i just love this interview

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It’s strange to think that somehow ambition or drive is the only way to continue reinventing your freshness. It’s not passive- it’s a very strong position to be in.

…but they bump heads like anyone. Don’t you ever bump heads with your friends? But they always come back to, you know, a place of mutual respect of each other.
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Katie McGrath 

And with this single sentence, the rare lesser striped cryptid McGrath has awoke from hibernation to pinpoint the largest difference between Kara and Lena’s dynamic and Kara and Mon-El’s. Yeah, they may fight or have differing opinions sometimes, but Lena and Kara’s mutual respect allows them to see things from the other perspective and resolve their issues together. 
Kara and Mon-nom however, don’t have the mutual respect because Mon-ew doesn’t respect her. He invalidates her career, degrades her in public and even trespasses into Kara’s own home because he lacks the capacity to respect Kara, or any woman for that matter. It’s why he left that girl he’d slept with on Daxam to die, how he could manipulate Eve without giving it a second thought, why he announced their relationship status at the DEO after Kara asked him not to, and why he moved on .2 seconds after Kara said she wasn’t interested. After all, “things were easier on Daxam where I objectified women and didn’t care about anyone.”

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Gael García Bernal photographed by Javier Salas for Vanity Fair Mx (Oct 2017)

¿Estuvo suave no? (Risas). Fue así, tal cual. Minutos antes le comenté a Hailee Stenfield lo que quería hacer. Había revisado el guion de los Oscar, ya no estaba tan nervioso, porque si no, te paralizas. Hay ciento ochenta millones de personas viendo esto. Ahí nace la responsabilidad de querer decir algo. Al invitarme para presentar, sabían que algo iba a suceder.” —sobre su momento en los Oscar