i just liked them a lot okay

As always, I’m seeing a lot of petty and nasty crap on social media today, because for some reason people discourage love and support - but don’t let ANYONE make you feel bad for spreading your love and support to such an amazing family. Sending your thoughts and prayers and celebrating an amazing life from afar in a post where the family can appreciate at their own leisure at a later date is fine. Ignoring it and pretending it didn’t happen can be both harmful and seem disrespectful. Going to their house, digging through their trash, and hounding them personally is not okay. Apparently this is just my opinion, as a lot of people either think we should ignore it, or go digging for information we’re not entitled to, but I just felt like it needed to be said.


Anyway - all my love goes to the Styles and Twist family during this time! It’s never easy to lose a loved one, and I hope they are allowed the time they need to process this and grieve, but still know they are so so loved.

bepiscola-official  asked:

Mmmmmeowrails owo

BEST SHIP BEST SHIP OTP OTP OTP OTP I LOVE THEM WITH MY WHOLE HEART LIKe okay so

Listen to me. Listen. There’s a reason they have a “perfect moirallegience” and that is this: They BOTH need each other. 

Equius is neurotic as hell, the most anxious of horses, he has a strong (heh) secondary response of anger to a lot of core emotions like discomfort, anxiety, frustration, and fear/unsureness that, after shifting into anger, result in him doing things he doesn’t really want or mean to do which just makes him MORE anxious/frustrated/unsure and it’s a tight downward spiral. This boy is a MESS. He needs to either let it out via gratuitous physical violence with his bots (so he’s emotionally and physically exhausted and can sorta “reset” in a way) OR he needs Nepeta to come pounce him out of his downward spiral. She can snap him out of it, throw him off balance long enough to dig her heels in and calm him down, talk it out, help him through things. 

Meanwhile, it’s not like he doesn’t do anything in return for her! Nepeta is GOVERNED BY HER EMOTIONS. She’s the Heart player for a reason y’all. She’s a master hunter, sure, but when it comes to social stuff? She does NOT look before she leaps. Equius, who lived next to Vriska, remember, SAW where the bodies of FLARPers went. He knew exactly what happened to LITERALLY HUNDREDS of people who FLARPed. Nepeta didn’t really care, she wanted to play, and so he had to put his foot down and just straight up tell her “no you can’t do that” in order to keep her safe, because she’s strong headed and doesn’t like to listen to the advice of others when she thinks she knows better. Luckily, he’s her moirail, and she knows that the things he does, he does for her best interest. Exhibit B would be the Gamzee scene: Nepeta could’ve murdered his ass six ways to Sunday, Gamzee is a malnourished disaster of a mop, he could never hurt her unless- say- she was SEVERELY EMOTIONALLY DISTRESSED, which she was. If she had taken ten minutes, had a good cry over Equius’s death, and then gone after Gamzee? Never would’ve stood a chance against her. 

Nepeta’s greatest downfall is that she jumps in headfirst without thinking things through, and Equius’s greatest downfall is that he allows himself to get so caught up in his own thoughts that they suffocate him. They’re balanced, one cannot exist without the other. Without Nepeta, Equius would absolutely capsize, he’d implode. Without Equius, Nepeta would explode, too caught up in her own momentum and unable to slow down. They are literally perfect for each other and I love them so much, so much you just don’t understand.

Anyway yeah Meowrails good ship best ship.

anonymous asked:

When im playing symmetra or mercy its like a guilty pleasure. I feel i aint reaally that good cause you dont need to aim when using them. Even tho i get kills and 10k+ healing. I love both of them but then remember what people are saying about them. You dont need a lot of skill to play as them. I want to play more using them but i get scared. So i just play some dps or tank

Play whoever you want, anon :0 ignore what they say it’s okay

every once in a while i have a friend who after several months admits that they’ve started shipping Plance bc of me and i just kind of laugh to myself because it’s not even like I’m actively going after them with this ship it’s just that I’m so incessant

i just. draw Plance. and talk about plance. it’s an ear worm. it’s like i just gradually wear them down with “hey wouldn’t it be cute if”s and “look at my children”s

anonymous asked:

If requests are closed than feel free to ignore this. But how about a scenario about noctis taking his s/o to meet his father and he's a bit nervous his father might disapprove of them, but they actually get along and even crack a few jokes with one another!

Requests are never closed so don’t you worry. I am really sorry it took me a while though! School got in my way and when I did end up having time I was working on my fanfic! I’m also, like, real bad with jokes (I an’t make them up or make them up at all) so it’s just having a great talk and such if that’s okay?????

It’s also pretty short because otherwise there’d be a lot of boring information that wouldn’t really keep the flow going. My apologies in advance.


Standing in front of his father with you by his side made his throat dry. He was absolutely terrified that he wouldn’t like you, that he’d tell him that you and he couldn’t be together. His palms grew sweaty whilst King Regis looked over you at dinner, speaking to you kindly and politely.

“I’m surprised my son managed to pick up someone as beautiful as you, ___.”

You giggled and he blushed. “What can I say? I have a think for cute boys who treat you right. You’ve raised quite the gentleman. Even if he doesn’t show it.”

“Oh?” King Regis rose a brow in amusement, a smile appearing on his lips. “A gentleman? My son? Now that’s a surprise.”

“Daaaad….” Noctis mumbled through a mouthful of smoked Baramundi. 

“Yes, son?”

“Stop embarrassing me…”

He merely chuckled. “But it’s good fun, you know. Right, ___?”

You nodded with that sly grin of yours and he groaned in annoyance. “Definately, your majesty. Especially in public.” You laughed again and you moved onto dessert. “Seriously though, Noct is really cute.”

And Regis only lit up like the sun with bright eyes, previously filled with a sadness which Noct hated to the core. “He truly is! You should have seen him when he was younger with his chubby cheeks and bright smile. His mother would always be so annoyed at how I just took him everywhere, not wanting to let him go.” He chuckled. “On his third birthday I had managed to persuade the council to give me some time with him - it constituted as four hours - and I refused to pass him to his mother.”

You smiled sweetly. “Did you end up running late?”

“If running late counts as not going, then yes.”

Noctis stopped eating then, his mouth agape, and you stared at the King with wide eyes. Both of you were in complete shock. King Regis didn’t seem like the type of man to miss a meeting even if he was sick. Noctis could never remember a time where his father didn’t go to a single meeting. 

“Majesty you… you…you did?”

“Of course.” He simply shrugged, unsure what all the surprise was about. “He wouldn’t stop asking me to read to him. And when he did stop he had fallen asleep. And I was about to get ready to leave but I must have dosed off, because next thing I knew his mother was shaking my shoulders and he was drawing squiggles on my face. With eyeliner. Waterproof eyeliner… and he did the same on my eyes. With permanent marker.” He laughed loudly - almost guffawing - and leaned back in his seat. “At the time I was less than pleased, but now I find it absolutely hilarious. Especially with his little laugh.”

You laughed. He blushed. Regis laughed even louder. And Noct was… well… he wanted to be swallowed up by the floor…

___

“So… you… um”

Regis had asked Noct to carry a box for him from the archives up to his room: any excuse to spend time with him. “I what?”

“You accept her? Right? You weren’t just putting on a show to be polite?”

“I may be good at many things and lying isn’t one of them.” He smiled. “My boy, she’s good for you: allows you to relax and be yourself. I just hope that whatever happens in the future won’t break what precious time you have apart and separate the both of you.”

Noctis went to ask him about what that all meant, but he decided not to in the end. Just in case he would get no answer, or, worse still, an answer in which he didn’t want to know.

“Well, come on then. Chop chop. We don’t have the day to waste.” Regis nudged Noct’s arm with a smile and Noct smiled in dismay.

It was safe to say that by how Regis ended up inviting you to almost everything and was talking to Noct all about the things he loved about you, it was safe to say that you were welcomed with open arms.

anonymous asked:

I was named after Esmerelda Weatherwax, so I started reading them young! I remember I read the Guards! Guards! graphic novel first, then I fell in love with all the wizards and guards book as well most of the stand-alones. To my parents' disappointment, I didn't like the witches, though I do now! I think I was just a little young to get a lot of the jokes :)

what an AMAZING namesake! And my gosh I forgot all about the graphic novel; that’s a great starter for a younger reader. I’m glad you came around to the Witches novels (your parents must be relieved!)

I know a couple of soon to be new parents right now and my attempts to get them to name their children Rincewind and Ponder haven’t gone over well

anonymous asked:

Okay don't strain your wrist and definitely take like snack breaks and naps but like other than that NEVER STOP I LOVE YOU FOR ARTING

No worries, no worries! I have my braces! I do my exercises before I draw and I’m taking breaks when I need them! Napping when I can and eating when I’m hungry!!
I can’t stop drawing—I have a lot of musings for doodles and projects so I gotta keep going while I can!~

Okay so I’m officially out of the Prologue and into the main game that is New Mystery. 

So as a Prologue it’s not as long as Blazing Sword’s and its not  “do this and win” that a lot of tutorials seem to do. 

Also as nice and sweet Katarina is, I genuinely feel this bizarre disconnect with her. I cannot see her in Marth’s game, same with Legion and Clarisse. Like I see them and I feel like I’m playing some other game, they just don’t belong IMO. 

At least with Faye, Masked Knight, Conrad, and Fernand it’s somewhat believable to me they exist although personally I pretend they don’t. But not the Assassin group, IDK maybe my mind. 

anonymous asked:

I saw you mentioned you don't follow minors... Is there a reason for that?

A lot of minors aren’t comfortable with adults following them and I like to err on the side of caution either way. Too many people on this website interact with minors as they would adults and that’s not okay to me. Which isn’t to say treat teenagers as children.

It’s something I saw….a lot of in my other fandom, where adults befriended minors and it was innocent but it got twisted and it got really bad so I learned to be careful about who I follow and interact with on here. :)

destinytomoon  asked:

Ty about your post of BD like people need to realize than she is a villian and she is not pure or soft uwu she is a betch , and is okay like her because that , thats the point. I know what I dunno azula from atla did i dont defend her nothing but damn i love her because is a really well written villian

I love Blue a lot and sometimes i forget there are good people out there in the fandom that actually get her character and arc in the story. Thank you for this ask.
Ill just add (cause i cant shut up about this ha) that the diamonds as characters are allowed to change and grow, as well as have different sides to them. Thats what makes them complex. Any person i see blaming bd’s character change since ‘the answer’ on “bad writing” seem to forget that was over 5000 years ago in the show’s timeline. Heck, look how much Garnet changed over that time.

I’d just like to say that you can see Louis’ influence on James when he answers this question on Spill Your Guts or Fill Your Guts during Katy Perry’s livestream:

Katy: Who has asked to do Carpool that you’ve turned down? You can answer that one.

James: I think we turned down The Wanted. Do you remember them? We turned them down.

Katy: Oh, you’re gonna laugh about this? Okay, hold on. There are fans of The Wanted right now that are coming for James Corden.

James: Well, I’ll happily meet all seven of them in the parking lot at some point.

Hey pals. Apparently this is a thing that we, as an internet femslash community, need, so it is time for Grouchy Aunt J’s Guide To Fandom Deportment.

1. I know that you really like your favourite actors, especially the ones involved in your fave wlw ships. I totally understand this! They are pretty, and wlw fandom is really fun, and if your ship is also a canon ship then it is super exciting and validating to see yourself reflected in media that you love. I, too, love that feeling and get really passionate about the media that I watch, which is why I am a Fandom Old.

2. The actors in your favourite ships are people. Like, real people, with anxieties and food preferences and sometimes they have weird hair days and some of them are introverted and some of them are extroverted, etc etc etc. When they are acting in your favourite media, they are going to work.

3. Part of an actor’s job these days is to sometimes be around on social media. Sometimes not! If they are kind/friendly/available on social media, that is a fun perk of someone who is going the extra mile for their job. You are not entitled to this.

4. Even if you super like a ship and are really passionate about fandom, there are things it is not alright to do. Actors are people, and when fans start treating them poorly it is unkind and potentially frightening or traumatic. Plus, your behaviour reflects badly on all fans and means that fandom as a whole doesn’t get to have nice things anymore. (Thanks, jerks.)

5. It is never okay to:

  • harass actors on social media because something about their character is interfering with your ship/they’re not supporting your ship enough/they’re supporting the wrong ship too much/their character is problematic/the ship you think their ship is better than is problematic/just whatever please stop it this is not their problem. Tweeting at them will not fix whatever is upsetting you on the show you like, but it is probably pretty hurtful for them and not something they should have to put up with.
  • harass/question actors who are involved in queer ships about their sexuality in public spaces. People’s sexuality is private, and being involved in portraying a queer canon or subtext ship doesn’t give fans the right to know about an actor’s queerness or lack thereof unless they choose to volunteer that.
  • tell actors on social media about any sexual fantasies you may or may not have about them, b/c sexual consent also applies to actors.
  • send actors unsolicited links to/hand bound novellas/lovingly hand-lettered scrolls of fanfiction, especially smutty fanfiction, especially especially if that author is not aware that their fic is getting sent to actors inappropriately.
  • send actors your nsfw fanart about them, or someone else’s nsfw fanart about them, oh my g o d.
  • ask them to read your fanfiction or autograph your fanfiction, damn.

5a. A good rule of thumb is to ask yourself: would I, or another a reasonable person, want to see this [insert fanwork of varying levels of nsfw] about a representation of myself/themselves? Most actors are actual people who find this just as upsetting as you might find it, if someone drew fanart of you and then brought it to your workplace.

5b. Yes, I know, there is a certain amount of distance involved in creating fanworks because they are about fictional characters and that storytelling and play is one of the things I love about fandom. But I also never, under any circumstances, would want any of the actors involved in my ships to read my fanfiction because it would be super uncomfortable and that’s the point

6. Also, your favourite actor’s non-actor family and friends are just that: not actors. Don’t bother them. Don’t - hypothetically - stalk them and try to catfish them to get information about your favourite actor. It’s super super not okay and it’s a huge boundary violation.

In conclusion: social media is super great and has changed fandom in a lot of neat ways, but having cool TV and movie actors available to connect with in that way is a privilege, not a right. Let’s all act like we are worthy of it.

fruitkink  asked:

hey i was wondering how you feel about zoos and aquariums? ive been seeing a lot of people (idk if theyre vegan) trying to support them by saying theyre non profit, accredited animal rehabilitation centers, & that makes them okay? i have a problem with this cos most zoos i know definitely arent for that purpose, they just seem to cage animals up&like ones with zoos r killing polar bears cos its not their natural habitat, & i know many actual rehabilitation centers tht never call themselves a zoo

Hi there fruitkink! 🐙

I totally agree with you on that, Zoos are businesses! Sanctuaries, Natural Reserves, National Parks and such are truly for conservation and nature’s well-being. 

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i wanted to put happy things in here but apparently the only things i doodled in my last absence were tired and sad kids… oops

a thing I love about the TransDanny headcanon: there’s a photo of Danny and Maddie when he was little, happily dressed and presenting as male, meaning that his parents either accepted him as trans from a young age, or allowed him to dress himself and have his hair done as short as he wanted and not forcing him to conform to gender roles, which allowed his coming out to be a lot easier

did he have a phase where everyone just called him a ‘tomboy’? or did he announce that he was a boy early on and that was that from then on? did he start school as Daniel or Danielle? like maybe it was one of those kids will be kids things where he wanted to be a boy for a day and his parents were like, 'aww that’s cute we’ll let her have her fun’ but a day became a week, a month, a year, he never grew out of it because he was never just playing pretend

personally I like to think that it started with Maddie and Jack just having super lax views on gender roles, unsurprising since Jack loves knitting which he might have been made fun of for because it’s 'feminine’ and Maddie is very strong and self sufficient and grew up with a big tough sister who wears her hair short and acts very 'masculine’, so they already have experience subverting traditional gender roles

so when they have a daughter who drags them to the boy aisle as soon as she’s old enough to choose her own clothes/toys and asks for a short haircut like that Chip Skylark guy who sings about his shiny teeth on tv, Maddie and Jack are just like, yeah sure why not? their kid can look however she wants

Danny was able to present as male from a very early age, his parents treated him and Jazz equally regardless of gender and I feel like maybe he didn’t even think to ask to be referred to by male pronouns until he got to school and the kids immediately assumed he was male and he realised ho dang, this feels RIGHT.

and then he’d have the teachers calling him Danielle and referring to him as female and another kid is like, umm Danny’s a boy tho?? and the teacher looks at this little boy with little boy hair and little boy clothes and is like, oh uh sorry kid there must have been a mistake in the paperwork, was it supposed to say Daniel?

and he’s just like yES YES DANIEL THAT’S RIGHT THAT IS MY NAME ALWAYS YEP

but then he feels bad because technically he 'lied’ to the teacher so he goes home and doesn’t say anything because he thinks his parents will be mad at him for lying on his first day at school

and then the parents get a call from some very confused school staff asking whether or not they’d enrolled a boy or a girl because they had a Danielle Fenton in the paperwork but a Daniel Fenton was dropped off to class this morning and that’s when Maddie and Jack were like… oooooh okay so this is how it is

they tell the school that he’s definitely a boy, always has been, they don’t say he’s trans because they probably don’t even know that word exists but they do know that their daughter seems far more comfortable as their son and they don’t see a problem with that and as far as they’re concerned it’s none of the school’s business

they’d probably sit Danny down for a talk after that in which he starts crying and apologising and they have to spend about ten minutes ensuring him that he isn’t in trouble for lying at school and if he wants to be a boy that’s okay they can call him a boy for as long as he wants, he just has to let them know if he changes his mind but if he doesn’t then that’s okay too, they just want him to be happy

and from that point on he was pretty much just the Fentons’ son, his parents would buy him binders and do research on trans kids to make sure they were doing the right thing and as soon as he was old enough for T they said they’d support him whether or not he wanted to take it and if there were any complications it was okay because he was still their boy no matter what his body looked like

I mean just, the Fentons have fucked up a lot of aspects of parenthood so I just really really REALLY want them to have done this one RIGHT or as right as they possibly can, they might be quite scatterbrained and neglectful at times but it’s clear that they really do love their kids, and were probably a lot closer with them when they were young, so it makes sense to me that they would be accepting of Danny’s identity even from such a young age

all they want is for their kids to feel happy and safe, which means when they find out he’s half ghost it still doesn’t MATTER, because they already promised they’d accept him no matter what

anonymous asked:

What do you think were the best nalu moments in this arc so far?

Hmm~ This is a good question!  I had to go back quite far for this one, but I think you’ll like it!  It’s gonna be a long answer, so let’s get started!

First off, we have Natsu coming back from his year long training session:

I mean, in the entirety of chapter 418 we see just how much Lucy misses Natsu (and Happy too of course), but in this page, you can see how happy she is that he’s back.  She looks almost relieved (not that she wasn’t thriving on her own, but she had a hole in her heart).  Natsu looks ecstatic to see Lucy (we even get a little blush).

Moving on to chapter 419 (don’t worry, I won’t be going through every chapter like this lmao) but OH MY GOD LOOK.  Natsu had no idea how hard Lucy was working and how broken she was losing Aquarius, everyone, and HIM all at once.  I think this is where he truly understood her pain whether he knew all the details or not.

Also, how can we forget how “first chapter” this page is.  It’s almost like Lucy can’t believe it.  He’s back and so is Fairy Tail.

Here, it’s pretty clear that Natsu has learned how much him leaving as well hurt her.  I think this is v important for their relationship…  Which they still have yet to “resolve” though I don’t think Natsu leaving was entirely “selfish”.

I think here Natsu is trying to gain Lucy’s trust again.  To prove himself to her, and honestly I believe that this scene is very intimate between them and the way their relationship is.  Not so much romantically, but their trust in each other.

We also get a LOT of scenes of both Natsu and Lucy reacting like this to one another… 

Hmmm…

Okay, okay I know, I’m nitpicking everything- HOW CAN I PICK JUST A FEW FAVORITES??  But alright, I’m going to get into general, overarching moments that I think are the best and really love!

There is A LOT under this break and there are also spoilers of the latest chapters!!  Please read with caution :)

Keep reading

  • Genji: The point is, I’m going to get filthy fucking rich from turning you assholes in. So, fuck you.
  • Mercy: *Flips the bird*
  • Genji: And fuck you!
  • Hanzo: *Flips the bird*
  • Genji: And fuck you!
  • McCree: *Flips the bird with passion*
  • Genji: And fuck all of you!
  • D.Va: Hey, why don’t you go suck a dick?
  • Genji: Why don’t you suck TWO dicks?
  • D.Va: No you, but FIVE DICKS!
  • Genji: You’re sucking eight dicks from every direction, JUST LIKE AN OMNI-DIRECTIONAL DICK SUCK FEST!
  • Soldier 76: Okay, we get it! Can we stop trying to one up each other on the dick sucking quotas? Why don’t we all just agree as adults that we all suck a lot of dick… and we love it!
  • *Murmurs of agreement*
  • Mercy: I like the taste…
  • Lucio: I’ll suck them…
  • Genji: Yeah, okay… I like it… obviously.
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