i hate tagging my own things

So I got tagged by @iowainc to answer this little survey thing, and to leave 11 of my own questions at the end! Thanks Ryan <3

Here we go:

1. Favourite animal?

cats but I love other animals too

2. Since people like to ask favourites, I’ll play devil’s advocate- Least favourite bands?

I don’t really know because I don’t really hate bands. I don’t really like Asking Alexandria, Attila, Blood On The Dancefloor or  Black Veil Brides though

3. Slipknot or Limp Bizkit? (If you don’t know either of them, feel free to skip this)

Slipknot all the way

4. If you could create a band with any musician- living or dead - who would be in it? Who would do vocals, who would do bass, who would do guitar, drums, etc.?

Vocals: Layne Staley

Guitar: John Frusciante

Bass: Flea

Drums: Dave Grohl

I thought mixing up people who usually play completely different genres wouldn’t work out so I put these cuties into a band

5. Which musical artists/bands would you like to see collaborate?

Metallica x Megadeth (only to piss of the fans who like just one of those bands)

6. If you could meet any person from history, who would it be?

Kurt Cobain or Lucilius Aennaeus Seneca or Karl Marx

7. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

Anywhere where you can live a safe and happy life lmao (living in Germany is ok though)

8. If you had one superpower/ability, what would it be?

I don’t fucking know tbh

9. Have you seen any concerts? If so, who? If not, who would you want to see?

NOOOOOO :( but I’d love to see Pearl Jam, Alice in Chains, Metallica, Slipknot, Casper, KIZ, Kraftklub, Slayer, RHCP. Opeth and like 102937386287632 more

10. If you could see any band that is no longer together, who would it be?

Death, Nirvana or Pantera

11. What sort of things (places, songs, objects, etc.) do you think people associate you with?

many real life people around me associate me with hyperactivity, song references, flannel, heavy metal, grunge, being overly friendly but also emotionally weak, sharing food and notes and being pretty open minded concerning music because I love many genres so yeah haha

Here are the eleven questions that I add:

1. would you rather play guitar or bass guitar?

2. what is your lockscreen?

3. your favourite TV show?

4. 5 songs that make you cry?

5. what makes your mood drop from 100 to 0 in 0.1 sec?

6. your happiest memory?

7. describe your favourite band in 10 words

8. what was the first album you ever bought as a CD?

9. list 3 things you like about yourself

10. if you could see any concert from any time, which one would it be?

I’ll tag @headbangervixen, @maikmakridi, @wtfseattle, @fattyrolls, @n-i-r-v-a, @these-conversations-kill, @not-my-revolution, @sofiiik, @maddest-0f-hatters @postorganichallucinations @come-as-ya-are and anybody else who wants to!


you are not your own

“you’ve taken my light, your darkness will come”

Animated media that traumatised me as a kid:

I saw a lot of stuff in my youth that I found to be scary, but these are things that will to this day give me goose bumps if I think about them in the middle of the night. So here we go; here are my personal top 4 animated movies/shows that scarred me as a child. 8D

Moomin (1991-1992)

The Groke - UGH!! The scene below in particular scared the shEATTT out of me as a child!! And Sniff´s Finnish screams did not make the thing any less terrifying. But today, having read the Moomin books and all, I think the Groke asa character is more tragic than scary. (ノдヽ)

 The ghost in the light house - The mere memory of this scene can make me cry. Not those “I’m so scared” tears, but those “Just thinking about ghosts” tears, if you know what I mean. If anybody knows what that phenomenon is called then send me a PM, I would love to know. 

The Simpsons (1989-present)

More specifically these two:

Nightmare Cafeteria” - I loved the Halloween specials as a kid, eve though I might have been to young for them. But the story about the teachers eating the students left a very big (negative) impression in little me.

Terror at 5 ½ Feet”. There was simply something absolutely horrifying about this little monster to me. I was genuinely afraid of it. But what made the whole episode worse was how nobody would believe Bart when he tried to warn everybody about it. This story gave me nightmares for years.ヽ ( ꒪д꒪ )ノ

The Great Mouse Detective (1986)  

In this case it´s the opening scene that really got to be when I saw this back in the day. The creepy atmosphere, the music, the shadow fight, the silence after the battle, the little mouse girl’s cries for her dad, and of course, this mothafukka. I would always hid under my blankest when the movie started. (O_Q)

Pagemaster (1994)

I saw this movie very few times when it came out, but the scene when Dr Jekyl transforms into Mr Hyde never left my mind. It was brilliantly animated and storyboarded, but maybe too well because I lost my shit whenever the movie got to this point. UVÄ!! Still gives me shivers!! DX

From what I can gather apparently my main fear as a kid was monsters of different kinds. That explians very well why I also hated “The Gremlins”. :o But today I would say that the paranormal (and fish) are the things I’m the most afraid of. :P

If you have your own horror stories to share then feel free to do so in the comments or make post yourself. Don´t forget to tag me in it so I can join the crying. ;D

bob-morley  asked:

Hey so can y'all maybe keep your fics on LJ instead of posting them on ao3 because a lot of people go on ao3 to just read normal bellarke fics and don't need to be triggered by incest and rape prompts that are being filled out here.

I hate to break it to you, but I’m not actually the boss of anyone. Similarly, you are not actually the boss of anyone. What adults choose to post on AO3 is at their own discretion. But don’t worry, the beautiful thing about AO3 is that everything is neatly labeled and clearly tagged so you needn’t worry about accidentally stumbling into a fic which squicks you.

And to my writers, I do urge you to respect people’s desire to easily avoid fic they know would upset them by clearly labeling and properly tagging your fic if you choose to post it; our fandom will fucking self destruct if we start having high (potential) squick factor fics cropping up all willy nilly, unlabeled and tricksy. And I’d care somewhat less about that except I’m the one at whose feet blame is going to be laid.

And I would like to say, to those of you have decided that the Kink Meme is little more than a breeding ground for sexual deviants. Yes, hello, thank you for forcing me to turn off anon. On an (admittedly rushed) search of the ~100 filled prompts (way to go, perverts) only ~15 of them rate trigger warnings and that includes the 6 consensual, of age Daddy! or Mommy!kink fics because I know for some twee and precious flowers people that is squicky. But frankly I shouldn’t really have included them because even if they were real people (which they aren’t) everyone in them is a consenting adult. Is there stuff on the Kink Meme which might upset people? Yeah there is, but a great deal more of it is Abby getting lucky with everyone like the mega space babe she is, and one time Clarke and Harper took a bath (personal favorite).

Why yes I am sensitive and defensive about this, how could you tell?



Actually have been hesitating about posting this in Tumblr for weeks now, but…guess why not. Not translating his Q&A though…=_=

And no need for other members, I presume? =_=“

that boy has my heart in a silver cage - lazulisong - Yuri!!! on Ice (Anime) [Archive of Our Own]
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
By Organization for Transformative Works

Chapters: 1/?
Fandom: Yuri!!! on Ice (Anime)
Rating: Mature
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Katsuki Yuuri/Victor Nikiforov
Characters: Katsuki Yuuri, Victor Nikiforov, Yuri Plisetsky, Makkachin (Yuri!!! on Ice), Yakov Feltsman
Additional Tags: Sugar Daddy, sugar daddy yuri, i did this to myself, I hate everybody in this bar, NOT TWINSAFE
Series: Part 17 of yuri!!! on ice

When Victor Nikiforov is asked to make nice to the heir of the Katsuki Hospitality Group, he has no idea what he’s getting into. The thing is? He doesn’t care.

quite a bit expanded from the tumblr version fyi, also thanks @ladyofthelog for the last minute check!

Pete Dunne NSFW Alphabet

Originally posted by pinknights

I thought I’d do one of these for Pete Dunne because I currenly have a love /hate crush on him and i thought it was about time that i wroe something about him. His character reminds me so much of one of my ex boyfriends so I kinda took some of his things and adapted them for Pete!

I try and write these to fit my own head cannons so y’know! I hope you can picture him the same too!


@theelitevillian @blondekel77 @thatonegirloncealways @jellybelly300 @ashleymarie2021 @imnobodiesbitch @morgancorbin @alexahood21 @georgina019 @alyneve @alyhull @angstliveson @kelstenkiara @akihikothekitsune @wub419 @logandemico @kelstenkira @msgem @princess3733 @lanalizzytho @simplisticworld-x @lilmisscrisis @behindthesesilvereyes @writergrrrl29knits @hardcorewrestlingtrash @randonfandompenguin @artemisapalla316 @itzelrollins @thedeboniardevistation @tooweirdforlifex @little–alphabet–boy  @akihikothekitsune  @scarlettequinn 

Any comments likes and reblogs are really appreciated (: it keeps me movitated!

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What I don’t understand is why, if you’re making a hate post or dislike post about a ship, do people feel inclined to tag it? When I go on a ship tag, I go to see the cute shit and read things about love. Not a five paragraph response to an ask about why you hate *insert ship name here*. You can talk about your opinion and whatever, but why tag it?

Actually, in retrospect, why make a post at all? I have plenty of ships I hate, but will I make a post about it? No.

I mind my own god damn buisness. I stay in my own lane, and let people ship shit. I have no need to spew my opinions, or write out why I hate the ship. Who cares? I have things I love, I have things I hate. I just focus on what matters.

Hey there guys, this is Kae. 

Let me make it clear before you read on that this post is not McHanzo related so to speak, but it is fandom related. I just got back online after a three day long mental breakdown, and I want to talk about some things. It’s gonna be a long one.

The most important thing I want to talk about is this fandom. Before Friday, when I had the first breakdown of many last weekend due to real life stuff, there was a lot going on here and building up here. Nothing out of the ordinary for me and Lynn– some people treated us badly, we responded, and suddenly there was a witch-hunt in the tag for us. Happens all the time, no big deal, usually.

But it is a big deal to me right now. Why is that not out of the ordinary for me and Lynn? Why are we used to people treating us this way, acting as if every word we speak has to be scrutinised, or as if we need to act in a way that suits everyone, or not act at all?

I want the people who think this way of us to read these words carefully: We Are Not A Service. 

We are not an official blog. We represent no one but ourselves, and we never claimed otherwise. We are just two human beings running a blog and trying to have a good time with a community who shares our interest.

Yet every time we try to do something, spanning as far back as when we brought in the Artist and Author directory or the Spotify playlist, we see hate in the tag here, or on twitter, or sent to us anonymously, because we’ve apparently done something wrong. 

Now, sometimes, when we know the source, we know what the real issue is. But if all we see is people insulting myself and Lynn as people because of the way we’ve said something or worded something, or because we acted in a way somebody didn’t like and word travels from person to person that we’re suddenly horrible, we can’t possibly know how to respond.

I had a talk with someone today who had some things about myself and Lynn miscommunicated to them by other people, who probably heard from someone else, etc, etc. When I heard what their grievances were with us and I helped clear up where they were wrong and where they were right, I feel like it was a good conversation. This person learned something about who we really are as people, and I got some constructive criticism rather than mindless hate. 

The things to be learned from that conversation are, first of all, that you can always approach me and Lynn if you have some constructive criticism. Don’t assume that someone else has and that we’ve just ignored them. I can tell you that 100% of the time thus far, we need input, because nobody just comes straight up and tells us, “Hey, I think you could do this better this way,” or something. 

Secondly, do not believe everything you hear about us. This person today heard a weird rumour that people who ship certain other ships (such as McReyes, in this case) were not going to be allowed in our McHanzo Zine. I don’t even know where that rumour came from– I ship McReyes myself, why would I do that? If you’ve heard something and you’re worried, just ask us. 

The third, learned not only by that conversation, but by my entire experience running this blog, is to try to remember that me and Lynn are just people. We have feelings, we’re not all-knowing, we’re not perfect. We do not always know if there’s a problem unless you tell us. We get things wrong sometimes and we are 100% capable of owning that and improving. Please, please don’t assume that we do not care. We see all tagged hate both here and on Twitter because we check the tags for content. It hurts when it’s personal. 

I am just getting pretty tired, my friends, which is why I’m making this post. These last few days, when I tried to come online to escape what’s happening in my life right now, all I came back to was hate, drama, and more hate, and a lot of it very personally directed at us as people. I was this close to quitting this blog, dropping the Zine, deleting Discord, etc. But then I remembered that I used to have so much fun doing this, I really did. It isn’t fun right now, and I mean that when I say it. But it can be again sometime. 

I know some of what I’m feeling has something to do with the fact that my mental health is literally in the drain right now because of things in my life, but the fact that I care about this blog has not helped, because that makes it hurt even more when the personal attacks come in.

But yeah, in summary– yes, we fuck up. No, we are not always aware of it, because we are human beings and no one is perfect. People rarely bring it to our attention when we do, and instead they complain and tag hate, which spreads, and creates an impression of us as people that others begin to think is true. This can be solved by just talking to us. 

I really mean it. Just talk to us, cause I promise you we are listening.

enemies to lovers uni au where harry and louis literally hate each others freaking guts but louis’s a hockey player and harry makes hot chocolate for the entire team except he notices that louis puts extra chocolate and marshmallows in his drink so he starts making louis’s drinks special just for him. (he totally hates him though. totally. and louis definitely doesn’t blush every time harry singles him out and gives him his own personal drinks whatever shut up)

I said I wasn’t, but here I go...Why can’t Michonne be vulnerable?

It’s not just Michonne either. I’ve often heard that that in relation to other character’s, Rick…Carol…Glenn even. It seems that if you show an emotional side, it somehow makes you weak. How many times had Maggie cried over Glenn? How many times have you seen those two bad asses(Maggie and Glenn) cower in their love, because they thought they had lost each other?

Let’s see…when Merle kidnapped them in season three and Maggie gave up the prison. When Glenn got all emotional, because he thought she was raped by the governor. When the prison fell, and they searched for each other. When he thought he lost her and found her again, and vice versa. When the “Glenn and the dumpster” shit happened and she was all reckless and wanted to go look for him. When Maggie was on the look out post and screamed for dear life, because she thought Glenn was gonna get eaten by that horde around him. See in all those instances, we have two lovers who are showing emotions, because that’s what humans do.



So redneck Daryl, can become compassionate. Rick can become a killer. Glenn can become strong, Carol can become a badass assassin, but Michonne can’t evolve. She just supposed to shuck and jive. Just be a silent “yes massa, you want me to kill that walker, oh yessa i’s a kill em good.” She just supposed to be the dark skin filler for the series.

Also, if you don’t get this pairing by now, you are 100 percent racists. I don’t want to hear about you not liking the pairing. I don’t like a lot of pairings but I’m never seem to be spouting that in those other delusional tags. Racists feel the need to tell people how much they hate something.

That’s insecurity. People who have to shout off of skyscrapers that they hate something, instead of just moving TF on really grind my gears. Like, y’all never been in love. It make you do crazy things. She learned a lesson, if she see Rick go down again, she still gotta fight. Their love can’t hinder her.

Personal attacks are never warranted. They are disgusting and show the lack of compassion that you have for other humans. Please stop attacking Richonner’s. We just watch the show, we don’t write it. Take your vile rude comments to the producers and showrunners, who would laugh in your face because Denise Huth, Scott Gimple, and Gale Ann Hurd love Richonne). AMC been promoting them to the heavens, more than any other ship.(I’ve been a faithful viewer it premiered).

Racist lovvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeeeee to be anonymous too. Why do you ask? Cause they know they would get dragged from the pits of hell to deeper depths. They never show their face. They hide behind a dumbass president and a news channel. I digress. Soooo many people are so ignorant and have so much hate, that they would use something that is supposed to be a form of entertainment to denigrate and defame people for their own insecurities about themselves.

I just can not with you all. I can’t even recall going to another tag to talk about that tags pairings, and I’ve seen some nasty ships. Just plain old nasty and trifling. Some of y’all need to be reported and definitely need Jesus. I thought the point of the tag was for a safe haven for us to talk about our ship. I shouldn’t have to come to this tag to read the vile things I have read. Y’all need to get a serious life. That hate for my skin color is hurting your heart, but keep it cute…

Originally posted by iwontdancenetwork

TLC Shipweeks 2017- Week One Day One- Home.

tbh wolflet is as cozy as you can get honestly it was all i could think of when i thought of the theme. I wanted to make this look better but i haven;t slept in like,,,,a long time,,,and idk lmso. anyway yeah they went out dancing at the bar last night and she stole his shirt but Ze’ev was wearing those pants when they went out. idk how to draw him lol. i will probably go back and redraw this someday.

Modern day Moritz Stiefel headcanons
  • Moritz is one of those people who accidentally types his password into the search bar absentmindedly. Alternately, he also types people’s names into the status box instead of the search bar on Facebook and probably posts and doesn’t realize till later. Melchior has to calm down the ensuing panic attack once Moritz realizes he’s accidentally just posted ‘Martha Bessel’ as a status. 
  •  Horrible allergies. In possession of a nettipot. 
  •  Buys organizational supplies but NEVER TOUCHES THEM AGAIN once he buys them. Most of them are still in the packaging. Ernst keeps asking if he can just have them every time he goes over, but Moritz INSISTS that he’ll get around to using them. 
  •  Still uses the same dramatic and lumbering language in the 21st century as he did in the 19th. ‘Phantom’ still appears at least once in daily conversation. 
  •  Nail biter. Wendla gets pissed because he’s constantly fucking up the sparkly manicures she gives him by chewing them off. 
  •  Tried playing guitar but abandoned it almost immediately. He plays ukulele, though. He finds it cathartic.
  • Very into The Mountain Goats and Neutral Milk Hotel. Also Elliot Smith. For Obvious Reasons. 
  • Moritz is definitely an artist, and quite a talented one. He owns a wacom tablet, doodles on EVERYTHING. All the girls are always doing the ‘omg draw meeee’ thing, and he hates it. He has a sketch book that is exclusively sketches and drawings of Melchi. He think’s Melchi doesn’t know. Melchi totally knows. 

anonymous asked:

Why do Sidon fans hate Zelda? What did she ever do to them?

Well, one thing I’m sure is that NOT all Sidon fans are like that. Sadly, the haters will always be louder than the real fans and therefore, that’s why they’ll spread their unnecessary hate in. every. damn. tag. and. in. every. place. 

The result? they give their own fandom a terrible reputation and some people… just end up disliking a character thanks to those haters  *sigh*

It’s a cycle that never ends. 

I’ll be honest. It does break my heart that my girl Zelda, and any other female character in any other fandom, recieves this kind of treatment. And i’m speaking, not as a fangirl… I’m speaking as a woman. 

It happens in Naruto (people either hate Hinata or Sakura)
Tokyo Ghoul Fandom? oh boi. Some people claim that Touka tricked Kaneki into bed LMAO 
Fairy Tail fandom? some people say that all the girls are sluts. 
Nanatsu no Taizai… Dragon Ball…etc., etc., etc. 

The hate towards female characters, is like a disease. Honestly, I don’t see the point in bashing  females characters to make a any ship “look good” because, that never works LMAO

Also, Zelda did NOTHING wrong. Infact, all the contrary. She has done so many good things for EVERYONE (not only Hylians). Is thanks to her sacrifice and fortitude that all the other races in Hyrule managed to survive… and if people try to deny that, then theres nothing we can do about them.

TL;DR: Sadly, hate blinds people. 

anonymous asked:

Here's my simple list of rules to reading fanfic: 1. Unless you know the author makes consistent updates, don't start a WIP 2. If you don't like it, stop reading it. 3. Ask in the comments if the author would like feedback. If the answer is no, then don't leave feedback. I'm talking critique, not positive feedback. If you can't be nice, blah, blah, blah. 4. Heed the warnings, but also 5. No one owes you trigger warnings. It's nice, but people need to take care of themselves, not the writer.

Which leads to 6. People interpret trigger warnings differently, therefore, the reader is responsible for policing their own psyche. 7. My idea of what an excellent fic is will be vastly different than someone else’s idea. There is something for everyone, don’t shit on what other people like. 8. A person wrote this for any number of reasons. Be happy it exists. This might be the only place where you come across something that speaks to you personally & that’s true for someone else too.

These are all really great points. 

I’d also like to add that some of us writers don’t tag everything, even relationships, because we have no idea when we start that a certain pairing is even going to be a thing. If you follow writers like this (like me!) please be aware that following a WIP may mean you get occasionally blindsided. The author probably was too. 

There are also certain things I won’t tag because I don’t want to give away spoilers. If that’s something you disagree with, yelling at me about it won’t change my position. In which case, either don’t read my stories, or have a friend read them first to make sure there’s nothing in there you hate. 

An interesting example of this was Save Me, where I had Braeden appear out of nowhere as a character. And wow, did I cop some backlash for it. We’re talking Braeden, on her own, and no, she wasn’t pairing up with Derek (it was a Steter fic anyway, but hey…) 

And no, I didn’t tag her as a character because right up until she appeared, I had no idea that’s who the story needed. I write on the fly. Planning novels is for work, and that’s not what I’m here for. 

So I’m going to tell every reader what I told that reader: You can feel free to stop at any time, but I’m going to keep writing my stories how I want. 

There are plenty of readers and writers in fandom, and everyone is free to find someone who is the right fit for their needs. 

My Toxic Rant on Anti-Gency

A notable post recently discussed how Gency fans have been acting toxic lately. To this, I half agree. I have seen an increase in replies to Anti-Gency posts, many of these replies being childish and offensive. I do not condone bullying or this hateful behavior. I agree that our community needs to better manage this behavior. However, it is still grating to see someone trying to raise this evidence against us and then only acknowledge the Anti-Gency hate in a passing glance. Why is this grating exactly? Because since joining the Gency fandom,  I have had to endure watching our little ship treated as an absolute joke. Then, when Gency got some in-game evidence, that mocking of our ship turned into rage and resentment. 

After the Valentine’s Day lines, I had to sift through hundreds of Gency hate posts in my own tag just to see something positive. Even now, after things have calmed, I cannot go through the Gency tag without having to pass by rows of hateful posts. Whether that hate is tagged or untagged, the Gency tag is never allowed to be a peaceful place. We don’t get the luxury of having thousands of cute fanarts flooding our ranks. It’s a gamble on whether we can make it five posts without being told indirectly we are viewed as garbage or reading how someone wishes our ship would just disappear. For shipping Gency, I have been called “a slut”, one of the“straights” despite being bisexual, and called a racist, all by different individuals. So while I do not approve of the hateful posts that Gency lovers often reply with, it is also rather frustrating at this point to see them being criticized for having the audacity to defend their ship and call out the haters.

I’m sorry that this post is not constructive or fully acknowledging of our community’s responsibility for these actions of late. I will do my best not to get emotional and toxic like this again. I also know full well this is just a video game. However, I had to say my piece as it’s how I feel after dealing with this for a year now. 

I used to hide over at polyamory-resources and have the people come to me for advice or guidance. But now that I am branching off, I decided to look under the polyamory tag and I was so completely unaware of the hate in our community and how people are treating other people. With topics like “Does polyamory fall under the LGBTQ+ spectrum?” or “Is unicorn hunting bad?” or “Are hierarchies inherently evil?”, I can see the universal, polyamorous “us” bickering among ourselves rather than supporting each other and helping each other up. While I have my own opinions on these topics, and love discussing them with people, we are focusing on the wrong things.

We need to stop those who are abusing the term “polyamory” (when it’s not ethical at all or they are manipulating) and we need to help those who don’t know their rights in a relationship to know them. We need need to help those who cannot be out know that we are here and we will do what we can to support them. We have a long road ahead of us as we fight for representation and marriage/union equality… all while fighting all the horrible stigma that surrounds the way we choose to love.

There is enough hatred in this world.

-Mimzy ( @polyteaparty )