i identify as aromantic/asexual, but a lot of the time i find myself thinking, "hm, maybe it is just a phase", "maybe i haven't found the right person yet!" and "yeah, maybe im not old enough to know yet!" and im sure im aro/ace but do you have any help/advice for me and others? its getting pretty hard :(
The now matters more than the possible future. Whatever you feel now even if it changes will be the most powerful label for you.