i feel like this is a very relatable quote

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I wasn’t able to post this on Valentine’s Day, but I liked the sketch enough that I decided to post it!  I was largely inspired by Judi Dench asking that infamous question, “What IS the deal with Reylo.” Madness, Judi.

So…yeah…I’m a sap for Villain/heroine or byronic-moody-character/ well-composed character romances, because there’s so much potential for delicious drama in the narrative.  I personally feel Rey will be a Kenobi/related-to-nobody-we-know, but…I could be very, horribly, like, woah wrong.  I’ve been wrong before.  In the meantime, I’ll enjoy the idea of the Acolyte of the Anger Kylo mooning over Miss Desert-What’s-Her-Name.  In the infamous words of the satyr Phil from Disney’s “Hercules”, Kylo… “Don’t let your guard down because of a pair of big goo-goo eyes.” But he did.  And he lost.  And allow me to quote “Hercules” when I want to.  In any situation. 

I know that your heart was shattered and it feels like no one is on your side, but convincing yourself you’ll never find someone who loves you back is very closed minded. Just because it was hopeless with one, or two, or many people, doesn’t mean it will be hopeless for everyone. The world is too big and there’s too many people you haven’t met yet.
—  Things I Have to Remind Myself

I don’t think I love very many things but here are the ones I can think of:

I love the first sip
of coffee in the morning

I love reading someone
else’s words and finding
a connection in them

I love the feeling a
good song invokes

I love wondering

I love driving at night
with no destination

I love the gentle kind
of sadness like a reminder
that I can feel.

- Marianna Paige (x)

What’s wrong with me? This isn’t the way things are supposed to go. I’m supposed to love you, but every day I feel the warmth you cause slipping away. I don’t get it, but the more I try to make sense of it, the worse things seem to get between you and I. It’s like my heart is evicting you, like you’ve overstayed your welcome and it wants nothing to do with you anymore. I wish I knew why.
—  Maxwell Diawuoh, Request: A lover whose heart is growing cold. She is very scared.

aarenderain  asked:

So I finally watched Fantastic Beast and Where to Find Them (I know I know, I'm late to the party lol) aND NEWT IS ADORABLE OMG AND A FRIEND HAS THE SCREENPLAY AND I CAN'T WAIT TO READ IT!!!!! But I was wondering what is your favorite thing about Newt and Fantastic Beast? :3

AHH! Where to begin!?!

From the quick wit ( “Are you a seeker? A seeker of the truth?” - “I’m more of a chaser really.”) to the amount compassion and humility there is just so much to love about Newt Scammander.

First off, I loved the movie. I got the same feeling watching it as when I went to see the new Star Wars movie. It just felt like it genuinely fit inside the universe and wasn’t just a bad rehash of what worked before. I loved all of the creatures and of course the fact the protagonist is a Hufflepuff!

Originally posted by simplyelda

I guess what I like about Newt is how much I could relate to his character, or at least some things I aspire to have (like that quick wit ; ) )

Newt has that presence of being very down to earth and humble but also has an air of sadness. His heart has known deep sorrow and it shows. We didn’t even need Queenie to tells us. I’m going to use a quote from the 12th Doctor ‘cause it pretty much sums up what it feels like to know great sorrow and pain. 

“You hold [the pain] tight… till it burns your hand, and you say this: No one else will ever have to live like this! No one else will have to feel this pain! Not on my watch! ” - The Doctor (The Zygon Inversion)

You see this in how Newt cares for the creatures who are vastly misunderstood. In how he interacts with Credence and the sorrow with which he recounts the story of the child who perished because of the obscurus inside her. It is there in his views on how the Americans regard people without magic.

Newt Scammander is someone who is incredibly kind, incredibly intelligent, and incredibly loyal. That strikes a cord with me, and I liked having a protagonist that wasn’t the charismatic “hero” archetype we’ve all seen before. 

He is a soft-spoken, flawed and emotional character but kind and loyal, and everyone seems to always overlook people like that until they need them. It saddens me to see how many people didn’t like the movie or Newt’s character simply because he wasn’t the charismatic, outspoken go-getter you would see in a marvel movie or some other superhero or fantasy action movie.

So those are my thoughts…. probably a lot more than you were looking for…

ACOWAR theory (can it really be a theory if its 99.9% cannon?)

So I haven’t seen anyone going into depth on the whole ‘Feyre’s pregnant’ thing. 

So we all know that Feyre (and other people) refer to her as a 

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Watching Extremis for the first time

(Spoilers below)

-Who’s narrating?

-If you serve as executioners to everything… then you execute flies and mosquitoes and stuff like that?

-”The destruction of a Time Lord–”
 STOP RIGHT THERE, AND DON’T YOU DARE TELL ME THE DOCTOR’S GONNA BE EXECUTED.

-Holy shit the Daleks are actually an impressive race, they killed a ton of those Time Lords that are supposedly so hard to kill

MISSY??

-WTF

-”I didn’t expect you.”
 Well then who’d you expect, some other Time Lord who miraculously survived the Time War?

-Ah, gotta love them Daleks with their gossipy mouths, spreading rumors everywhere.

Why is his suit so worn. I’m concerned.

-”They can’t know I’m blind, Missy. no one can know.”

-HA

-FUCKING FINALLY

-SO IT WAS MISSY ALL ALONG

-CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL THOSE HUNDREDS, THOUSANDS, MAYBE EVEN HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF THEORISTS OUT THERE WHO GOT IT RIGHT

-”Please, I’ll do anything. Just let me live.”
 I…

-*phone notification jingle*
 wut

I DON’T LIKE THIS, I DON’T LIKE THE TITLE OF THAT EMAIL, OR THE COLOR OF THAT EMAIL, OR THE GALLIFREYAN LOADING BAR, OR THE GLITCHY GLITCH EFFECTS

Do all these people have fevers or is the weather just really hot??

-So I’m guessing he uses the shades to aid his vision now?

-Well, as long as he’s not completely in the black I’m fine

-”ve arrrre to com heerre dirrectly frrom the vaticaan”

-The pope???

-what is going on????!?!?!?

-”Pope Benedict. Lovely girl. What a night. I knew she was trouble, but she wove a spell with her castanets.“
 wut

-”The Pope doesn’t zoom round the world in the Popemobile, surprising people.“

-I am so confused and worried right now

I was kinda losing focus while reading the transcript of this episode and then BOOM, SUICIDE PICTURE FLASHES, WTF

-”Assume nothing. Assumption makes an ass out of you.”

-”I thought you’d moved out from here?
 “Yeah, slightly didn’t work out. Second attempt on the way.”

-”I don’t like knowing their names. I only get attached.”

-”Of course not. I have very strict rules about men.“
 “Probably not as strict as mine.”

-”Oh, I’m sorry. Here’s me thinking that she dragged some poor, terrified man home.“
 Poor lady doesn’t know what’s going on, but talk about getting out of a tight spot.

-My favorite scene in the episode so far omg

-Ah yes, Bill’s house pipes that always go VWOOOORP VWOOOOORP.

-”Well, whatever this is, and actually it’s not anything yet, it is absolutely nothing to feel guilty about.”

Gotta love how them popes come with a pre-installed church organ sound effect

-I only understood one word that sounded like “Doctor”.

“You’re all going to hell.”

-I love Bill omfg

-”Pope Benedict said that you were more in need of confession than any man breathing. But when the offer was made, you replied it would take too much time. On behalf of the Catholic Church, the offer stands. You seem like a man with regret on his mind.“

-Well, that went down in a bad way…

The very fancy scifi watch hidden under the very fancy fantasy-ish robes

The Doctor suspects Darth Sidious is up to something.

-Nope, nevermind, that was Nardole.

oh

OHHH

-”Warning: I have full permission to kick your arse.”

-”Because I don’t like being worried about. Around me, people should be worried about themselves.“
“Yeah, shall I tell you the real reason?“
"No.“
"Because the moment you tell Bill, it becomes real. And then you might actually have to deal with it.”

-This episode is about as religious as Doctor Who gets, in my opinion.

…dafuq

-We all know who this looks like

-The library of Blasphemy, huh?
That’s quite some Hogwarts stuff there.

-”Harry Potter!”
THANK YOU BILL!

-"The layout is designed to confuse the uninitiated.”
"Sort of like religion, really.”
I can confirm this true, for reasons.
"You happy in those shades? Not dark enough for you?”
“In darkness, we are revealed.
Bill: When did he get so emo?

-”Well, take a few more minutes if you like. Knock yourself out. Actually do. Do that. Knock yourself right out.”
Pffft

That’s one great big hood you got there. But pray tell, how do you see what’s in front of you?

-well shit

-”Without hope. Without witness. Without reward.“
What?

-”You’d be wizard at writing Christmas crackers, you two.”

-I thought Christmas crackers were paper sausages with confetti inside them?

Alright, where’s the orange portal?

oHh my GOD

-FUCKING JUMPSCARES!

-”I think there’s someone in there.”
"Yeah, we are very slightly getting that.”

wHat TEH FUCk

-”Hey, there’s wifi down here!”
 “Of course there’s wifi. It’s a library.“

-”Reading chair with a safety belt?”

-Apologies if I seem to be taking too many quotes directly from the episode(s), but I just love the Series 10 dialogue okay

-THAT GUY SHOT HIMSELF

-”Because you’re sending us into the dark, after a man with a gun.“
 Not as dangerous if said man is dead…

-WEll Nardole got a little weird there

-Bill: *voice cracks* “nARdOLE”

-Nardole: *sees hand* *voice goes up by two octaves* “HIEWIEW”

That’s a pretty gun, but it wouldn’t do much damage in battle.

-”It would be stupid to go and look.” *goes to look*

-DON’T BURN THE DOCTOR’S BRAIN DON’T YOU DARE MOFFAT

-NOW THAT MOFFAT IS ACTUALLY WRITING THE EPISODES, I AM GOING TO BE DOUBLE WARY OF EVERYTHING

WHAT?!?!!

-WHAT THE EVERLOVING RASSILON FLIPPING A TABLE ON A HARLEY DAVIDSON?!?!?!

THE PENTAGON??

the flipping kind of videogame portal hub is this

Meanwhile, in another part of the world, aliens freak out as a bald head pops outta nowhere from the wall of their living room.

-”Cardinal, it worked. I can see.”
 Yes!

-”Not well enough, not yet.”
 Okay…

-”The thing about the universe is, whatever you need, you can always borrow, as long as you pay it back. I just borrowed from my future. I get a few minutes of proper eyesight, but I lose something. Maybe all my future regenerations will be blind. Maybe I won’t regenerate ever again. Maybe I’ll drop dead in twenty minutes.”
 NO!

-”You know, I’ve read a lot of books that this chair would be quite useful for. Moby Dick. Honestly, shut up, and get to the whale.“
 omfg

WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS CHILD OF GROOT AND A SILENT

-”This is not a game.”
 “This is a game.”

-Why is that CERN scientist so excited, and more importantly, why does he seem drunk and why is everyone in the cafeteria so gloomy?

WELL THAT ANSWERS THE LAST QUESTION

Reading a legendary script on Microsoft Word.

-(On an unrelated note, I was saving these screenshots and naming them as each alphabet. The one right above happens to be Z.)

-(Could be some other text program but that’s what I think)

-So the screen was getting blurry not because the BBC didn’t want us to commit suicide but because the Doctor was going blind again

-GEEZ THOSE MONKS ARE CR-REEPY ASSES

-THEY’D DO WELL IN A HORROR GAME

Don’t you dare tell me the whole first half of Series 6 was set in a fake world or virtual reality or something like that

-Were those white things all portals to a virtual world

-At least Bill and Nardole got out safely.

-”Are you okay?”
 “nOOO - Yes. NooO

“Could be the Doctor.”

-Let’s hope not

-Let’s really, really hope not.

-”They’re projecting everything.”
 CALLED IT

-AND THE PEOPLE IN THE HOLOGRAMS REALIZED THEY LIVE IN HOLOGRAMS?!?!

-But what if??

-What if our lives are really just holograms

-(I went on Omegle to get a stranger to think of a random number, but ended up answering questions about English)

-(This one person was asking “what does ‘single out’ mean”)

-”You know, like the holodeck on Star Trek, or a really posh VR without a headset. Through there, those places, that’s basically Grand Theft Auto.”

-More and more references each episode, huh, BBC?

I uh… happened to pause here so…

-”Please don’t let me be right.”

-Oh shizzles

WHAT IN THE NAME OF A RANDOM DALEK

-NARDOLE IS NOT REAL??

-WHAT IF BILL ISN’T REAL??

-WHAT THE EFF??????!??!?!

Why did the blood change color?

-’Total communication blackout at the White House’? hat happened?

-Did all the people in the White House commit suicide and how did the Doctor come here?

-Ah, the portal yes…

-cold fraggling shizzles…..

-”The Veritas tells of an evil demon who wants to conquer the world. But to do it, he needs to learn about it first. So he creates a shadow world, a world for him to practise conquering, full of shadow people who think they’re real.”

-OUR WORLD IS A SIMULATION GAME FOR HIGHER BEINGS, CONFIRMED

The screen ‘popped’ a bit here - it shook a little as if it zoomed slighly in then back out very quickly, accompanied by a tapping sound as if someone had knocked (into) it. Not sure if others saw this too or if it’s something with the site that I’m watching this on.

-Okay, I’m watching the Doctor explain this shit to Bill, and I’m having about as much of a crisis as Bill here

-And then the Super Mario mention though

-Please don’t tell me the past six episodes were holograms

-”A puppet Doctor for you to practice killing.”

-The Doctor Puppet account was worried about that line, yes

-Was that the email he got at the beginning of the episode??

wHOA chill please

At least the last six episodes weren’t all fake.

-Then when did the hologram-reality start?

-”It means I’m a scary, handsome genius from space and I’m telling you no, she’s not out of your league.”

-”I have the feeling that we’re going to be very busy. Call her tonight.“
 Aww

-I hope Bill actually gets a girlfriend sometime this season

o i   g e t   o f f

-wHAT

*insert relatable quote about Monday mornings*

Some fast fingerwork there… NO I DID NOT INTEND TO SOUND LIKE THAT

-The guy is becoming uneasier by the second

-I don’t like the whirring sound??

-How are they gonna move her to the box in the middle of the water

It ends here?!

-Oh yeah right… They’re supposed to be a three-parter. Followed by another three-parter to finish off the season.

-Welp, looking forward to the next episode and possibly a lot more things to freak out over!

anonymous asked:

Have you seen that quote going around from a Colin Trevorrow? Part of it reads: "I feel like we all have so many hang-ups and oddities, the idea of someone being too insane for love is hard to accept. Everyone deserves love." This was said in relation to a film he made in 2012, but his perspective bodes well for us, I think.

I did see that! And it bodes very well for our sweet tortured boy ❤️❤️❤️❤️

itsemmyb  asked:

Heh I feel like it's so accurate when you say you either get too much or not enough, I'm a Ravenclaw I either get four hours or a full eight or nine hours there's no in between safe for the exception that I oversleep and get like twelve hours straight and that happens very rarely.

 How does everyone relate?

Well Kirvee It’s Never Too Late to Start Theorizing AKA Where the Hell Are the Other Great Lords?

Aah yes, it’s been far too long since my last theory post nevermind that I still need to finish my Amarcian culture post.

You’re probably thinking “Oh no. What do you have for us now, Kirvee?”

Well friends, let me tell you a thing.

(Endgame spoilers underneath the cut)

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anonymous asked:

my partner says she needs freedom in her relationships, or needs to feel free and you know that quote, "freedom isnt free," do you think freedom is free in relationships?

…when people say “freedom isn’t free” they are usually referring to the fact that freedoms we enjoy in this country are not free because they were paid for, often with blood. so i don’t think this analogy applies to what your partner is saying

you really have to do a better job of listening to what your partner is saying. they are very literally explaining to you what their needs are from you, and instead of listening your applying a quote to relate to the situation instead of just looking at this situation

you have to pay attention hun

i believe that a healthy requirement requires freedom. a person should feel like they are free to come and go, but they choose to stay and be in a committed relationship. there should be freedom. a relationship where someone feels smothered is not healthy.

anonymous asked:

Do you think Sora is stupid in KH2? I've heard a quit a few people say so but I don't really see it. Or in general people think Sora is stupid.

I don’t think anyone’s stupid. Stupid isn’t a thing that exists.

I think the main thing about him in Kingdom Hearts II is that he’s slightly more…polarized, if that makes any kind of sense.

In Kingdom Hearts 1, he’s a relatively down-to-Earth kind of kid with this persistent sense of sadness underscoring his entire character.

He laughs. He jokes. He smiles. He can be light. He can be silly. But you never really forget that whatever else he does, whatever else he is, he’s also a kid living in the immediate aftermath of losing his home, his family, and all his friends. That’s…always there. It’s never not influencing him.

In Kingdom Hearts II, he’s kind of farther removed from the sobering influence of that. It’s farther in the past, and he’s done more in the meantime.

He’s made a lot of friends and a lot of happy memories, and having already saved the world once, he’s not as in over his head as he used to be.

So, he’s goofier.

He’s sillier.

He’s more prone to pulling funny faces and making bad jokes, and people read that as stupidity. Because, of course, only stupid people can be happy(?).

But even if that were true, at the same time, there’s also this other side of him.

That sadder side that comes out much more rarely, now, but when it does, it comes out that much harder.

Like he gets on his hands and knees and begs Saix to let him see Kairi.

Or when he watches all the Disney couples get together and have their happy endings, world after world after world, and he gets emotional because he’s never gotten to have that.

Or when he makes these wistful, almost kind of bitter little comments about how he’s “always just passing through…” and how he doesn’t have a choice about whether or not he can stop fighting as long as he has the Keyblade.

He cries a lot more in Kingdom Hearts II.

He’s not happy-go-lucky, oblivious six-year-old people think he is.

In fact, the very silliest moments of all, like when he gets SUPER fucking excited about seeing Santa, come off as a response to how fucking aware he is that his situation basically sucks. The reason he gets that excited is because, you know what? Life isn’t very good for him a lot of the time, and if he’s going to get to meet the Santa, then, by God, he’s going to make the most of it.

It’s not a sign of a lack of intelligence.

Sora’s very intelligent.

Not book-smart, but people-smart.

He knows feelings.

He knows how to relate to people.

He knows how to make friends.

He knows how to make people feel better.

In fact, that’s what a lot of his other quote-unquote “dumber” moments are.

When Riku says, “How am I going to face everyone?” and Sora just goes, “Like this!” and makes a funny face at him, do people not get that he’s deliberately defusing the tension? Of course he knows that’s not a real answer.

He’s just trying to make Riku laugh.

Because that’s what Riku needs.

And it helps. Riku feels better after that.

Honestly, the only moment Sora has in Kingdom Hearts II that strikes me as well and truly out of place is the one where he momentarily forgets that he ever became a Heartless. That’s…too much. I don’t believe that.

But, generally, Sora’s basically the Mr. Peanutbutter of this series. People see how positive and upbeat and outright silly the guy tends to be, and they assume it means he’s fucking clueless. But he knows what’s going on.

He just makes a conscious choice to deal with it in a different way.

When he can.

- Mod A.

anonymous asked:

since u asked to send asks: can u please do a libs related bisexuality masterpost? I know it can be a lot of work but if u want to do it for the distraction u could talk about gay lyrics and quotes and etc from all libs related bands and ppl. I live for stuff like this and the libs are such a gay band I feel like it would make for an amazing post

WELL i can try my best but i think it’s going to be just a list of bi moments, without much commentary or anything but here we go!

the libertines: a bi masterpost

some quotes:

some pictures:

(that’s a gay shirt…a gay look…im just sayin)

(”to my darling pete”, “love wolfe”)

(retweeted by carl)

(”the man i love by me betrayed”)

(i’m aware this is just a bunch of carl pics but like!!! fragility of openness is the gayest thing in the world)

(since u said libs related people, i’m also adding the edie kiss!)

(quick kiss!!)

(the famous stan/carl kiss)

(something happenin there!!)

(the iconic gay etc, which he deleted the next day)

some lyrics:

  • “And all those nights you were so wrong/I would hold you for so long and say you’re not so bad” an additional verse from likely lads
  • “Well I remember your eyes that unique shade of blue/These brown eyes of mine, they stay closed” pete’s version of france which is…most likely about carl
  • “She almost spilled her lager/Toasting girls of great beauty” a gay lyric….since the girl in question was toasting girls of great beauty
  • the entire song ‘you’re my waterloo’ in general but especially that version pete dedicated to carl (”Doherty dedicated “You’re My Waterloo” to Barat at a solo concert at the Brixton Mass on June 17, 2008″)
  • lbr most of their songs are about each other

anonymous asked:

Oh my God, Steph, I just realized something! In TAB, Sherlock says "Of course. Of course you do, John" which completely and absolutely mirrors "Of course. Of course you're my best friend". Both times are breakthrough for Sherlock, one about his feelings for John and the other about John's feeling for him.

OOOOHHH!! Nice catch, Nonny!! Quite possible they are very much related. Sherlock absorbs everything ‘John’ like a sponge, so I don’t think it’s far off to have him literally quoting John in his head to ‘reciprocate’ his thoughts and feelings, especially at a pivotal moment in their friendship, at least in Sherlock’s eyes.

And both times, they have stupid idiotic love-struck faces, I can’t even with this morons.

LIKE THEY HAVE THE EXACT SAME STUPID FACE. I HATE THEM. 

God, I’m going down with this ship.

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Thumbelina You blessed my childhood and bought me so much happiness then when I found the DVD much later I rewatched the movie and it completely took over me, the soundtrack, the quotes, the messages, the kind hearted and sweet Thumbelina just all left me in complete awe it’s like this movie was made for me ❤ One of the very many things I love about Thumbelina are the series of quotes from the movie. They’re so inspiring and always put a smile on my face and make me feel so warm in my heart ❤️ “After the rain goes, there are rainbows I’ll find my rainbow soon” is the quote I live by and always remind myself at the worst of times 💕 “I know there’s someone, somewhere someone who’s sure to find me soon” I relate so much to this song, as someone who doesn’t have too many friends and finds it hard to make them I always dream of finding people who I relate to, to find all my soul mates, special friendships and relationship This one is so important “do you love the beetle? Then never mind the beetle” it reminds me of the quotes “what other people think of you is none of your business” and “it’s mind over matter, you don’t mind because they don’t matter” The people who truly love you will always be by your side no matter what and if you’re happy with yourself no one can take that away from you! “Never let anyone dull your sparkle” ✨ I’ll always look to this movie for inspiration and happiness 💖

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He always made a fool of himself whenever Lily was around,” said Sirius, shrugging. “He couldn’t stop himself showing off whenever he got near her.”

anonymous asked:

"Even though you only allowed me into it for a precious moment, I truly believe I left you heart better than I found it" // "I do not need you, but that does not make me miss you any less" (Texts that Lili liked in the last two days) I know these likes can mean nothing but damn I think they are not in a good vibe these last days 😔 what do u think?

I wouldn’t look too much into, my dear. ☺️ I don’t think it’s anything to worry about. (hopefully lol) they have been awfully quiet lately but that’s probably just them being busy, considering they’re about to begin production again.

I feel like lili is a very soulfully minded person and appreciates quotes like those, especially after going through what she’s gone through. because they show and express vulnerability, it’s something a lot of people can relate to, whether they are going through it or have gone through it. (:

leaving tumblr?

i feel like tumblr doesn’t serve any purpose for me anymore.

the only good thing is faith-related quotes that i won’t be able to find anywhere else. but at the same time, i forget those quotes as soon as i read them, so what’s the point?

communicating with others/venting etc. is another helpful thing, but i don’t do it very often anymore, and with those few people who read my posts i can chat over facebook. 

i doubt that i can use tumblr in moderation, so i either stay or go lol

anonymous asked:

But you know Asterix? O.O That's one thing I never understood, why it was so popular in other countries. For me, it seems like the most french-french thing ever, it's literaly about Gauls!

man I grew up with asterix XDDD it’s EXTREMELY popular here ;) also like we can appreciate some genuine fun made about the roman empire XDDDD idk actually I always felt like it was quite enjoyable regardless of where it came from? even if you don’t get the jokes just french people would it’s still fun, the premise is gold, it makes fun of things in a really smart way and like it’s a++++ and very relatable also because I have a feeling some stuff gets changed in translation so that whichever other country appreciates it more XD like for one in the italian asterix all the romans speak the roman dialect and ils sont fous ces romains became sono pazzi questi romani and like SPQR in latin meant senatus populusque romanus and it was a way to describe the roman republic government and it’s the current city motto so like it was 100% more hilarious to us XDDDD tbh people quote it fairly often xD 

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“Women mature a lot faster than men do so I’ve always had trouble relating— or not relating, I like to be challenged. I like to be inspired and constantly be learning. I feel like when I’m with someone who’s older than me they have a certain amount of experience in life. There’s a maturity. There’s a different sort of knowledge that they bring to a relationship and the conversations are very different.”