i just do not care enough i'm sorry

anonymous asked:

Hi I'm sorry if this sounds rude but you mentioned your friends are giving up fic writing? And that you came close to.I notice writers get much fewer rebblogs than artists but I didn't know it's that bad. Who are you talking about and do you guys talk about this, like is there a chatroom for writers?

Hi anon! This isn’t rude at all, don’t worry! This is going to be a bit of a long answer, so bear with me :’)

I don’t know if I can mention names here, I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable, so I can’t really give you more details than I already have: I am friends with this person and they probably won’t be writing fanfics anymore.
I can tell you though that I’ve also spent most of the last couple of weeks wondering if there was still a point in posting my writing at all.

The thing is, writers barely get any feedback. Especially ones that aren’t insanely popular. We pour so much of ourselves into our writing, so it’s incredibly discouraging to barely get any comments, kudos, likes or reblogs.

In my personal experience, tumblr is an awful place for writers. I’ve got a decent-sized following on ao3 I think (though I don’t have much to compare to) and even there, with more than 100 people subscribed to me, I only tend to get around… 5 or 6 comments max per fic that are actually reviews (as in, comments with more content than “please update soon” or “this was nice”) - which is already more than I know many of my writer friends get.
On tumblr, I’m lucky if two or three people reblog my work, and that’s exactly the problem: Who’s going to see it if no one reblogs it? Likes are fine and of course I appreciate those, too, but in the bigger picture they’re meaningless.
Once a fic is done, it’s done. It’s out there then, and I can’t keep reblogging my own posts again and again in the hopes that someone will pay attention to them. I get one shot, maybe two if I reblog my fic again for people in other timezones, but that’s pretty much it. I’m not surprised that it’s gotten so frustrating that it makes people want to quit.

…as for your other question - I don’t know if there’s any larger chatroom or space for writers. I know some people have group chats, but it’s mostly a private thing, as far as I know? I’m really not a big name in this fandom so there might be a lot of stuff going on that I don’t know about.

As for me - I just message people a lot, with the tumblr feature, or on skype or snapchat if I know them better. I’m open to any and all conversations (most of mine with other writers started by me yelling at them about how much I love their work ^^), so if you want to talk to me please don’t hesitate to shoot me a message. That’s what they’re for, after all? My ask’s always open, and I don’t mind private messages either.

In any case - there’s quite a few people in my immediate vicinity that I’ve talked to and I consider friends - many of them are writers, some are artists, some do both, some do neither. I talk about this problem (of wanting to write, but barely receiving any feedback, of feeling like we’re wasting our time) to pretty much anyone who will listen, but it’s frustrating because I don’t have the influence to change anything. Of course I’ll try to keep my fellow writers motivated and try to change their minds about giving up, but there’s only so much I can do, and in the end it’s their decision. Most writers I’ve talked to really enjoy writing fanfics, and it takes quite a bit of disappointment to get you to the point where you want to just… stop. So… yes, it’s a big problem.

I’m going to wrap this up now, but… again, I cannot emphasize enough how important comments are to writers. I’ve talked to some people who’ve said they’re not sure if their comments will even make a difference, because they feel they haven’t got anything interesting to say - picture it this way. As a writer, I’m standing on a stage and presenting a thing, and in response, about twenty people give me polite nods (kudos, likes) and four actually start clapping. But there’s like two hundred people (hits) standing in this room, and I kind of feel stupid now.
All comments matter. At this point, they might save you your writers. Because with less and less feedback, there’s less and less incentive to actually post things.

I can’t say much for other fandoms because it’s been a while since I’ve written substantially for anything but Haikyuu, which is still a relatively active fandom? But I get the feeling that’s starting to wear off, too.

Enthusiasm shifts, and I get that. But if you still enjoy an author’s work, please, please, by all means leave them a comment. Otherwise it might be the last work you read from them.

unpopular opinion

shiro isn’t hopeless at household chores and cooking. he’s a decent cook and keeps things military neat and clean

For the short time we’ve known each other, you’ve become such an important person in my life. I value you more than you could ever imagine and I cannot express how sorry I am. I never meant for this to happen and if I could change the situation, I would do it in a heartbeat. I never ever wanted to hurt you and it brings me much pain to know that I have. When we first met, I felt a spark between us but I backed away believing you were already with someone else. I should’ve asked you, but you looked happy with him and I didn’t want to ruin anything. I tried setting my feelings aside and pretended they were nonexistent so that we could continue to be friends. I wanted to be with you and if it could only be as friends, then I had to go with it. As long as you were in my life, our relationship mattered little to me. I know things will never go back to the way they once were but a person can hope, right? I couldn’t live with myself knowing that I didn’t try to repair our friendship so here I am. Sorry won’t ever be enough to fix anything no matter how many times I say it, but I’m afraid I don’t know what else to do. This is hurting me just as much as it is hurting you and I hate it. Please talk to me, I don’t care how much pain I have to endure so as long as I can hear from you again. I would walk the entire earth for you, I would do anything for you to stay with me.
—  Please // S.T.

anonymous asked:

Which free Hero you gonna get?

dejected-daydreams  asked:

Could I get the Blackwatch boys comforting their S/O who suffered emotional abuse and them trying to reassure her that she is beautiful and good enough? Sorry, I just had a problem in my family with this and so I am in a foster home until earliest Tuesday and I'm having a really hard time coping with it and I'm so scared of what is gonna happen:(

That’s rough, man. I know there’s not much I can do apart from write you these imagines, but I hope it helps even a little. Take care of yourself alright? Talk to your friends. Find something to keep your mind busy, if you can. Hang in there. <3


Gabriel Reyes

  • He’d be frank, just walk in to visit you and sit next to you on your bed and cross his arms
  • “Are you thinking about them again?” You look away. “Figures,” he adds. You immediately drop your shoulders and look down at your feet, feeling ashamed.
  • “Don’t look at me like that,” he adds, getting up suddenly and holding his hand out for you to take, “let’s get out of here.”
  • What occurs is an impromtu date where he just drives and there’s these long stretches of silence as he ends up stopping at a residential street in the middle of the night
  • And he puts the car in park and then looks at you “…Talk. Tell me what happened.”
  • He nods and listens, refraining from commenting too much apart from the occasional question. Eventually when you start crying he sits out with you in the street as you cry against his shoulder, and he just holds you there, petting your back
  • “You sure do cry a lot.” You look up at him incredulously and he just laughs, “at least I finally got a reaction out of you…”
  • He ruffles your hair and finally begins to tell you the reason why he brought you out to somewhere so far away from the base- he prides himself on being a tough as nails commander and he still is, but when he wants to care for you he wants to make sure he’s far from it, and won’t be contacted by his superiors or his fellow Blackwatch kids. He wants to devote his entire attention to you
  • “You’re worth more than what anyone tells you, including me, including your family. Good and bad.” When you look at him totally lost he explains further, “your self-worth is made by you. I can tell you that I love you, I can tell you that you mean the world to me and to not believe what they tell you, but it’s up to you to decide for yourself who you really are and what you’re really made of.”
  • “You’re right, Gabe.” you finally add, putting your head on his shoulder, “thanks. I guess I needed someone to be straight with me, you know?”
  • He puts his arm around you, “good. Now let’s drive to the nearest bar and get a drink- that nitwit convict got into some awful shit today and my head’s still aching from it.”
  • He takes you out on a relaxed night on the town, telling you funny stories about the past few missions which almost always involves Jesse fucking up and you love it. <3

Jesse McCree

  • This is young McCree. Which means things are about to get 10,000x more extra than ever needed
  • Because GURL he gonna grab a guitar and serenade you as soon as he can get there, annoying all of your neighbours, all of your peers, he doesn’t care
  • Some Suggestions: “Love in the Air”, “Need a Little Sunshine”, “Wrong Side of Love” (the last refrain of the last one especially it gets yelly and fun) (I have a weakness for Dan Layus as young McCree you’re free to put in whatever love song you want)
  • Did I mention by “as soon as he can get there” I mean after a mission?
  • Which also means it’s probably like 2AM on a weeknight your neighbours will look at you weird for a couple weeks on account of your boyfriend
  • He’s had the human decency to shower and change his clothes but odds are he still looks like an idiot (this is young McCree have you SEEN what his sense of fashion is?) and he’s STILL wearing that ridiculous belt buckle and big dumb boots thinking he’s Tough Shit
  • He’s not the best singer and he’s not exactly crooning to you from your driveway, he’s shout-singing. Which is loud and hilarious and you have to open your window frantically telling him to STOP but he can’t hear you he’s just like “What? You want me to sing louder darlin’? Hell yeah I can, I’ll sing as loud as you want me to <3” JESUS CHRIST MCCREE
  • You run down the stairs and practically burst out of your front door to drag him into the house before one of your neighbours tries to murder him for waking literally everyone in a city block’s radius lawd the boy can shout
  • The entire time you’re angrily whispering at him trying to not get shrill, like “I can’t believe you would do something so stupid! Why would you think it was a smart idea to show up at 2AM and fucking holler into my window like that?!”
  • He just gives you this dopey smile like, “But darlin’, there ain’t nobody I’d wanna sing for but you. You know I ain’t so good with the words, I can’t write you no poetry. No big novella, no nothin’. But I couldn’t just let you suffer like you did today without so much a peep could I? Sure I’m maybe a couple hours late… but it’s the thought that counts don’t it?”
  • You blink at him, then lower your head, “well…it was pretty sweet of you. Even if it did wake up my neighbour’s dog.” (there is, by the way, still a dog barking two doors down as you guys head inside)
  • He grins cheekily and gives you a big wet peck on the cheek, “Glad you appreciate it baby. But the night ain’t over yet, and I got a whole night of seranadin’ romance in me, I promise ya!” “Jesse, no.”

Blackwatch!Genji

  • You’re quiet throughout the day, but knowing Genji (especially now, being exceptionally more distant and timid), he doesn’t act on it
  • He sees you easily tearful for no reason, avoiding contact with anyone else and being constantly distracted or nervous
  • He doesn’t want to say much at first, opting for observation- but he’s going to piece together what’s wrong with you pretty quickly and be direct once he’s sure
  • He perks up when you randomly announce you’re going out on your own “for snacks” and he asks you softly. “Wait.”
  • You stop at the door and immediately your defenses are up, you start to feel scared and nervous because now you’re being reminded of them
  • But he shakes his head when he sees you, then very gently places his human hand on your shoulder, “face me, please.” you reluctantly obey and he asks, more like urges you, “Are you upset about your family?”
  • “I’m fine, really,” you try to wave him off, “did you want anything from the store?” “Y/N, that is not the case for you is it?” “You got me.”
  • He tugs you over with his human hand and awkwardly hugs you, trying to hold you to his chest. You can clearly hear the rumbles of the machinery that keeps him alive, and that faint sound of his heart idly thumping in your ear. It’s soothing to you, knowing that underneath of so much cold steel, there is something human, and soft, that remains
  • “You do not have to speak more, if you do not wish to. I remember…what it felt like, in my own family as well.” You’re quiet when he tells you that, nodding gently, “…I know. I’m sorry. I feel like I don’t have the right to say anything…considering what’s happened to you.”
  • “That is not true. Your suffering is still your own, and it has affected you profoundly…in some ways, to have completely severed my ties is more comforting than to continue to have those that you love, capable of hurting you at any time.”
  • Even though a lot of the time you know he’s felt intense anger and abandonment, he’s calmed down considerably since meeting you. It’s just been so hard for you to notice just how much you actually mean to him, until he does something so emotionally open and expresses all that directly in front of you
  • “I want you to know…that all of the family I will ever need, is what I have found in you.”
  • He says it with such emphasis, and to know that you are so valued and loved by a man as battle-hardened and distant as Genji means the world to you. <3

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request: ‘yO! Can you do an NCT Dream reaction to when their s/o faints from exhaustion from being eXTREMELY stressed out over school and stuff?? Thx :,)’

a/n: lmAO relatable. just kidding, don’t overwork yourselves guys! make sure you get enough rest, drink water, procrastinate a bit, and stan your faves!! :)


mark: he was angry with you and himself, no doubt. since he wasn’t always there to look after you due to his hectic schedule, he consistently texted you and reminded you to take care of yourself and rest- but you didn’t listen to him. 

‘why didn’t you listen when i told you to rest? do you know how worried i was?’

renjun: renjun knew you were a hard worker, and he was proud of that- he just hadn’t known you were pushing yourself to the point of fainting. he would do whatever he could to prevent you from stressing too much: like taking you out on more dates and buying you ice cream.

jeno: he would try to stay strong, not wanting you to stress even more. he would continue to smile and sweetly ask if you needed anything, though he was fairly disappointed on the inside that you hadn’t been taking care of the one body you ever get in a life.  

haechan: his sarcastic and cheeky side would dissipate in a snap. as soon as he gets the news you had fainted, he would rush over to the hospital at the speed of lightning. nearly tearing up, he would crush you into a hug.

‘you know i care for you right? you can’t just make me worried like that…’

jaemin: ‘you’re kidding right?’ he would ask his manager when he tells the news you were in the hospital, unconscious. he wouldn’t want to believe what he just heard and would be unable to vocally express his concern for you: still in shock. 

chenle: ‘fainting? really y/n?’ 

‘that’s an excellent idea! you know, worrying the ones that love you by not taking care of yourself?’

‘i’m sorry y/n… but please, don’t pressure yourself.’

jisung: ‘are you.. are you okay?’ he would ask, confused. of course you weren’t okay, he knew that. jisung just didn’t know how he could help you at this point and what he could do- his frustration would be eating him alive. 

anonymous asked:

how do they find out if their kids are alphas? do they just have to wait for them to say 'hey I have a weird thing on my privates'? or is there a different way? at wat age do they usually present? how do betas present? wat is Maria? I'm sorry for all the qs please feel free to ignore them all

In general an alpha won’t go into heat. Betas go into heat as well but the nobles have kind of bred betas out of their family lines what with mostly caring about alphas/omegas since they carry the political power. (Loki goes off the rails a little when he’s old enough to understand what being a beta in a royal family means; either his mother had an affair or he was a foundling. It fucks him up.) Also it’s easier to tell when a female is an alpha because, you know, internal penis. If a hard-on develops she knows she’s an alpha. But if a male child reaches puberty and doesn’t go through a heat, the child is almost certainly an alpha, so they never have to wait for the child to come forward and basically admit they were masturbating and their dick suddenly looks different.

(Although Harley did run to his dads and whisper, “What the fuck is up with my dick?!” Then he runs to Tony and whispers, “Mama please help me Dada and Papa are laughing at me and something’s wrong with my–uh.” “It’s called a knot, sweetie,” Tony says sympathetically. “Just give it a squeeze.” “Oh my God,” Harley says, mortified, and doesn’t come out of his room for a week.)

All betas can bear children, so they also go into heat. The main difference between female betas and alphas is that they don’t have a retractable penis. This technically puts them on par with female omegas and in the end it’s really only the scent of their heat that really differentiates them; omegas have a sweeter scent mostly because it entices alphas more. Although to be fair, among the commoners of the kingdoms, female omegas can just say they’re particularly sweet-smelling betas and no one really bats an eye about it even if it’s a clear lie. It’s easier to court and marry betas; dowries aren’t as high. The difference between male betas and omegas is that betas also have the ability to inseminate; they have knotted dicks just like alphas. (There is the stereotype that alphas have bigger dicks but really it just depends from person to person.)

Presenting is just the fancy term for puberty, so it typically happens anywhere from twelve to sixteen (with the usual outliers who are not abnormal but just uncommon). Unfortunately, trauma can affect a child’s presenting age. Omegas, if they are in danger, will go through puberty much earlier because most people will take care of an omega even if it’s only to use them to their advantage later; it’s a survival instinct that, in ye olden tymes, omegas would use to suffer through undesirable mates until they had an opportunity to escape and find a better one. Alphas, when in danger, do not present until much later than they normally would because they don’t want to be seen as possible competition or a threat; alphas will also have to suffer through undesirable circumstances until they have an opportunity to they have the opportunity to escape, and it’s only when they feel safe that they finally present. When betas are in danger, they will go into heat, but will not grow knots; this is a throwback to the instinct to take care of omegas, and only when a beta feels safe will their knots form.

(This is why Tony survived what could have been his own murder as well. Obadiah had every plan to kill him too if he presented as an alpha. The stress and anxiety of the uncertain times following his parents’ deaths and Obadiah taking control of the throne kick-started puberty for him, and he presented early out of desperation. Tony says the saddest thing is that he’ll never know for certain whether his parents would have been happy with him being an omega or not. He likes to think they would have been, but he’ll never be sure.)

Maria presents as an alpha and Bucky weeps because finally, finally, one of his children is suave and knows how to flirt. And Maria is the biggest flirt. At one point she even mentions to Loki how if he waits any longer to get married he’ll be an old maid and she’d be open to courting him. She certainly wouldn’t mind coaxing him open, either. Loki chokes on his mead and Steve and Bucky bask in the glory of REVENGE for all the times Loki flirted with Tony just to make them mad. Tony frantically pounds Loki on the back while also scolding Maria for flirting with Loki because he’s thirty years her senior. Maria shrugs, smirking.

Dying didn’t hurt as much as he expected it to, and he made it to Heaven, as far as he could tell, since his beautiful Mama was there waiting for him.
“William,” she said. “You did so good. I’m so proud of you.”
“Not as good as you, Mama.”
She blushed in response but William was surprised to hear a booming laugh in response, the kind of laugh that was so big the person was almost surprised to hear it.
There was a man in a goatee that belonged in the ‘90s wearing a green shirt from decades before that. William could tell from his eyes that he smiled a lot.
The man extended his hand. “Thank you for your kind words earlier, and for taking care of our boy.”
William accepted the handshake. “He really is something, that Randall.”
“Come over here, I wanna show you something.” William was led over to a table with something resembling a photo album. “These are all the memories I have of Randall. I figured you might wanna know a little more about your son when he was younger. He used to really love puzzles because he loved the challenge of trying to put all the pieces together to make a picture. For his seventh birthday we got him a 5000 piece puzzle of a rocket ship because he was really interested in space - he’s just so smart - and-”
“Jack,” William interrupted. “I cannot thank you enough for your adopting Randall and making him part of your family and nurturing him and cultivating his mind-”
“The thing is that I didn’t really have to do much, since he was so independent and all, so willing to take care of other people. But that’s our son.”
William smiled. “Yes. That’s our son.”

anonymous asked:

I kind of feel like my life just isn't busy enough to have a bullet journal. I feel like the only things I do in my journal/planner is homework. What interesting things can I put in a bullet journal?

Oh, love, but you do relax, right? If not, then you should definitely add that into your schedule and therefore write it into your bullet journal! It can be anything - reading a book, going for a walk, have a coffee/tea break, dance, exercise… I include all of these things in my daily spreads. You can also add any housework you have to do for that day. Tbh, I sometimes even put “shower” as my task if I’m just completely out of energy, and having it there helps me to actually do it because it’s very satisfying to tick the little box.

You can also go further than that, though, and create spreads about your interests, which include: to-read list, to-watch list, expenses/income tracker, habit tracker… there are tons of other ideas in my bujo ideas tag.

Don’t feel like your life isn’t interesting/busy enough just because you seemingly don’t have anything to put into your bujo. It might look less busy compared to people who do all kinds of crazy stuff, but who cares about that. I’m sure your life is pretty interesting!! It’s just about the approach - e.g. lately I’ve been really excited about tidying up my room, and I’m actually so excited that I might dedicate a whole spread in my bujo solely for that :’D

I hope I helped! If not, just feel free to contact me further x

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This whole thing looked way funnier in my head (as are all my original posts tbh) I’m sorry. Also a thing I notice from time to time is that people keep deleting my original captions, which is 10000% NOT COOL, so don’t do it. Like at first I’m like oh it’s just a caption who cares, but now for some reason it irritates me so don’t

[Please don’t steal or repost]

I’m falling back into that dark place I was in before. I just miss laying down and you falling asleep beside me. I miss being able to hold your hand and calling you mine. I miss pulling you close and the feeling of your lips against mine. I know I’m whispering to the wind but I just miss you, and I want you back…

anonymous asked:

I just saw your last anon and the tags and it's like, there's Alec hate on my dash right now and it's making me sick. Someone is accusing that Alec didn't "do enough" to try to help Magnus in the last episode when he thought they switched bodies and we need to stop "excusing" him for it and that the episode was shitty writing, etc. Meanwhile I'm just sitting here thinking how incredible that episode was and I don't even care lmfao.

yeah i saw that post lol like people are…..….let me just quote myself from here (lol so pretentious and self congratulatory im sorry): 

“people don’t even try to even think for a second why - it’s all just, he was wrong, he didn’t know, he didn’t notice, he listened to jace instead of his gut, he should be sorry, why didn’t he know, etc. etc. but the point of it is that it was basically an impossible situation - the point was that we knew, but knowing alec’s position – not knowing, being cautious and logical by nature, and having seen valentine’s reprehensibility and manipulations up close and personal – we would understand why it was such a difficult judgment and situation to be in without pointing fingers in blame like little tiny children 

but like…..tbh they overestimated the fandom lol“

first of all….obviously, if we’re talking about the writing, then the gaping hole is the fact that alec could have “tested” fake magnus in some way and then gotten confirmation of the switch and all would have been a-okay. but….this is television….that’s the same reason clary and jace would never do a DNA test to figure out their true identities instead of the 4 dramatic reveals we’ve had…drama on tv doesn’t always make sense. so first of all, i’ll give you this - he could have checked, the episode couldve ended in 15 minutes and magnus would be shaken up but overall  fine and we probably wouldn’t be seeing as drastic of repercussions as we’re likely going to see in his arc in episodes to come. this is absolutely 100% fair enough. i agree that he could have and should have checked in some way, but i also posit that this is TV and sometimes that means heightening tension and suspending a bit of disbelief, but to each their own, not everyone has to agree with that being a necessary evil in tv writing. it’s also true that it likely could have been avoided in some way, but until we know the implications of what happened in this episode, im not going to judge whether it was a good or a bad call

but let’s think about it just in terms of the actual narrative here, not thinking about TV writing and drama and all that. 

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  • Robert: Aaron! Have you told the police?
  • Aaron: Nah, but it's not cos you tried to blackmail me.
  • Robert: Look, I never would have told them Liv took my car. Okay? I panicked. Thanks for not grassing me up.
  • Aaron: What about Lawrence? Will he thank me as well?
  • Robert: That's done now. It's not what you think. I was trying -
  • Aaron: I don't even care. That's between you two. He'll see through you soon enough.
  • Robert: My point is I never meant for Liv to get hurt and I'm sorry. She's seeing social services today, isn't she?
  • Aaron: That's why you're really here, innit?
  • Robert: What? No! Honestly. It's a lot for her to go through, and I was concerned. Do you think she's gonna tell them about the drink being spiked?
  • Aaron: No idea.
  • Paddy: Hiya. How's Liv?
  • Aaron: Oh, thanks for asking. It shows you care about her, rather than just yourself. (walks off)
  • Paddy: Okay.
  • Robert: Call me when you've seen her, yeah? To let me know how she is.
Do you remember the way you used to chase me, always trying your hardest to keep me from doing the wrong thing? I’d been naive, and I jumped on the first thing that looked like my dreams even though you always told me about all the things I couldn’t see. I’d watch your hand poke around in the darkness I’d backed up into, believing that the beacon it was meant that I couldn’t be entirely lost. And every time you just missed me, every time you turned around expecting me to follow you back to safety, you’d realize that I wasn’t there. I had drowned myself. You didn’t do that to me, and you can’t blame yourself for it. Some spells just don’t last long enough to be blissful, and naturally there came a point when that drove me mad. Everything you had predicted came to pass and everything you said would happen did. I’d hate you for it if I could, just like you’d hate me if you didn’t care so much.
—  🖤

anonymous asked:

Hello :) I wanted to ask, have you ever considered turning watercast into an original story? You've probably been asked this before and I'm sorry if this question annoys you but I was just curious. I hope you have a good weekend :) *sends you hugs*

hey, so watercast was an original novel which I adapted for fandom because I’m not well known enough for anyone to care about my OCs haha. most of my big AUs are fleshed out in this manner lmao. 

I do want to get watercast printed (self published) in some form or another once I’m done though, since writing th VLD watercast has changed some aspects of the story for me too so ti’s a work in progress! :)

but yeah i have no idea about how to publish it properly and kinda just assumed that was for writers who have like. giant fanbases (and write porn apparently???) so I’ve never really looked into it….I do know that certain VLD staff read the fic tho *eyeballemoji*

anonymous asked:

I'm a little disappointed w Candice's con. It's so disheartening to hear Candice say she feels Iris getting a reporter arc is a lost cause. I'm so sad. Why don't the writers care about Iris on her own? It just sucks knowing I'll be watching a KF redemption arc, Harry finding himself arc on top of seeing Harrison Wells 4.0. Do the producers hate Candice? Do they feel she isn't talented enough? Why do they go out of their way to write for C and H.W. while paying Iris (and Wally) dust? 😟

I’m sorry you’re disappointed and I totally understand. That being said, I don’t think the producers hate Candice at all. Nor do they think she’s untalented. I think that what they like writing most for Iris is WA, which is a blessing for the ship and a curse for her other storylines.

The other thing to keep in mind is that as much as we hate STAR Labs, they chose to make her its leader precisely to give her something to do. I completely get not having faith in them to make that a good arc or a ‘real’ one, etc. But there is an attempt being made.

As for a KF redemption arc… *whispers* I don’t expect to see much of that, either. I have a feeling it’ll be glossed over pretty easily, which is not a good thing either.

dandelion-wish23  asked:

Hello, so I've known my boyfriend for 3 and a half years, we are 1,715 miles apart and I still have to wait another year and a half, what is some things we can do to make the time go by faster? Or to make us not think about how long it's gonna take? I'm so unbelievably in love with him, he brings the brightest light into my life, and I just want to do anything I can to help the next year and a half and do you have any cute long distance relationship gift ideas? Thank you sorry for bothering.

Hi lovely! first of all thank you for trusting me enough to ask me, it means a lot to me! And second of all, you seem like such a caring and loving person and just such a beautiful human, thats admirable! 

This would be my tips on a ldr:

  1. Always take one day at a time! It makes things easier, when you wake up don’t think about the fact that you gotta wait a year, just tell yourself you only have to get throughout the day! 
  2. Everyday that goes by is a day less to see your partner! 
  3. Get creative! You can do a date, both of you Facetiming and having dinner at the same time, maybe read to each other over the phone etc.
  4. Take a lot of pictures and videos! Show your parter how your city is, how your friends look like, do a tiny vlog about your favorite café so he/she can see how your favorite place is like!
  5. Write a list of the reasons why youre on a ldr or why you don’t have to get sad, etc!  This actually helps, i once wrote on my journal stuff like “now you may feel sad but you’re going to see him soon and everything will be so wonderful. I wrote this while i felt completely proud and happy about our relationship!” So when i felt sad or frustrated i’d read it and remember that there are also good days!!
  6. Find cute/different ways to tell your partner how special he/she is! You can write a mail instead of sending a text or send him a video or a painting, etc!


I don’t have that many cool gift ideas but I have some tips you may find useful! 

Sending a package per post takes so long and its expensive (at least where i live) so I find out that sending my bf a present via amazon is so much simple! You can customize the present, it can have a nice wrapping paper, you can add a little personal note and it will arrive in a matter of days!! (plus you don’t have to spend on the present AND the shipping!)

I also collect a lot of cute stuff that i find in my city (very silly things like armbands, bookmarks, pressed flowers, pictures or drawing, candy, etc) and when i have a lot of things I send them in a package after collecting them for months! I live in Mexico and he doesn’t so i send him super mexican stuff! 

Obviously letters are always cute! And you can also send flowers through websites! https://www.enviaflores.com this one is from Mexico but there are many all over the world!

Other thing that i find cute are presents with a goal! He once sent me a beautiful journal so I could write all my thoughts and do sketches there whenever i felt sad or missed him! I also thought about sending him a Fujifilm Instax Camera so he could take pictures of his favorite days so he could show me when we are together!!

I hope this helps you darling! And please feel free to message me if you feel like talking! Sending you all my love and the best vibes and wishes!!! xxxxxx

anonymous asked:

My bf posted a picture of me which I told him was okay but one of his friends texted him and was bashing me and my body. It made me cry and my bf said he would unfriend him but couple days later he told be he wasn't going to and just wouldn't let his friend be there when I was there. I'm kinda upset about it but like should I be? Am I over reacting and what should I do?

I AM SO SORRY THAT THIS HAPPENED.

But if your boyfriend can stand back and watch someone bully you, degrade you, hurt you and your confidence… I would tell him BYE:)

You’re allowed to be upset over something like this and you should be very upset. He clearly doesn’t care enough about you or your feelings if he can just let people say things like that and be okay with it.