i hope someone likes it idk

where was Chris in today’s clip tho???? where??? i missed her… 

I hope tomorrow, if we get a clip, someone like even, isak, chris, elias or eva (though she didn’t seem to care so much today, idk) approaches sana, someone whom she feels comfortable enough to open up with and talk about everything she’s going through, she really needs it because once again, people need people

anonymous asked:

Do you think someone can really be bisexual ? Idk I think it's like make up your mind already how do you not know what you like ???

Let me list this because I have a lot of feelings about bisexuality:

1. Why does it matter what gender someone else likes, everyone needs to worry about themselves.
2. Bisexuality is incredibly valid
3. Sexuality in its entirety is fluid
4. I really hope you’re straight because anyone in the lgBtq+ community that denies bisexuality is, in my opinion, is a hypocrite. How can someone that fights for their sexualities validation have the nerve to deny someone else of theirs??????!!!!!!
5. It doesn’t matter who identifies as what it’s their own business
6. Why the fuck not embrace bisexuality? What? Are you afraid they’re gonna reduce the pool of opportunities for love/sex for you? That’s selfish and silly and just plain wrong.
7. You can make up your mind one day about something and then have an experience change your entire life. Example: I used to despise hot sauce and now I love it.
8. You don’t know what another person is going through so don’t judge. Maybe they’re trying to ease their way into whichever community they want.
9. Why take both genders off the table? Everyone is different and is attracted to different things and people. It’s just life, embrace differences.
10. Love is love

anonymous asked:

i hate it when people are like "i really hope they never get girlfriends because I'll cry" and "back off girls, he's mine!" about the twins because 1. It makes me cringe SO BADLY and 2 its just kinda disrespectful. If the twins want to date someone, they 100% can and I would support it completely. I would be a little sad but they would obviously never date a hardcore fan even if they said they would because tbh that would be a little creepy. Idk, I think people need to let them live & be happy.

oh gosh I’m cringing. it’s honestly so bad how a lot of people think they can dictate the boy’s life and actually tell them who they’re allowed to date and not. the day the twins’ get a girlfriend, I’ll be happy for them x

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What is a legacy? It’s planting seeds in a garden you never get to see.

okay but what if the pictures in the dark room were all of tyler’s possible targets. it’s clear that toward the end of the series Tyler is being pushed toward violence and anger. On top of bullying the came along with clay’s picture he is also being pushed around by Monty. this could possibly be why alex’s picture is torn down because we see him in the ambulance before it is confirmed who it is. that’s why the head wound left alex alive but in critical condition, because he didn’t do it himself. the odds of someone surviving a self-inflicted gunshot to the head are usually unlikely. plus after we see the ambulance we see tyler stashing away his guns probably after fleeing his crime scene as he has gotten good at stalking. he is probably planning on targeting the school and everyone mentioned on the tapes. BUT LIKE THATS JUST MY THEORY IDK I JUST KINDA HOPE THERES A SECOND SEASON. I LIKE THE SHOW AS A STAND ALONE AND THOUGH ITS VERY CLOSE TO THE BOOK AND I LIKE WHEN THINGS STAY ACCURATE ID REALLY LIKE A CONTINUATION

it’s really sad to think about people who used to be such a prominent part of your life who are not really there any more. not necessarily because of a fight or something but because things just change over time and you slowly drift apart. idk it kinda makes me sad to think about. i hope all the people who i was once close with and drifted away from are doing well thanks for being in my life at one point 

Slavic music masterpost (1/?) ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฟ๐Ÿ‡ท๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฆ

Btw the songs in bold are the ones you absolutely have to listen to, no excuses.

Pop-folk/folkrock

Христина Соловій - Под облачком (Under the window, UA)
Jana Kirschner - Sama (Alone, SK)
KiRA MAZUR - NARODNA (National, UA)
Kristina - Horehronie, SK
Христина Соловій - Гамерицький край (American country, UA)
Отар Немсадзе з Христиною Соловій (idk the name, but it’s gorgeous, UA)
IMT Smile & Lúčnica - Made in Slovakia, SK
Jana Kirschner - Na čiernom koni (On a black horse, SK)

Sung poetry 

The Retuses - Sagitta RU
The Retuses - Письмо к женщине (Letter to a woman, RU)
Miroslav Žbirka - Jesenná láska (Autumn love, SK)
Jaromír Nohavica - Mám jizvu na rtu (I have a scar on the lip, CZ)
Emma Drobná - čerešne (Cherries, SK)
Михаил Круг - Золотые купола (Golden domes, RU)
М Круг - ВОДОЧКУ ПЬЁМ (We drink vodka, RU)
Владимир Высоцкий - Охота на волков (Wolf hunt, RU)
Владимир Высоцкий - Милицейский протокол (Police protocol, RU)
Jan Nedvěd - Podvod (Deception, CZ)                                                                        

Rock/pop-rock (A short list but I promise these are all gems.)

Океан Ельзи - Не твоя війна (Not your war, UA)
Lucie - Chci zas v tobě spát (I want to sleep in you again, CZ)
I.M.T. Smile - Kapela (Band, SK)
IMT SMILE - Duch človeka (Spirit of a man, SK)
Святослав Вакарчук - Така, як ти (A one like you, UA)

Pop

Tina Karol - Nochenka (Night, RU)
Христина Соловій - Хто, як не ти? (Who, if not you?, UA)
I.M.T. Smile - Myslim, ze moze byt (I think it could be, SK)
Jana Kirschner - Pokoj v duši (Peace in the soul, SK)
Hana Zagorová - Maluj zase obrázky (Paint pictures again, CZ)
Kristína - Ta ne (Duuuuh, SK)
Kristína & Robo Grigorov - Na vysokej skale (On a high mountain, SK)
Peha - Spomal (Slow down, SK)
Тимати feat. Григорий Лепс - Лондон (London, RU)
Kristina - Horehronie, SK
Потап и Настя - Почему (Why, RU)
KAMIL MIKULČÍK & NELA POCISKOVÁ LEŤ TMOU (Fly by the dark, SK)
Richard Muller - Cigaretka na 2 ťahy (A cigarette, SK)
Kryštof - Cesta ft. Tomáš Klus (A journey, CZ)
Marie Rottrová - To mám tak ráda (I like that, CZ)

Rap/pop-rap (This one is really short, but Slavic rap sucks so..)

Majk Spirit - Boh Jediný (The only God, SK)
PIL C - TERIYAKI, SK
ЯрмаК - Вставай (Get up, RU+UA)
ЯрмаК - Чёрное золото (Black gold, RU)
Majk Spirit - Zbojník (A hooligan, SK)
Rytmus - Povolanie Syn, SK

Bonus: ???

Tina Karol - Pupsik (?) RU
Ivan Kupala - Kostroma RU
Потап и Настя - Край ми э ривер (Cry me a river) RU
Тимати feat. Рекорд Оркестр - Баклажан (Eggplant) RU
Потап и Настя - Чумачечая Весна (??) RU
Настя Каменских - Песня Красной Шапочки (??) RU

Things from today's live showโ™ก:
27/4/17

• phil: “There’s no DAWG… at the moment,”

• phil is keeping his bedroom aesthetic

• dan is changing is bedroom aesthetic

• he has a floating white bed ??

• he’s keeping all things silver !

•playing with cardboard boxes ,?,,

• chat: “when will you get a dog?” phil: “one day,”

• gaming video room has been set up !!

• mystery glass ??/

• dan in pink :))

• they touched the sydney opera house in AUS

• they watched fantastic beasts, lion, hacksaw ridge, nerve and snowden on the plane

• dan cried watching hacksaw ridge :’(

• had a little zoo trip

• the danisnotonfire desk is not in his bedroom and has been moved to the living room :?

• phil is still filming in his bedroom

• phil: “I requested a plant.” dan: “I bought a plant!”

• dan @ phil: “prepare inspirations for me,”

• SNUG (living room) !

• dan has a white piano !!

• “are you still trying to get revenge on me for the cereal?” “yes!”

• phil: “I know we can’t have a dog, but can we have a fish?”

• d&p talking about the science art museum and taking photos of eachother !

• dan cried at the show with the metal flower tree :“((((

• boomerangs at the aquarium !

• dan was given sparkley nail polish

• phil: “It just releases your pastely aesthetic,”

• phil: “I think I can probably get away with a fish or a hamster,”

• chat: “are you gonna curl you hair?” phil: “I think i’ll do it for a video at some point,”

• playlist live !

• phil is going to florida with the family

• harry’s new solo is phil’s favourite :))

• dan cried watching the last gaming video, back :’((((((

• some videos next week !!

• favourite room; gaming room !

• phil’s new room is “cozy and quiet” ♡

• dan: “I want to make the new danisnotonfire background, pretty” ♡

• dan has a bonsai !

• dan has an idea for a new dinof video (ooo)

• he has one final video in his old room

• dan said he purposely gave us hints about them moving in his last younow (we all knew lmao)

• phil called dans hair soft and poked it

• phil: “if i had natural curls i’d let them curl”

• the new apartment is called steve/dave/thor

• dan: “phil why won’t you paint your nails?”

• someone at phil’s university painted his nails and he didn’t like it :( (rip)

• probably a dinof video on monday and dans live show on tuesday !

• phil will try to do one in florida !

• “we’re just two irrelevant twits; dan and phil”

Infection AU -Bad ending-

previous one: http://thebirdfromthemoon-art.tumblr.com/post/158073555662/thebirdfromthemoon-art-what-would-happen-i

Soooo i decided to make an AU out of this -kinda- but i couldn’t decide in which way i wanted it to go so f**** it let’s just make two different ending for this AU

And of course i’m starting by the “bad” one

Basically after Ladybug was hit by Chat Noir’ cataclysm she didn’t feel anything at first, since she have the ladybug miraculous she is more resistant to it BUT instead of killing her instantly like it would happen with a normal citizen the cataclysm “infection” gros slowly on her body affecting both her physical and mental state. In my idea she become “corrupted” like an akuma can corrupt someone into turning evil but a bit more intense.

I’ll probably draw the corrupted version of Ladybug, but it will more likely look like the design i’ve made in the past for akumatized ladybug.

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happy valentines’ day to @maenie! i was only your wonwoo anon for a little bit YES THAT WAS ME LOOOOOL, but i wanted to make you something anyway~ | 1 2

say you’ll remember me

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mingyu x reader fluff, angst, implied smut

6,445 words

a/n: i know some parts of this are so *stares right into the camera* obnoxiously cheesy but guess what? i like this and i just donโ€™t care. iโ€™m currently writing a horribly stupidly long hoseok fic, but i realized the writing had gotten a little stale n asked my bff for a prompt to write aย โ€œficletโ€ (this was supposed to be 2k or less) and she gave me: mingyu, fluff and angst, wildest dreams by taylor swift (because my mingyu tag is โ€œheโ€™s so tall and handsome as hellโ€). so ta da, this is what u get

~ in which your young, dumb love will hurt you, will ruin you, has an expiration dateโ€ฆbut is so, so worth it


ย ย ย  You never forgot to visit your hometown in the summertime. Of course, it was nice to see your family, but you could see them any time of the year, and saw them often in the fall and the winter. What made the long drive from the city worth it in the hundred degree weather, sun glaring down on the hood of your car and baking you inside of it, was the chance to see the seaside in all its glory. Youโ€™d been raised in a humble beach town and youโ€™d seen it a thousand times, but youโ€™d be happy to see it a thousand more. As a kid, you couldnโ€™t say youโ€™d appreciated it much. The town itself and the beach were a little dumpy, nothing to write home about.

ย ย ย  It was the memories youโ€™d created there once upon a time that made it special. As you pulled into a spot in the tiny parking lot and cut the ignition, you could remember late nights in the backseat of a car a lot older and rustier than this one, making your own heat as you pressed your sweat-slicked body to another. You trudged out onto the sand and as it flattened beneath your sneakers, you remembered squishing it between your toes as you watched a certain young man wading in the shallow ocean waters. Heโ€™d splashed some little kids nearby, pretending to fall beneath the surface with the weight of their own splashes back at him, and youโ€™d imagined how this scene would look many years from now with children who were the perfect mix of you and him. Youโ€™d been 17 then.

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anonymous asked:

protective keith hc??

rightYes, yes, yes, yes

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-Keith doesn’t really know why hes over protective of his friends, or people he regards as family. He also didn’t realize it wasn’t a normal thing that ALL humans felt. Until school that it. 

-Will kick your ass, and gladly do it, if you so much as even look a wrong way at someone he loves. The looks may include, but are not limited too: 

  • Dirty looks
  • Sexual looks
  • mean looks 
  • mocking looks

-He gets jealous really easily as well, because he is insecure about his friends and family leaving him, so he gets jealous really really easily. 

  • For a long time he didn’t like Lance because he thought Lance was trying to be Shiro’s new little brother, and he doesn’t want too be replaced. 
  • Him and Lance talk it out, and finds out that Shiro is just Lance’s role model and he just wanted too be useful too the team. 
  • Needless too say, Keith becomes extra protective of lance- he doesn’t realise it but Lance is probably maybe most definitely his mate (I have a head canon Galra have mates, because of the need too reproduce a lot, and efficiently.)

-If you threaten his friends in anyway, He will kill you. 

-On a mission, a galra soldier had lance in a head lock, choking out his air. This triggered Keith too go full galra at the sight of his best friend [Re: Mate] in pain. The ending result wasn’t pretty, and he wouldnt allow anyone but Hunk near Lance.

[Okay but, Lance gets captured by Hagar, and Keith freaks out, and Haggar is like, “You want your little mate, red one?” And after they save lance everyone is like, “Mate???” ALlura explains and Lance and Keith blush]

-Someone once made Pidge cry (By saying they hoped her family died, IDK why they said this, IDk why I would make this happned, but lets pretend.) ANd Keith WHipped their asses too hell and back. 

-Do. Not. Insult. Hunk. In. Anyway. He will rip you to shreds, escp. because Hunk is his mates protector (a galra thingy) and he genuinely loves hunk like another brother. 

a few thoughts about RSD cus i was typing out a huge thing anyway LMAO

OK SO i’ve been hoping someone would mention this bc I personally have been having a WILD TIME with this particular symptom! But knowing what it is is definitely helping me figure out how to cope with it cus it is definitely a roller coaster.

My particular experience idk how frequent it is in the ADHD community but like you, I was never told about this symptom at all. [but for me a lot of adhd symptoms im actually discovering through research and not doctors visits]

BASICALLY ok rejection sensitive dysphoria is for right now as far as we know, ADHD specific, though there have been discussions in a ton of communities over how it is possible some BPD [borderline personality disorder, not bipolar] sufferers experience it as well. But until thats really delved upon, right now, it is ADHD specific. [research changes constantly and alters all we know]

However we know ADHD sufferers are all under the same umbrella when it comes to being more sensitive to rejection, teasing, criticism, or feeling like you’ve failed. So far its believed at least 90%-100% of ADHD people experience this, as after being told what it is instantly identify it within themselves.

Rejection sensitive dysphoria feels like this ok:

Lets imagine everything’s fine in your day, but you say something to someone and you’re not expecting it, but they either make you feel slighted/insulted/rejected/youre not good enough. Even if they don’t mean to! Even if they are not trying to hurt your feelings and didn’t think about it, it just comes across that way.

What this causes you to feel is an immediate overwhelming emotional response and there are 2 ways most ADHD people react to it. The common symptom overall is just an overwhelming sense of discomfort and pain. It is so intense that you feel you may not be able to live with it.

Internalized: You feel extremely distressed and like you’ve hit a low point. From now on, nothing you do ever again will ever matter. You’ve hit the end of the road in your life. Suicide and ending it all seem like a reasonable thing to do, but you know you’re not going to do that. You become noticeably depressed and low energy. Most people who have this response believe they’ve been misdiagnosed and are actually rapid-cycling bipolar, but thats because this is a very commonly missed symptom of ADHD.

Externalized: You lash out at the person causing you pain. It seems only right, as they were the one causing you this INTENSE discomfort. It really appears like you’re having an anger meltdown of sorts. Lashing out you expect to feel some relief but may soon realize you’ve overreacted, and embarrassed yourself, which unfortunately causes more pain and embarrassment.

Anyhow, what this causes I’ve learned in a lot of ADHD sufferers is it alters their behavior so much bc they want to avoid this feeling SO MUCH that they will do one of several [or all] of these with their life:

  1. Become people pleasers. Forgetting their personal goals, they look into what others around them are really really into and chameleon those things, seeking praise and admiration. This is seen as a way to avoid the intense pain of RSD.
  2. Stop trying. If you don’t try something new, you can’t fail at it. It’s really not worth the risk of subjecting yourself repeatedly to this dysphoria. The idea of putting yourself out there provokes such an intensely deep anxiety that it stops you dead in your tracks.
  3. Become perfectionists. Using the sensation of RSD to overachieve, they strive to be the absolute best at what they do. They seek to be above criticism, you cannot criticize this perfection. The problem this causes, as it does seem glamorous, is that perfection is never attainable so they are constantly driven to achieve more. Overworked, stressed, never satisfied with the outcome.

Coping:

Ok so there’s not a lot about coping with RSD that doesn’t deal with medication, but I’m not medicated and so I’m here to tell you what you might can do to help yourself.

First off, just knowing this thing has a name has really helped and let me step back and analyze whenever I start to feel these come on, and I know I’m not alone there. The intense pain of RSD is actually stated to as an episode, so treating these as you would a mood swing or mood episode could be a good start.

When you feel yourself being slighted over something someone has said, do not react to them right away. Give yourself a bit of space. Analyze it. Do you have the right to feel the way you’re starting to feel? You have to be honest with yourself.

If you see that no harm was intended, but feel slighted and start to feel this emotional reaction, you have to distance yourself. If internalized, maybe ask for attention but do not demand it or rely on it, maybe talk about something else and come back to this later.

If you feel like you’re about to lash out at others, definitely remove yourself from the situation until you’ve calmed down. You’ll feel a lot better about not reacting to the first thing that comes to mind later, thus saving yourself further embarrassment dysphoria.

Overall, I know its hard to be easy on yourself when the stakes are so high emotionally. But you have to try. I’m not a professional and I’m still trying to see whats beneficial to coping with this. Trying not to ignore your own emotions, but also seeing where the line should be drawn between acknowledgement and letting yourself get lost in it.

Do any followers or mods have any coping ideas?

-Mod Speedo