i just need to cry somewhere

when you are dating or in a relationship as a person diagnosed with bpd, it’s important to have safe words. im not talking about when in sexual situations (though that might be a neat idea too) but just for everyday-use. use a certain word when you are splitting or dissociating so your partner will be aware.

also when you are being triggered, either by your partner or something/someone else, a safe word is a great tool. especially when you are in a crowded place, so your partner can help you get somewhere quiet.

a safe word can also be needed when you are in a fight with your partner and one of you crosses a line. then you’ll be able to either apologize, stop the fight or take a “time out” - a few minutes apart to cool your heads.

you might also not need it at all, but i think it’s a good idea to have one, just for safety measures? idk, it has just saved me a lot of crying and maybe even a broken heart.

Ok but I need to scream about this some more.

After Stan has his memory wiped he is so calm and sweet and innocent. He’s like a big kid who’s just happy to tag along with these kind strangers who say they know him and want to help him remember who he is. At first I thought this was way out of character for the abrasive, loud and rude Grunkle Stan we know and love but then rewatching it I realize it’s the opposite. 

What we saw in these moments is Stan’s core. He has no facade, no need to be defensive or put up a front because he doesn’t remember all those things that made him want to put on a face in the first place. All that’s left is the core of who he is: which is a big old softie who is sweet and kind and eager to be loved. We can see this by how he treats Mabel, who in that moment is a stranger but he’s just happy to see such a happy face and immediately asks for her name and takes her hands into his because he doesn’t know who she is but he wants to know because he’s so open and kind.

It’s such a heartbreaking scene because he doesn’t remember his family but at the same time it gives us interesting insight to Stan’s true character and personality. 

One of the most real moments in that episode was when Yuuri felt better after crying.

Because honestly sometimes that’s all it is. Pent up emotion and pressure, it all has to go somewhere. Sometimes you cry from sadness, stress, the like. And often you cry to feel better. I have distinct memories of shedding tears and assuring whoever I’m with I’ll be fine once I get this out. And I do. It happened for Yuuri too. Sometimes you just need a good cry.

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Do you ever just feel the need to hug someone and confort them? Like, really just be there and hug them without saying anything cause words don’t really even matter? Because that’s what I feel hearing him talk about this with tears in his eyes.
Ah Taehyungie, he’s such a precious child and I hate to see him hurt like this. He had to still go on stage and be goofy and all while his heart was somewhere else. That is so sad and everyone who pointed out the fact that he wasn’t talking much lately or smiling much as well, this is it. This is why. He still tried FOR US even though he probably just wanted to be with his family in such a difficult time. 

almightysquid  asked:

I've always had his headcanon that Zuko has anxiety attacks that he tries to hide by running off and hiding somewhere, or just pretending aren't happening, but Katara is the only one who knows how to take care of him. She puts her hands on his face and breathes with him for as long as it takes and lets him cry and shout and she lets him be who he needs to be for a while.

I think it’s a wonderful headcanon (not the Zuko having panic attacks but still). I think their relationship already has that depth and with time it’d only grow and expand more. Katara touching his scar was just the beginning. 

Thanks for sharing!!!

How Dan/Phan Comes Out

dan will sigh into the camera as the opening shot with this look on his face like ‘i don’t want to do this, but i need to’, and then will calmly sit back down and purse his lips and think about words.

then it just all tumbles out of his mouth while he actively avoids looking at the camera, “i love you all, i do, but you really, really frustrate me. i mean, i never wanted to come out because that was my PRIVATE, PERSONAL LIFE but you all bloody figured it out anyway. i post one fucking picture somewhere and you all immediately know what the hell i’m doing, i feel like harry styles.”

(we’re all screaming and crying bc yes that’s us and also DAN JUST SAID THE WORDS ‘I’ AND ‘COME’ AND ‘OUT’ ALL IN THE SAME SENTENCE)

so he sighs again and looks at the camera. “do i even have to say it out loud, you’re probably all screaming it right now anyway-”

“he’s in love with meee!” phil suddenly runs into the room, jumping on the bed and tackling dan from behind bc he heard his ‘bffl’ debate coming out last night and decided to eavesdrop at the door.

dan is laughing all cute and shit like always at this point and nods with a small, “yes. i’m -insert sexuality here- and im not doing a bloody coming out story about all of my feelings, in case anyone’s asking. you’ve all known for so long now it doesn’t even matter.”

“well,” phil pops his head up, “at least you can tell everyone now that you might someday meet your idol and fall in love.”

other assorted things at the end but that went from possible reality to fanfiction real fast and i dont know how they’d wrap that up.

*crawling back from the abyss*

I SWEAR THIS SERIES IS SO UNDERRATED THERE ARE NOT ENOUGH FANARTS SFDHKJSDFHSJDF 

ME IS SAD

So I tried to draw the babies Seregil and Alec from somewhere between vol 4 and vol 5 ? When Seregil had cut his hair and Alec still had his braid

I’ve just finished reading vol 5 (not my fave I must admit) but now I’m crying cuz I know I’m reaching the end ;;;;;;;;;;;;

It is okay. It’s okay to be sad for no reason. It’s okay to not want help for something, you may want to be independent. It’s also okay to want help. You can want some help sometimes and if anyone has anything to say about that, screw them. They can leave their opinions somewhere with someone who will care. It’s okay to cry. Don’t let anyone tell you differently, sometimes you need a break or you just need to cry, let it out. Don’t hold back, its alright. Whoever calls you out for being sensitive, drop them. They don’t deserve you. It’s okay to what someone you can’t have. It will either go away in time, or you can try and try again and have the confidence and determination to get them, and soon you may. It’s okay to not want to be with someone anymore. Either its a friend or boyfriend, you don’t NEED to be around them or talk to them. You are allowed to surround yourself with people that actually care about you, and ones you care about.
—  Your feelings are valid

the walking dead bios (ू◠ᴗ◠✻ू)
like if you use please!!  
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  1. I ain’t nobody’s bitch [daryl]
  2. you’re ain’t somewhere else, you’re right here. trying [daryl] 
  3. the new world’s gonna need rick grimes  [abraham]
  4. you got some balls for a chinaman [daryl]
  5. I”m korean [glenn]
  6. without weapons we can die [carol]
  7. we are the walking dead [rick]
  8. the new world’s gonna need rdaryl dixon 
  9. don’t open dead inside  [hospital]
  10. don’t dead open inside 
  11. those who arrive survive [terminus]
  12. anger makes you stupid. stupid gets you killed [michonne]
  13. the pain doesn’t go away you just make room for it [andrea]
  14. the deal is done [rick]
  15. I don’t cry anymore [beth]
  16. welcome to the human race, asshole [tara]
  17. you look ridiculous [daryl]
  18. how many walkers have you killed? how many people have you killed? why? [rick]
  19. the only thing you can choose is what you’re risking it for [hershel]
  20. daryl: “stay safe” carol: “nine lives, remember?”
  21. little ass kicker [daryl]
  22. …she didn’t try to find her way back, sophia died a long time ago [carol]
  23. the word of God is the only protection I need [gabriel]
  24. we tell ourselves that we are the walking dead [rick]
  25. you can lose a lot of soldiers but still win the game [the governor] 
  26. life is always a test [hershel]
  27. If you don’t have hope, what’s the point of living? [beth]
  28. people are gonna die. there’s no way you can ever be ready for it [rick]
  29. don’t look back, carl [rick]
  30. i may be the one walking away, but you’re the one that’s leaving [daryl]

symbols?!

.¸¸.*♡*.¸ ¸.*☆*¸.*♡*.¸ ¸.*☆*.¸ ¸.*♡*.¸¸.*☆*
(◕‿◕✿) 。(◕‿◕)。 ⊱(◕‿◕✿)⊰ (◡‿◡✿) (◕ ω ◕✿) ( ͡ʘ ͜ʖ ͡ʘ) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) (๏̯͡๏)      
† ✞ ✝ ▲ ▼ △ ▽ ↥ ↦ ↧ ➟ ➡ ➢ ➣ ➤ ➥ ➦ ➧ ➨ ➚ ➘ ➙ ➛ ➜ ➝ ➞ ➸♐ ➲ ➳ ➳ ➴ ➵ ➶ ➷ ➸ ➹ ➺ ➻ ➼ ➽❝ ❞ ✥ ✦ ✧ ✩ ✫ ✬ ✭ ✮ ✯ ✰ ✱ ✲ ✳ ❃ ❂ ❁ ❀ ✿ ✾ ✽♆ ✼ ✻ ✺ ✹ ✸ ✷ ₪ ❃ ❂ ❁ ❀ ✿ ✾ ✽ ✼ ✻ ✺ ✹ ✸ ✷✶ ✵ ✴ ❄ ❅ ❆ ❇ ❈ ❉ ❊ ❋ ❖ ✗✘✚ ✪ ✣ ✤ ✥ ☠ ❤ ❥ ❦ ∴ △ ∞ ☆ ★ ✖ ✐ ✎ ✏ ☚ ☛ ☜ ☝ ☞ ☟ ✌

Dean never expected that he’d crack first.

Neither did Cas, he thinks. Nor Sam. Everybody assumed that if somebody were going to make the first move, it would be Cas.

He was, of course, well aware of the fact that he and Cas had somewhere along the line over-stepped the boundaries of “just friends.” He doesn’t know if it was “I need you” or “I’m not leaving here without you,” if it was “cursed or not” or “a more profound bond.” Hell, it could have been “don’t ever change.” Or maybe even “I was getting too close to the humans in my charge.”

The point is, Dean doesn’t know.

Not that it matters. It feels like forever that he’s been living with a permanent ache in his chest, that he’s kept the other side of the bed cold and open, that his brother has been giving him these looks like he’s eggshell thin, like “fragile; handle with care” has been smacked right across his forehead.

Sometimes, though, the ache abides. Sometimes he’s consumed with a happiness he’s never known, sometimes he feels like he’s floating, sometimes Cas looks at him like he’s something beautiful and his heart squeezes in his chest and he thinks to himself, hey, maybe being in love isn’t actually a death sentence.

This isn’t one of those nights.

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We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together

Anonymous said:

Hey! Can I have a Peter Pan imagine based by the song ‘We Are Never getting Back Together’ by Taylor Swift? Thank you have a graet day!

Warning/s: sad

Requested

Summary: you break up for good

Character: Peter Pan

“I need a break. WE need a break.” Pan pointed at you then to himself.

“No, Peter. We can work this out. We always do!” you tried changing his mind but he’s too stubborn so you tried a different way,

“If you walk away from me now” you took a deep breath before continuing,

“I won’t take you back like I always do” you sighed, resisting the urge to cry.

Pan ignored your statement and said “I just need a break” before disappearing into thin air.

That was a month ago. You ignored each other after the break up. You avoided him while he busies himself away from you. When you need to work somewhere near him, he will rudely walk away. Not that you did mind it. He was giving you a reason to hate him even more by being a dickhead. Your feelings of hatred towards him changed though. It changed when he walked over to you with a sly smile. He stopped in front of you and grinned.

“Hey love” he greeted. You raised an eyebrow in response.

“I think I’m ready now” he smiled, reaching for your right hand which you jerked away.

“Ready for what?” you asked through gritted teeth.

“Getting back together, of course.” He said it like it was the most obvious thing.

“I didn’t know we were getting back together.” You chuckled bitterly.

Pan frowned at you. “Of course we are!” He cheered.

“Keep telling yourself that” you laughed at him and turned around to walk away. However, he grab a hold of your wrist and pulled you towards him.

“What’s wrong? Don’t you have feelings for me anymore?” he asked.

You pushed him away harshly.

“My feelings for you disappeared a long time ago when you walked away from me. I’m tired of being the only one who tries in this relationship. It’s over. We’re never getting back together. Ever.” You walked away, leaving a devastated Pan.

Your feelings for him DID change. It changed for the worse.

note: an old request. there’s more but i have lots of work to do. this one is short cuz im v lousy lloooll.. more(one) to come tho.

Wow

What if sometimes after Sirius had gotten into another fight with his mom he would go to Remus

R e m u s
Lupin
Remus Lupin
rE MUs LuPIN
M o o n y
REMUS JOHN FUCKING LUPIN

• Sirius showing up at his door crying because ‘why can’t she just love me like she loves regulus? I’m her son too.“
"I know pads, I know.”

• Remus’ parents not caring because they knew his relationship with his mother and they knew he needed somewhere to stay where he felt loved and happy and safe

• Remus taking his best friend up to his room so he could cry in peace without having to feel embarrassed

• the two staying up as late as it took to calm Sirius down and keep his mind off it

• Remus waking up the next morning to find Sirius curled in a ball next to him with his eyes red and irritated, but he still thought he was the most perfect thing

• when Sirius wakes up, he finds Remus staring at him and he feels warm and fuzzy inside

• the two just sitting there in each other’s arms for who knows how long, not talking or anything. Just sitting. And it was nice

• they finally crawl out of bed and go to get food because 'damn, pads when was the last time you ate?’

• Remus made Sirius as much food as he could within the time span of an hour and he made sure that his small friend ate it all

• 'thank you, Moons, for everything. I’d probably be still crying if it weren’t for you.’
'You know it’s no big deal, now shut up and eat before I feed you myself.’

• both boys playing stupid card games and board games throughout the day because why not we know Sirius wasn’t going home anytime soon

• the whole family settling down for dinner and Remus’ parents making sure Sirius was alright and saying he could stay as long as he liked

• Sirius politely declining because he doesn’t want to be a bother

• all of the Lupin’s insisting he stay until he wants to go back home, even though they know he never wants to go back to that hell

• when Sirius finally goes to leave, Remus gave in and wouldn’t let him step out the door without giving him a kiss goodbye

• Sirius walking home happier than he’d been in years

Bye for now

I know i already made this post about taking a break after what happened to my nana but i stuck around. Reason being there’s a lot about me that I don’t tell people. One of those things is i have too much pride and i do not like to appear weak. I’ve pretended that i’m fine, but i am so far from it. I don’t cry, I don’t show any emotion but last night i did. I cried for my nana, and i cried for my dog, i sat with my dogs casket on my knee and cried for over an hour, about him, about my nana and everything else in my life that’s left me or gone wrong. I do not expect sympathy, tbh I don’t want it. I just needed to get this out. Express my feeling’s somewhere where no one really knows me. I like to pretend i’m strong but i’m not. I’m far from it.
Everyone, look after yourselves and each other. Idk if or when i’ll be back. I don’t really know what i’m doing anymore.

anonymous asked:

ive spent 2 days in like depressive haze and i just tried to get up and leave but i cant find my keys ive looked for them everywhere and like tore apart my room theyll probably turn up but i cant stop crying like it was hard getting dressed and now i cant even leave plus im lowkey terrified ive left them somewhere and someones taken them. This is kind of messy sorry i just feel really hopeless and upset and needed to tell someone.

:(( i’m really sorry you’re dealing with this right now, sounds like it’s A Lot and i hope u find your keys xx

My parents are seriously thinking of taking Fennel away and it’s hard for me to think of or draw anything else..

I’m so sorry, baby girl