I have this friend I have a crush on and its really weird because, they really want to present and identify as male but their parents wont let them, so theyve been calling themselves a girl for so long and even before i found out ive had a crush on them i couldnt describe. i was so confused because i know im gay and i feel bad knowing they have a crush on me too but they really insist on people calling them female and it breaks my heart knowing someone i love cant identify how they want to. ;~;
aw man, thats really difficult. seeing loved ones having 2 deal w stuff like that always hurts.
but tbh!! if they know theyre male, and u know theyre male, i dont see why u two couldnt try it out!!