i just found it on twitter

     a quick ooc update !

hello everyone, long time no talk, really. i’m super sorry i’ve been inactive on not just juyeon and changkyun, but rose also. i’m just gonna come out and admit that i’m struggling a lot in day to day life, for more than one reason. anyways, i haven’t really wanted to roleplay that much, lack of motivation and creativity mainly so i’ve been sticking to just talking on twitter ( i moved ) and i also started seriously playing overwatch. i’m doing my best to come back strong though.

i’ve decided i’m going to drop one of my muses, and it’s going to be rkchangkyun. he’s my third muse and while i really love him, and still sort of have muse for him, i’m far too stressed to have three muses at once, and i really promised rkjuyeon that this would be her year to shine. changkyun i found was also a super boring muse and while i like him, i think he’s far too ordinary to do anything ( he’d also never end up being an idol, i should just admit that ). 

anyways, i’m going to be dedicating myself to rose and juyeon from now on. i’ll be getting through those song drabbles as soon as i can, and then i’ll be attacking those starters which i keep promising y’all. please bare with me across this next month or so, i love y’all lots 

anonymous asked:

I've always felt like the "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all" was a good rule to go by. GR makes himself look bad, for me name calling makes the person doing the name calling look sort of childish. Sorry. I just think their is something to be said for civility, especially pple we don't like.

I think the rat moniker started with decent intentions actually. Shefani twitter wasn’t trying to tag him in all their rants about him. Can you imagine what he’d get back when he searched Gwen and Gavin there for a while (and he’s so conceited, you just know he searches that often). He’d never search Gwen and rat.

I’m pretty impressed I found a “we’re protecting GR” argument to defend the use of rat. Yay me! I’m still going to try to stick with GR, but I’m reserving the right to revert back if he makes me really mad!

- B

guys guys lets vote hard until the end!!! gogogo


hi guys!!! 13 reasons why is a really good show however there are some tw to be aware of. just wanna mention that i was able to get through the show but did have to pause it multiple times. if you don’t feel comfortable with these triggers do. not. watch. (i found this helpful list of triggers on twitter and thought it would be helpful for some of you who want to watch the show but be aware!!)


Chelsea ( @opensmother-lippedlover​ ) and I ( @jessjust​ ) met December 5, 2012 on Tumblr (Yup, I remember dates well). Immediately I noticed how sweet, polite, and interesting she was. We continued to talk here and there, and making our relationship official months later. We dated for about six-months. Initially everything was great, but the long-distance was awful and we were too young to know how to handle it. We called it off. We went our separate ways; fell in-love here and there with other people. 

Years later I was working for the Texas Legislature, near done with my undergrad degree, and with the flexibility to move anywhere. I then realized how much I kept thinking about her, wishing to share the precious memories I was making at my job, how supportive and uniquely proud she would be — and truly how much love I still had for her. Not knowing where she was in life I decided to reach out to her, told her how I felt and she left me waiting (lol) Some time later she finally came around and told me she felt the same way. Well the rest is really history. 

(The day she asked me to be her girlfriend)

We left Philadelphia and houston, and we moved to Chicago after I got a scholarship at DePaul Law School, and she began her education to become a Veterinarian. Most importantly we created our own little family with our baby Gatsby, a cavalier King Charles Spaniel. Now I’m proud to call her my fiancée. I would give my life for her. 

We’ve had bumps here and there like any other couple, but we love each other enough to fight for each other. That’s what’s important. And why I proposed December 17, 2016 at the art institute!

She may still get mad at me when I forget to place the new toilet paper in the holder and I may still get annoyed when she talks through a movie. All in all, that’s what a relationship is about loving each other and ironing out the little differences.

We want to share our little story with details sometimes left out by the media. With our relationship on the spotlight I hope this encourages others to love and work hard for their relationships ❤️ love is out there, it’s just hard to keep.

(This is an old video Chelsea’s dad filmed of the first time we saw each other again after years apart)

More photos of the engagement can be found in our Instagrams: Cnicolem_ and J.essrdgz