i have personality ok

  • me: maybe i'm not actually THAT unstable?? maybe i'm just making it up??
  • also me: *cries for 15 minutes bc my family ate some of my food*
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tfw when ur otp’s status of Fave is threatened

why the hell did i draw this

when you are dating or in a relationship as a person diagnosed with bpd, it’s important to have safe words. im not talking about when in sexual situations (though that might be a neat idea too) but just for everyday-use. use a certain word when you are splitting or dissociating so your partner will be aware.

also when you are being triggered, either by your partner or something/someone else, a safe word is a great tool. especially when you are in a crowded place, so your partner can help you get somewhere quiet.

a safe word can also be needed when you are in a fight with your partner and one of you crosses a line. then you’ll be able to either apologize, stop the fight or take a “time out” - a few minutes apart to cool your heads.

you might also not need it at all, but i think it’s a good idea to have one, just for safety measures? idk, it has just saved me a lot of crying and maybe even a broken heart.

Undiagnosed is not a synonym for “faking your symptoms.”

Granted, the presence of those symptoms doesn’t necessarily mean that you have the condition associated with them.  But it’s important to remember that everyone who had both the symptoms and the diagnosis started with just the former.  The lack of a diagnosis doesn’t make your symptoms less real.

he lost the game but he won something better (❁´▽`❁)

happy birthday @kisecchinosedai!!!!!! i hope you have a wonderful day filled with lots of happiness and loveeee ♥ ♥ ♥

BPD Ask Meme

Don’t reblog if you’re neurotypical 

  1. Self-dx or Professional dx?
  2. How often to you split? Who do you split on?
  3. Do you have an FP? If so, who are they?
  4. What do you think caused your BPD?
  5. What do you do to have a sense of identity?
  6. Do you have any other mental illnesses/disorders?
  7. Do you have traits of other personality disorders?
  8. Do you have IDs or are you kin with anything?
  9. Are you LGBT? Has your BPD affected this in any way?
  10. What is your most prominent symptom?
  11. When did you first start having symptoms?
  12. When did you realize/learn that you have BPD?
  13. Do you ever split on yourself?
  14. What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve split on?
  15. Do you get jealous often? What makes you jealous?
  16. Are you a discouraged, impulsive, petulant, or self-destructive borderline?
  17. What emotion do you hate the most and why?
  18. What happens when you imprint on someone?
  19. What do you do when a relationship ends?
  20. How self-aware are you on a scale of 1-10?
  21. Are you a quiet borderline?
  22. What do you think of your physical self?
  23. Do you have a lot of mood swings that aren’t caused by anything specific?
  24. Have you ever had a flashback?
  25. How often do you dissociate? What are your usual symptoms?
  26. Do you see a therapist?
  27. Are you on any medications?
  28. Do you ever have “episodes”? What are they like?
  29. Do you ever have hallucinations? If so, what are they?

TW asks under the cut

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shout out to the trans kids who have come out and still aren’t recognized 

who’s family misgender and dead name them on a daily basis

who are told “it’s a phase” and they’ll “get over it”

who are told that their family wont help or support any kind of transition because their families can’t “morally agree with it”

who’s families act like a trans child is an inconvenience or something to be ashamed of

we deserve better

ok but literally jackson did lowkey aegyo and asked for more time to carve his frankenstein squash thing when they said time was up and the rest of got7 all froze and then complied and gave him time to finish like this boy got his whole group wrapped around his finger they are all so weak for jackson i’m wow

how the fuck does my brain turn someone saying “I can’t hang out tomorrow I’m busy” into “no one loves you and you gotta be dead bc what’s the point in living” in .3 seconds

APH France more like actual living perfection.))

yknow those friends/ppl who are always like “you’re not too much to handle!!! you’re not a burden at all!!!” and you want to believe them you really do
but how can i when i cant even handle myself, when my literal existence is a burden to myself. when eventually everyone just ignores most of the things i say and tbh it’d be better for everyone if they just forgot about me