is, there’s a box of Penetrator hoodies. There’s only one Even and only one Even sweater. Or, Isak and Even are childhood friends. There’s a boyfriend sweater and Isak is just desperate to wear it. (Oh and it has nothing to do with sleeping with each other, they just don’t roll that way.)

Hope you enjoy!

Much Love,


anonymous asked:

i feel sad when you don't notice me :(

Okay I get messages like this sometimes and they make me a little uncomfortable and I’ll tell you why I am no one special.

I’m just an 18-year-old girl who is passionate about writing and a lot of other things, I’m not anyone who you need to treat differently to talk to, you don’t need to come to me and beg me to talk to you or notice you. Literally just dm me and start a conversation, talk to me about something you think we have in common. You don’t have to treat me as anything more than another person on this website. Being a writer doesn’t make me better than other people. So please don’t send me asks like this, just talk to me. Understand that sometimes I get busy and might not reply straight away, and there may be a big time difference between us but eventually, I will be able to talk to you. You don’t need to be all formal with me when you talk, if you see me talk about something you enjoy message me about it! Just talk to me like the regular person I am please!

Steven seems to be handling things better and better with every episode. He’s doing well under pressure, thinking on his feet, and succeeding. And he’s not doing perfectly, he is still just a kid. But definitely improvement since Cheeseburger Backpack.


You DO care!!!

“You didn’t come here to steal the pillow, you came here to protect us from it!”

“No shit, dumbass.”

Okay, so I didn’t catch that one either. It seems Lion felt that since Amethyst didn’t bubble the pillow, he needed to take matters into his own hands (paws). And he really does care for Steven, even if it’s just enough not to let him die. Still sweet.

he s c r e a m

{Okay but for reals though. Speaking of competition headcanons. I don’t think Leo would be a complete sore loser. Or at least show it publicly. While he can get invested in things like chess or heck even volleyball - losing just means he needs more practice. And depending on how invested he was in winning in the beginning is a good indicator of how he feels should he lose. 

So in the end - he’d just need to practice more. He’d find his faults in his loss and tries to correct them. Maybe the snide or passive aggressive comment to the winner now and again. But he’d never be so open about his loss.}

happy birthday to my special boy !!!!
it’s a hamster plush party

I really need some like, otayuri fluff in my life rn?? Like pls

•At the beach and Otabek cant swim so Yuri tries to teach him how to swim
•it turns into a giant mess tho because Yuri is apparently a really shitty teacher
•Otabek kisses his frustrations away and instead they make sand castles

•Otabek can draw?? What?? So Yuri lays down on the couch in the LEAST sexy pose and says “draw me like one of your french girls”
•Beka takes a whopping 5 minutes on it, coloring and all, and they laugh at it for 10 minutes
•Later when Yuri falls asleep during the movie at the other end of the couch, Otabek sneaks down and actually does a very nice portrait of Yuri asleep
•Yuri has them both framed in his apartment next to each other

•Yuri constantly buys shit for Beka because he has like no impluse control
•Guys this boy has like a $1,000 backpack okay dont talk to me
•Anyways one day he buys Beka this leather jacket that looks like it belongs in a Lady Gaga music video. Its a crop top jacket with studs and fringe EVERYWHERE and Yuri LOVES IT
•After mails it, like, a week later, Otabek posts a pic on instagram of him, leaning against his bike, in leather skinny jeans and the jacket with ray bands on and it goes like, viral over night. Yuri is s h o o k. Otabek texts him later like, “Oh, by the way, thanks for the jacket Babe”

Give me the boys being silly and stupid and in love p l e a s e

So, serious talk.

How is anyone supposed to both have a full time job and be a solo 1d fan?

Like… how?


Between Two Lungs by caramelle/caramelkru

Cassian doesn’t exactly mean to, but as he’s coming up from his bow, he sort of accidentally on purpose makes eye contact with the young Erso heiress.

Her glance merely passes over him, and her face remains perfectly and diplomatically blank.

And yet, somehow, he instantly feels like he’s already managed to offend her.

Amazing Regency/Pride & Prejudice AU one-shot! Read it on AO3.

@arabian-batboy said: Can you write something where Bruce comes across Jason in an alley after his resurrection but before Talia took him in & since he couldn’t talk at that time (& because he’s supposed to be dead) Bruce thinks it’s just a hallucination and just leaves him?

It had been a long time since Bruce was afraid of ghosts, mostly because they never left him alone. If this one seemed more real than usual, hey, it had been a rough day.

Always was, this time of year. 

April 27th. Bruce liked to think he was getting better— maybe some year he wouldn’t find himself lurking in Crime Alley on today, the anniversary of Jason’s death— but he wasn’t there yet.

It made sense. How was he supposed to forget Jason? That was what it would take, Bruce knew, to leave the guilt behind. Every time Jason crossed his mind, it all came crashing back: the grief and shame and pain in his chest. 

Flashbacks, sometimes. Hallucinations.

He wasn’t particularly surprised to see his dead son lying on the cobblestones. It was bound to happen today. 

Bruce took a deep breath. It was time for another hell ride through his own subconsciousness. What would it be this time?

Older, he thought— this Jason looked older, the age he would be if he had lived. That was normal; Bruce spent a lot of time imagining Jason alive and growing up. This Jason looked like he had been on the street for a long time, and Bruce could explain that too; they’d met on this spot when Jason was young and homeless. Of course he was remembering that day. 

Bruce blinked away the image of Jason, small and defiant, sprinting towards the mouth of the alley with his tire iron. Who hit the Batman with a tire iron? Jason did. Jason was…

Well, Jason was dead. Jason had been extraordinary— brave, bright, explosive, kind— but he was gone, and the illusion on the pavement was just that: an illusion. A memory. Bruce’s mind playing tricks.

The punishment he deserved. He could feel it beginning like it always did, his heartbeat pounding in his ears, his fingertips, his chest, rooting him to the stone underneath him until he couldn’t run— not that he should run. He hadn’t saved Jason. The least he could do was feel it.

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during the Justice League vs Suicide Squad event where amanda waller imprisoned the league implementing different types of restraining methods to dampen down their unique set of abilities, she costrained batman by securing him everywhere. and… okay. i get the hands/torso/legs restraints because that man is a living martial arts commercial but the thing is… the thing is she put a muzzle on his mouth that allowed him to fully move his head and freely talk. the only logical conclusion is that batman is known to bite his enemies when the need arises. it’s such a known fact that waller felt she had to keep it under serious consideration

i just imagine batman subdued and snapping his teeth and jaw at people around him like some kind of piranha of justice and. it’s too much

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