i feel like this is just a thing that needs to be on peoples blog u feel

hello hello, i’m back at it again with another following spree, goddamn goddamn goddamn! anyways……. my dash has been so dead recently and i need more content to reblog since i spend like, a lot of time here bc im a loser. so yeahhhh

YOU MUST.
— tag your post!
— be ABOVE 15! i’m 20, almost 21, and it feels so weird following people that are 15 and under. its nothing personal i promise, it just makes me feel really uncomfortable! i hope you understand c:

if that was clear, then these are the things i am looking for.
— multifandom blogs! ( this is like, rly important since everyone on my dash keep reblogging the same fandom over and over and i’m getting sick of seeing it whenever i scroll through tumblr lol )
— seasonal anime!
— kpop! so i can reblog more stuff on my kpop blog asdhs
— marvel / dc content, esp comics!
— aesthetic / photography / art
— games! like any game is fine. just another reason for me to play them lol
— space stuff!!!!! i looooove space so i’d like to see more of that on my dash!
— movies / tv shows. really like, movies/shows from other countries are fine as
     well i just need some quality content u know, a less boring dash
— NEW MUTUALS! like i’d be reaaaal nice to get to know new faces =)

if you post these things ( you dont have to post all the things on the list omg ) pls REBLOG THIS POST! i will check every blog that reblogs this!

BONUS IF.
— you make your own stuff

yes! i think this is about it, sorry this got so freaking long omg,, i’d also appreciate it if my mutuals could reblog this and spread it around!! thNK YOU SO MUCH

anonymous asked:

I don't think I've ever been in love or even had a crush? Idk if I'm ace and I'm a little scared cause I probably am? And I feel like society builds these concepts of what having a "perfect life" would be and getting married is usually a huge part of it and my family keeps asking if I'm seeing someone and Idk how to deal with it. I love being with other people as friends but I just don't get the attraction thing. So yeah this came out much more serious than I planned... Well I love your blog!

if u dont feel like being in a relationship then dont force it, u dont have to be attracted to other ppl and theres nothing wrong with that!! u could stay open for any possibilities and if theres maybe the right person someday then thats nice but even if there isnt, thats fine as well. u dont need a romantic partner in ur life to be happy ! i know theres a lot of pressure to have this “perfect life” but things are changing and u dont need to confirm to any silly standards anymore bc fuck that noise

I see posts going around that always say ‘you’re not bothering me if you’re…” or “come into my inbox; i won’t mind at all!!” and I have just a couple grievances. And I’m gonna try wording this in the least asshole-ish way possible.

Sometimes, I have days. Days where I don’t feel like talking to people, or I just feel like talking to or roleplaying with certain people. And this happens frequently.

I won’t feel ‘bothered’ per-se if you send me a thing and I’m in one of those moods. But please don’t get upset when I either don’t reply for a few days, or don’t reply at all. Its not you, it’s me.

In addition, since people still don’t read my rules: when I say that I only rp with mutuals, I kinda mean it guys. Which means that if I’m not following you, I won’t be rping with you. Again; not you, it’s me.

i usually try to avoid ranting and raving, bc i like my blog to be a happy and positive space for everyone! but tbh there’s something i really feel the need to say

i know a lot of people (myself included) ship scott and mitch. and believe you me, there is NOTHING wrong with shipping! as long as you know the difference between fiction and reality, and unfortunately a lot of scomiche shippers are blurring those lines.

scott and mitch are not dating. they have said they aren’t on several different occasional (x being the most recent, which has seemed to cause quite a stir) and yet people keep on calling them liars??? just because they like to express affection for each other??? just because they tend to hug and cuddle and kiss??? all of those things do not automatically mean there is a romance and i think a lot of people need to realize that

like scott and mitch, i have been best friends w/ my best friend for over 10 years, and hug and cuddle all the time and occasionally we’ll kiss each other goodbye when we part ways. that doesn’t mean we are in a romantic relationship - in fact, i HAVE a datemate, and the way i express my love for my best friend does not negate the fact that i am in a relationship (the same way scott was in a relationship, yet people constantly invalidated that - but that’s a discussion for another post) 

i guess the point i want to make here is that platonic relationships are just as, if not more, important and valuable than romantic relationships, and people can still be platonic and express affection and love for each other stop trying to disregard people’s friendships because you think their actions mean something more than they do

the fact of the matter is, scott and mitch are best friends - always have been, likely always will be, and it is unlikely that they will ever be anything more. scott is the most important person in mitch’s life and mitch is the most important person in scott’s life, so of course they are going to cuddle sometimes because they love each other and they have no problem expressing their love for each other. their relationship is special just the way it is, and like i said, shipping is perfectly fine but i really think people need to stop invalidating and dismissing their friendship and trying to read between the lines, that are not there, as well as trying to force a romance that clearly is not there

anyway, this is basically a very self indulgent doodle blog and sometimes i feel bad about it but i think i need to remind myself that it isn’t bad to be self indulgent and really, self indulgent art isn’t any less then any other kind of art (even if it sometimes feels like it is). There’s nothing wrong with drawing what you love, even if it’s the same thing a thousand times over. I’m just really grateful and glad that my self indulgence can somehow make other people happy as well. so thank u all for your love and your lovely messages and curious ones, even though I can’t reply to every single one, i appreciate it very very much