You wouldn't'think it weird if I'm a straight male but I ship widowtracer. Cause I just have this fear that everyone thinks I would like it because it's two nice looking girls making out with each other when I actually like the chemistry the two have and the possible story potential it has. Just needed to vent about it cause I can't really tell anybody else.
You can enjoy a dynamic between any ship without fetishising it. I think the clincher is if you’re not respectful to the characters or the real people who see themselves in the ship (ie, queer chicks) - that’s when the problems arise! Treating minority characters like imaginary fuck toys when you’re a majority member is very different than loving a ship for the characters and the dynamics between them, despite any systemic oppression that is operating between you and the ship :3