i dont remember how to do anything

flashback823  asked:

Okay I understand the fans are being unreasonable and you have had enough. However, ever since then you have been acting really cold forward your followers who simply want to ask your opinion on other things that are not the fictional ship and what not. That is not okay. I love you, I live your work, but I am not living your 10 year old attitude. (Whatever my username is because I dont remember) out.

I understand your point of view
However I’ve stated many times on my blog that I have an FAQ page with lots of questions that have been asked over and over

Literally 10 posts ago I stated that I ain’t doing much more Undertale and I even made a video however ‘fans’ continue to bombard me with questions about it

I haven’t really acted coldly to anyone who asked about my opinion on anything else so I’d like to see what you mean by that but regardless

I act coldly because that’s how I’m treated

I beleive in the idea of ‘If people can’t be bothering finding out what you’ve already been asked then I shouldn’t bother giving a proper answer’

That’s my stance but feel free to discuss with me I love talking to people with different views and opinions!

one of my favourite things about Liam is that he loves to indulge fans by wearing whatever ridiculous things that we throw on stage

for example look at this happy bub being a cowboy. hes just so happy and content being his childhood fave

then we have liam being his other fave Mr, yes-I-am-the-real-batman Payne

then i dont even remember this but liam became the sun?? and a flower?? At The SAME TiME??!!!??!??!

AS IF I WASNT ALREADY DEAD HE GOTTA BE A CUTE LITTLE SHIT AND WEAR THIS FLOWER CROWN KNOWING FULL WELL MY HEART CANT TAKE IT 

AND IF THAT DIDNT KILL YOU HOW ABOUT A BUNNY 

THEN LIAM FIGURED OUT THE A-GAME OF COSTUMES AND SHOWED US THAT LIAM PAYNE IS PROBABLY THE CUTEST PERSON TO EVER WALK THE PLANET AND WOULD DO ANYTHING HUMANLY POSSIBLE TO MAKE US SMILE. EXHIBIT A - THE ABNANA COSTUME. TELL EM THIS IS NOT THE BEST THING YOUVE EVER SEEN

AND FINALLY WE’VE REACHED THE #1 LIAM COSTUME THE COSTUME SO CUTE I CANT DESCRIBE IT, THE COSTUME IVE CRIED OVER, THE NIGHT I KNEW THAT BY STANNING LIAM I HAD MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. THE CATERPILLAR COSTUME 

TELL ME WHO ELSE WOULD DO THIS. WHO ELSE WOULD PUT ON THIS HUGE, HOT, SWEATY COSTUME IN FRONT OF THOUSANDS OF FANS AND STILL EB ABLE TO SING LIKE AN ANGEL. LIAM. JAMES. PAYNE. 

I CANT BELIEVE I FORGOT HOTDOG!LIAM I HATE MYSELF

“what’s wrong? if you’re ever worried about anything come to me about it!”

“okay! i’m fine. thank you.”

in reality…i wanted to consult nii-san about my troubles

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i dont remember which post it was that originally wrote on it, but now its confirmed that the reason why ritsu coddles and constantly asks mob about how he’s doing is because he desperately wants his brother to do the same. but mob was never perceptive enough to do so. ritsu is a really lonely kid who wants to love and appreciate his older brother but he’s also completely terrified of him. ritsu is the star student, the good sibling, so he needs to keep up appearances and constantly be level-headed because no one else will be. but all he wants is to be a kid, for it to be ok to be scared, to have an older brother who can protect him and mentor him. ritsu is still the baby brother who has been forced to grow up before he was ready for it. 

For all my fellow smut wrtiters out there:

I wasnt going to post this, but i think is kind of necesary. I’ve read a vast variety of smut in all my years of internet citizen and i realized that the problematic stuff we writers decide to include is always the same. Maybe because it is believed as something hot, maybe because of the misinformation. 

Believe it or not, what we write is absorbed as sexual information for those that arent experienced or do not know much about sex in general. This is why it is important to avoid dangerous topics, because if we write about them as if they were completly normal in a sexual exchange, we are contributing to their normalization.

Here’s a little list i came up with:

  1. Unprotected sex is not hot. Is very dangerous. Not only because you can get pregnant, but because of the posibility of getting an STD. If you write about unprotected sex make sure to state that the characters are either in an stable relationship or they know very well their partner and are very sure of their health status. In the case of a female character,also make sure to state that she is taking the pill or any similar measurements.
  2. Angry sex  seems very appealing. But it is extreamly important to make sure that this angry exchange is something decided in mutual agreement and that this angry temper DOESNT LEAVE THE BEDROOM. Realisticly this type of behaviour leads (most of the times) to an abusive relatiosnhip.
  3. Jealousy sex seems appealing as well. But please remember that jealousy is a very toxic thing and if your partner is being this way they don’t love u, they are just trying to control and manipulate you. I dont care if it is jealousy of how you were dressed or from other people.
  4. Anything that it’s forced, is not consensual, and, therefore, wrong. We wouldn’t like being forced to do anything in real life. The fact that the situation is in an imagine/scenario with your bias shouldn’t change that fact.
  5. Kinks and rough sex are completley valid, but when writting about them it’s esential that we search info, that we eduate ourselves in that area. Otherwise the readers might think that what we wrote is the right way of doing that and could hurt themselves or lead themselves into a problematic situation.
  6. In any case, if you still are determinated to write about all these things, please remember to tag all of them in the description as trigger warnings, so the readers can be aware.

We influence people with our writing, all the time. And even tho it’s true that we are not a sexual education source, the least we could do is to be careful and a little helpful.

you know, it’s funny that fandom has such a dear wish for steve and bucky’s relationship to center around this overprotective, overbearing steve guiding bucky slowly back into functioning society, treating him like glass. because steve? is….really…not about that life. 

like, in tws, when steve stops fighting back in the helicarrier… he’s not all solicitous whispers or “bucky please remember me,” he’s “YOU KNOW ME,” *PUNCHED IN THE FACE* “YOU’VE KNOWN ME YOUR WHOLE LIFE,” *PUNCHED AGAIN* “YOUR NAME IS JAMES BUCHANAN BARNES,” *PUNCHED IN THE FACE EVEN HARDER* “I’M NOT GONNA FIGHT YOU. YOU’RE MY FRIEND–” **REPEATEDLY SLAMMED INTO GROUND* *THROWS AWAY SHIELD* “SO FINISH IT. ‘CAUSE IM WITH YOU TO THE END OF THE LINE.”

guys. guys, i know what we want to read into this. but think about how steve sounded. how he looked. this isn’t steve letting bucky whale on him because he’s willing to endure whatever pain to see his beloved best friend remember him. it’s steve being a stubborn little shit and refusing to give up. this isn’t steve protecting bucky from anything, and it’s not steve pleading for anything from him (beyond his initial “please dont make me do this,” after which HE DID THIS.) it’s steve challenging bucky. it’s steve taunting bucky to remember. it’s steve being the same little guy from brooklyn who never knew when to back down from a battle. “im not gonna fight you,” THAT’S RICH, STEVE!!!!! he’s fighting bucky even as he’s throwing away the shield, setting new terms to this battle, his terms. bucky wants a mission? too bad! steve’s a friend. bucky wants to engage in fisticuffs? too bad, he’s gonna have to punch this talking pile of meat instead. bucky wants to be a mindless assassin again? too bad, too bad, steve’s with him to the end of the line AND IT’S NOT A PROMISE, IT’S A THREAT. truly. the way steve says it, bloodied and battered, steve’s not going for sweet nothings here. he’s saying, in all his desperation and resignation, in all his defiance, “you’re not getting rid of me now. live with it.” 

and then! and then! civil war! all of steve’s conversations with bucky are so stern!!!! like steve! please lighten up! if youre brainwashed friend wants to pretend he doesn’t know you, you’re supposed to beg and plead for him to remember, not say, you LITTLE SHIT, “i know ur nervous and u have plenty of reason to be but UR LYING!!!!” omg no chill at all. steve’s relationship with bucky in this movie is half about his friendship and half about protecting an innocent man from a death he doesn’t deserve. that means he’s constantly backed into a corner, constantly clawing for whatever scraps he can get from bucky that confirm what he’s fighting for is even still there. he softens a little when bucky talks about those newspapers in his shoes, but even then, he’s like, “I DON’T REMEMBER ISN’T GOOD ENOUGH,” when bucky is struggling to remember about the other winter soldiers. fanon!steve would’ve cajoled, would’ve snapped at someone else trying to get bucky to remember. canon!steve is like, “you’re my buddy and all but your brainwashing is super inconvenient, and pretty selective, so give up the goods!!!!!” he brings bucky along because he is the best poised to end the other winter soldiers, not because he wants to keep bucky close and protect him. he defends bucky not because bucky is his friend and therefore automatically worthy of defense, but because bucky doesn’t deserve death for something he wasn’t in control of at the time. and these attitudes don’t come at the expense of friendship-motivated reminiscing later, either. steve can be pragmatic and sentimental in turns with bucky, and that’s–

that’s great. a steve that makes allowances for bucky, allowances that aren’t grounded in his own ideals of right and wrong, allowances that aim at infantilizing or taking away bucky’s agency, is not a good steve at all. i love that their relationship is this uncertain dance of memory and nostalgia mixed with violence and hard choices, i love that steve makes no apologies for bucky being his friend, but doesn’t try to defend bucky just for that reason. steve’s protection of bucky, by bucky’s own admission, isn’t worth it unless it revolves around steve’s most enduring character trait: his unbudgeable commitment to doing what’s right

anyway. lots of rambling thoughts on this. i just want to see more of steve and bucky where steve is a stubborn shit and isn’t treating bucky like glass.

  • what she says: i'm fine
  • what she means: but even in the first clips we see of overwatch widowmaker and reaper are working together, these two characters so hellbent on being tough and deadly and not needing anyone or anything, amelie loyal to talon and all she has left and gabriel with a grudge and anger and hurt boiling inside of him and yet they rely solely on each other, are vulnerable to each other, need each other, the way reaper clings to amelie when she's exiting the museum with her grapple hook, how they look at each other, used to each other, KNOW each other and how they work and their strengths and weaknesses and how throwing sombra into the mix is something so unpredictable how they communicate with just glances and i truly believe they would take each other's side in anything and reaper remembering the amelie before she became widowmaker, seeing her w gerard, perhaps even attending her wedding and having thought of her and amelie not even aware of his existence tbh until they're thrown together in this twist of cruel fate and now they have nothing but each other and pain and a job to do

anonymous asked:

genuine question. what would have been a good way for the crewverse to show that the whole owning-pearls-like-slaves thing is wrong and avoid the whole cutesy pearl "oh look they're so pretty and beautiful let's completely ignore that they're treated as objects" thing that they have now

okay lemme write out how it couldve been portrayed well

-all the CG’s are actually disgusted by the pearls treatment
Garnet and Amethyst didnt really appear horrified when they saw YP, aka an enslaved Pearl. Only pearl really did. and even when Steven found out about their “role”, he only defended OUR pearl. there was no, “hey! all pearls can be useful, peridot! and pearl is a great example of this!”
-their outfits are less sexual
most of the time when i see people designing pearls for their gemsonas, its like a silkier version of their “owner”’s. i have never liked how the HW Pearls wear skimpy leotards and thigh highs, etc. its creepy af to me. why couldnt YP wear idk an actual “ballerina outfit” (a lot of ppl seem to view them as that so) or like, a mini suit, to fit Yellow’s aesthetic?
-they’re not just “dolls”
remember in YD’s first appearance, how YP was kind of portrayed as a secratary for YD? why cant that be their role? that wouldve been cooler and made more sense. the Diamonds are rulers, they dont have time to take every report. When BD was revealed, her Pearl wasnt doing anything, just standing around. A HUGE downgrade from what they were first implied to be like.
-Imply that the Diamonds go through pearls like candy
this is just one of my personal headcanons that was proved to be wrong, but.
when i first saw the Diamonds, as dictators etc, i was convinced that BP was dead by the present in canon. That Blue would get mad and just shatter her, then order a new one. I thought YP Would have died to, cuz of peridot. this is kinda morbid for a kids show, yeah, but a lot of other fans also thought this was how it was when they were introduced. even if they didnt do that, they couldve made them reform with new outfits to imply SOME sort of mistreatment/abuse.

in summary, i dont like how pearls are said to be mistreated but then never actually shown to be mistreated. show me the pearls being upset. let them show how tired they are of their situation. let pearl liberate them. seriously.

dear afab demigirls and amab demiboys: woah!! you are all so aesthetically pleasing and hella nb! please dont forget that, no matter how u might doubt urself sometimes. ur definitely not cis, even if u dont experience dysphoria. and if u do experience dysphoria, thats perfectly valid too! i love you

dear afab demiboys: ur so handsome and cool! remember that you are not worth less than trans men bc u dont fully identify with “male”, and that u dont have to live up to anybodys expectations of masculinity if u dont want to. i hope can get a hold of a binder or anything else u might need, and that u are surrounded with love and support. i love you

dear amab demigirls: wowie, you are so beautiful! im proud that i have such great and amazing ppl as my demigirl siblings. u can present as femininely or genderlessly or masculinely as u want and u will still be a demigirl, nb, and trans, if you identify that way, and i will continue to support u completely. i hope u are surrounded with happiness and support from loved ones. i love you

dear intersex demigirls and demiboys, who may fit into any of the above categories: what the heckie ur so awesome!! im so glad that u can bring ur experience as an intersex person to the table in the lovely demigender community. thank u for being rad! i love you

It’s episodes like today when I remember how unconditional my love for Robert is. I see so many seeing him only for his actions. But all I see is a scared little boy who’s so desperate for love he hurts others because that’s the only thing he knows. Someone who’s been hurt so much. Someone who feels so alone. Someone who is so scared that can’t do anything but to attack and hurt, even when that’s the last thing he wants to do. He feels so defenseless. I hate episodes like this, because I hurt so much for him. I remember how alone he feels, all the time, even if he doesn’t show it. I see how much he hates himself for hurting those who want to get near. But he’s to damn scared, he can’t help it.

the foxes as shit i’ve pulled in first year university

a follow up to my the foxes as shit i pulled in high school

Neil Josten: Accidentally cut my hand open on a filing cabinet in the special collections and archives and bled on a collection worth $650,000 (i was actively more worried about the collection, while everyone else was worried about my bleeding hand)

Andrew Minyard: professor told the class that if we didn’t want to be there we could leave. so i fuckin left.

Kevin Day: did shots with my friends on my birthday and then went to a classics seminar on rome and bullshitted my way through it while almost completely drunk (and having not done the readings)

bonus Kevin Day: majored in history

Nicky Hemmick: Accidentally outed myself in a seminar because i couldn’t resist making a gay joke

Aaron Minyard: Skipped every single hall meeting for residence, saw my don everyday and told him i’d be at the next one.  i never was.

Matt Boyd: accidentally said “booty call” in a seminar while making a completely legitimate academic point

Seth Gordon: during a role-playing problem solving thing i just said “oh no i died” and wouldn’t participate for the rest of the activity

Allison Reynolds: used my women and gender studies seminar as an outlet to bitch about the patriarchy

Renee Walker: told my roommate that i loved her and she was like a beautiful hobbit while completely hammered (this was the second week and i actually hate her?)

Dan Wilds: begrudgingly took on a leadership role in a class because if i hadn’t nothing would have fucking gotten done

Wymack: leave my ringer on on nights i know my friends are drinking and tell them to call me if anything goes wrong - i pretend to be annoyed if they do but secretly im relieved that they’re not in danger

Jean Moreau: made jokes about wanting to die and got talked to by the TA because they were concerned

and indeed there will be time

steve trevor/diana prince | wonder woman | fix it fic

title insp [x]

“Steve Trevor. Alive.” Chief kicked at a stone, sending it flying into the darkness. “Hope yet remains.”  

She walked beside him, hands in her coat pockets. The ache in her chest had lessened somewhat, after having told her old friend everything, but the bitterness lingered.

Steve was alive but had returned to her a blank slate, the memories of their time together lost in whatever events that led to him returning to this world.

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How to ask an employee for help when they're off the clock

Hey guys! There’s a lot out there on the right way to shop but I havnt seen anything on how to ask help from someone you know works at the store, but is punched out. Its kind of a gray area so ill do my best to clear it up. Remember this a little different than asking normally so I’ll go step by step.

Step one: Dont.

anonymous asked:

hey i remember seeing you say something about living in the Seattle area, and I live in the Seattle area, and you seem like the kinda person who would know good music and how to find the local punk scene, so if it's okay to ask: how do i find the local scene? ive been trying to find local concerts and such, but i keep coming up empty handed :'( also side note, are there any musical artists (local or not) that you reccomend?

i dont know anything about the local punk scene bc im not fun or cool 8,^ ) dont tell anybody tho. uuuuhhh as for venues id check out the vera project if ur underage. el corazon & the crocodile cafe are good too. at el corazon they squirt u with water guns so u dont die of heat stroke

JUNE TC CHALLENGE!

1. Do you think your TC will teach you next year?
2. If you have to move to another city, how would you tell your TC? Would you confess to them? How?
3. Have you written a letter to your TC? If no, would you ever do that and what would be in it? If yes, what did you write?
4. Are you attracted to your TC in an emotional or sexual way? Or both?
5. How did you meet your TC? Do you remember your first conversation?
6. Have you had a serious problem because you have a TC? If not, what problem could you have to deal with?
7. Have you ever had an argument with your TC?
8. Do you see your TC outside of school?
9. On a scale of 1-10, how badly do you want to kiss your TC?
10. If your TC is married, would you (still) want a relationship with them?
11. Do you have a photo with your TC? If yes, how did you get it?
12. Do you think anyone you haven’t told about your TC knows you’re crushing on them?
13. When is your last class with your TC? Will you see them in summer break?
14. Have you ever mentioned teacher crushes/the tcc to your TC?
15. Do you think one of your classmates has feelings for your TC?
16. Do you get jealous when you see your TC with other students?
17. If you and your TC had a long distance relationship, do you think it would work out?
18. What is your TC’s degree? Do you like what they studied?
19. Have you ever cried about your TC? If yes, why?
20. Have you ever cried in front of your TC? If yes, what happened?
21. Do you know about your TC’s family? If yes, what do you know? What else would you like to know?
22. What would happen if you found out your TC is dating another student?
23. Have you ever secretly taken pictures of your TC?
24. Do you like your TC’s classes? Are they easy or difficult?
25. Describe a special moment you had with your TC.
26. Are you in love with your TC? How do they make you feel?
27. Have you ever gotten angry at your TC? Is there anything you don’t like about them?
28. Has your TC ever given you a compliment?
29. Have you ever given your TC a compliment?
30. Will you remember your TC when you don’t see them anymore? Will you keep in touch?

anonymous asked:

Im felling so bad about my art,im studying for 3 years,and i cant see any significant improve. I try to draw everyday,to do studies and etc,but i can't barely remember how to draw a torso in different angles from memory. I have depression and so many things,all pull me down... Do you have any tip for study anatomy in an efficient way?

shit man this is honestly a rough situation and i feel for u so much but even if you dont see improvement, by drawing everyday you are improving even if u dont feel it yknow?

in my opinion if ur not happy with your art its either time for a style change or for you to forget anatomy, forget techniques, forget everything that can frustrate you and focus on having a comfortable environment with calming music and just drawing whatever you enjoy and if it comes out with shit anatomy? who gives a fuck its the experience not the product u need rn

BUT i know youre asking for tips for studying anatomy rn so my advice is

PLEASE DO NOT STUDY MUSCLES/BONES/EVERY TENDON. that shit is INSANE LMAOOO i learned anatomy by never even looking past the skin of a body and thatS BC IM NOT PSYCHO ALMSOGDIGFJH and please i know this sounds dumb as SHIT and may be the stupidest advice youve ever heard, but please dont sit down and put up a picture of a girl and draw from that while staring at it

so now that u know what i dont think u should do heres what i think u should do:

go throughout your daily life but look at arms look at muscles look at naked bodies look at porn/manga/your mom when shes makin food LMAOOO

and dont look at anything and draw a pose you remember seeing. ITS OK TO FUCK IT UP ITS OK FOR IT TO BE BAD ITS OKKK TO BE BADDDDDDDDDD because drawing from memory is how youre going to improve and rn you dont know how to draw it from memory. AND THEN everyday do a different pose dont repeat the same pose and if shit looks wrong IDENTIFY WHATS WRONg yknow?

sorry im bad at advice but ill try to show u visuals:

look @ this back its so fucked up the muscles r all wrong its INSANE and i got that back without looking at reference without seeing the pose or anything

this is later and look im still shit at backs but im doing diff poses involving backs right?

then u go and see my backs r getting a lil better im starting to remember how it looked in a manga/ when seein men

and then eventually im at this back which still has issues but its okay yknow?

so overall my advice is: stop studying stop focusing on getting better and focus on drawing different poses without ref bc eventually (even tho it took me 3 years) u get that shit 


SORRY IM SO BAD AT ADVICE I WANNA KMS I LOVE U ANON I HOPE U WORK EVERYTHING OUT AND im sorry youre suffering from depression please stay safe and remember that youre always improving even if you dont think so

anonymous asked:

can we reblog these posts about what shes doing cause i havent seen anything actually calling her out and i want everyone to know how awful she is lol

yeah, 

here are accessible links

iding outside race (i dont need to divulge into complicated kin shit bc i loathe the conversations, but it’s just incredibly, ignorantly racist of her.)

shooting joke after pulse. while i do remember she apologized, its just something you dont joke about ? especially after all she’s a white woman and would not be affected by gun violence at all

incest evidencewhich she doesnt see as harmful

the hermaphrodite shit that she never apologized for and note: she is cis

  • Kaminari: no offence or anything bro like-- im not telling you to stop but! Whats with all the hand holding today? And the hugs and the smiles and--
  • Sero: ??? Isnt that what youre supposed to do when your dating??
  • Kaminari: and-- wait a fucking second what we're dating?
  • Sero: dude. You asked me out. Last night. You dont remember?
  • Kaminari, who Definitely doesn't: oh. OH!! Y-yeah hahahh yes i definitely absolutely remember that how could i have forgotten :))) sweetie