Aunt Jiili, I hope you don't mind that I call you 'Aunt Jilli' in my head. Like, when I see your posts on my dash, I go, "Oh hey, it's Aunt Jilli's reblog." It seems terribly impersonal, and I apologise in advance. Maybe someone will run into you in the streets one day, shouting, "Oh my gosh, it's Aunt Jilli!" That rude person is probably me.
You are absolutely allowed to call me ‘Aunt Jilli’! It’s not impersonal; gracious, I’ve been calling my self your (the collective your, which includes you, Anon!) Auntie Jilli for years now.
If you do run into me somewhere and shout something like “Aunt Jilli!”, be reassured by the fact that you’re not the first to have done so. And I won’t mind at all. :D