if you’re an fp! here’s some useful phrases to say to ur bpd pal/partner!
+ “i still love and care about you, but at the moment i am angry right now and i’m not talking to you for a certain time period, and i will talk to you again at ________”
+ “i’m going away for a while/i might not have internet connection, so i’m not going to talk to you for [time period], and i want you to know that i’m not ignoring you”
+ “my connection is bad right now, so i might not see your message, but i promise i’m not ignoring you!”
+ “i’m vagueing someone on [blog/site] right now, but i want you to know that it’s not about you”
+ “you’ve done [something they’ve done wrong], and that makes me uncomfortable/that’s not right. i still love you/care about you, but i need you not to do it again because [state a reason why].
+ “if i suddenly go offline, that means i’ve gone to sleep/my internet got cut off, and i wasn’t trying to avoid you”
+ “i’ve made a new friend/met someone new today, but i want you to know that you’re still my [best friend? number one? beloved partner? you can choose!]
+ “daily reminder that i love you and i care about you!”