Ace dom here, my sub recently introduced me to the D/s dynamic and i've taken to it uh... rather fast haha. something i like to do is something like a 'reverse punishment' ? not quite reward but maybe? Neither of us have great self views, (deflecting compliments/negative jokes), so i get them to tell me how much /I/ love them, how much they deserve my love, how good and wonderful they are. I was wondering if any other doms do this? I haven't seen it anywhere else yet. Thanks!
Hey hey! I’ve seen something like it? It’s like aftercare without the punishment beforehand? Anybody else?