So I guess the latest thing in the monosexual tag is someone made a comment about not understanding monosexuality? Or called it weird?
Well, I don’t understand monosexuality. Note, I don’t say “Gay sexuality” is weird, or “Straight Sexuality”. I say monosexual because - for me - being attracted to only one gender is a completely alien concept. I have no frame of reference for it, I have no idea what it feels like because I have had attractions to multiple genders for as long as I’ve been attracted to people. I, literally, do not understand what it is like to be monosexual. That is not a value statement (I am not disparaging being attracted to one gender) - it’s simply the truth.
I also do not understand what it’s like to be a woman. Or trans. Or an oppressed race.
Am I being homophobic by saying that?