i just hate everyone in the teen wolf fandom

Let's Not... Please

I want to start off by explaining my reason on making this post: a conversation I had with a friend did not go well. Of course, I love Cody’s villainous character in Teen Wolf and of course, this friend of mine hates Theo. It frustrates me because while we were watching the last episode, they had the nerve to state that, “Theo is still a bad person. He hasn’t changed.”

People should really stop hating on Theo in Teen Wolf. It pisses me off that even after season 5 has ended and Theo is back, some still have negative things to say about him. While you guys are hating on him, why don’t you also hate on Peter Hale? After all, this guy has done worse in the show, yet no one wants to call him out on his actions and why you guys do that, I still don’t know why.

You can not join a fandom and be fake at the same time because it just shows that you’re not a true fan. That’s like you hating Niall Horan from 1D because of his crooked teeth but once he gets braces and they come off, all of a sudden he’s “hot” in your eyes and automatically you’re a true 1D fan. Every character should be treated equally in this show. Everyone loved Void Stiles and Peter Hale so why can’t we love Theo?

Another thing I want to add is that Cody has feelings. Therefore, if his character is a villain and he’s the most hated person, he’s going to feel upset in real life. It’s not fair that Peter Hale or Void Stiles can be villains and we can love them but we can’t do the same to Cody.

Personally, I adore Theo Raeken. I think that he was great as a villain in season 5 and him returning this season makes me really happy. I know he’s not back to cause damage but fix it and thats what makes it more exciting. He’s realized that he’s done bad and obviously, there’s a part of him that is still human. He’s doing his best to make his life better and we as a fandom should understand that instead of bashing an actors character.

Please, I just want everyone to not treat Cody like this. I feel bad for him because some of us are supposed to be true fans of this show yet they want to find someone to hate on. For those of you who agree with what I’m saying, thank you.

Your love is needed for Cody, Theo, and I.

Hey 00Q fandom!

After a long mostly-absence, I am diving back in!   A lovely reader won me in the Fandom Trumps Hate auction, and she has commissioned me to finish off The Bloody Office, the sequel to Quriosity, complete with some nice bottom-Bond smut at the end.  Hooray!  After a lot of re-reading of my own fic and brainstorming on plot holes, I’m ready to dig in and get writing! 

So, catch me up on what I’ve missed…Any must-follow blogs?  Any rec lists or just recommendations for fic from the last…oh, three years or so?

Also, for the people who follow me for Teen Wolf / Sterek content, I may be reblogging/posting more 00q stuff.  I will tag everything with “00Q” and “James Bond” as well as “Skyfall” and/or “Spectre” if applicable, so feel free to add those tags to your blacklist.  For 00Q folks who are not into Teen Wolf, feel free to block “Teen Wolf” and/or “Sterek” tags.  Also just FYI, in general, anything that’s not from one of my major fandoms (00q, Teen Wolf, or BBC Sherlock) will be tagged with “random”, and personal posts (few though they are) will be tagged “personal” and political posts (even fewer) will be tagged “political”.

Thanks as always for everyone who follows me, and, in the immortal words of Thomas Jefferson…”What’d I miss?”

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“If stiles was a girl sterek would already be canon” if stiles was a girl and sterek was canon everyone would be outraged and would probably get teen wolf cancelled over the fact that derek pushed her against a wall and slammed her head against a steering wheel instead of romantizing their scenes together and shipping them, you dipshit.

it’s so funny when stydiots says “antis should calm down!!1!” “it’s just a tv show, guys!!1!” “it’s not real, they’re just characters” “accept that stydia is endgame and enjoy the show” but.. remember when malia and stiles kissed for the first time? they attacked shelley hennig since that moment. remember when stalia were dating? they attacked jeff davis for “ruined” their otp. remember when lydia spent time with parrish? they want to kill ryan kelley just because he was doing his job. remember when lydia and stiles doesn’t had nothing romantic between them? they want to kill everyone just because their disgusting ship wasn’t real. and now, when their ship is “endgame”, they’re acting like angels who claim for respect, who never send hate to any character or actor, when the truth it’s that they only care about teen wolf when it involved stydia.

anonymous asked:

That fandometrics list is amazing! The other top couples all currently have shows airing now and gets lots of scenes for their ships, and sterek seriously jumped to top 5 with 2 tiny shots from a trailer. When was the last time another teen wolf ship was even on that list?? I just love how sterek is what everyone remembers always. I truly love the sterek fandom so much ❤️

Yes!! Exactly! I did see at least one ship there that isn’t part of a show still on air, but it’s hp which is huge as we know. Sterek should’ve been a small fish in a big pond by all accounts, but when stereks get together WE OWN IT. If we were actually part of the tw fandom, if we hadn’t been forced to leave the sterek tag because of hate, we would be part of those lists all the time, I honestly believe this.

anonymous asked:

it's so hard to find people who don't get mad at people for shipping things.. like,, i find ships uncomfortable, disgusting, or unshippable - whatever, but like.. it's just fiction? we don't need to have a cat fight over it !! like,, you hate this ship, i love it? okay man. you hate this ship and attack me and call me disgusting for loving it? chill, dude. sorry aha i just needed to rant;;

i feel u bro, & im gonna share something wit y'all that I haven’t told anyone.

like 3 yrs ago I was super into teen wolf, & everyone knows that shit was #sterek 25/7. i actually really disliked it. & that’s why I always say I get the anti perspective, bc I’ve been there. i felt like people were ruining a show I liked. that fandom had its own issues with age of consent & adult/minor shit & im gonna be real with y'all, it was so easy to jus jump on the hate bandwagon.

then I forced myself to look at the other side. and I realized that it was stupid to hate the people simply creating the content they want to see. they weren’t forcing it on me. as much as I didn’t like it, they were not hurting anyone.

when I stopped nitpicking at everything I could find wrong abt this ship, when i stopped taking everything (& most of all myself) so seriously, i could genuinely enjoy myself within that fandom again.

since the old days on fanfiction.net, before all the fcking discourse written by 15 year olds who think far too highly of themselves (this was me as well), fandoms have clung to one simple rule: ship & let ship. it’s fiction guys, it’s not that deep.

Fuckin ridiculous

Malia tate was seen riding that new guy Nathan and everyone starts hating. Why? Because Malia is having some fun for once? She deserves to just hook up with some guy and just have some fun. She’s a strong woman and I can’t believe people are hating on her for doing something Lydia Martin has done aswell. Lydia has also slept around with random people and nobody said anything. I also think it’s incredibly stupid to hate on a character that you don’t even know yet! Ross Butler has already gotten hate over teen wolf even though his first episode hasn’t even aired. I am ashamed of some of the people in this fandom. For fucks sake come on people grow the fuck up!

How to be a Stydia Shipper, a guide:

1. Whine and complain to the TW cast, producers, writers and everything related about how you want Stydia to be canon for 6 (7???) years. Harass everyone who doesn’t ship Stydia (especially Marrish and Stalia shippers), basically just be an antagonist.

2. Play the victim when people start posting hate about Stydia and the fandom, using arguments such as: “You had your time, let us have ours,” and, “We don’t deserve this negativity,” and “We’ve been waiting for this for forever, we deserve it.” Arguments which are all invalid.

I had planned to just keep my mouth shut because I do not want to fuel this but I’ll just get this off my chest and tomorrow my blog will be all puppies and rainbows again. Savy? 

Have you ever had one of your non-canon slash ships go canon? Because I sure haven’t. I’ve never needed canon to love a pairing as much as I do Sterek.

You like Sterek? Good. Then why the hell would you stop now? I understand that some of you still believe there’s hope for it to go canon, and you’re free to hope for anything you wish. But if you loved Sterek yesterday then you should tomorrow as well. Nothing has changed.

I could do without is all the negativity floating around tho.

If that’s what you’re here for - to rant and wank - then go right ahead. Everyone are free to react however they like. But don’t be surprised if I don’t want you on my dash anymore because I want Tumblr to be my happy place where I can just enjoy everything we as a fandom makes together.

You won’t see me hating on any member of the cast. You won’t see me hating on Jeff Davis. You won’t see me hating on a ship. You won’t see me hating on the show at all.

You will see me enjoy Teen Wolf and its positive moments. You will see me fangirling over every new episode. You will see me loving everything the fandom creates. You will see me shipping Sterek. You will see me continue to manip and write about these two cuties because I love them. To death.

Because that’s what I came here for. That’s what I’ll stay for.

Goodnight :)

Hello lovelies! I assume most of you already saw the blog ultrateenwolfconfessions. Personally I think, that blogs like that shouldn’t exist. And know I’m not the only one who is pissed at the things they post, then there are more people who already got annoyed that they fill the characters or in cases, the actors’ tags with hate. But they don’t stop there, they also insult roleplayers from the fandom. As I already mentioned in a previous post, everyone has the freedom to share their opinion, but some people need to learn when it’s appropiate and when not. In some cases there are things that really doesn’t need to be said. 

We all here one thing in common, we like Teen Wolf. Some people just like to come on and talk about their TV show and a big part of the fandom is also involved in roleplaying. We, the roleplayer, enjoy it to write, to come on after a day and maybe escape reality. For some of us it’s like a therapy. But most of all, we are supposed to have fun with our characters and roleplay partners.

Now that sounds good, right? But what, when you come on and you see your inbox filled with hate? Or you are tagged in posts, that hate on you? People need to understand, that although we are on the internet, behind every computer there is a real person, with real feelings. Before you type up any kind of hate, think about in which situation you put that person and how you would feel if you were in their place? Even if you already received anon hate, that doesn’t give you the right to send it! Nothing give anyone the right to send anon hate.

I’m not saying no one is allowed to say their opinion, but there are other ways to say it, without hurting other people’s emotions. Just because you disagree with someone, you don’t have to be rude. Communication is the most important thing. It’s so easy to misunderstand things on the internet, and that’s why we need to talk to each other. When you think you have a problem with one of the people, go to their inbox! Talk to them off anon, without being rude! Chances are high you two will find a solution and there is no need to take it to a thrid person, who posts it openly then. 

There are already enough bad things in this world, we really don’t need to spread unnecessary negativity here too.

So what can you do?

  • Think before you act!
  • Stay off anon when there is a problem, that needs to be solved.
  • Talk to the person you have a problem with and not to a thrid person.
  • Don’t be rude! Stay polite.
  • Think twice, before you type up hate. And then delete it. It’s really not necessary.
  • If you see upset/mad/sad on your dash, message them. It doesn’t need to be long. A few words are often already enough. Or if you don’t have time, aren’t in the mood, are to shy, you can just send a hug. A hug can already do a lot!
  • There is also this nice blog, opfeelgood. Visit it! Use it!

And last but not least, this is not only relevant for the Teen Wolf fandom. But just generally. It’s really sad that people need to be reminded how to threat others. Send love instead of hate. Isn’t it much nicer to see someone smile and be happy? 

Hello Teen Wolf fam! I know we’re all excited about tomorrow, which is great! This is just a casual reminder to EVERYONE to keep the fandom safe and friendly. We often get really passionate about our love/hatred for certain characters and ships and while that’s totally fine, please do NOT be nasty to actual people online, whether actual people be actors or just fans who hate a ship you love. We’re all entitled to our own opinions here, just remember this is literally all make believe. There’s a lot of divisiveness and hatred in the actual world, there’s not need to bring it into something that’s supposed to be fun. Remember, cyberbullying is a serious thing and that faceless blog you called a bitch/slut/idiot/asshole or whatever could actually be a 13 year-old girl with self-esteem issues seeking a safe place online. Do you really want to send someone you don’t even know into tears or worse over fictional characters?

So please, let’s try to keep this a positive experience for EVERYONE. 

Teen Wolf Season 5B

Okay, so I ship Stydia and I’m pretty clear about that but I don’t see why there’s so much hate in the fandom about every damn ship. So, Stalia broke up apparently and even though I didn’t like them, that was a not so great way to end things. I think Malia should at least get more than that, even if I think she’s better on her own cause she’s a cool character. But seriously, that’s how simple it was to break them up? It was Stiles’ first actual proper relationship on this show besides a few minor things here and there that weren’t actually a relationship, and it was most likely Malia’s too, so seriously? And I might not like Marrish but gee people are harsh. And everyone’s hating Stiles and I don’t quite see why because I think what he’s feeling is reasonable based on all events that have happened, but I’ll leave that cause this is about the ships.

This fandom acts so childish and it’s all about their ships. Like, don’t get me wrong. I would want Stydia to be endgame, but if the writers don’t make it happen, then they don’t make it happen. Same goes for all the other ships. So why are we arguing over pairings when it’s not even up to us to decide? This fandom has become so frustrating and toxic to be in. I’ve watched this show since it first aired and I miss the days where it was more about the actual plot and content of the show than the pairings.

We can all have our ships, but it shouldn’t lead us to being ridiculously childish and telling everyone who disagrees to fuck off cause they’re wrong and stupid. That’s just rude and not a very great fandom.

That doesn’t bring us anywhere.

Sincerely,
A very frustrated Teen Wolf fan. RunthemazeNewtmas

can we stop saying that teen wolf fandom’s great and like one big family and shit like that? because by now we all (even the tw cast and crew) know that’s a god damn lie. nobody gets along, people are mean and rude all the time. everyone hates everyone and everything. one of the main reasons people are leaving the fandom is because of certain fans. everytime i see stuff about teen wolf i just see red because the fandom completely ruined it for me.

I hate when a female character gets hated on just because they are in a canon relationship not everyone likes irregardless to the fact they are a great character. I’m sorry, a female is not just an extension of a male so that’s just not gonna work for me

LONG RANT

I fucking hate it when people do this. First one, not even close to what actually happened, did the person who made this not watch the scene?? He never ‘almost took advantage of her’.

Second, okay, I’ll give ‘em that one, it was a little far, but just saying, that’s not how she took it.

Third, SARCASM!! jfc.

Fourth, he was worried for her and flipped his shit, he was just as freaked out and wanted her to be safe, all he did was yell ‘yes’ so he’d be the one to get to her first and comfort her when she encounters terrifying scenes like that.

Fifth, wtf he wasn’t accusing her of doing anything purposely, he knows she can’t control her banshee powers at that point, he was in no way blaming her, he was just questioning her if she really knew anything. Do you see those the stammering and blabbering and ellipsis?? He’s trying to say it in the nicest way without offending her, but it’s not exactly easy to ask someone what they know of suicides and if their uncontrollable supernatural powers are somehow responsible. Let’s cut him a break, shall we?

Sixth, again wtf, we aren’t romanticizing the panic attack, it’s the kiss and the thought that went into it, there are so many ways to stop a panic attack, she could have just said hold your breath, but she went to kiss him, and anyone with eyes can see their reaction to it afterward.

Stydia is a real ship that has been building over two years from crush/strangers, to friends, to a little more but not quite there.

Stalia, I rescued you, to let’s be crime buddies to lets have sex in the basement of an asylum. I love their cute little scenes, but more character development on Malia before the relationship would have been nice, and more development on them as a couple. No hate on Malia though, most everyone loves her now :)

Marrish, hey I just met you and this is crazy but I'mma have sexual hallucinations of you, that’s cool with you, maybe? Okay, that was low, he cannot control them. But Marrish hasn’t had any cute scenes tho beside the semi-hand holding in jail and the coffee thing that lasted about 75 seconds (also fighting lessons and supernatural testings, but not really romantic), so I don’t get that.

They’re just connected by death. If Lydia wasn’t a banshee, would people be flipping over Meredith and Parrish? Probably not. If it wasn’t Parrish, but another hellhound, would people be flipping over Lydia and that guy? Probably not. It’s just that’s who’s there, that’s who’s connected, therefore that’s who’s shipped.

Teen Wolf is about Scott McCall and his journey through life as a werewolf, not about the ships. I am guilty of often forgetting that but so is everyone else.

Not every Stydia shipper attacks people with different ships. And if I’m not mistaken, it was some Stalia shippers that coined the phrase ‘Stydiots’. That’s just cruel. Because we don’t agree, we’re idiots???

I don’t seek out Stalia and Marrish tags to trash them. I have never made a hate account. There are many kind people that respect when others don’t agree. I got this picture from a Stydia hate account on instagram and the things that person was saying were so cruel and inaccurate about both the ship and the shippers. And not just Stydia. There are hate accounts for Stalia and Marrish.

Main point, Stydia is not abusive and i dont know where people get these ideas. It’s just anti-stydia shippers causing shit and I think I speak for the WHOLE fandom when I say we’re sick of it.

I will tag this Stydia, Marrish and Stalia so that maybe we’ll all learn a thing or two about who to properly treat other human beings online (no hate for everyone but there are so many people that aren’t too nice)

Either way, based on how shit is going, Stydia is endgame. I’m not saying that as a Stydia shipper, even if I were a Stalia or Marrish shipper, I’d throw in the towel after 5x16, just saying.

#PLEASE SHIP WISELY