i feel lonely because my boyfriend is not around

anonymous asked:

I've been alone and lonely for a good for years now, I mean I have my boyfriend but whenever I'm not around him, reality sets in and I realise I'm still lonely. I don't know what to do, and I feel like I struggle to socialise now too to try and make friends because it's been so long since I've had some.

Hi there,

It’s never too late to make friends! I encourage you to take some time to think about where you could make a friend, and maybe speak to your boyfriend about it too because maybe he will have some ideas. You could look into speaking more to a person you work with, go to school with or someone online who has similar interests to you. Starting a conversation can be as simple as introducing yourself and asking if it’s ok if you hang around/with them while you’re where you are. From there let them lead conversation, and if they don’t then maybe try to ask questions about whatever it is about where you are or why they’re there, etc. And don’t expect to be great at this straight away, but over time you’ll definitely get better! I hope this helps :)

- Liam

anonymous asked:

It's 12:34 I'm thinking about how lonely I am and how boring my life is I wish I had a boyfriend or at least more friends because every day feels the exact same I am in a constant state of deja vu... it's pathetic.

I feel that two things need to happen here (and this first one is going to sound very rude. I am apologizing in advance): 1. You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself. Do you know why your life is boring and there is this constant feeling of deja vu everyday? Because you are getting in the way of yourself. Why are you sitting around thinking that your life is boring when in reality you can be using that time that you’re bashing yourself to go out and do something? If you are waiting for someone to come into your to bring you happiness you are going to be waiting for a very long time. Why? Because you must be the source for your own happiness. Who wants to date or even hang out with someone that doesn’t even find themselves interesting? What would you guys talk about, the weather? Now don’t get me wrong, friends are great to have but a person should not complete you. You complete yourself.
2. Are you in school? Join a club. Are you working? Invite your coworkers to go out. Doing your own thing, kinda in limbo and don’t really know what you’re doing? Go hang out with your family, invite your neighbor over, invite the entire neighborhood over and have a block party. Join a hiking group. Go on Facebook and look for a Facebook group for your city and give back to the community by volunteering. Volunteer at your local shelters. Stop standing in the way of your own greatness, friend.

THE EDGE OF TONIGHT BY ALL TIME LOW [MICHAEL]

It’s a long way home
When you’re on your own
And your only friends are traffic lights

Michael was the type of guy who loved being alone. He loved being all by himself when he went to a record shop to listen to the records of the bands he loved; he loved drinking a warm cup of coffee with his earphones in, in a quiet coffee shop; he loved driving alone and explore places he had never seen in his life.

Although Michael loved being alone, he hated feeling lonely. Whenever he saw a girl with her boyfriend, or two friends walking around town just having fun and laughing, it made him think twice. Was he happy alone?

Whenever he went for a drive, he turned on the radio to keep him company because after all, the sound of music and the traffic lights were his only friends.

Yeah, the road is long
And I am tired
But you are my horizon
I will drive until it all breaks down

Then Michael met (y/n), the girl that made him feel complete. She was not perfect. No, she was far from being perfect but that didn’t matter to him. She was hope, she was everything to him. She made him feel happy and alive. At the end of the day, she was the reassurance that he was coming back home. He knew she would be waiting for him and he felt excited when he thought about seeing her again.

Spend my whole damn life
Trying to get things right
And for everyone, my mistakes
You gave me all these chances

He had messed things up with other people but that didn’t mean that he was going to mess their relationship up too. He had gotten into fights with his family, with his friends and that was the main reason why he was alone in the world before she had showed up.

Yes, they had fights like every other couple but in the end, she would forgive him. She knew he needed her and she needed him too. She loved him as much as he loved her. They had been made for each other, they were soulmates.

You’re like a sunray in the dark
You’re the beat playing in my heart
Keep me alive
On the edge of tonight, yeah

(y/n) was Michael’s last hope. If it wasn’t for her, he didn’t know what to do. She made him feel alive, she was the light at the end of the tunnel. He loved her so much that he didn’t even have words to describe how truly grateful he was for having her in his life. She was the love of his life and no one could deny that.

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