i feel like this is cheating

Six Movies I Can Watch Anytime

These have no particular order cause it’s physically impossible for me to chose a favorite movie

Tagged By: @holyshittomholland

1. Any Harry Potter movie (2001-2016)

Originally posted by dannyistrash

2. Edge of Seventeen (2016)

Originally posted by edgeof17movie

3. Star Wars the Force Awakens (2015)

Originally posted by starwars--rey

4. Pitch Perfect (2012)

Originally posted by nofriendstotext

5. Moana (2016)

Originally posted by kurtwellers

6: Captain America the First Avenger (2011) 

Originally posted by thatsnarkydragon

Tags: @tomhollandish @tomhollandlibrary @tomhollande @holland-happy @dah-knee-cuh

anonymous asked:

You guys did YouTube videos for what? 4 years? If you were SO uncomfortable, you could have communicated that to her and maybe things could have changed. Instead you ran to the next best thing, a coworker, and are trying to convince us you DIDNT cheat even though you DEFINITELY were at least TALKING to this girl while with Lucy. She popped up out of no where and you have no one but yourself to blame for the criticism.

Yes, we did YouTube for four years.  And throughout those four years, there was varying degrees of “uncomfortableness”.  It was fun in the beginning but as my career got more and more intense, it started to feel more like a burden than something I enjoyed doing.  But I continued to do it because you make compromises for someone you’re in a relationship with.  YouTube was never a career for me so it was hard to get into the mindset, even if it was for a half hour, once a week, to make a video when I was working 80 hours on top of that. But it was amazing to see the responses and comments from people who were so committed to our channel and relationship which is why I continue to make an effort, even if there were problems going “behind the scenes”.

Firstly, Alycia didn’t pop out of nowhere.  We definitely TALKED while I was in my previous relationship because we were co-workers and best friends.  We were close friends for OVER a year before our relationship evolved.  Secondly, she is not the “next best thing”; she is not someone I settled for. She brings such happiness in my life and works everyday to put a smile on my face.  We have so much in common and she brings such a peaceful comfort to my life that I’m not sure I’ve felt before.  This is not to compare or say anything negative about my previous relationship -  People change and sometimes that happens in a different direction in relationships and people fall out of love.  You only live one life and you shouldn’t compromise happiness because a few thousand people online are rooting for you.  I’m sorry that people feel hurt and confused.  And nothing I say is going to change that.  

I’m not answering this question because you deserve an answer.  I’m answering this question because everything you’ve said is so widely incorrect and inappropriate.  If you would really like to talk, you can come off an anonymous and we can do this privately.

anonymous asked:

How do you get yourself out of an abusing relationship? I know it's bad for me but I love him so much

The National Domestic Abuse Helpline has a safety leaving plan. CALL 1-800-799-SAFE for a safety plan and other help. They have a website, but be sure that your internet use is not being tracked by your partner before you go there. Delete your browser history.  Have a plan.  If your internet is not being tracked the website is http://www.thehotline.org/ or call 1-800-799-7233.

Abuse can be physical, mental, emotional, verbal and sexual. It can be but doesn’t have to be all 5. Just because someone isn’t hitting you doesn’t mean they are not abusive. Name calling is abusive, cheating is abusive. Feeling as if you’re walking on eggshells is abusive. Being put in no-win situations is abusive.

My dear Anon, I know you love him… but it’s not okay for someone to belittle you like that. It’s not okay for him to take advantage of you. You’re not supposed to be scared for your life when you’re with someone. I am very glad that you’ve acknowledged that you’re in an abusive relationship. I need you to please get help if you are in immediate danger - tell a loved one, call the authorities, anything! 

I know that losing him may feel like it’s the end of the world, but baby, you will move on. You will find someone better. Someone who is going to make you feel SAFE and loved. So please, please - I know it’s easier said than done - but leave this guy. You deserve better.

For my followers - if you guys have any words of wisdom or encouragement to share to this lovely anon, please feel free to add them. Reblog or comment.

anonymous asked:

Do you think it's okay for your partner to read your phone messages if they've been cheated on in the past and need reassurance that it's not going to happen again, even if you haven't done anything to insinuate you've cheated?

i think them looking through only your messages/phone would be inappropriate but if you like, sat down and went through each of your phones together that wouldn’t be as bad. a big problem with partners constantly wanting to see your messages is that it can be a one-sided thing where your partner holds emotional control over you. if it goes both ways maybe that could equalize it a little bit, i dunno. also, if you feel like looking through messages is too much of an invasion of privacy, don’t agree to it just to assuage your partner’s mind- your feelings and emotions are just as important as theirs, and if they don’t respect that, that’s a big warning sign.

I haven’t been doing very well the past couple days. I’m trying to get over a breakup but like idk guys always figure out how much of a mess i am after the honeymoon phase is over and they either cheat on me or leave me. Like i dont feel like anyone is ever going to actually love me and its really scary.

anonymous asked:

Hi Cherie!! Do you have cheat days or cheat meals?

Nah I definitely don’t have specific cheat days/meals 

I basically eat whatever I feel like tbh and if that means I happen to crave junk food/something that’s not as healthy then so be it! A few weeks ago I literally had hot chips every single day #noregrets, I don’t eat like that all the time though so I don’t think it’s necessary to stress about it or restrict myself and allocate a certain time/day to have “cheat” meals :)

anonymous asked:

im still so devastated about...... u know...... are they sick of iwaoi now or what??? drowning in anxiety bc i never know what they'll draw next (((((cuz it doesnt seem like it'll be iwaoi anymore wtf the FUCK))

MY DUDE I FUCKING KNOW RIGHT LIKE HOW IS YA’LL CALM ABOUT THIS i feel cheated and betrayed so i just blocked u-know-who from my life rn im fucking petty af i dont need additional stress in my life

i have like. a lot to say about why sherlock failed as t.v. show bc i think as a writer it’s a really crucial study in how to ruin a good premise/beginning and tbh if not to just … study how not to handle characters it’s pretty fascinating bc there are some truths which i feel it’s necessary to point out:

  • nobody likes to feel cheated at the end of the story.
  • death only matters if it’s forever and it’s rare.
  • on that note, there should be consequences for actions.
  • trust your characters to be interesting without unnecessary drama.
  • throwing plot at your characters feels less real than having their desires make them walk fully into the glass door of plot
  • if you’re going to make one of your characters “a sociopath” or disabled with ptsd or any other mental or physical illness, do extensive research into the personal experiences of those who suffer it and handle it with gravitas; don’t just vanish a character’s disability because it’s inconvenient to have them use a cane etc.
  • when there’s a good plot twist with nice foreshadowing, the audience loves it. when there’s just always plot twists, the author loves plot twists more than his own story.
  • surprise isn’t always a good thing.
  • “it was all a dream/joke/mirage/spell” is literally the weakest form of writing yourself out of a corner and is incredibly annoying to read/watch
  • queerbaiting is ugly
  • ride rollercoasters, not a broken elevator. have some stretches between plunges. your story can speed ahead and stay interesting without diving into hell again. 
  • having a Big Bad Evil doesn’t make the story interesting; in fact having “monster of the week” problems feels more authentic and enjoyable 
  • write your women like people and let them have plots that have nothing to do with men.
  • just because you’re good doesn’t mean that you are above critique or getting better. you should always be challenging yourself to outdo your previous self, not resting on the laurels of a previously effective moment
  • characters don’t have to be overpowered to be interesting 
  • if a character’s emotions all exist on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the most emotion that an emotion can be (the saddest/angriest/broodiest), do not let that character hit a 10 until you are ready to be done with them forever 
  • when you are done with them forever, be done
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Goryeo’s Best Dressed: Hae Soo as the King’s Woman

the worst thing is i dont know how to just stop loving sherlock. like the episode itself i can get over but the entire show and these characters and what theyve gone through and the happiness and the love they shouldve gotten, that they deservedmeans so so much to me and i. cant just turn that off even when i feel so goddamn cheated

i want to like. make a list of not-str8 historical figures bc ppl are tagging that walt whitman post like “omg wait really” & honestly yall deserve better.

Like, you know who wasn’t straight? Charlotte Bronte, who wrote Jane Eyre. Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky, who wrote Swan Lake. E.M. Forster, who wrote A Passage to India. Marcel Proust. Henry James. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe. Virginia Woolf. Herman Melville. Michelangelo. Leonardo Da Vinci. Socrates. William fucking Shakespeare.

And these are just (a few of) the ones we known about, because there’s a storied history of coded messages in literature that mean we are often looking gay metaphors in the face and not understanding them. We’re there, we’re out there, and I’m so mad that I didn’t know.

We have a history. We have a legacy. WE’VE ALWAYS BEEN HERE.

Storylines for Robert other than “will he cheat?”:

  • Telling Victoria and Diane about Jack
  • The lost years
  • Coming out as bi to Diane and Vic
  • Addressing Rebecca/Aaron/the villages’ biphobia
  • Robert finding out that Vic’s having a baby/supporting her through her likely fertility issues
  • Robert and Liv improving their relationship/bonding
  • Wedding planning
  • Renovating the Mill
  • Robert getting jealous/insecure for once
  • Robert making friends
  • Robert starting his own mental health journey
  • Literally a million other things?
“Cheater Cheater”

Pairing: Bucky Barnes x Reader

Summary: Bucky has a feeling you’re cheating on him with Sam. After a lot of brooding and thought, he decides to confront the two of you.

soundtrack:
“¿Dónde estás, Yolanda?”

A/N: I can’t do angst to save my life, so this story takes on a very different direction than originally intended. -j xx

“I’m pretty sure she’s cheating on me.”

Bucky grimaces, hating how those words taste on his tongue. He refuses to look at Steve, because the gnawing feeling in his stomach will get only worse once he looks at his friend’s shocked eyes. “Whenever I ask her how her day was or what she did, she clams up and gives me some weird answer or excuse,” he continues.”

Steve rubs his jaw. "Buck, that’s not enough to assume that (Y/N)’s cheating on you.”

Bucky fishes his phone out of his leather jacket and pushes it towards Steve. “This is overbearing of me, but I asked Nat to do a little recon,” he sighs. “Whenever I look at these photos, a little voice in my head nags ‘Cheater cheater!’”

Steve uneasily scrolls through the different high-quality photos of you secretively walking out of a suite at the Avengers Tower. “Whose room is she leaving?“ he asks.

"Sam’s. It’s been going for about two weeks now.”

Steve practically spits out his coffee. “WHAT?”

Bucky feels drained as he takes his phone back. “Nat said that after (Y/N) leaves, Sam’s whistling around the tower. And you know Sam only whistles after one thing.”

Oh, every Avenger in the tower knew what the whistling meant. It was Sam Wilson’s telltale sign that he got lucky with a woman.

Steve shakes his head in disbelief. “(Y/N) and Sam? I mean, you and Sam… but… what?”

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Marcus Flint/Oliver Wood: Royal AU (for @mxrcusflint)

There’s a certain memory in Marcus’ head, which has blurred around the edges; of bloody swords and fallen knights. His right-hand man who dragged him away from the battlefield, and told mundane jokes as though they were on hunting trip. But the time had started to slip from his grip. So Marcus shushed him, and whispered, in the softest tone he ever used in his life, “I can’t go on without you.”

There’s a certain memory in his head, which has blurred around the edges; of fallen kingdom and a man. His right-hand man who smiled at him with tears on his face, “I know. I won’t be long.”

russian classical authors like guys from high school 

(just some of them, both novelists and poets)

Pushkin: popular guy who’s  good at freestyle rap, untrustworthy lady’s man, the main editor and the founder of school’s newspaper, fluent in french

Lermontov: Emo, loves the most popular girl in school, but also hates her (and the rest of the school too), reckless, likes mountains and the idea of spirit of freedom, good at painting, but nobody knows.

Leo Tolstoy: teachers hates his essays bc they’re too long, writes text in half-page long sentences, cheated on his girlfriend several times.

Gogol: some dudes are mocking him bc of his nose and haircut, has good sense of humour, writes satirical articles for school’s newspaper, loves everything his mom cooks.

Dostoyevsky: likes to stay in the shadow, had difficult childhood, once forgot to return a pen he had borrowed and can’t sleep well at night ever since, poor, hates bright colours

Kuprin: desperately falls in love with everybody, constantly writes lots of love letters, buys expensive jewlery to his girlfriend.

Griboyedov: natural born diplomat, sharp-witted, mood swings, travelled to middle asia once, wears glasses and fancy scarfs.

Bulgakov: smokes tobacco pipe, likes black cats and tweed suits, wears monocle and lots of hair gel, mysterious, walks a lot at night.

Esenin: underage alcoholic, an actual hillbilly, girls always love his hair, spends at least one month in the summer in the coutnryside with his grandparents, always ready to fight.

Mayakovsky: tall and loud, talks about weird futuristic shit a lot, always makes up new strange words, good at debates and discussions, depressed deeply inside, somehow handsome.

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Sterek Week 2016 || Day 1 || Scene Stealer || Merlin, The Diamond of the Day

(altered slightly; warning: character death; potential for rebirth as is the legend)

Stiles can only stare. Derek’s dying, bleeding out, and still obnoxiously righteous. A fucking martyr, refusing his help. Stiles is magic. Stiles has power. Stiles has a destiny to save his goddamn kingly ass.

“We can’t,” Derek gasps out. “It’s too late.”

“No.” Stiles has so much within him and there’s always a way, another spell to try. He always saves Derek.

“All your magic, Stiles. It can’t save my life.”

It’s like he’s picked the fear right out of Stiles’ heart.

Stiles shakes his head, brain frantically trying to grasp at something, but there’s a block, a wall of worry, and all Stiles can think is how red Derek’s blood is. How thin looking. Insubstantial. Can Derek really not survive without it running through him?

“I can,” Stiles half-shouts, desperate. “I’m not going to lose you.”

“Just hold me. Please.”

It’s the whisper that does it. That has Stiles falling towards Derek, and a lump lodging itself in his throat.

“There’s something I want to say.”

Stiles cuts him off, covering Derek’s mouth with his own. It tastes of blood. “You’re not going to say goodbye.”

“No, Stiles.” Derek smiles at him. How he can when he must know–he must be able to tell that Stiles can’t–

“Derek.”

“Everything you’ve done. I know now. For me, for Beacon Hills. For the Kingdom you helped me build…”

Derek cuts off on a groan, and Stiles’ hands press down over Derek’s, already on his wound. They cover quickly with red.

“You’d have done it without me.”

“Maybe.” Derek goes to smile again, but it doesn’t reach his eyes as he groans again and folds himself over.

Derek’s breathing heavily when he looks back up at Stiles. His eyes are half closed and his focus goes in and out. Stiles can’t think to do anything but take away a little pain.

“I want to say,” a breath, “something I’ve never,” a breath “said to you before.”

Stiles doesn’t want to hear whatever it is, not if it means Derek’s going to let himself go after he says it. Which he will. Stiles know he will.

He tries to delay a little longer. Just one last kiss.

A kiss can’t last forever, and Stiles feels Derek’s last words as validation against his lips.

“Thank you.”