i feel sorry for some people

anonymous asked:

is it ok to have preferences when it comes to butch women? like i love all butches but some are more attractive to me than others. is that bad? i feel guilty cause it feels like i'm saying some butches are more good looking than the other but it's not. i just find some butches more attractive.

this is…. it is normal to… idk how to say this exactly but it is normal to think that not everyone in an entire group of people look alike? its normal and healthy to only be attracted to some people, it doesn’t mean anything bad, and you’re not obligated to make your own sexuality into a morality thing. sorry that you learned somewhere you have to do this :( 

anonymous asked:

I love Why Not Me, because I love angst and the feeling of pain in my chest for some reason like I'm taking Eddie's emotions. I love the tears I get and the burning in my heart because angst is so good

Omg I sorry if I actually make people cry!! But I guess that’s a good thing?

anonymous asked:

Ahhh sorry did I say something wrong!? I thought the rns/snr thing was a good idea I’m sorry. I understand that shyland is a name that includes both of them but idk I’ve just always felt weird referring to them as their ship name I’m sorry

no it’s okay!! don’t feel bad. i’m sorry if i come off as really snarky, tone doesn’t really transfer over tumblr. i get what you’re saying. it’s okay if it bothers you! it doesn’t bother me. people can refer to shane and ryland as whatever they want :) if it makes you feel any better i don’t think they mind the portmanteau, especially shane who was very very associated with shisa for quite some time. also:

anonymous asked:

Hey meg! :) I’ve followed you for a while and I love your writing omg, you seem like such a sweet person too. So I was wondering if I could get some advice? Lately I’ve really been struggling with feeling positive about my body, I find myself comparing me to other people and then I feel ugly and sad lol. Have you got any tips to overcome this or to feel a bit better? Sorry to put this on you, I usually wouldn’t rant to someone like this but you’re always so kind, have a brilliant day lovely! ❤️

Thank you!! and yes, of course!! I struggled with the same thing, and it really took a toll on me mentally and emotionally and it was a really bad phase in my life that I wish I could take back. However, I started forcing myself to find something I liked about my body each day. I started working out to be healthier and not better looking. I started wearing things that made me feel good. I started eating better because I wanted to feel better. I think once I slowly changed my mindset about being “fit” and trying to have a “good body” and just focused on being healthy and positive, that’s when I saw a difference in my confidence MAJORLY. I hope you have a wonderful day, I love you! x

anonymous asked:

Honestly all you do is whine lately.

okay? i’ve been dealing with some offline issues with my health, mental and physical, and i’m sorry that’s filtered onto the blog. i do try to keep it separate and away, but it’s inevitable sometimes. unfollow me if you feel that way. messages like this aren’t necessary, just hurtful. 

anonymous asked:

do u take Sh prompts? sorry if you don't but I keep thinking about a lili and cole au where cole is a photographer and becomes kind of obessed with her and takes photos of her without her knowing and then they meet and he tries to hide it's but she finds out?? Okay again so sorry if you don't haha xxx or anyone who feels like writing this!! Id be super interested

Hey, anon! I do take some prompts… but with writing SH, I tend to skew towards plausibility or realism or canon. I research A LOT for my fics - I check dates and photos and social media over and over again, AND I usually get 2-3 people to fact-check and beta for me. So I’m sorry I can’t fulfil your prompt - I’m really not much of an AU author (not even for Bughead!) and I really admire those who are. Someone else can take this prompt if they like… OR, hey, you can write it! (That’s how I got started with writing fic!) 

Thanks for dropping by xx

anonymous asked:

Hey love I was wondering if you could do a disassociated! Reader x Michael? (Disassociation is when a person no longer feels connected to their body or everything is too much ie lights too bright people too loud ect. Derealisation is similar, but in the sense of nothing feels real and is commonly described as “feeling as if within a dream”) I have a p bad case of disassociative disorder and would love if some people would include it in their mental health fics! (Don’t quote me on the facts btw)

Michael will give you space if you want it but he’s always by your side. He’ll dim the lights and gently hold your hands, rubbing then softly “I’m here and so are you. I’m sorry I don’t understand what you’re going through but ill always be by your side to support you”

anonymous asked:

If it's the whole thigh issue like I get, tapered pants help, makes it look a bit more straight leg and a bit less loose material everywhere, I'm personally a big fan for like more casual pants where it's cropped like halfway down the calf and pulled, like some joggies or capris do

yeah i mean ive been looking everywhere for pants i can wear without feeling dysphoric and nothing ever fits right and looks good at the same time like sorry ive already tried pretty much everything people are telling me to do and it doesnt really help

One thing about chronic illnesses that people really don’t seem to understand is that rest doesn’t make it better, at best it can slow down how bad you feel at that time or help it feel a bit more bearable but it’ll get worse if it wants to whether you’re resting or not

Sometimes you’ll be forced to rest because you can’t do anything else, but that doesn’t mean resting makes it better. When you’re chronically ill, you don’t get better, and rest definitely doesn’t leave you feeling refreshed and full of energy

If your whole body hurts and it’s painful to move then you have to rest but it’s horrible doing that the whole time, I know you’re supposed to rest when you’re sick but actually a lot of spoonies I’ve talked to hate it and would love to be able to be more active but we can’t - the last thing we want to do is spend more time at home in bed on our own

Resting doesn’t make anything better for me, it just helps to stop it being worse - everything can still hurt if I don’t do anything and I’d be happier if I could go out, even if that would hurt much more

This week was really rough so I drew myself some klance !

badxwolfxrising  asked:

I am genuinely sorry to bother you with this, but I am hoping you can help settle what is becoming a very unpleasant multi-fandom argument-is Crowley canonically gay? Some people feel he is, some people feel he may be bi/pan, but there is quite a lot of nastiness floating around Tumblr aimed at people who wish to write fan fic about Crowley having romantic interest in people other than Aziraphale. Any insight you could offer into these characters would be much appreciated. You're a treasure. <3

I suspect that I’m about to step into something I would be wisest to keep well away from. But what the hell, it’s that time between Christmas and New Year’s. And nobody’s yelled at me over the internet since I said that the TV Aziraphale doesn’t use a cell phone. *

Canonically, which is to say using the text in the book, you don’t get any description of Crowley’s sex life. The only thing the book says is “angels are sexless unless they specifically make an effort”.  You can infer, and (more to the point) you can imagine, and lots of people have chosen, not unreasonably, to ship him with Aziraphale, but you are still Making Stuff Up. It could be Making Stuff Up that happens between paragraphs, or Making Stuff Up that isn’t mentioned at all, but it’s still Making Stuff Up.** (And using the kind of eagle-eyed textual analysis that Bible scholars used to decide exactly what a piece of four thousand year old verse definitely meant also counts here as Making Stuff Up.)

Which is the fun of fanfiction, and part of the tradition of fanfiction. As is, I’m afraid, grumbling at people who do not see that your ship is the only true ship, and choose to ship anyone else with anyone else.

If anyone decides that The Relationships in Their Fanfiction Are the Only True Fanfiction, it seems to me they are missing the point. The point is Fanfiction exists so that you can imagine, enjoy and fill in the gaps. The point is that you can change things and have fun with them. And the stories are absolutely true… for you.

The TV series gets deeper into Crowley and Aziraphale’s relationship. It’ll be canonical for the TV series, and not canonical for the book.*** 

If I were to Pronounce on things that are not explicitly stated in the book, I still wouldn’t be telling you if Crowley was Canonically Gay. I would be telling you what I think, because it’s not canon unless it’s in the book. It won’t be TV canon unless it’s on the screen.

So, do not worry what other people think, and do not worry about what they say. These are not things on which people can be right or wrong, or on which anything can be “settled”. 

Make fun fanfiction. Enjoy yourself. Make things up. Share them. That’s the point.



*People would only bother him on it. And if anyone gave him one as a present, it would be still be in its box, on the same shelf as the still-unboxed Kindle.

**Which was what Terry and I did when we wrote the book. And what I had to do for the TV scripts when I needed to take the story into places the book hadn’t covered.

***They don’t contradict each other, but there is territory covered by the TV series that isn’t covered by the book, particularly about Crowley and Aziraphale in bygone years. Also the Present Day in the book is probably the early 1990s, and the Present Day in the TV series is 2019ish, although 11 years ago in the book wasn’t particularly 1978, and 11 years ago on TV is post-ubiquitous cellphones but pre-smartphones.

some people make me feel so worthless, it hurts sometimes, I just wish to sleep for over a week without dealing with anything.

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IU mentioned Jonghyun in her daesang speech at the 32nd Golden Disk Awards

“To be honest, I’m still very sad. I had to say goodbye to someone who was very precious to me as an artist, a friend, and a musician. I think I understand to some degree how hard and painful it was for him, and because it’s not a feeling that I am completely unfamiliar with, I still feel very sad and sorry.

I think that many people other than just me are also sad. It’s a shame and even more sad that we all busy with things to do tomorrow and we have to worry about what’s happening a month from now, and make plans for the next year, so we can’t let ourselves feel this sadness as much as we need to. I hope that you will let natural things show and accept them naturally, like feeling happy when happy, crying when sad, feeling tired when hungry, and slowing down when sick.

In particular, as artists, we are people who comfort other people, and so while it’s good to have a professional mindset, I truly hope that no one becomes more sick and pained after not first looking after ourselves as people and comforting ourselves, and not showing how we feel.

You’ve been busy today and will be busy again tomorrow, so while you might not have enough time, I hope that the people who won today will celebrate and enjoy today to its fullest and then sleep well. I will too. Thank you.”

Source: soompi / video

“Haise had feelings for Touka but Kaneki doesn’t”

But, hey!!!

Look!!

The title of the chapter where Haise first met Touka (and the one he instantly fell for her) is called:

The feelings Haise felt for Touka were inherited from Kaneki. It just happens that, since Haise didn’t have any memories of his past, he also didn’t have any issues that would make him lock is feelings deep down on his heart.

While Kaneki had a lot to deal, Haise was just Haise, which made his feelings for her more obvious and transparent.

Kaneki and Haise may be “““diferent”””, but the heart is the same.

there comes a time in every fan’s life where you just decide “fuck it, I’m not going to pretend to defend why I’m allowed to like A Thing even though everyone thinks it is Bad Art. I’m just going to like it and anyone who wants to judge me for liking A Thing without a detailed mea culpa Explanation should try this instead: I like A Thing because it makes me happy or brings me silly joy and that is all the Explanation I care to give. liking A Thing does not have to equal an endorsement of A Thing as Good Art or Model Writing. maybe it’s even garbage, but it’s My Happy Garbage, so peace out sailor.”

Harry + live on tour 2017 comedy show:

  • “This is for you, big daddy”
  • “Thank you for popping my cherry, as you will.”
  • [After pointing out his label in the audience] “I would like to tell you, I suggested that “Kiwi” was the next single. I just like to suggest that a little more, because if we play it again they will take the hint.”
  • “If you’re gonna do it like that, Atlanta, you can have it as many times as you want.”
  • “The sash and tiara is misleading. It makes this seem like a bachelorette party.”
  • “I need you to be better. And I promise you I will play it as many times as it takes to get there.”
  • “Sois belle et tais toi. (Be pretty and shut up).”
  • “This used to be a church, correct? Very aware that I just screamed ‘I’m having your baby’ inside this church”
  • [When someone lied about it being their birthday] “Is it today? It’s not today? You’re a fraud.”
  • “The first time I came to Chicago was several years ago, and everyone says the same thing - ‘you have to try the pizza.’ Some people don’t like - there’s boos for pizza! Just a couple of gluten free people in the corner going ‘Boo! No pizza!’ Oh shut up! Didn’t mean to offend anyone gluten free. Gluten is a bad man and I’m sorry.”
  • “Oh you’re Finnish, I’m just getting started.”
  • “You do not go to that school. I’m afraid that’s not how it works. If you want a jumper, you have to do the time I’m afraid. Me, for example. I have loads of those jumpers. Did the time.”
  • “Do you feel lit?”
  • “Goodbye! Goodbye! Did you have fun? Bye! That’s how you beat the traffic.”
  • “Ruhe, bitte (silence, please)”
  • “I know I’m at a distance, but you are a handsome silver fox if I’ve ever said so.”
  • “I see a lot of you out there wearing some nice new garments… some of it says Harry….. looks like nice new merch… also available at the merch stand…”
  • “I find myself in a predicament. Here I am, about to sing my song Kiwi in a room full of kiwis and you weren’t loud enough”
  • “You prefer cheese? That’s why you came to see me!”
  • “I really need the toilet if I’m quite honest…Too much miso.”
  • “Cho kawaii! Cho kawaii! (You’re cute! You’re cute!)”
  • “I’m well aware I can’t do this without you all being here… It’d be rather boring. Just me talking to myself, kind of like soundcheck…”
  • “They’re wearing the exact same thing. How embarrassing. Let me tell you that is my worst nightmare.”
  • “This is a family show! Or is it?!”
  • “are you… are you wearing - are those boxer shorts? are those pajamas? you look great!”
  • “Anyone here didn’t camp? Shame on you!”

There is a thing about fandom mentality that baffles me.
Yes, fandoms change over time and the first big boom slows down. And for haikyuu the first boom definitely has cooled down.
And as I totally get how you can be sad over passed times and be nostalgic about how things were I feel it’s unfair to sit around and mope and complain that the fandom is dead.
I know some of the first big artists and writers have moved on and as said I understand if you miss the exciting times of a new fandom. But if you only look back and look sadly behind you and at the empty spot the artists who have left the fandom have left there you will never see what is happening all around you.
There are still new people coming and creating. There are still new fics and stories and new fanart with a new style.
Some people who have been around for 1 or even 2 years are still around and providing and keeping their stories going and alive.
There are still totally new and very fresh people entering the fandom who haven’t heard or seen any of the stories yet and are excited to get to know all.
But if you only look back and hold on to the old things you won’t be able to see all the new things. You won’t be able to enjoy all the things. And this is sad. And this is what discourage other artists and writers…and in the end I feel this is what makes a fandom dead.

Some of the early haikyuu art and fics are great and they have been important and I value them and I would never talk them down.
But it’s sad to see that they are still held up to such a praise that new things often can’t find their room. Even people who joined the fandom more recently still hold up to the old things.

Go look into the fresh tags. Don’t always look for most notes but for what is new or sounds good.
There are some great artists and writers among us who have been fighting and creating for over a year now but still haven’t found their ground cause you still rather be sad about someone who isn’t in this fandom anymore.

So if you are still motivated and interested in the fandom go out there and have an open mind and search for new blogs to follow and look into newer things! People still creating and posting new stuff every day!! With this a fandom can’t be dead!
Enjoy!

Hey guys

How’re you all doing? Hope everyone is snazzy but i understand it’s been a rough week. 

Remember to respect others! And to those of you who have been, or felt threatened, take a break, make some tea, message me if you just need a chill chat. 

ayo hitman bang introduces hit it the second audition

sjadnfgdfhjkj ok i’m joking here’s your annoying jin stan with the second follow forever!!! its my blog’s first anniversary and for the last year i’ve met here so many beautiful people, i know i haven’t talked to all of you but i really apreciate you!! thank you for making this year so amazing!!! and i’m sorry for excluding some of my mutuals, feel free to deck me in the face 

special shout out to my homies:

@leejinks get your ass here faster pls we have 3 months to waste, ily n i miss u 💞 💞 💞

@jimissi my savior, you kno i love u the most im sorry you have to hear all abt those groups you’re not even into i’m not sorry for dragging you into some of them  💞 💞 💞

@yoonjisungsgf thanks for everything, quality memes and notes and shit, i wouldn’t survive this year without u  💞 💞 💞

bolded - faves

💞 - angels whom i don’t deserve 

side note: i know some of you follow my svt sideblog, i just remade it into a separate blog so now you can find me at @wongyuhan​ this is a shameless promo i’m sorry i’m like this

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