i hate a majority of you

anonymous asked:

My stepdad who doesn't know I'm Pan, says being anything but straight is a choice. I didn't believe him at first but now I don't know. Am I just making a choice that my family will hate me for? Is there a way to turn off my feelings? I honestly feel like that would be the best thing I could do right now

My dear pan child, 

No, being pan is not a choice. Being lgbt+ is not something you can “turn off”. Just as importantly, you don’t have to turn it off, even if that was possible - there’s nothing wrong with being pan! 

If you need some arguments for it not being a choice, consider this: It’s scientifically proven that attempts to “turn people straight” do not work. In fact, all major health organizations (such as the WHO) advice against such attempts because they only have negative impact on emotional and mental health. 

Another argument: Lgbt+ living beings are a normal part of nature - just like lgbt+ animals

Please don’t let your stepdad make you hate yourself. 

You’re pan, and that’s natural and beautiful! <3 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Mom 

anonymous asked:

I ship promptis, but I also like the idea of Prompto x Cindy. So like a month ago I rebloged a cute prompto x Cindy fanart and someone reblog it from me and left a rude comment on it. I would like to reblog more fanart, but I don't want to unintentionally lead these people to harass the artist :/

I like Promptis just as much as the good majority of the fandom, too~ They’re a great combination, and not to mention the best friends to lovers trope with them is just to die for. But since you mentioned Prompto x Cindy, dear anon…! *drums fingers on table* Let me tell you about Prompto x Cindy (with no hate attached!).

These two are beyond cute. Wanna know why? Because literally the moment Prompto laid eyes on the belle of Hammerhead, he was so smitten with attraction! Probably the whole ‘Holy tits, she’s hot!’ But it honestly just got progressively cuter and cuter with each passing quote in regards to Cindy. ‘Isn’t she the best?’ ‘I can’t wait to see her when this is all over!’ Love struck things you literally would her a boy-crazed middle schooler say in almost exact quotes. It’s super cute, despite it being one-sided supposedly, considering how really into her work Cindy is.

But let me tell you, dear anon. Have you ever considered the ‘I didn’t think much of you at first, but now I really enjoy your company and always miss you’ trope? I mean! You literally go on a side quest so that Prompto can go to the top of the hill across Hammerhead, confess his love, and hopefully steal a picture of her as she’s working. From across an entire goddamn hill. This boy is so smitten by her that he nearly had to resort to stalking. Noctis facepalmed, probably Ignis and Gladio would facepalm, and Prompto would be the smitten little dork that he always would be.

But what do you know? She appears, and after learning a bit about Prompto taking photography and going on avid photo hikes, she tells him to drop by sometime and show her his photos. Prompto’s so socially awkward and nervous that he can’t even process words properly, and he’s just a precious babe…! And Cindy probably does have a bit of an interest in Prompto. Yeah, she’s always bugging Noctis for things, but do you know what makes me like the idea of Prompto and Cindy? You know, besides Prompto literally being so smitten by the fact that she’s the ‘Grease-Monkey Goddess?’

It’s the fact that ten years later when the darkness fell, Prompto and Cindy still see each other. Gladio’s said to run off while also having a fiance waiting for him, Ignis tends to do solo missions while recovering his eyesight, and Prompto is said to remain at Hammerhead usually helping Cindy. She’s married to her work still, but imagine the cute little friendship or romance between them! Long hours working to make sure that the daemons stay at back, both sharing ideas on how to make Hammerhead a better Hunter HQ, and probably Prompto taking picture of someone who was just as bright as the sun he could remember.

Imagine the idea of Cindy and Prompto forcing themselves to take a break, so they sit together and look at all of the photographs they’ve taken or managed to snap, before and after night came. Drinking coffee and giving themselves a reason to keep working hard and stay motivated.

Imagine the idea of Cindy and Prompto stuck on an idea. So they start throwing about ideas to see what works.
Prompto: What if we go ahead and do this…?
Cindy: …If we do that, then maybe it might work if we do this!
Prompto: And if we do that along with this-
Both: We can make it work!

This is followed by a quick hug or kiss before they scurry off to their workstations properly.

JUST IMAGINE THEM BEING CUTE DORKS AND FRIENDS, ROMANTIC OR NOT. These two would be the cuteness, regardless of what relationship they have. Prompto and Cindy…~ It’s a ship that I definitely get behind and support. :D

anonymous asked:

Being a sex repulsed Aromantic asexual I sometimes feel like an ostracized villian since everyone loves sex and it's causing me to lash irrationally at myself is there a cure ? How do I get fixed ? How I learn to be ok with sexual content and join the majority party ? I hate everything about me

Downing something you don’t want isn’t going to make you like the thing anymore. You can get around safe supportive people, you can address repulsion to a degree and get to a spot where it’s possible to be are okay with sexual content. But to “get over it” imo until will accept this isn’t something to be cured in the first place. There is nothing wrong with you and there is wrong with not liking sexual content. The hate you feel for yourself is you trying to cram yourself into a box that you don’t fit in. It’s okay to not be among the majority here. Be you. Being you will make you happier.

hellloooooooo it’s haley and i’ve been meaning to make a new promo post for this boy here!

tomio is an independent, selective (i follow almost everyone back tbh) fandomless oc who

  • is a vocal performance major (but he hates music)
  • literally works at starbucks
  • loves pomeranians more than life itself
  • also loves dogs in general and bears (cats can fuck off)
  • cute shit is his passion
  • is so gay that he sleeps in a closet rather than a bed
  • is ready to fight 24/7
  • is probably (90% sure maybe) a dog in a dude’s body
  • a mess overall

if you could give this a like/reblog if you’re interested in interacting with him, i’d love u forever! i’ll be sure to check out your blogs!

The reason I hate Emma and Scarlett’s ‘feminism’ is that it’s a version of feminism that only benefits them and other white women. You cannot be a feminist unless you support all women. That includes non-white women, queer women, disabled women, trans women, etc. Emma and Scarlett do not understand feminism in the slightest. Emma slut shaming Beyoncé is not feminism. Scarlett taking on the role of the Major is not feminism. Their feminism is fake as they are and I want nothing to do with it.

anonymous asked:

Yeah i think the whole bibro thing is where fandom can really get out of hand? LIke fandom is great and the majority is absolutely fine and respectful, i fully realize that! But then you get just some that take it to a level where they project personal things onto the actors like "i hate misha therefore jared and jensen hate misha", etc. Treating real people like Sims or trying to project too much. The level of involvement and emotional investment can get a little creepy at those levels.

Seriously. Are there other fandoms that have a super ugly little segment like this? I mean, I figure the stigmatization of wincest figures in so it makes them extra touchy but it can’t be just us. Though I don’t like to think that OTHER fandoms have people vilifying stars wives and theorizing their babies aren’t theirs…Oh wait. The outlander fandom has crazies like that I know. So it’s not just us…alas.

anonymous asked:

19 y/o genderfluid emo trash bag. I have short brown hair that I sometimes style into a faux hawk, hazel eyes, and pale freckled skin. I have a tabby cat named Scooter, and I'm planning on getting a Venus flytrap. I wear skeleton gloves 24/7. I like oversized clothes, and I hate dresses on most days. I like to read, listen to music, and watch TV. I'm working on becoming a professional writer.

Oh my gosh you sound amazing like… Yes. Mikey has a cat named scooter too and hes a big fluffboy !! I literally like to do all the things you do and im an english major with a concentration on creative writing !!! thats so cool omg id totally date u tbh we have a lot in common

tumblr, i cant believe i have to tell you this bc i was under the impression that the vast majority of us took a basic course in social studies at some point in our lives but hate speech is not protected by the first amendment and the first amendment protects you from prosecution from the gov, not other people. please learn even the most basic tenants of your government bc this “accusing antifa of suppressing free speech” horseshit has got to stop. 

There’s this unbelievably ableist campaign called #DiagnoseTrump where people are trying to label him with a mental illness to “prove he is unfit for office.” Right now the top two illnesses people claim he has are NPD and BPD and that terrifies me–countless laypeople and “professionals” claim he has a personality disorder. The stigma against personality disorders (especially Cluster B) has risen exponentially.

It appalls me that fellow Trump opposers have done the very thing they criticize him for: demonizing a minority population to engender hate. They claim that for someone to be as abhorrent and hateful as he is, he *must* have a personality disorder because no neurotypical is capable of such horrendous actions and attitudes.

They can’t diagnose him. Only a professional who assesses him over several therapy sessions can. And by the way, you don’t have to have a personality disorder to be a bad person. Bad people exist. Bad mentally healthy people exist. I’d wager the vast majority of bad people out there don’t have a personality disorder at all; if they did, personality disorders would be far more common.

Take care of yourselves, especially if your illness has been targeted by this campaign. I know it’s really gotten to me lately but remember that we are far stronger than they will ever know.

idk who u are or where i am. if you diss pride and prejudice im comin for ur ungrateful ass. we could be standing at the alter abt to say ‘i do’ and if you say ‘ugh i hate pride and prejudice’ id fcking leave you. id walk out of my own wedding. i could be under anesthesia about to have major surgery and hear my doctor say ‘i never liked austen novels’ and id wake up just to request a different doctor. u could be the president of the united states and say ‘they’re just love stories’ and id deck you right there, right in front of secret service. im waiting and im ready to fight

Blog Descriptions of the Homestuck Kids
  • John: No description, frequently changes his header title to different topical memes
  • Rose: "I post about crafts, writing tips, and destroying the patriarchy. Go follow my girlfriend."
  • Dave: "dave."
  • Jade: "jade/16/female (she/her pronouns please! c:) no byf, just be nice, assholes get blocked! check out my art tag!"
  • Jane: "this is the OFFICIAL blog of the heiress jane crocker, all other blogs in my name are FAKES and their recipes are NOT VERY GOOD!"
  • Jake: "if you're here to send me some anon hate, PREPARE TO BE WRECKED!!! *brandishes pistols* >:D"
  • Dirk: "Pro-Logic. Anti-Dumbass. Future Engineering Major. Expert Swordsman. Days since last callout post: 18."
  • Roxy: "roxy's retro gaming blog! im a 16 year old girl and i could kick your gross neckbeard ass at smash bros ;)))"
I thought Misha was going to spread love?

All he does is bash Donald Trump, and anyone involved in politics. He spends more time posting negativity than he does spreading love like he talked about doing when Hillary lost. I love the dude, but he is acting like a major sore loser. I have seen more negativity and hate from him than I have from Trump voters, or even other Hillary supporters.

Practice what you preach, you know? Be the change you wanna see? I don’t know.

I hate the “You’ll never make it big” argument as a deterrent for aspiring writers. Look, I’ve done my research, I know how tiny, tiny, tiny of a chance that I or anyone else will “make it big” is. But listen, my guys, that chance isn’t zero. Every famous author started out with the exact same odds, remember that, don’t let people who shove “you can’t make it big” down your throat deter you.

And if you DO fall into the vast majority and your story doesn’t get that movie you dream of, and it doesn’t sell a million copies, is that really so bad? No matter the scale your book is read on, big or small, someone out there will read it, and someone out there will love it just as much as you do. So write, guys, write. 

The world will never run out of a need for stories, it needs you. 

For all my lazy friends who hate writing papers and don’t have money to pay your English major friends to write them.

Okay y'all want to know how to write every essay ever if you’re a lazy fuck like me? This form has literally never failed me. I’ve used it in English lit classes, technical business writing, on mechanical technical reviews, research papers, history papers, style analysis papers, college essays, anything, everything.

You use this form to make an outline - a hella in-depth outline, a ¾/5 layers deep outline, maybe even deeper if it’s got to be really long. You start with the big topics and move in until it’s tiny itty bitty chunks. Then you write a sentence next to every segment. Then you take out the outline part. And then you read the paper and combine sentences that are too small and split sentences that are too long. Ta-dah you have a perfectly organized and well thought out and PASSABLE, UNPLAGERIZED paper that you can do in literally 45 min right before it’s due.

If this doesn’t work for you, I’m still writing papers for money hmu.

Undertale Fic Theft PSA

I really hate to be the bearer of bad news, but there’s a certain matter here that requires attention.

This is Tony Frisk, an author on Amazon.

While the initial page reveals fairly little there’s one major issue regarding our dear author here.

Every work posted on their page is stolen from various Undertale fanfic authors.

Undertale: Who are You is actually Memories of a Soul

Undertale: Overworld is actually sans, by tsukithewolf

Undertale: Another War is actually Blue Magic

Undertale: Home is actually Why Children Climb Mountains

Special mention goes to the Undertale: Underschool series  for being particularly slimy as every part belongs to the same story, Underschool: Fallen Child and all those volumes are merely a couple chapters slammed together.

WHAT DO?

Hammer Amazon’s report functions, especially infringement and double-especially if you’re the author.

I unfortunately am not aware of better avenues to take these down, but it should work as a kickoff point, not to mention the more people know it about it, the better.

random aus i havent seen
  • ‘you are sitting next to me at the doctors watching me freak out. oh, i just am deathly afraid of needles and need to get a shot’ AU

  • ‘i’m a librarian and i see you have a bunch of books about depression and suicide in your hand, hey buddy, want to talk to someone? i’m here if you need me’ AU

  • ‘you are talking to yourself in a silent library about how much you hate studying and how you are going to fail. need help there? i just so happen to major in that subject. oh shit, you’re really cute’ AU

  • ‘you play guitar every day during our lunch hour and no one knows what song it is but I do and i love that band, lets talk about how amazing they are.’ AU

  • ‘i have a garage sale every year at the same time and you always show up but never buy anything and just flirt with me but i have never seen you any other place’ AU

  • ‘i’m in a band and i jumped into the crowd but no one caught me and i accidentally crushed you oh my god im so sorry here come backstage to rest. wow, you’re actually really cute’ AU

  • ‘you’ve been in Bed, Bath and Body Works for hours everyday and all you do is smell everything’ AU

  • ‘i met you on social media but we both don’t speak well in each others languages, wow i really like you and need to figure this out’ AU

  • ‘i’m a guest on your talk show and you’re flirting with me, do you do this with everyone? oh your audience is swooning over us, sure, i’ll come back on your show soon’ AU

  • ‘i collect snowglobes and i just need one more from your country, you own an antique store, wanna help me find it? oh shit i forgot you don’t really speak my language’ AU

  • ‘i’m the principal of this school and you’re an administrator and you catch all the kids trying to sneak off and send them to me. i’m impressed and you’re also really hot in that vest.’ AU

  • ‘you write amazing fanfiction on tumblr and i send you anon messages everyday. oh shit, that wasn’t on anon, my cover’s blown. well, may as well message you and talk about how much i love [insert ship here]’ AU
PSA

Shaladin shippers, specifically sheith shippers, know that that majority of Klance shippers do not hate you. Don’t listen to the loud minority. I’m so sorry on behalf of the klance shippers if someone treated you poorly because of what you ship

And to that loud minority, CALM THE FUCK DOWN. Regardless of who people ship, you have to respect them. You can’t outright call someone a pedophile because they ship Shaladins. Don’t shove your nose where it doesn’t belong. If you are anti-shaldin, fucking great, then don’t look at shaladins shit and don’t talk about ships with shaladin shippers.

I don’t give two shits if you think it could be morally wrong. You know what’s definitely morally wrong, insulting another person because of bullshit as unimportant as shipping FICTIONAL CHARACTERS. These people don’t exist, believe it or not.

I don’t care if you are anti-shaladins, anti-klance, pro-shaladins, pro-klance, or whatever the fuck you are, respect other people’s opinions. Don’t be a dick.

The fact is, art, music, movies, etc. do enrich our society, and we can have much more of this when people don’t have to choose between food and pencils.

Robots could replace the vast majority of manual labor jobs that require harvesting and refining food, and there are people interested in working on farms that do it because they love it, there are also people who hate it who wish they could be an artist.

Communism as I see it isn’t saying you all, each and everyone of you, need to do highly important tasks necessary for society always and if you aren’t doing tasks absolutely necessary to survival you’re useless to society. It’s saying that people should be allowed to do what they like, without fear of starvation and homelessness.

To remind yall, robots can replace the vast majority of necessary jobs to our survival, making it far easier for people to follow their passions in a way we’ve never seen before.

Engaging in your passions aren’t luxuries, they should be joyous and reason for you to live.