I'm so, so tired of the "aro/ace are modifiers" thing. Some people use them as modifiers? Great ! Honestly, let them do whats best for them. But it also can be an *orientation*. It doesnt modify anything for me. It just describes who i'm attracted to. I dont get why so many people cant understand this. I feel like crap everytime I read stuff like "its valid but its not an orientation ;) ;)". Thanks for your blog, i wish you and your dog a great day !
My aromanticism and asexuality are in constant strife, fighting an eternal battle to determine which one modifies the other. I can not have an orientation because whenever I try to announce it my form flickers and temporarily disappears. There has been no winner yet. There never will be a winner. I tiredly gaze at the horizon. Planets are modified rocks