Hey there, I was wondering why you were against porn? I'm not upset by that because I'm similar. I hate when I follow someone and then they post porn. I immediately unfollow. It just makes me really uncomfortable and nauseous. 😷
Hi! Porn is really uncomfortable for me 😭 I’ve had two boyfriends in the past who were absolutely addicted, and despite me saying that them watching it made me feel uncomfortable, they continued and it really hurt. Why are my feelings, as the girl you’re supposed to love and commit to, less important than you busting a nut at a screen? I’ve also cammed in the past when I was low on money and wow…. a lot of men really expect a lot and don’t want to give a fair payout.
I believe we’re really programmed to just BE okay with
-the way the porn industry treats women
-our partners “needing” to watch it
-being a “psycho insecure partner” if we prefer our partners not watch it
-sexualization of groups of people who don’t want to be sexualized
Those are just a couple of examples
Anyway I’m not anti-kink or anti-masturbation or even necessarily anti-sex work. Just anti-porn. I’ve experienced literally being less important than porn and I know that other women have experienced that too. Makes me sad.