i just dont get people at all

okay so tumblr has this mode you can turn on that allows posts to be the same colors of blog themes and i dont think many people use it and that’s good because you get colors that make posts borderline unreadable like this:

also not knocking whatever that post says because i can’t read it at all. just using it as an example.

anonymous asked:

I dont get it WHEN MADDIE did not mention Abby in the book everybody was freaking out and hating on her but now that the girls left they are competing against Abby studio and fithing WITH brynn who was their friend just 2 weeks ago everyone is like yeah girls prove abby Wrong i honestly dont get it

People were mad at Maddie because it was Maddie and they bought the entire story line of “Abby made her” and all this shit and think she owes her everything etc. I wouldn’t exactly compare this weekend’s drama with the hate Maddie got when she didn’t mention Abby in the book, it’s a mess either way and I’m honestly done pointing out hypocrisy. If they hate Maddie that much that they start to defend Abby, then that’s just ridiculous. Just ignore it and be glad the Zieglers got away from the show and didn’t have to experience this weekend’s drama. ;) 

anonymous asked:

i know its kind of a taboo thing to diagnose yourself with a mental illness but i really really relate to things ive read online and even on your twitter about bpd how do i know i feel like i at least have to know but i also don't want to find out that i'm faking it

this is one of my favorite subjects, tbh. just because i feel like people are always polarized on this and we don’t have to be. okay. this is my personal stance, i’m willing to discuss this, so please don’t take what i say as fact, or yell at me for being wrong. just tell me what you think. im so sorry im so wordy

so first of all, a disorder is born out of something that naturally exists. take depression: “sad” is a feeling. “numb” sometimes happens. sometimes you dont want to get out of bed. people occasionally have Days. But. it’s an issue if it’s excessive, disruptive (hence the term disorder)/hurtful. ocd isn’t being “neat.” borderline personality disorder is a topic you’ll see all over tumblr… people love to reblog bpd posts bc they’re so “relatable.” “oh! i miss people too! i’m clingy! haha cute :-)” but really like. bpd will make life very very challenging. it’s not cute or relatable. elements come from natural characteristics, but are deepened. like comparing light pink to magenta. they’re similar but they’re not at all the same. yanno? so-

-so my first thought on selfdx is that you should never!!! rush!!!! it really frustrates me when “depression” and “suicide” become trendy among teenagers. it encourages self destructive behaviors because it’s just “what you do.” it’s not to be taken lightly. these labels are not romantic. it’s this really tough balance between releasing stigma without turning it into a cute snapchat filter, yanno? so. if you’re going to look into selfdx be very very careful. go very slowly. 

so do so with a shit ton of research. i self diagnosed before official diagnosis, and i haven’t stopped reading about bpd in a couple years. i have about three books on the floor and several safari tabs up on my phone at all times. part of this is because i’m convinced i’m faking, and i hope i’ll stumble across that key. but the thing is, research, if done correctly, thoroughly, and honestly, will be the most surreal thing you ever do. holy. fucking. shit. i get goosebumps every single time. all these things that are pulled straight from my mind and my view, are in black and white. often these are things i never could have identified as abnormal; like last night i found an article about symptoms not often discussed, and it included not being able to comprehend measurement units and time? i never realized that was a thing, but it makes sense. so anyway. it will be frightening and enlightening and cool and nerve wracking and interesting. it’ll make you want to disappear and crawl out of your skin and want to meet others like you, all at once. be very honest. read and read and read and talk to people who are diagnosed. examine this.

a doctor will use dsm-5 to diagnose 

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anonymous asked:

people seem to think that saying "we don't mean you youre trans so youre still part of the community" after saying ace people dont belong in the community will make it all better because if its not about me i wont get mad. then theyre surprised when i get mad because being aro/ace affects me much more personally than being trans and aphobia feels like a punch in the gut every time i hear it

It went from, “we just mean C*sh*ts” to,“we just me aces” to “we mean everyone who disagrees”. Convenient. 

I agree, I’m hugely inter-sectional with oppression, and they have no right and clue to suggest I don’t know oppression or what effects me.

anonymous asked:

I dont really get when people say how they cant get excited about solo harry while BG is still happening but they were all excited about just hold on and they were all excited for this town?!? basically they just cant get excited for harry?

are you seriously saying you can’t understand why fans of louis were excited when he finally got something positive career-wise in the midst of all the bullshit? that’s what you’re taking away from this discussion?

anonymous asked:

Hey so i found out that tobe is liek your only friend. And dont get me wrong Tobe is amazing. But it sucks only having one person to hang out with. So hi im Coles.

Oh, uh, hi! Sorry, it’s a bit hard for me to interact with people correctly. I’ve been told that people are generally intimidated by me, but really I’m not that tough. I’ve just got a powerful family, that’s all…but hi. I’m Sno. It’s nice to meet you.

ask-the-fnaf-cast  asked:

Why are anons literally bitching about asexuals?? They are literally not harming you in any way??? They just don't wanna fuck. That's fine, we're overpopulated anyways. Sex is an option, not a priority. If it matters that much to you, then how about you just have sex every day then? Asexuality is valid, and people bitching against it need to shut the fuck up, and take a seat, and think about why some people wouldn't want sex.

Lol to be honest.

Some people just have other things to do.

Like i even dont have time for this shit,

Due to art and writing and STUDIES 

Some people take a long time to open to that kind of commitment.

Or just really have no interest in it at all.

Last i checked the world is about to explode full of people and JEE I WONDER WHY people are suggesting other planets and living off air,


Just shut it and get laid, No need to make a hassle.


Runner AU

I’m so excited to finally get to share this AU with you guys!!

This au all happens in a world where the governtment is super corrupted. Everything is controlled by the most powerful corporations and the richest of people. Got money, then you have the power. 

Technology is rather advanced and nearly all info is stored as data. However, it’s nearly impossible for rebels to hack into the systems and gather information and proof to fight the system. That’s why there is runners. Runners use parkour to get all over the city, fast and unnoticed, and break into corporations to personally get to the data and information that can help the rebellion. 

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Ok but Victor would be a total bridezilla and you can't convince me otherwise
  • Yuri: OK. OK. JEEZ I'M GOING
  • Victor: Oh thank you Yurio you're a doll
  • Yuri: (goes to the shop and brings back white stationary)
  • Victor: Yurio... wh-what is this.
  • Yuri: it's the stupid paper you just asked me to pick up
  • Victor: First of all. Stationary. Not paper. SECOND. THIS STATIONARY. IS WHITE.
  • Yuri: yeah i know that's what you ask-
  • Victor: I ASKED FOR IVORY. I-V-O-R-Y.
  • Yuri: same difference isn't it?
  • Yuri: JESUS. OK. IVORY. I'll just go back and switch it out it's whatev-
  • Yuuri: (comes running in from the other room) OOOOK VICTOR!! HONEY IT'S ALRIGHT IT'S ALRIGHT
  • Yuuri: (rocking Victor in his arms) it's all ok it's fine the wedding is OK
  • Victor: (sniffling) y-you promise???
  • Yuuri: I promise love now shhhh.
  • Yuri: (eyes and mouth wide open in disbelief and confusion)
  • Yuuri: (whispering to Yuri) i'm so sorry you had to see him like this Yurio,, it's just he gets so worked up about the wedd-
  • Yuri: I'll show myself out.

Can I talk about one line I especially appreciate in Undertale?

On it’s own, this line is a huge wham line of feelings on its own. It’s one of the pinnacles of the Pacifist run. It’s a single sentence basically summing up the morals used through said run, and it’s pretty heavy. But it also has a personal meaning to me, and I’d like to talk about the way the lowercase ‘love’ is used. 

Throughout the game of Undertale there is no direct romance involving Frisk. (They’re a child, first of all, and that’s just not the focus of the game in general), yet, this term is used.

‘Love’. In media you never really hear that outside of sexual and/or romantic relationships. You only hear the term ‘love’ when kisses or romantic partners are being described. And as an Aromantic it’s almost alienating to me. You can’t ‘love’ your friends in media. You’re ‘best friends’. Or you ‘Care about each other’. And in familial relationships only young children tend to say they ‘love’ each other. It’s never used like that. It’s as if media treats those two types of love as somehow less real. 

But they’re not. They’re just as, if not more, important as romantic ‘love’. And frankly I love that this one line throws that idea down the drain. 

Because this is love

This is love

This is love

This is love

This is love

This is love

And this is love

And Undertale isn’t afraid to admit that.

quick tutorial on clothing folds for people with no idea how to draw clothing folds

so if, like me, you’ve done all the research on how clothing folds, and you have a decent idea how the physics works, but you just can’t get it to look right?

change all your lines into this

im serious

it makes everything look so much more natural

for added realism, just add random bumps to the line wherever you put one

and there you go!

(please dont judge me for my anatomy i drew this in five minutes)

i keep seeing posts about sportacus disproving of people eating things other than sports candy but no. you fools. you have it all wrong sportacus says its okay to eat candy sometimes!! he just has special dietary needs and cant eat it himself but that doesnt mean he dictates other peoples lifestyles!! get this inaccurate sportacharacterization <b>outta here</b>


No it’s really NOT.


So here’s the thing, on this blog i make lighthearted posts about being a lesbian who likes swords, like “put [this sword] on your blog if you are gay”

And most of the time interactions with this blog are just people finding my posts fun or relatable having a chortle and tagging themselves, their friends, or sometimes theorising which fictional character runs this blog. it’s just some good fun that i and many others enjoy

But very regularly i get straight people saying ‘but what about straight people’ like. all the time. its very annoying.

cause guess what! im not straight! i dont care. go write your own posts, im not writing Relatable Posts for straight people thats not my job why would i do that

however every time im like ‘i dont care about straight people on my gay blog or in my gay life at all actually’ i get inundated with replies about how Mean And Evil i am because im not making jokes for their consumption

In which case i am just a mean evil gay because im not going to start catering to straight people on my gay blog about being gay and liking swords ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Imagine Person A of your OTP hearing Person B screaming in horror from another room. Completely terrified about why B would be screaming, A rushes into the room only to find B crouched in the corner in a defense stance, staring wide eyed at a spider.

Alternative: Person A receives several texts from Person B, telling them to come back as soon as possible, to hurry and go home, and that they need someone to protect them. A immediately leaves where/whatever they were doing to rush home, only to.. [top]

BONUS: ..it’s not a spider.

okay like I have a really difficult time understanding why people find Chaol’s character to be interesting /at all/. I find him to be so annoying because he’s like that moderate liberal white boy who thinks women should be allowed to have abortions but also wants a wife who stays home in the kitchen. Where she belongs. He’s like, a total Dean from Gilmore Girls. He’s /so/ convinced that he’s a nice guy who knows what the right thing to do is all the time. 

Like even in Tog and CoM he’s that textbook guard character who is bound by some unrealistic sense of honor and duty and thinks he understands the ins and outs of morality. But of course that honor doesn’t allow for things driven by emotion. That honor doesn’t allow for survival unless it plays by his rules. That honor doesn’t allow for power in the hands of women. And that honor doesn’t allow for killing those who have wronged you. Chaol is like…the least likely character to succeed in a zombie apocalypse. He holds everyone to some moral code, and damns them when they don’t live up to it (he does this with Celaena in CoM and basically all of QoS). Inflexible morality and honor inevitably leads to problems because it doesn’t allow for understanding of emotional conflicts, nor does it allow for forgiveness when those emotions drive people to do bad things. Chaol damns Celaena for killing Nehemia’s murderers. Rowan just accepts it and is like “good.” Chaol thinks Aelin’s power makes her a monster. He thinks less of her because she is fae. Rowan is like “okay you’re fae. whatever. show me what you’ve got.” Rowan is infinitely more interesting than Chaol, as a love interest, and a man, because where Chaol’s sense of honor is based on some hard lined Moral Code™, Rowan’s sense of honor is based on protecting those close to him. Once he claims Aelin, its clear that his moral compass now has one direction: protect and help and love and serve Aelin Galathynius to the best of my abilities, and the rest of the world be damned. Chaol’s love for Aelin is bound by his inability to reconcile her past as an assassin and her fae heritage with his immovable and someone flawed moral code. 

In the end, it becomes clear that Chaol is just pissed that Aelin is so much more than he is. Greater than anything he will ever be. Rather than supporting her and attempting to help her, he pushes her away, damning her for not fitting into his carefully crafted view of the way humans are supposed to act. 

Maybe some ppl like Chaol and his sense of honor, but I’ve read enough books on medieval chivalry to know that that bullshit ain’t for me. 

Sometimes I’ll be sitting in my room, perfectly fine, and then I just get slammed by this wave of loneliness and I hate it