i have nothing against gaa//lee but for me it’s just so…unrealistic? like gaara has been through so much and has a lot of trauma that lee is….really not suited for. i feel like lee is very “love someone enough and everything will be okay” in relationships and that’s really not what gaara needs and i think it would frustrate the both of them.
and on the flipside, lee has so much energy and is so gogogo all the time. he needs someone who can keep up with that or who can at least slow him down a little. but gaara is exhausted 100% of the time and not only can’t keep up but is not even in the same plane of existence as lee.
i could see them being friends but i still think a little time spent with lee goes a long way for gaara.