i dont need any of this shit

so i just saw a genderbend of all the dream daddy dads and can i just say that seeing damien drawn like that has made me, a trans man like damien, hyper aware of my body and making me feel sick to my stomach and really gross like the barest of movements is giving me chills because im that aware of how i look and how im feeling, because they took a trans man and reverted him back into a woman and then proceeded to say that they were “””””just drawing them how they invisioned them”””” and if “”””that made them transphobic then godspeed””””

that doesnt account for everything else wrong with the picture (i cannot explain the problems with brian in that set holy fuck) and their explination but cant i just say like???? dont do that. dont…. dont genderbend damien. dont do that. it IS transphobic and it has literally ruined my fuckin day im going to feel like im on the brink of panic every time i breath now because of how hyper aware i am of everything about myself and frankly thats garbage and im sorry im bothering everyone with this but god im gonna cry 

anonymous asked:

Amy, I'm sorry if this is a loaded question & you dont want to answer it or don't know the answer, but do u know of ways to get involved in terms of politics? I see you reblog stuff and feel like I should start helping, wait for it, MAKING AMERICA GREAT AGAIN....ok no really I want to help stop the GOP and shit. Know of any sites or organizations to get involved in?

omg there are so many ways! phone calls to your senators and reps are always needed, so if you pick something like 5 Calls or Daily Action and they will tell you how to best make your voice heard on the national level. if you don’t want to talk to anyone in person, the Stance app will let you record a voicemail that will be sent to their office after business hours. even once a week or once a month, every call adds up!

beyond that, local politics are where it’s at! it will depend a lot on where you live, but pretty universal starting points imo are your county-level Democratic Party or your city/regional Planned Parenthood. find their website, follow them on fb, get on their mailing list. i’m in Ann Arbor, so for me those are the Washtenaw County Dems and PP of Ann Arbor. PP has an activism arm that always needs volunteers for planning events and educational outreach, and your local Dems are probably going to be best connected to the local political landscape. 

>> if you’re in a state like michigan that’s been egregiously gerrymandered, find out what people are doing to fix it. example: michigan has two different signature drives planned to put proposals on the ballot to change how we redraw our districts that needs lots of people to sign and help collect signatures. important and time-sensitive!

>> many orgs hold voter registration drives. league of women voters is a fantastic org that does this! (jsyk there’s legal liability in running voter registration drives so make sure you do it as part of an org lol) they’ll get you trained to volunteer to help folks get registered! super important!

>> find a local immigrant rights group and start crashing ICE raids. for me, that org is Washtenaw Interfaith Council for Immigrant Rights, my friend volunteers for their crisis line and helps refer people to a legal clinic.

>> i mean hell, i volunteer for a domestic violence shelter/crisis line. sometimes it just feels good to be out there helping people. if you’re not comfortable answering phones, they need people just as much to clean/turn over rooms.

new orgs like OFA or Indivisible chapters are great options too, but in my experience in the past six months, established organizations have been the most able to absorb new members and put them right to work (they also already have funding to do real stuff!). on the flip side, established orgs can be extremely fossilized and resistant to change, so once you get your bearings, you may decide you want to branch out and tackle something that they’re overlooking.

and finally, if you want the tools to get super creative and organize your own resistance, read this

anonymous asked:

i hate when people instantly join the fandom and go straight to big ships like gerita/dennor/usuk/fruk because it's all that people show th, because then they don't see any smaller ships that they might like more. like nedden for instance is almost always ignored bc "dennor is the only good ship!!!1!! if u dont ship i block u!!!!". the fandom never makes space for new ideas and we've spent 10 years being a godawful circle of recycled shit and it needs to stop. ship hate, exclusion, all of it rip

When interacting with police, its the POLICE who have been trained to deal with a myriad of potentially dangerous situations. Its their JOB to act and react in the best possible way to anything a person might say or do. People, especially black people, should not need to be on their best behavior when talking to cops if they want to live.

So I dont give a shit if someone is screaming profanity at them while holding a steak knife. Its never the cop’s job to kill them.

Killing people is not the police’s job. Ever.

So no. None of those killer cops was never “just doing their job” and they should be able to deal with high tension situations better than any civilian. There’s no excuse.

5H billboard

hate me. unfollow me. i dont care. but i really really need to take this shit off of my chest. i just fucking read the article of 5h saying shit towards camila.

the fact that fifth harmony had the audacity to lie and tell everyone that they dont have any idea that camila will leave the group, and they were all “shocked” that camila’s representatives told them about camila’s sudden departure, when in reality… they already removed camila in the trademark since April 2016. but then camila still worked hard for eight STRAIGHT months, she even finished the tour with them and received zero cents and y'all are calling her selfish. tf?

when camila left the concert because she’s suffering from anxiety, did the fans even asked if she was okay? no. some of them kept on sending her hate even if camila apologized about leaving the show early. but when lauren was caught a weed on her bag, missed a concert, the fans made fun of her but they are concerned on what happened to her and she didnt even apologize.

ever since camila left the group, she was always being asked about 5h and about 5h new music. did camila shade the girls? no. she said nothing but positive things towards 5h. and when the girls finally got the chance to be interviewed about camila, did they said positive things to her? no. they just fucking threw shade on her. i cant believe they are preaching about feminism and yet, they just dragged their former bandmate. lmao im so done. so done with 5h.


the worst type of people on this website are these grown ass women who write “hoe tips!”, spewing the most bullshit down and then act like superior almighty knights lmao. they refer to their damn vulva and/or vagina as “coochie” or “kitty” or “princess parts” and then expect people to take their bullshit tips serious lol.

1. coconut oil wont save yall, its comedogenic and will clog your pores and make you break out

2. lemon and baking powder on your skin or teeth…. i wont say anything except bye bye enamel

3. yall really outta here putting perfumed shower gel down your vulva? that shit is going to fuck up ur pH-value and give you a yeast infection… like some of yall are 23 and literally dont know that your vagina is self-cleaning and that all you need is a soft washcloth and water

+ lets be fucking honest, all of these tips center males and only benefit men. things such as “blowjob proof liquid lipsticks” are bullshit and not empowering or cute or helpful, they just perceive that women live to satisfy male needs etc.

if these tips are not about males but self care uwu, why are they so heteronormative and only benefit feminine women? i have never seen any of yall give tips to gnc women or lesbians, nah yall are too busy telling young girls to suck thousands of dicks with their new empowering abh liquid lipstick which leads to a whole new generation of girls where older people take advantage of them and leave them traumatized. yall dont do shit and nobody needs your bullshit hacks or tips lol


my name is nemu, im sort of in a jam right now.

i work with a dance studio that i have been dancing with for years now, and they have informed me that they were “under no impression that i wanted to be paid” for my work as an instructor.

i guess this is what i get for not signing any contracts.

while i only worked once a week, i expected to be able to pool together enough money from that + rien’s parent’s business + the movie theater but ive been worked so rarely and its been absolute hell to try and get hours.

so. heres the issue.

im not only black, but i have exceedingly thick hair. i cant get my hair done at normal salons, and because of that, its REALLY expensive, and i have to stay for more than six hours each time to get it done. its fucking terrible and absolute hell, and its EXPENSIVE.

i havent had my hair done since march, its currently a rats nest and i cant get into it at all, knots are everywhere no matter how hard ti try to rake through them, and its almost getting to big to fit a damn cosplay wig over. im in so much pain because of it, and riens parents refuse to let me shave it off (Fucking nonblacks)

i need a little under $300 so i can get a weave installation and stop damaging my natural hair REALLY BADLY with intense relaxing chemicals that barely work with my thick hair.

i know it might take a while, but i could really use some help. if you want, i could critique something of yours (music, art, writing, etc.) as i have a few semesters of semi-professional critical training? or i could draw you a sketch of a character? or write you fics of anything i know about? or do a vocaloid cover of any vocaloid song you want?

im pretty damn desperate. but if you want anything out of your donation, feel free to contact me? my work at the theater doesnt like it when i wear wigs and so i really need to get htis done asap so i can go back to work.

im autistic and disabled while being black, tthis shit isnt easy, im really trying my best. please help me

my paypal is tempaypants@gmail.com (DONT USE MY OLD PAYPAL its been shut down for some stupid reason)

thank you, signal boost?



This women right here knows how to comfort and be there for people. Even Cheryl Blossom, the girl who gave her so much shit for even existing, her rival, her enemy. She understood that at this moment she wasnt any of those… she was a grieving sister. She cleared Archie’s mind and made him see what he truly cares about and helped him come to a decision that he would’ve regreted if he didn’t take it. And just plainly the way she is always there for Betty, i dont think i need to say more about how much Veronica Lodge is a Queen.

so i need to replace my computer and my family refuses to support me i have no belongings theyre all locked away and im living in a trailer with next to nothing struggling to cope with a laptop that gets more and more dysfunctional each day while my parents who have promised to support me refuse to actually do so under the pretense of affordability in the same breathe as they replace their cable television and i Really need this computer because its all i have and im fully expected to be ok with the circumstances

i have a ko-fi in my description and i would really appreciate any help i dont care about a fancy expensive computer i just need one that Works before i go even more mad

plz donate or boost im absolutely losing my shit living in this mobile box

the situation on bts’ colorism in the japanese magazine

this is a long post, however i believe theres lots to understand on this subject that cannot be dismissed. i have two disclaimers: first, please read until the end before criticizing because when i say i made an effort to include all views i mean it. second, there will be hetero references in this since the interview was about their ideal girl.. i apologize n i dont mean to assume their sexuality or anything.

there are three main parts to this; 1) lets understand the whole picture, 2) be fair and 3) for those who were hurt by the “interview” and to those who want to dismiss them (this is not patronizing, i really fucking sympathize here)

lets understand the whole picture

to begin, I’m pretty much positive they didn’t actually interview bts for the magazine… rather, they drew on old interviews for the magazine… i don’t think the members were actually involved in any way with this magazine specifically. there a few posts about this and i’ll like them, but the best was by @jkguks. they showed how each exact response was recycled from an old interview. the post can be found here. comments have also been made that this magazine is known for such moves in the past and that their credibility isn’t so great. @allforbts pointed out here that the magazine didnt have a photoshoot – they reused pictures from other sources – which probably indicates they didn’t have an actual interview; however this isn’t real evidence. in my own personal opinion i dont trust the person who posted the translations on twitter. yes the translations are correct as far as we all know, but what i mean is… i think she knew the interview was old/reused. everyone that asked about the interview’s date received no response from her. she even made a comment about how many followers shes gained. if she cleared up that the interview was old or reused then this whole thing would die out n she’d stop getting followers. anyway i find it suspicious but i could also just be reading too far into it. the whole point of this is that at this point we can pretty much conclusively say that the interview is recycled n this is not something they said recently. this is not to devalue the weight of their words because it still hurt a lot of people. old or new, getting told your skin color is “unideal” is painful. however we do wanna look at this because we at least now know that their status of “since educated on colorism and racism and now pretty pc/sensitive” is not going to be revoked! they’ve since educated themselves, that is still the truth. this is just the ugly past come to rear its head.

on the other end of understanding the whole picture, i’m going to make a sorta controversial statement. hopefully in fully explaining it, you all will get the full idea… but for the sake of k-armys who are getting attacked by intl fans constantly and also for the sake of perspective – which may lessen the blow of their words for those hurt by them – i need to say this. the concept of colorism is alive and well in korea… it just isn’t the same as it is in the west. in the west – for the most part – we are more ethnically/racially diverse while korea is almost entirely racially/ethnically homogeneous. so how does this effect the meaning of colorism? well because one of the largest identifiable traits when looking at the differences between the world’s races n ethnicities is skin color, race/ethnicity will always be tied to skin color, especially in really diverse areas. in the west where we are consistently exposed to different races/ethnicities as part of our daily lives, a preference of skin color holds not only colorist implications but also racist implications. if some mayo dude said “i think darker skin is ugly on girls” we can safely assume hes a racist fuck on top of being colorist. however, since korea is homogenous, there isnt any real racist implications. let me elaborate: korea has issues with being racist against other poc, however in an interview discussing ideal types where the ideal type is already assumed to be at the very basis korean (or maybe another east asian ethnicity if you’re stretching it), the statement on skin color is directed at people of their shared race. so how is this less problematic? it is still problematic definitely – i’d like to make this clear – but in korea, the concept of skin color amongst koreans as a beauty standard isnt racially or ethnically motivated and therefore its more akin to saying “i prefer blue eyes over brown eyes on white girls” because they’re discussing a physical variance within their own race. in the end, it’s still colorist, but please try to understand that in korea the remarks arent as horrible. they still shouldn’t say that, and really, any discussion of skin color preferences is ugly, but it’s extremely important to be considerate of korean culture. intl fans forget constantly that we are guests to korean culture. if you were invited to someones house you wouldnt bust in there feeling entitled n doing whatever the fuck you want. you’d try and respect their rules and how they run their home. if you had a problem with something there, you’d politely ask them to accommodate you, explaining why that accommodation was necessary. you wouldnt fucking trash them for not having their house already equipped to your preference. thats incredibly selfish. this is the same way. you are guests to this culture, and while you shouldnt allow colorism to continue, this theme of entitlement amongst intl fans – especially when we have done very little to respect their culture; we demand they understand ours while continually paying theirs no regard – is really shamefully. i ask that people reading this do their best to be more considerate in the future. not everything is black n white… lots of things have grey area and we can afford to be more socially conscious. im pretty sure most k-fans have it about up to here dealing with koreaboos criticizing their culture… 

be fair

this is a short statement but i need to remind you all that most of the members were problematic in that interview and if you are only trashing namjoon you need to fucking stop. you are allowed to offended, of course – i was pretty bothered too seeing how im the opposite to namjoons ideal in every way, my bias who i’d fucking die for – but if your whole focus is “namjoon this and namjoon that” than youre being a biased ass and im gonna need you to sit down. if youre going to be mad, by all means, be mad, but dont fucking pretend the other members said nothing wrong. im sick of people pretending every member but namjoon is perfect and unproblematic. present day he’s probably the most un-problematic member since educating himself on racial issues, feminism, n lgbtq rights, making himself an advocate for them all while idols remain silent…. hmm…. but keeping pushing that “problematic member” agenda sure. yeah lets pretend the facts dont exist ok

for those who were hurt by the “interview” and to those who want to dismiss them

fans who read through the interview n realized they kinda fit their bias’ ideal type – esp in terms of skin color – please don’t make comments on how people need to “get over this”. for many fans, especially non light skinned poc, this really hurt. not only as a “i don’t fit my bias’ ideal type” but also as a betrayal of trust. many non light skinned poc have experienced some type of discrimination for their skin color and many had their sense of self confidence fucked over for it. its not just a “you dont think darker skin is beautiful, aw :(” its more of a, “you are someone i love and support and the fact that you’d call my skin color less attractive – the skin color for which i’ve had to struggle to find my own confidence in – just like so many others, feels like betrayal”. its really hurtful. so don’t be dismissive. you don’t understand. this isnt your discussion, im sorry.

and lastly, to the fans who were hurt by the interview. im sorry boo. im sorry that the industry you support continues to hurt you. im sorry someone you decided to love and support made you feel like that. please remember that the ideal type is such a flimsy concept. they really dont mean anything. those questions were grossly specific n they were so unnecessary, but at the end of the day, they are still made up preferences. the boys wouldn’t find you unattractive for not meeting the bits on their checklist – fuck no. attraction just doesnt work like that. no one falls in love with the person that hit everything on their little “ideal type” checklist. honestly, if you asked me to describe my ideal type n i just listed shit off the top of my head, it probably wouldnt add up to namjoon…. but in every way namjoon perfect to me. im fucking whipped. this is the same. dont take their ideals to heart, dont feel like anything on you needs to change. you are exactly the way you need to be, and dont ever let some guys “ideal type” make you feel any less. n if anyone every tries to tell you that you’re failing to meet their beauty standards… fucking kick them. fcuk them seriously. dont let this shit effect your self confidence. gross comments like that dont deserve a thought in your head

know some of yall dont believe it if you cant see it, but the water situation is still disgusting here in flint. it hasn’t improved at all, like a lot of folks tellin yall its a pipe infrastructure problem now – its rotten – any water that come through is fucked too.

flint still need clean water, i personally go through 30-40 bottles just for cooking and cleaning and shit. its still a mess.


A person on G+ (because where else would they be) called Why™ is taking and reposting people’s (like @marielgum, @lum1natrix, @markired, @dork-iplier, @floatingmegane-san etc. There’s too many to list, honestly) gifs and art without permission and thinks that simply linking to SOME of the accounts is enough. (ps. its not lol)

In fact, they put the credit in a place where barely any people look. (It’s like the YouTube description. A small percentage of people go there.)

Then they claim that I need to look for it. (ps i dont ha should be visible)

And even then, they never got permission in the first place. 

Go report them please. Reblogs are very much appreciated.


Mukami Family Headcanons Pt.2 :3

 If kou catches anyone so much as humming one of his songs he will tease them relentlessly about it for days (yUMA MAD)

 Ruki sometimes gets headaches (from thinking too much lol) so Kou thought it would be nice to make dinner for them instead of him… unfortunately Kou can only bake and cant cook for shit, so he called in azusa. Long story short they almost burned the kitchen, giving Ruki a bigger head ache. In the end he came down and they decided for take out.

Yuma, Kou and Azusa bought Ruki a #1 dad mug as a joke for fathers day. He still drinks from it.

 “Azusa, I’m going shopping, you need new clothes right?”

“No… thank, you…Ruki. I have…enough sweaters.”

Yuma comes stomping down the stairs: “OIII, does anyone know where my- AHA!!! SO YOU’RE THE ONE WHOSE BEEN STEALING ALL MY SWEATERS, AZUSA!!!”

“They’re big…and…warm.”

Ruki then began wondering whether his missing knitted pajamas also somehow ended up with azusa.

 Ruki developed a habit of reading in quiet dark places as to not be disturbed. And sometimes he gets so engrossed in the book he doesnt hear his brothers calling for him. This has resulted in ruki being accidentally stepped on, bumped into, or causing his brothers to scream many times (cause he’s literally just sitting in the dark in the middle of a room when they flick on the light whats not to scream about)

 Surprisingly enough, sometimes the sakamakis visit. usually at unexpected times, and its usually laito or subaru. 

- Laito just randomly leaves his house and heads over to the mukami’s during lunch time (Azusa didn’t mind, and kou depending on his mood, it took yuma a while to chill about it tho- but since he came so often Ruki allowed him to stay as long as he’s tolerable. As soon as he’s his pervy self he GONE)

- Subaru rarely visits, but when he does it’s to completely get away from his brothers for a while. Yuma sometimes agrees to let him wander around his garden but not to touch anything. He also doesn’t tell Kou because he understands Tsunbaru needs some time alone- that is until Kou looks out the window and goes over to pester him. 

- Ayato did visit with laito once for lunch, but only ONCE because he made the mistake of insulting Taylor swift, to which kou took great offence to and ended up blasting her songs infront of ayatos bedroom window. He only left when Reiji got in touch with Ruki to tell him about Kou’s whereabouts-

“Please…take him back. I know we don’t need sleep but I’m getting a headache.”

can white/european/american exclusionists stop saying ““we don’t want our oppressors in the lgbt+ community”” in any context, like i don’t care if it’s a joke or not but it’s so dumb and stop using it as an argument. do i need to say what ya’ll did? but we’re still in the same community? i’m not saying that shit either. it’s not an argument. and if it’s a joke, it’s not funny.

anonymous asked:

what paint effects do you use when you draw, assuming you use sai? (like the current mob drawing you have, and the flug and 505 comic for examples) if you dont use sai then please ignore/delete this ask

I assumed you mean how I do the texture on the drawing…. so there’re 2 alternative ways I usually do.

Pro: You can use any kind texture you wanted. just simply search it up on google
Con: Time consuming. 

Pro: BAM! dont even need to try. 
Con: there’s a limit to what you can use but they offer shit lot of texture so it won’t be a biggie 

But has anyone thought about all the kids learning to live with each other’s BAD HABITS like:

- “You leave your socks everywhere and I’m about to slam dunk you in a hamper” 

- “I keep avoiding the dishes because you always make me do them again for doing them wrong in the first place”

- “Stop being an ass by playing obnoxious music while other people are studying”

- “Why are there???? Books everywhere???”

 - “Who keeps tracking mud in without wiping their shoes because they’re gonna be the one scrubbing”

- “Whoever keeps snoring through five walls is going to be introduced to death by smothering”

- “Whoever sheds that much hair needs to see a doctor wtf”

- “Someone keeps eating all the instant ramen that is MY FLAVOR and they’re going to die a slow painful death”


- “You know way more about Llamas with Hats than any normal person does, should I be concerned”




- “…do I wanna know about the slippers.” 

- “…on second thought no, I really don’t want to hear about how much you passive aggressively hate your neighbor”

- “Nobody vacuums at FIVE IN THE MORNING”

- “Shut up about your crappy Sci-Fi movie, it’s my turn for the big TV and I’m watching my stories”

- “Everyone needs to put their cups in the sink right now or I’m hiding all the cups” 

- “Yes this meme is funny but it doesn’t have to have a WALL devoted to it”

- “You cheat at Mario Kart and are now forever banned” 

- “I love all those animals your rescue but 1) they can’t live with us and 2) THEY CAN NOT LIVE IN MY ROOM”

- “You always say the same damn phrase when you wake me up and now I have a Pavlovian response to HATE that phrase”

 Like just 

Bad habits

anonymous asked:

Can you do HCs about Dallas saving you from being jumped by socs and keeps you over for the rest of the night?


- honestly lets be really he only helped you cuz he has had his eye on you for a while

- so like one night he would see you walking alone at night from his window at Buck’s and be like… ;))))))

- he would walk down and sorta kinda follow you but then he heard the car coming before you did and he hid 

- he watched the socs jump out and corner you and he was just a little (a lot) pissed off



- it would be Bob honestly, he’s a dick

- Dallas would lowkey freak out but try and act cool

- ‘Just give me the broad man.’

- ‘No i think ill take her.’


- you have a couple of scratches from the blade and a few bruises 

- ‘Hey its real late, man. maybe you should come back with me to be safe ya know?’

- you agree

- once you get back to his ‘place’ he is all like awkward and like sorry its not much but it works



- you guys had a moment 

- but the little shit ruins it with his smirk

- ‘You really got yourself in a situation huh doll?’

- ‘Ya but listen, thank you for helping me out there.’

- ‘Dont worry doll any time you need help ill be there.’

- he is such the little shit

- you guys migrate to his bed and you guys are kinda just sitting there staring at each other and he starts interviewing you

- and i mean like INTERVIEWING you

- name number address favorite color name of your first pet birthday

- tbh you are kinda worried he is trying to steal your credit card info (did they even have credit cards lol??? ok i did my research they were, they started in like the 50′s)


- you could tell he was getting tired but like he was still trying to stay up

- you were answering one of his many questions when he slowly leaned in and kissed you mid sentence and pulled away slowly smirking

- ‘You talk a lot.’

- he would lazily whisper ‘be my girl’ after that and oh mah gahd he is a tiny bug

- you guys fall asleep holding hands

- in the morning he is all excited and quirky but like is trying to hide

- insists he walks you home