i dont.. i dont understand


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List of things kpop idols can't do

• date (“our fans are my girlfriends/boyfriends”)(“don’t cheat on us until our next comeback ;)))”)
• get caught dating
• smoke (drinking is fine tho)
• make eye contact w/ opposite gender
• get within a 3 meter radius w/ opposite gender
• swear
• say personal opinions
• be too loud
• be too quiet
• be themselves in general
• complain about career
• laugh annoyingly
• frown
• look tired
• watch porn
• make human mistakes
• be confident in themselves
• have low self esteem
• look ugly
• get plastic surgery
• be less enthusiastic in front of their fans
• be stupid
• be too smart
• be too fat (48kg+ for girls, 65kg+ for boys)
• be too skinny
• have acne or other obvious skin troubles
• be tan (applies for most korean fans)

“All that the fans wish for idols to be is to be happy”
“But within the range of still satisfying the fans’ desires”

Being an idol doesn’t immediately strip that person of their basic individual rights as a human being. i don’t get how most fans in Korea can’t comprehend this??? This is shit you learn throughout your 12 mandatory years of schooling like wtf what do they teach you in ethics classes in Korea? Fucking calculus?? Smh


-this whole thing stemmed from me not understanding that women can use he/him pronouns, i was taught that he/him=boy
-ive heard that this is common in communities of colour, i am white so this is perhaps why i have not heard of that
-i know these are not excuses, but i hope that youll at least understand where i was coming from
-a lot of people have been questioning whether im really a lesbian, i am female aligned but more neutral than female, so while i am okay with being refered to as some female aligned words, im not okay with being straight up refered to as girl/female, ive discussed this with a few people and ive come to the consensus that this counts as being a lesbian
-ive changed my stance on the issue, now that i understand that he/him=/=male, and im working to educate myself on the topic more
-i apologize for speaking on an issue that i was misinformed on! my friend, rose, has been a big help with linking me to resources, and im very thankful for that
-also when i get really anxious, things make less sense, ive calmed down a lot now and looking back, i was exaggerating on how contradictory things were
-again, this is an explanation, not an excuse, i realize my mistakes and i really am sorry, i dont expect to be forgiven but i hope to at least make people understand my point of view
i hope this helps to sort some of the issues out, and if you have any further questions/statements, you can message me privately, and i hope to clear up anything you might not understand


so i started reading the Ron Chernow book and i just


he’s already naturally rosy cheeked, imagine if he gets flustered and laughs hard enough that he blushes im cryI N G