i just love them so much you don't understand


I still can’t believe that these two dorks imported from Transformers Prime are the 2nd pair of canon robots husbands in the IDW comics. They aren’t just window dressing either! There’s a story behind the vain, high speed racer that married a guy who is considered inferior by his whole culture. I want to see it play out so badly!

Knockout and Breakdown are precious and deserve all the love. 

anonymous asked:

do you ever think about how when even was manic he said 'we're so going to get married' and then when he was depressed he said 'in another universe we're together for all eternity' and cry

I cry more about what that turned into actually??? They started off talking on such a grand scale, “man of my life” and “married” and “eternity”, and while that might be romantic… I feel like that didn’t serve Even particularly well? If you’re living life as a film, you might make the big gesture and let the curtain fall. If you’re living life thinking of all the parallel universes, you can comfort yourself that one of them is getting it ‘right’. What I really loved about season three was that it wasn’t too precious about anything, Isak and Even enjoyed all the talk about the infinite and du er mannen i mitt liv but it wasn’t what ended up actually meaning the most to them. 

What wound up being the most important thing was you and me and this bed and now. And then ‘move in with me because I want you and your dirty socks and your elbow next to mine on the kitchen table’. The everyday, every day. The “now” means more to me than any hypothetical forever and they’re giving everything they could right at this minute. That’s what gets me more than anything with them, seeing them take such good care of each other because they aren’t counting on anything else. Because life is

deliciouslyjollydragon  asked:

I absolutely love your redesigns but I feel the nee to ask this. I notice that your art style for this seems less like imagining them new and more like ancient carvings. I haven't seen much other art of yours so I don't know, but is this style just for the redesigns or is it your main art style?

Thank you so much, I’m happy you enjoy my work, but I find your question a tad strange. 

If I understand your meaning correctly, then yes, this is my main art style but I am also re-imagining them. I don’t really think the two are mutually exclusive. 

I mean, it would be kind of an interesting challenge for myself to try draw more akin to the original Pokemon style if that’s what you’re getting at. I don’t think other people would have found that as interesting though, and I think the Pokemon Redesigns might feel stiffer overall, because I’d be working in a way I’m not entirely familiar with until like, many drawings down the line.

To illustrate my point better here’s Articuno in my style:

And heres my re-imagining of Articuno:

So hopefully that shows you there is a difference. c:

miyakokurono  asked:

Hey I really love your headcannons and reactions. So I was wondering if I could get a request for how Seven and Zen would react to their MC having a existential crisis and stress breakdown that resulted in shouting and angry tears (not at them but just in general) due to over working and the fact that she tends to bottle things up until it gets to much for her to handle. (I have a tendency to do this quite a bit.)_ I understand if you don't want to answer this but thank you anyways ☺

i’m so glad you like my headcanons but oh man, you should remember to take breaks and talk to people if you are stressed :) i know it’s probably not going to convince you by a stranger saying that, but remember that my ask box is always open if you feel the need to rant to someone ❤

i wrote some short headcanons here about all the babes reacting to a stressed/overworked MC, maybe that will help slightly? it was therapeutic to write, at least  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


  • As he wasn’t exactly the most hard working student in his younger days because he found paper work boring, he had just made sure to give you space and silence to finish your work as he didn’t feel like he had much to contribute with
  • He had just arrived from a late night run, and after his shower he decided to check on you to see if you were finished soon, so you could head to bed together
  • When he walked towards the office where you were working, he heard soft sobs and sped up, worried and wondering why you were crying
  • “Princess? What’s wrong?”
  • You were stressed, tired, lonely and just feeling like utter crap
  • “I have barely seen you for days, and I miss you! You’ve been so busy and I’m scared you won’t have time for me anymore! I don’t have time to finish all this work! I hate myself for putting it off for so long, I hate it! Why do I even need to finish it, when it’s all pointless in the end anyways? We are all going to die one day, why do we exist in the first place?!”
  • Suprised by your outburst, Zen hugged you tightly and let you cry in his arms
  • “I’m so sorry babe, I should’ve asked you what you wanted instead of just leaving you alone. As to answer your question why we excist… Well, why do you want to exist?”
  • When you didn’t answer, he kissed your head and rubbed your back soothingly
  • “The reasons why I want to, is to love and be loved. To prove those who doubted me wrong, to find reasons to stay, to make people happy while I’m here. But most of all, I want to take care of you and make you happy. Do we need any other reasons than that?”
  • You sniffled and muttered “I guess not…” into his chest, and he picked you up gently and carried you to bed
  • “You are obviously too exhausted to keep working, just rest for tonight, at least. Next time you’re doubting yourself or anything else, just talk to me, okay? I hate seeing my princess like this”


  • Seven was being tsundere again and ignoring you, and instead of confronting him you just burried yourself in work
  • Several days passed by without you seeing your boyfriend even once, and the hurt combined with your stress and lack of sleep made you think
  • Was he even your boyfriend anymore? Had he ever been? He was a genius, maybe he had just made a hologram with a nice persona to keep you company? Was he even real? Were you real?
  • Looking hopelessly down at all the work you had done, you the tears started falling. Why did you even bother? Who cared anyways? 
  • Getting mad, you started scolding yourself, gradually letting go of all the fears and emotions you had built up for so long
  • What you didn’t know was that Seven was checking you on the CCTV right then, and when he heard you breaking down and practically yelling, he dropped his “not good enough for you” act and went to you
  • “MC, come here please”
  • Before you could even answer, he took your hand and led you to the roof of the bunker, where he sat down and pulled you into his lap
  • “I know I’m a shitty person and that I’m probably the last person you want to talk to, but please tell me what’s wrong”
  • The fresh air, the sight of the night sky and the feeling of his arms around you calmed you down slightly, but you didn’t know where to start so you just asked him if this was all real
  • “Is anything real, MC? Do we have proof of anything? We could all literally be video game characters in a game played by God, and we wouldn’t even know. But I think that if we knew everything, life would be way too sad for me. I think that part of the charm of being alive is that we are able to think and accept things as you see them, without it neccesarily being real. We don’t really need a reason to exist, we just need a reason to wake up every morning”
  • He looked hesitantely at you, and you could see his golden eyes glow in the moonlight
  • “You probably won’t believe me and that’s fine, just please don’t laugh or hate me… I kind of think that you’re my reason”
  • You felt a smile grow as you played with his fingers, still intertwined with yours
  • “If you want my honest opinion thought, I think you should just take every thing as they come, and accept them as real if you feel like they are. YOLO, isn’t that what the kids say these days?”
  • He smiled softly and nudged your shoulder, making you laugh
  • “I guess it is. Are you really living by that?”
  • Shrugging, he leaned in and kissed you
  • “I think I will from now on”


anonymous asked:

Unpopular opinion: I honestly don't understand why people hate rika so much? Actually, what I don't understand is the sentiment "rika's mental illness doesn't excuse her actions yet at the same time v was just blinded by love which totally justifies his dishonesty and aiding rika in her crimes" it really seems to me that they both carry a lot of the blame for mint eye's tragedies. (TBH I didn't understand about 87% of secret end 1 so if you have differing opinions from me I'd LOVE to hear them)

strongly agree | agree | neutral | disagree | strongly disagree | ALT OPTION: let me attempt to explain,

people hate rika because she’s a terrible person. she’s abusive and manipulative, and started a cult where she brainwashed and drugged people. i’d say those are some solid reasons to hate someone. of course, if you wanna like her as a character, as the villain that she is, then by all means. go ahead.

what rika did and what v did aren’t comparable. rika did all those horrible things with ill intentions, and she knew what she was doing. (not saying that you’re saying this but) i’m extremely tired of people saying stuff like “she had good intentions! she just lost her way!” like….no. someone with good intentions doesn’t make a charity group that’s pretty much a cover up for her cult and an easy way to recruit people. nor do they drug and brainwash an innocent child. and they definitely don’t abuse, manipulate, and gaslight their s/o. people like to talk about how v takes the blame for everything and solve everything on his own and how he’s bad for that, but fail to mention the things that rika has implanted into his mind to make him think that way. like “not even god can save me, but you can.” do you understand how much of a serious thing that is to say, especially for rika who was very religious? that’s an extremely heavy burden for v to carry on his shoulders. if anything goes wrong with her, he’s gonna blame himself and try to fix it himself, since he thinks it’s his fault. and that’s exactly what he does, till his very last moment.

now while v didn’t execute everything in the best way, he always had good intentions. he wanted the rfa to be safe from mint eye and for rika to get better.

the only one to blame for the mint eye stuff is rika. it’s her cult that she created years ago where she brainwashed people into believing in a certain idea (and that v was the baddie to blame for it all). when rika gently tried to push the idea onto v, he shot her down and claimed that it was like a dictatorship. v couldn’t have aided rika with those things because he didn’t even know where she was/what she was doing iirc, according to the deep story bad end. and as we see in se01, he begs for her to not hurt anymore innocent people and to hurt him instead. so this is definitely not something he approves of.

i think i touched on everything? sorry if i missed anything but i hope this clears it up for you.

anonymous asked:

Sense the SDCC thing, I've been seeing a lot of art and fics that are dragging Kara/Supergirl. Like I get that some people are upset at the actors but the characters have nothing to do with any of this. I started watching the show because I read the comics when I was a kid, I just loved Supergirl as a hero. It's really kind of upsetting. They're treating a character like shit because they don't like something the person who portrays them did.

So this is a long dissection of the current Supergirl fan behavior, but if you’ve been wondering what the hell is going on, you might be interested in reading these concepts.

I understand why you’re upset. I am too, because Kara is such a wonderful character. I don’t think I’ve ever liked a character as much as her.

But there are two things you should realize when seeing this:

1. They never really cared about Kara to being with. Your loved Kara-focused content isn’t changing or leaving, because these people were not making the Kara content. They were likely initially making Supercorp Lena-focused content.

2. It’s not even about her.

I think what a lot of people who are newly joining this SDCC homophobia discussion are missing is that a lot of the most vicious backlash is not from people who are uniquely upset over this issue (though there are certainly people who are- and understandably) but from people who have had consistently overzealous reactions of hate toward actors and characters alike, save their fave (pretty much Katie Mcgrath/Lena Luthor).

On tumblr, and very noticeably in this fandom, there are sections of fans who seem to genuinely enjoy hating things. It’s a sport.

They’re having fun sending the most hurtful things they can think of to actors, and are the quickest to begin making vicious memes and jokes surrounding a negative event, before there has been a consensus within the community of how bad the “sin” was.

The “punishment” begins before the jury is out, and trying to defend those in the situation feels like trying to put a bullet back into a gun after it’s been fired. 

(Maybe it’s more like stepping in front of a bullet, because once these few have decided that the target is guilty, they won’t stop, and anyone who disagrees with them is guilty, too. Blogs and actors alike.)

This is partially why my discussion of the SDCC event had a “are they homophobic” slant (other then that I believe the nature of the event itself- if it was homophobic- hinges on the feeling behind the words, unlike most other instances of homophobia. It’s complicated and some people understandably disagree so far, but it’s really how I see it and I’ll be talking more about it a little later in different posts).

People started calling Melissa and Jeremy homophobic right away. Started targeting Kara as a character. Started “spite shipping” Lena and Reign. 

Or alternative to these options- immediately fan re-casted Kara as someone else to still be able to ship Supercorp. 

From where I stand, if you can so easily let go of this characterization of Kara, you never really cared about her as a character to begin with. If you don’t know that this was The™ person to play Kara Danvers, you’re likely more invested in the role she plays for Lena than for her as herself. 

And regardless of gender, I am uninterested in ships in which one character exists for the sake of another. (Lena existing purely for the sake of Kara’s development squicks me, too)

Recasting a woc as Kara doesn’t sit well with me either, for that reason. It’s a similar concept to how Maggie must exist as her own complex and valued person, apart from Alex, because she is a character of color.

I can’t really read the minds of these people, and I guess I could be wrong, but it’s hard for me to imagine actual Kara fans recasting her in this way.

Essentially, a lot of these people, or at least a very vocal minority, are so quick to accept that something horrible has happened because they want an excuse to hate them. 

They like it. 

Maybe it’s because they’re upset with the way society is and want someone to suffer for it. Maybe it’s because they have unresolved anger in their lives. 

But as it stands, it appears as if these people are using moral rightness and social activism as an excuse to be as mean as they want.

And like @youngbloodbuzz said in the link above, you start to look at their past behaviors in a new light. Were they genuinely upset at characters? Actors? Did they really feel like a travesty was occurring? That someone needed protecting?

Or were they just looking for reasons to call someone a “stupid cunt”?

It’s like they’re genuinely thinking, “It’s okay for me to make fun of someone’s physical appearance, call them intense names, make memes about how horrible they are innately, and send them death threats because they said something problematic once that a lot of people will hear.”

Sometimes they’ll call it “coping”, and maybe some people truly believe that makes it okay. But coping mechanisms are not above reproach.

If I hurt someone because I’m upset about something- even if I hurt someone because they did something wrong- it doesn’t erase the fact that I hurt them. We are still responsible to how we react to bad situations. We are still responsible for not reacting in an overly inflated way. 

Sometimes people will focus on how those that they’re attacking have more of a responsibility to be good people. That they are but mere bloggers, screaming into the void. They can’t possibly be accountable for how they behave. 

“I’m tired of talking about how bad the fans are, we should be focusing on what they did wrong!”

It creates an atmosphere in which an honest mistake from a well known person is much more crucifiable than the purposeful cruelty of the fans. We’re discouraged from criticizing popular blogs because the person they’re attacking has a wider audience and larger consequences for mistakes, as if popular bloggers don’t reach and influence thousands of people and as if we aren’t allowed to shape the way our own community functions.

Meanwhile, people who genuinely value morality and social activism fall prey to this thinking. They’ll even join in on the action, because they think it’s a moral act. 

Rebellion, somehow. Righteous fire. 

It’s a twisted mindset that spreads because people are afraid to be on the wrong side of morality.

Even people who really think the reaction is “too far” are quiet about it because they agree with the fact that what the offending celebrity did was wrong, and see that the level of vitriol for them now is overwhelming.

This is how I imagine that people who believe Melissa and Jeremy’s words to be homophobic but who do not think a couple of mistakes makes someone pure evil are relating to the current tumblr dialogue: 

“Wow this thing was homophobic!”

“Huh, yeah, I agree. Maybe not intentionally, but yeah.”

“That means this person is homophobic!”

“Uh, well, not sure I’d go that far-”

“Oh and look at this other somewhat problematic thing they did a while ago”

“Hmm well that’s bad, but not everyone outside of social activism gets that that’s a bad thing, so I can see-”

“Wow did you hear that this person also has an opinion about the show that I disagree with! What the fuck is wrong with them?”

“Oh. Well I actually agree with them in that situation but-”

“Omg they think that their character is like this! Do they know them at all??? What kind of terrible actor doesn’t know their character?”

“Well that’s a pretty common way that people are reading this character. Just because you-”

“Here’s some conjecture about their personal life that I imagine happened that paints them in a bad light.”

“Well, you don’t know that, but either way you shouldn’t be diving into their personal-”

“Oh and here’s a totally real story from an anon about someone they know who knew this person in the past and says they were a jerk at this one point-”

And it becomes too much. If you don’t really love the actor, really love their character, you either extract yourself from the group or you ignore the opinions you disagree with. 

It becomes quite clear that these people want to feel this way and won’t be changing any time soon.

And the more there seems to be a consensus about the issue, the less willing people are to speak out, for fear of rejection.

The Spiral of Silence theory is a good way to explain it:

To avoid isolation, people tend to refrain from publicly stating their views on controversial matters when they perceive that doing so would attract criticism, scorn, laughter, or other signs of disapproval. 

Conversely, those who sense that their opinions will meet with approval tend to voice them fearlessly and at times vociferously. 

Indeed, speaking out in such a way tends to enhance the threat of isolation faced by supporters of the opposing position, reinforcing their sense of being alone. 

Thus a spiraling process begins, the dominant camp becoming ever louder and more self-confident while the other camp becomes increasingly silent.

Importantly, the spiral of silence occurs only in connection with controversial issues that have a strong moral component. What triggers a person’s fear of isolation is the belief that others will consider him or her not merely mistaken but morally bad. Accordingly, issues that lack a moral component or on which there is general consensus leave no room for a spiral of silence.

Additionally, I believe that if someone does speak out against the (perceived) majority, it is most likely to be someone who is very strongly opposing of it.

A person who believes “It isn’t homophobic at all! They are innocent!” is more likely to voice their disagreements than “Okay I agree with your assessment of the situation but I think maybe we’re being too harsh…”

So the “minority”- who could technically very well be the quiet majority (people with middle-ground opinions just don’t get as many followers)- stays quiet. 

They might even change their minds to agree with the “majority”, over time. 

Believing that the mindset of the group that you belong to is wrong is psychologically uncomfortable, so it is not uncommon for someone to try to adjust their thinking to fit those they feel connected to.

So, eventually, the only people who are speaking at all are those “majorities” who hate these people. Or those who act like they do for notes.

And then this thinking escalates amongst those still talking about it (remember: because it’s fun for them and they want to milk it for as long as possible) and it quickly translates to hating their character, once they’ve temporarily run out of material to be angry with the actor for.

So, back to your concern, how long until, “it’s hard to look at Melissa as Kara right now, because of how I fear she might feel about gay people” becomes something like “Mon-El is abusive, but Kara can choke so whatever” ?

(And on that note, one should consider how much they really wanted to protect Kara Danvers’ characterization from Mon-El’s influence, and how much was just a part of their hate-hobby.)

Maybe it won’t go that far. I hope it doesn’t. I hope people come to their senses about this.

But it’s escalated even since yesterday, when I started making this post. The language being used to describe Melissa when she is speaking normally, about normal things that some people have a difference of opinion on, is abhorrent. 

So if you’re just trying to enjoy fandom in a peaceful and creative way, I encourage you to watch how the people you interact with react when something negative happens.

Are they disheartened? Crushed? Are they considering leaving the show and it’s fandom? Writing serious essays about how they’re hurt?

…Or do they come alive?

Are they incredibly angry, and then making jokes immediately? Memes and edits and creative content more so than they do on a peaceful day? Do you get the sense that they aren’t going anywhere, for a long time, even though they don’t seem to enjoy anything about the show?

Then you might be better off unfollowing them.

Of course, not everyone who makes a joke about negative things is thus enjoying it. It makes people feel better to make light of situations as well as to express anger, and doing so doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re drama-seeking.

And sometimes people slip into the mob more than they would like to have, retrospectively. Say cruel things that they regret later. 

It happens, and tumblr can be a persuasive and pervasive place. 

If you follow someone who initially reblogs some slightly overly hateful things, but who then backs off after the first wave, they probably aren’t the kind of person who is fueled by anger. 

I’ve seen a lot of people I considered to be level-headed get wrapped up in overly aggressive, black and white thinking during the initial reaction to events.

But then sometimes, a couple of weeks later, they’ll post a tentative “Anyone else still wanna kinda like this thing, even though we said it was bad before?” and they’ll get enough approval via reblogs to feel like it’s okay to go back to normal.

Some blogs quietly sort themselves out, in the end.

And if you’re one of those people who goes overboard occasionally, I get it. 

You’re hurt and you didn’t realize that the basis for the fan reaction that you were involved in was morally shallow. That the people you were supporting were not righteously furious, but using righteousness as an excuse to be furious.

But remember the message here: people make mistakes. It’s the patterns that really tell you who they are.

And I think we can be better. Have better patterns, as a group.

In the end, I encourage you to point out when a reaction is too harsh, toward anyone. Even if it’s difficult. Even if you agree that what the person did was pretty bad.

Agreeing that “black and white thinking” is bad can feel like you’re lowering your standards for morality. But I promise, you can still value the things that you value and loathe the things that go against it, without condemning someone’s entire personhood based on a mistake or a handful of mistakes regarding those things.

Even big mistakes.

People are complicated. We are all made up of really good things and really bad things.

It’s easy to believe that someone is wholly bad when they screw up.

The hard part, the part that will ultimately ground you and help you mature, is realizing that someone can have some really bad parts within them and still be good people. (I encourage you to remember that when thinking about yourself, as well.)

The trick is recognizing the difference between when people are making honest mistakes that unintentionally hurt people, and when they’re willfully behaving a certain way because they want to hurt people (or don’t care that they will). 

And further, between when people are lashing out because they’re hurt and when people are inventing hurt to be able to lash out.

These distinctions will help you realize who you can guide or trust to work their issues out on their own when they slip up, and who you should distance yourself from.

Some very vocal portions of the fandom are, unfortunately, the latter.

  • Yang: ... *Yang was frowning annoyingly with each blink turning her eyes red for a second.*
  • Blake: Come on Yang. Cheer up. We are just going to spend sometime with my mom and dad before we go out tonight for our Valentine's date.
  • Yang: ... yeah. *Yang grumbled.*
  • Blake: *Blake looked at her girlfriend with worry as she places a hand on her shoulder.* I don't understand why you are so upset. You love my parents and they love you. You are normally rushing me to embarrass me with how much you love me.
  • Yang: *At this Yang's frown turned upside into a small smile as she wrapped her hand around Blake's wraist to pull her closer and give her a kiss on the cheek.* I know Blake. I know. I am excited for our date tonight and to see your parents. It's just...
  • Blake: What?
  • Yang: Sigh. It's just *Yang then pointed her robotic finger towards the person walking besides them.* Why did you have to invite HER with us?
  • Raven: I've have been wondering that myself. *Raven said with an emotionless expression.*
  • Blake: Well the two of you have been at each others throats ever since your little talk about the maiden and think that during our time here when I'm with my parents you two can talk over your issue... In the dessert areas... where there aren't any buildings to destroy.
  • Yang: That was her fault!
  • Raven: You were the one who went through the wall.
  • Yang: BECAUSE YOU THROW ME THROW IT YOU PSYCHO BITCH! OW! *Yang growled as she rubbed her head.*
  • Raven: *Raven Frowned at her daughter as she placed her sheathed sword back on her side.* This Psycho bitch is still your mother so watch what you say. *the mother and daughter then glared at each other before Blake quickly moved between them and pulled them to the front door of her home.*
  • Blake: Aaaaand we are here. Thank god. *Blake muttered under her breath with relief, knocking on the door.*
  • Kali: Hello? Oh! Blake honey. *Kali greeted happily as she swung open the door and pulled her daughter into a hug.* It's so good to see you.
  • Blake: Hey mom. It's good to see you too. *She smiled returning the hug, in the back of her mind wish Yang and Raven could have the same relationship.*
  • Yang: Hey Mrs. Belladonna. *Yang smiled setting down her bags as she held out her arms after Kali and Blake finished their hug*
  • Kali: Hahaha. Oh Yang. You know you don't have to be so formal. *Kali laughed giving Yang a hug.* You can call me Kali or mom since you will be after you two's wedding.
  • Blake: MOM! *Blake blushed.*
  • Yang: Oh Speaking of moms. Kali, meet my birth mothe-
  • Kali: Raven. *Kali interrupted staring at the dark haired woman in shock as Raven looked surprised herself.*
  • Ghira: Honey? How is at the door? Is Blake and... Yang... here? *Ghira said as she appeared from the door only to trail off upon seeing Raven.*
  • Raven: Hello Kali... Ghira...
  • Blake: *Blake and Yang looked between their parents and then at eachother when Blake speaked forward and pointed between them.* You three... Know each other?
  • Ghira: You could say that. *Ghira frowned crossing his arms.*
  • Kali: W-why don't we take your bags to your rooms? Come a long dear. *Kali said with a nervous smile and blush as she quickly took Yang and Blake's bag and headed inside dragging Ghira along.*
  • Blake: That... is the first time I ever seen my mom being... bashful.
  • Yang: Okay. What the hell did you do? *Yang questions slightly glaring at her mom.*
  • Raven: *Raven meanwhile seemed to have been staring at Kali as she walked away before taking a deep breath and patting Yang's back.* Well, now I see that we have the same taste when it comes to pussy cats. *With that Raven then headed inside with a smirk on her lips.*
  • Yang: ...
  • Blake: ...
  • Yang: ... Blake?
  • Blake: Yes Yang?
  • Yang: ... Just to clarify... You don't think that my mom... and your mom...
  • Blake: I really don't want or ever want to know.
  • Yang: Oh god.
  • Blake: What?
  • Yang: Now when your mom told me that I reminded her of a girl she meet makes sense now it the most disturbing way.
  • Blake: Same for why my dad has so many empty birdcages around the house.
  • *Both girls shivered trying to forget the fact they have just learned they their mothers were only them.*

do u ever hate ur ex-fp so much that you want them to suffer and feel pain for what they did to you and the thought of them being happy makes you seethe because you did so so much for them and you poured your heart out for them and they just dumped you on the streets for someone else and you can’t ever forgive them no matter how hard you try and u really don’t want to

how to make the signs happy
  • aries: do all their favorite things, go shopping, tanning, working out, just get them out of their house and do something fun
  • taurus: give them a soft blanket and wrap them up in it and hug them and tell them you're there for them
  • gemini: offer to take them somewhere, be open with them, let them tell you all of their stories
  • cancer: be nice to them, fully reciprocate all the love they show you
  • leo: let them talk, listen to them and show them you actually care about what they're saying
  • virgo: make them let their hair down, bring them outside and let them breathe in fresh air, sit them down and tell them everything's going to be alright
  • libra: give back. believe it or not, they give you a lot even if you don't see it so just do little things back and I promise it'll make their entire day
  • scorpio: hug them, show them you love them in your own way whether its sarcastic banter or little gifts just let them know you care
  • sagittarius: go on a mini adventure, tell them how much they mean to you, understand and support their feelings
  • capricorn: tell them to take a break, tell them they're doing an amazing job and everything they do is important, tell them they're important
  • aquarius: give them some good music, a good book, or their favorite whatever, tell them jokes, make them smile, sit with them and make them feel comforted
  • pisces: make a pillow fort, show them affection, make them feel loved and comforted

anonymous asked:



anonymous asked:

My fiance left me. I got clean for her. I stopped drinking, and put the pills away because she was my one rock on this planet. I've fallen back into old habits and i'm back to where i started. I feel like an idiot, i apparently don't understand why this has happened. I sacrificed so much for her, i ended friendships, i passed up education oppurtunities, as well as amazing jobs just to stay with her. I fucking hate life. Love does not exist to me anymore.

Dear 2017 me,

You will get better. Your life will change. Have patience. Things that are built quicker are destroyed just as soon.
This year you must take care of yourself and be careful to not give too much of yourself away. But don’t walk through life guarded, that’s never been your way.
Take the year a quarter at a time. Don’t plan for the whole year, you don’t know what life will be like 6 months from now.
Don’t focus too much on the planning because without execution, a plan is just a piece of paper.
You’re 20 now and that’s huge but don’t stress over trying to be ‘mature’ and adult like because you already are. Chasing bubbles doesn’t make you a kid, it makes you a person who knows how to chase happiness.
Get out of your house more. You need the fresh air, you need the sun. By now you’ve learnt, you don’t need to shy away from sunlight to love the night. You will always be a creature of the night with just a little bit of vampire obsession to make you creepy.
Snack. Don’t binge.
Study. You may not exactly be where you want to be right now but if you study hard enough you soon will.
You had learnt at a very young age that there’s no excellence without labour. You strive for excellence and hence you must labour.
Don’t write too many letters to people because the first letter is lovely, the second is cute, the third is ? If they aren’t the right person.
Have faith. Sometimes that’s the only thing you have left but it does wonders.
‘NOW’ is your 2017 key word.
Don’t wait to do things you really want to because if you wait long enough, you don’t want to do anything.

There are nice people and there are shitty people. Just because you’ve come across a bunch of shitty people all at once doesn’t mean nice people don’t exist. They do. And you will find them. But remember, all people are current assets. You’re the only fixed one. Invest more in yourself. There’s so much more I want to tell you but from now I want to do less of talking and more of doing. I know you will understand, at least I hope you do.
 2016 me

anonymous asked:

Elizajane I love your response to that anon. I myself, dont upload often and I'm fine with that. I like to write my fics to the best of ability and make them perfect to my standards (kind of like Dan and his videos). Plus with school and life I don't have time to write and it shouldn't have to feel like a chore because some people can't have the decency to wait and understand that as authors that takes time. It doesn't matter if it is "just a fanfiction", it's still a piece of art.

Thank you so much. I’m really happy you liked my reply. I happen to love phanbliss with all my heart. They are a wonderful human being whose going through a very rough time in life, and I know, just from scrolling their blog and talking to them from time to time, that they right for their own personal enjoyment as one of the few personal things they can indulge in. The fact that anyone would attack them for doing so and having more than one story going at a time, makes me so beyond angry.

On top of that, this is an issue that I see prevalent in fandoms constantly. People forget that we aren’t being paid to do this. People forget that we don’t thrive off of being told horrible, mean things. People forget that we often lose motivation to work on WIP’s because no one is commenting or cheering us on. We, as a community, are often taken advantage of, and when we indulge ourselves by creating a second WIP, we’re suddenly attacked because we don’t update the other one often enough. 

Writing it hard. Writing is for me. I share it with this community because I want to share my art, but I don’t have to share it at all. I don’t have to give it to anyone but my close friends. I am not required to finish it or stick to an uploading schedule because you want more of it. I am not required to change the story because you’d rather see it a different way. I will write what I want to write, for me, and I will be beyond happy if you happen to enjoy it as well, but I’m not going to go out of my way to do things for you just FOR YOU when you do not pay me. 

This goes for any author in any fandom. It breaks my heart the pressure that we as fandom authors get put under. I, too, prefer to have my fics be “perfect’ before I post, or as perfect as I can perceive them to be, but I’ve been pressured in the past to post as soon as I write, and I always end up regretting it and getting mean comments because of that pressure. 

People need to remember that we are human too, and we need encouragement, not threats and anger. We also need to be treated like humans who sometimes are dealing with rough times in life. We are not your slaves. 

rune-of-a-writer  asked:

Hi there! I was wondering if you could do #9 from your prompt list with Bucky? Maybe where the Reader goes to college and is constantly getting harassed by some guys from school, and Bucky's her boyfriend and goes to pick her up one day and sees the whole thing? I would really appreciate it, but I also completely understand if you don't want to❤️ I hope you have a good day!😘

Thank you so much for requesting this protective Bucky is my fav Bucky.

9)  “Who did this to you?”

Word count : 465 

Originally posted by coupleromance

You are proud to say that you love it college. You love taking classes of subjects that you find interest, you love the atmosphere, being away from home was nice even if sometimes you get homesick But one thing that you really hate are jerks. Sure a fell of them are just Catcalling was annoying but you didn’t actually feel afraid of them. But a few are just pure assholes that doesn’t respect women or anyone. Usually you can run away from them without major problems but today was different you are very late to class and you decide to get a short cut. Oh boy how much you regretted. As you pass one guys is there you decide to pick up your pace and don’t give much thought hopping he wouldn’t bother you.

“Nice ass girl i would love spank it for you ” you just ignore him but he grabs your arm “ its not polite to ignore a man who is complementing you maybe you really do need to be spanked to learn some good manners” you shrived at his words because you are really scared before you can even think what do you kick him really hard and runaway.

You ran as fast as you can until you find the coffee shop that sometimes you go with Bucky between classes. You start to call him praying for him pick up the phone “ Hey baby why are calling? what happened? You never miss class” you try to stay calm and ask for him to pick you up but you can as soon as you open your mouth you start to crying “ baby don’t cry where are you i will pick you up don’t move” you take a deep breath “ coffee shop ” he just analogy and say that in 15 min he will be there.

12 minutes later Bucky was entering the coffee shop with a worried expression on his face “ Hey hey you’re okay i am here” you just hugs him really close “ Thank you for coming” he agrees and his eyes are analyzing you to see with you hurt after check your face thoroughly he sees the bruise in your arm. “Who did this to you?”

He patiently wait from you to calm down and even buys you a flavored coffee to help. After a couple of minutes and half coffee later you explain what the guy said to you, how scared you were and how helpless you felt. “Hey you did good , you are safe. Do you want me to do something with him?“ you think about saying no but maybe he should be scare to think about what he done “Just scare him that away he doesn’t try anything like this ever again”


Feel free to request a number or a few of the prompts list

“…what’s with that ridiculous outfit?”

“you’re one to talk, senpai”

  • What she says: i'm fine
  • What she means: do you know how hard it must've been for Killian Jones to stop drinking and gambling in his pre-navy days? to claw out of the hole he was in? a man with so little self-worth would've literally drank himself to death and squandered every penny he had. a man with such supposed weakness in the face of darkness would've backslid right into drinking even after joining the navy, just as alcoholism affects jobs. a man with as much self-loathing as he had would've self-destructed and embraced every demon. but he didn't. he got his fucking act together during his time as Lt. Jones because his brother was his world and his light and his inspiration and his love and the source of hope for him. and then, that light DIED––due to machinations by the system that fucked them over in the first place. it wasn't just understandable for bright and starry-eyed Lt. Jones to fall so far after his brother's death. it was inevitable.

anonymous asked:

I love vld because all the characters are so interesting in their own ways. They all have a lot of different sides, some good, some bad. I just feel like they complete each other in a really nice way, being a very strong team, family even. I don't dislike any one of them even though there are 7 totally different persons and honestly most of the time I will be annoyed by at least one of them. Not with team voltron, I just love them and their bond so so much, despite their individual flaws.


tell me why you enjoy vld