i have to deal with it and you have to deal with it

anonymous asked:

what's happened with seungkwan?

It’s explained well right over here; the entire situation just doesn’t make sense to me. The response itself could be interpreted negatively but, that’s honestly such a stretch of a route to take. It’s not something that deserved the attention it got and the fact that it could affect Seungkwan and Seventeen negatively is annoying. I don’t want to invalidate anyone’s feelings but it’s something that could be reasoned out of easily.

anonymous asked:

What if the Rogues get to be The Flash's major threat next season? What if at the end of Legends, Len is somehow alive and the timeline is intact but he still never had a connection with Barry or the Legends? They go back to before his deal with the Flash? And Len's against making a deal this time around because he figures thats when he started to get soft and ended up dead.

What if the Rogues get to be The Flash’s major threat next season?

Originally posted by thatblokematti

And by “hello” I mean “Rogues”.

No but really, that’s all I want.

I have no idea if they’d go that route, but I think it’s safe to say that the show writers have realized that the speedster villains have tired out the audience and the next most obvious choice is the Rogues in some capacity or another.

And personally I’m a fan of a Len who doesn’t kill innocents and does know Barry’s name but isn’t really on the good guys’ side, is still a thief and criminal and willing to be violent and do what he has to without playing by their rules. So I’d hope for this Len (legion!Len, after he ditches the Legion) but with some form of understanding with Barry maybe. It might be nice to see them go full-tilt against each other though.

Ahhhh, there’s so many possibilities. Honestly though, so long as Len is alive at the end of this season of Legends, I’ll call it a win.

anonymous asked:

Have you ever had any hate comments on YouTube or on here, and if you have how did you deal with it?

LOL. Dude, I’m a woman on YouTube. Of course I get hate. Tons of it.

I don’t really deal with it, to be honest. It doesn’t bother me a whole lot. Studies show that people who cyber bully are usually young to middle aged men living in their parents’ basements living unhappy, unfulfilled lives. They attack people online to make themselves feel superior. Of course, there are a few Regina Georges sprinkled in the mix as well. But with haters like that, how can I be mad? Their lives suck, and mine’s awesome. I’m literally living my passion - I’ve got my dream job, my dream home, my dream guy, and great shoes. If I were them, I’d envy me, too.

I guess what I’m saying is, I pity them. Sort of. I pity them for a millisecond, then I attribute their lack of success to their terrible attitude. Karma’s done ‘em right. 

Then I keep on living my fabulous life <3 

anonymous asked:

I don't wanna sound rude but your art is similar to rebornica/mx bones and I was wondering if you were them? bc I know they deleted their tumblr so I don't see why they'd be back under a different name, sorry if this is annoying or if it's been asked before!

alright, this is the first and last ask i’m going to answer about this subject, but don’t worry anon! you’re fine and i don’t mean to sound rude, so i’m very sorry if i do!

this is a pretty touchy subject because of reasons i don’t think should be said, and for things that most of you can probably guess anyways.

so first, i have multiple styles i draw in, not just one. i have a sharper style, a soft style, and my alternative style. though these are the only three i have names for, and the ones i mainly use. i change styles for months at a time, even.

secondly, i am not rebornica. i am not mxbones. i am monsterkitties, and that’s the long and the short of it. i’m not hiding my identity, i’m not pretending to be someone else, my name is bekant and that’s it. no, none of the art on this blog or any other blog of mine is traced. i have never traced a piece of art in my life, and i don’t plan to, ever. i drew all of the art on my blog with my own hands. there’s also so much evidence on this blog that i am not rebornica, and if you want this evidence just go through my archive.

anonymous asked:

It's weird that you chose a major dealing with other people because you seem harsh towards others and lacking in compassion. You seem like you're better with people in theory rather than in practice. No offense, just what I see. You can hold yourself back for a few days and then the asshole resurfaces. You don't seem like the type who'd be good at dealing with flesh-and-blood people on a personal basis. But maybe it's an Internet persona or whatever. Maybe you're different in person, idk.

I’ve been working with flesh and blood people since I was in elementary school and have extensive experience doing peer counseling, tutoring for at risk youth, and community service that put me in direct contact with members of various underserved communities like the elderly, the homeless, and the disabled on a regular basis. That I don’t have the patience to coddle anons who get off on sending me stupid shit on the internet does not correlate to my ability to work with people or my compassion in my day to day life. You do not know me. You see a very small portion of the person that I am. Do not try to pass value judgements and psychoanalyze on the basis of your extremely limited knowledge of my personality.

anonymous asked:

Ben, I know it's not a question about su, but how do you deal with anxious thoughts about literally everything? My grandmother is really ill, i struggle to live up to my parents expectations (it so hard for me to study, socialize, start relationships with "opposite" gender even if im gay), dumbest fears about very trivial things.

Oh it’s no problem, mystery gem! You can ask non SU things whenever you need to!

I don’t really always have the healthiest coping mechanisms … Sometimes I just keep ignoring my problems even when it’d be much better for my mental health to deal with them.

I think the best thing to do is juggle what you have to do with what you love to do. Like, study for 10 minutes, do something you enjoy for 10 minutes, then get back to studying. It’s hard, but sometimes you gotta make yourself tackle the difficult things.

At the same time, don’t push yourself too hard! Your body and mind will tell you when it’s time to stop and take a breather.

But for the record … those aren’t dumb fears. Those are very common, terrifying things. You’re not alone in being afraid of what might come to pass!

My warmest wishes to your grandmother. I sincerely hope she can recover soon. But about your studies, and your potential relationships? Please don’t fret too much! Just do your best in your studies – the educational system is fucky anyway. Plus your parents’ expectations don’t matter if they don’t line up with who you are.

And don’t worry about starting a relationship until you’re ready, and until it’s with someone you have genuine feelings for.

Best of luck, and I hope everything gets better soon! And if not, you always have other mystery gems here who I’m sure would love to be your friend and support you. Stay safe out there. 💖

Dear Charlie,

I’m so sorry, I think I’m bad again. I never learn, Charlie, why can’t I love myself? What made me hate myself so much? I feel like shit. I feel like whatever I do, say or think is wrong. I’m about to lose hope, you know, maybe people can’t change and if I hated myself for 8 years I will hate myself until I die. No one has ever truly loved me, is it because I can’t love myself? I’m not even brave enough to kill myself, I’m not sure why. Maybe it’s because I can’t get anything done right. It’s Monday and I want it to be Friday already just to get drunk and forget that I have to deal with my feelings. Everytime I wake up my bad thoughts hit me. I’m sorry for my friends because they also have to deal with this part of me. Anyway I don’t really tell them how I feel because they will think I’m crazy and never talk to me again, so I just pretend I’m okay all the time, which is also killing me inside but I don’t care ‘cause I’m already hurt. I don’t know what can I do.

Love always, your friend, Lfh.



‘Look I have enough to deal with as it is.  Schedules, mutant frogs, Onslaught, Emplate, not to mention my students.  So, the last thing I need is to deal with you and your imaginary nemesis who wants to take over the world’. 

Emma is having NONE of Nightmare’s nonsense.  The fact that she apparently is on the radar of some the heavier magic-hitters in the Marvel Universe is also quite awesome. 

From Generation X # 22 by Lobdell and Bachalo

anonymous asked:

An anti - self dx post came up on my dash and claimed that we "don't have harmful stims" and that stimming is awkward for others and shouldn't be normalized and I read it without knowing what it was until it was too late and it made me so upset and I have no idea how to handle that. It threw me off so badly and now I just feel absolutely awful and like I'm stealing a label not meant for me. Any advice on how to deal with things like this because it comes up occasionally and completely uproots me

First, I’m sorry you came across such ableist garbage. It can be really hard to deal with things like that. You are not invalid or stealing a label that doesn’t belong to you. Not all autistics have harmful stims and stimming is not awkward and should be normalized.

As for how to deal with it, the first thing I would suggest is to surround yourself in autism positivity. Search the #autism positivity or #positivelyautistic tags to see some positive stuff about autistics. You can also search #pro self dx to see posts in support of self diagnosis. Hopefully seeing all of the positivity and support will help reassure and validate you.

When you’re upset, let yourself stim as much as you need to in order to help yourself re-regulate. Put on a comfort show or movie. Indulge yourself in things that make you feel good. Do whatever self care you need in order to feel better.

Finally, some positivity for you. Stimming is beautiful and wonderful. It is a great means of self-regulation and expression. It is a language unique to each person who uses it. Stimming should be accepted and normalized as there is nothing wrong with stimming and, in fact, it is very useful to many people.

Self-diagnosis is completely valid. There are so many barriers that can stand between a person and a professional diagnosis including, but not limited to, money, racial bias, gender bias, and repercussions of a diagnosis. Self-diagnosis is a way to find answers to long unanswered questions and to find ways to help yourself live a better life. If you are self-diagnosed, you are valid and you are welcome in the community.


anonymous asked:

Hey guys, I'm a boarder at a school and after a certain incident with one of the girls in my dorm, who has now left, I'm extremely nervous around the other girls in my dorm. Any advice on how to get more confident with them?

Don’t say it Dean. -Katie

Punch them. -Dean

I think that’s what Katie said not to say. -Sam

I did, BUT I’m sorry that you’re having to deal with that drama. I imagine boarding school has moments that are very hard but if you have to deal with drama I imagine it only gets worse. -Katie

Are these other girls causing problems for you too or are you worried about how they’ll react to everything? -Sam

If I were you I’d sit them down and talk about whatever happened if they try to start any more drama. -Katie

Or you could just punch them. -Dean

thep0ptartqueen  asked:

Can I got some fluffy head canons with Enki please? P.s. I love your writing keep up the good work <3

((I’m glad you like my writing!! ;w; and yes, you get ALL the big monkey dork fluffs))

•I might have mentioned this before but he lets you ride on his shoulders

•A lot of people ask how you deal with the height difference and you just tell them that there’s nothing to deal with and that his height doesn’t matter.

•He won’t tell you, but that made him really happy.

•All your pictures together have a really serious Enki and you don’t mind. He doesn’t really like taking pictures, but he does it for you and you won’t push him to smile.

•He rarely, very rarely, calls you a petname. But when he does, it’s the best feeling because it’s so special.

•You don’t get neck pains looking to talk to him because he actually kneels down to your level. And that’s just like so sweet of him?

inline-vandal  asked:

I'm sorry you have to deal with assholes. I don't see what their deal is. People take characters and write/draw them being gay (and are fine with it) all the time, so why is it different when you do the same with Silver? It doesn't make any sense. Anyway, I like what I've seen of your work and hope you keep up the great job. Hopefully the jerks will calm the fuck down and leave you alone. If they don't, just remember that there are people that support you. Hope you have a better day/night.

thank you! ITS OK THOUGH it was just one person, honestly i dont get a lot of people sending me stuff like that directly so its usually not a big deal. mostly i just encounter it out in other spaces yknow, like seeing sonic fans use the f slur or seeing like “NO YAOI/YURI” on commission pages

anonymous asked:

63 and 76

63. “Flea markets don’t carry fleas, you know?”

“The last thing we need is more junk,” Ben tells her, averting his gaze.

Because he knows he’s in trouble now. Because he so didn’t just insult Buddy’s Wheels and Deals and Other Things.

No, sir. Not in front of her. 

She has a 50% off coupon for any wheel or deal or other thing she could possibly want!

“I mean,” he starts. “You do have a slight hoarding tendency, honey. And we have three four year olds, so that’s three times the clutter of a typical household. Last week, Sonia found twenty stuffed animal raccoons in our basement and started grooming them. Grooming them, Leslie.”

She huffs. “I get it, Ben.” 

He looks at her, but she can’t see his eyes through his dark sunglasses. “But do you really get it, babe? Because I really don’t want to live in a crazy nightmare hoarder’s nest. Again.”

“Hey, my old house wasn’t even that bad.”

Oh no. She knows she just opened a heated discussion on that one, so she finally puts the car in park and crosses her arms over her chest. Instead of going on about how her Time Magazine collection was older than they were or how she should stop collecting medieval swords (especially after a not so well thought out roleplay scenario that earned Ben twenty stitches on his knee), Ben just grins crookedly at her before tucking a stray piece of hair behind her ear.

“You’re right,” he says. “But I hate flea markets. They’re very cluttered and pretty disgusting.”

“Flea markets don’t carry fleas, you know?”

He grins again. “Yes, Leslie, I know there aren’t any fleas.” But then he quickly reconsiders, and she watches his face fall. “Wait, actually, we don’t know that for sure. There are lots of weird things in that store, and, quite frankly, I don’t feel comfortable going in there, especially not in these clothes,” he explains, motioning down to his lazy Saturday jeans and flannel.

Leslie smirks. “Then just don’t go in there with any clothes on at all.”

“Yeah, I bet you’d like that,” he smirks back. “But, seriously, do we really need anymore knickknacks? I mean, five dolls from the 1800s stare at me while I sleep every night, and it’s more frightening than anything.”

Leslie gasps. “Don’t ever say that about Margaret, Elizabeth, Clara, Florence, and Gertrude!”

“Really?” he questions. “You want to go in there and, presumably, buy more creepy dolls that watch your beloved husband sleep?”

She leans over, tugging him forward by his red and grey plaid shirt. “I’m going to need this conversation to stop,” she says.

Ben gulps, eyebrows high. “Um, okay? Why?” 

“You’re really turning me on right now,” she tells him, as if it’s the most obvious thing in the world (and it totally and definitely is). 

“Me talking about scary ass dolls is turning you on?”

She shakes her head, sealing his lips closed with a kiss. “Stop talking, Benjamin.”

“Of course, m’lady,” he whispers. 


76. “Please put your penis away.” 

“Uh, h-honey?” she hears Ben stammer from the living room where their two and a half year old triplets are playing.

She gets up from the kitchen table, leaving behind her binders and paperwork. She pops her back and is in the process of yawning when she sees what her husband obviously called her in here for. “Um…” she manages to get out. “What is he doing?” Her eyes widen, and her pulse quickens, and their son’s a little too young for this, right? 

Of course, she vividly remembers both Stephen and Wesley shoving their hands in their diapers when they were just babies, but they’re active and happy toddlers who have no business doing what Stephen’s doing right now.

Ben’s brown orbs are locked on their son, his Adam’s apple bobbing up and down. “I think he’s –”

Leslie shakes her head. “Don’t even think about finishing that sentence, Wyatt.” 

“But it’s true!” he states incredulously. “Look at him! He’s –”

“Nope. Nuh uh, Benjamin. Don’t talk about our precious baby boy that way.” Leslie scoops Stephen up in her arms (admittedly a bit reluctantly based upon what they just witnessed), and the two year old shrieks. “Please put your penis away,” she tells him. “Permanently and forever until you’re old enough for this to make any sense at all to me.”

She and Ben exchange nervous glances, and she watches Ben eye a still innocent Wesley a bit more carefully.

anonymous asked:

thats what she thought too, she did have a lot of friends though, and now we all have to deal with our friend killing herself, which is something that i hope you never have to deal with even given how much of a monster i think you are.

did you know if you delete caillous mouth it looks like his nose is a tinier mouth? a guy i met last year told me that and then he transferred out to a different college.

you are not obligated to
  • be someone’s counselor and help them with all their problems if its bad for your mental health
  • be there for someone 24/7
  • remain friends with someone who emotionally drains you
  • maintain negative relationships because you’ve been close for so long, because you’re related, or anything else
  • do anything that makes you unhappy or puts your health at risk

[Enter Shiro, stage right]

[Extended pause as they all stare at each other in utter horror]

[Exit Shiro, as if pursued by a Bear]

Emily: “So, Winston. Lena was telling me she used to not be able take off her chronal accelerator, in the old days.”

Winston: “Ah-ha-ha, yes. How embarrassing; those older models were so shoddy. You wouldn’t believe how long it took me to perfect a localized temporal stabilization field over a wide enough area that would allow-”

Emily: *grabs his arm* “THANK YOU.”

Having dissociative amnesia is so weird because it’s not like normal forgetting where you’re kind of like “I think this happened but I don’t know the details”, it’s looking back at a period of your life and seeing absolutely nothing. There is nothing TO remember, it’s just like a big black pit where your childhood should be.

d&p recently joking about with the whole ‘bro’ culture is the best and funniest thing . i am alive and well because of this .