i dont even know why i have them

Not even trying to sound cocky at all because I dont think im hot shit or anything but there have been a lot of guys since I came out that have been interested in me and it blows because I cant see myself with them at all and it sucks because it would be nice if I could but its not worth pursuing someone just because I can ... why test the waters when you know it wont work out and it will only hurt them?... pretty common with gay people... thats something most straight people dont understand... the sheer low quantity of gay people especially out gay people leads to the impossibility of experimentative dating nevermind relationships... straight people in their late teens and early 20's get the opportunity to go on hundreds of dates in a span of 7 years but gay guys don't have that chance. And the dates they do go on are often because both people are gay and not because of compatibility... which is also why dating in late teen early 20 gay culture is so catty and childish because almost all gay guys didnt have the opportunity to get their toxic and immature relationship phase out of the way in late middle school and all of high school... which leads to an inexperienced mindset when it comes to dating and an overly sexualized set of goals which lessens the chance of an already statistically improbably successful date/relationship opportunity... so even besides the quantity aspect that is hindered by only 7 percent of the population being queer and 2.5 percent total being gay men, we fuck everything up because we didnt go through the norms associated with dating as we grew up... so next time a straight person tells a gay or queer person, "Why aren't you dating anyone? You must not want to because youre so cute its obviously not hard for someone to like you." Think again.

anonymous asked:

Maybe a lil Davekat since I've never seen them in your style?? :00 (you can more than likely tell who I am, I don't even know why I have anon on tbh)

the more i draw dave, the smaller he gets and the fluffier his hair gets

pidge and boobs: an unfortunate experience

  • pidge is just like. really done with having boobs
  • pidge, looking down at her chest: why are you even here
  • boobs are just like…sacks of fat that get in the way of fighting and seeing her computer screen when she lays down 
  • and when her boobs just hurt she’s like “why. why me. i’m just trying to live my life” 
  • she doesn’t even have boobs that are that big and she wears sport bras most of the time but sometimes during practice they bounce and she just wants them to s t o p 
  • to hunk: i don’t want my boobs anymore you can have them 
    hunk: pretty sure that’s not how this works
  • pidge never goes bra shopping like properly like she probably isn’t wearing the right size but the bra fits well enough and doesn’t pinch and she’s not spending any more time on these expensive fabric cups that society demands she wears
  • society sucks ass
  • so do boobs
  • one day lance is like “i’m like 90% sure shiro has bigger boobs than you” and pidge is like “good. he can share my suffering” 
    • shiro: i’m always suffering
  • those days where you just have to grab your boobs as you’re running up the stairs or something? yeah. pidge hates those days and swears aggressively as she wraps her arms around herself
  • she loves wearing huge oversized sweatshirts but she especially loves it because she can go braless and no one will know 
    • also for your consideration: the extra lazy days where she literally just wears a sports bra and a sweatshirt and no shirt
  • lance: do you ever just. hold your own boob
  • pidge: do you ever just punch yourself in the face
  • one day she’s bored and particularly annoyed at her boobs and she’s just like. an a cup for awful a, b cup for bothersome, c cup for cursed, d cup for dreadful—
  • she mostly lives in sports bras but there are a lot of days where she’s like “…what if i didn’t”
    • the answer is nothing would happen. she’s in space. no one cares. she can just go braless. it’s a freeing day when she realizes that
  • they’re just laying around one day and she sits up suddenly and is like “does space even have bras”
    • it does. or at least, alteans do 
    • both her and lance are disappointed when space bras aren’t anything special and are basically the same as earth bras
    • lance takes every opportunity afterward to say “cool starry bra” when it’s relevant 
      • because stars. and space. starry bra. it’s funny
  • she is so jealous of aliens that don’t have breasts like how is this fair
  • pidge loves her armor because her boobs are out of the way for once and it’s so nice
  • she’s just like “what is even the POINT of you!!” most of the time and like. she knows but still. what’s the point
  • pidge is just very frustrated with her boobs

Day 23!~

“ 23 - AFTERTALE - What comes to mind? Let your imagination run wild. “

well at first if i just think aftertale all i really think of is AFTERTALE so i decided to twist it up and thought what if i dont know aftertale yet?what if somebody asked me what i think about “aftertale” before i even know about it,so i thought about it being a happy fairytale story about a princess and a prince living happily ever after together,i mean after-tale right? it sounds like a happy fairytale after the prince and princess gets married.

i was supposed to color this but i dont have enough time today,but hopefully i can color them next time cause i already have a color palette i can use for them! man drawing geno in a dress was so fun~

geno sans belongs to @loverofpiggies

reaper sans belongs to @renrink

the challenge was created by @shinydiamondblog (why havent i been tagging them before?? sorry about that shinydiamond)

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PSA for anybody who has ever felt insecure about how they write their character. Remember why you began writing them in the first place. Remember how much they mean to you and how much you enjoy writing them. There will be other people roleplaying the same character as you, it is inevitable, but there is only one of YOU and only one who plays the character the way YOU play them. You bring something special to that character. Something that nobody can mimic or do the same as because nobody is just like you. You need to accept that, and accept that there will be others, but just like you they will be playing the character their own way as well. Nobody is better. Nobody is the same. Nobody deserves to play a character more than another person does. This is no popularity contest and you should never feel as though you aren’t worthy of playing a character just because you or someone else has made you feel that way. Instead of comparing yourself to others who play the same character as you; try to embrace the differences and admire them. Cheer up and keep on keeping on. You love your character, you love roleplaying as that character, and in the end that is all that matters.

deadinaminute  asked:

Tbh, I'm surprised you revealed Paula's death so casually on an Akinator video. If I were you, I'd probably edit out the part where Akinator asked that question so nobody would even know it asked about his death, then I would publish the news in an official video. It probably would have been more heartbreaking, and you seemed to love making us hurt as much as possible, why not them? You didn't even show the pic of Luca crying over his corpse! What gives!?

i was confused at first because i didnt know who paula was lmao

i was originally gonna do that, make an entire video dedicated to it. but then i realized i dont have fucking time to do that lmao no time to dedicate videos to that. 

plus i thought mentioning it so casually would be hilarious like a “oh yeah hes dead btw lmao” kinda of way. i still got a good reaction nonetheless. 

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Recently, I was in Ireland for a week.

warning-wild-ginger  asked:

You're a teacher!? Thats so cool! I'm going to college for early childhood education... i dont know why i think this us cool... but i think its cool!!

It is cool, because we get to have a part in being influential rolemodels to them in their life, even if it’s briefly! :>>

Fun things about always seeing both sides of a situation and also having no opinions of your own: you don’t know whether to have the ‘sometimes you can’t do things and it’s okay and you should take care of the you right now’ perspective or the ‘you need to push through things even if you hate them because you can’t quit forever and it’s good for the you in the future’ perspective..

anonymous asked:

my parents dont use my pronouns, even after ive told them more than once. i dont know why because they claim to be supportive. help!

if you think it is safe to talk to them about this then here is what i have found that helps:

let them know how it feels when you are misgendered. they usually do not realize what it is like and dont think it is harmful.

i might say, “imagine if the whole world saw you as a gender you werent (helps if youre talking to your mom for example, to say if she was seen as a man, etc. helps them imagine it better). everywhere you go you are called the wrong things (sir, ma’am, etc) and referred to the wrong way (pronouns). 

that it really hurts. each time feels like being stabbed, you start to shut down, your heart drops, etc. and it all adds up. at first it might just be one raindrop in the bucket. but then it is halfway full. and eventually that bucket is full and spills over. with each misgendering, the pain is multiplied.

and, you can’t say anything about it. because then you are at risk. you might be attacked, lost your job, have it affect how your teachers, etc, see you. but when you are at home, that is the one place where you should be able to have that solace and safe place, where you can be you.

but when they misgender you, call you the wrong pronouns, it adds to that bucket. and it hurts even more than all those other times, because they know. and they claim to support you. and the people who are supposed to or even do love you most in the entire world, are not taking what you say seriously enough to do so. 

yes, it may be hard to switch or remember at first. but knowing what it means to you and loving you so much, they should do it anyway and work to overcome the mistakes. yes, maybe it is weird right now. but your health, safety, and personhood is more important than however they feel about it.”

unfortunately, if you get mad they usually will not take you seriously and will not listen. it really sucks. you may need to brainstorm beforehand, type out what you want to say or at least bullet points, and even practice saying it. it can be really hard.

if you cannot confront them safely, try to surround yourself with people who do use your pronouns. even if it is only mutuals on tumblr. practice self care, things that make you feel good and things that reinforce your gender.

we have a self care tag here: http://nonbinary-support.tumblr.com/tagged/self-care

good luck


anonymous asked:

Sorry I'm confused on what's going on about discourse n' whatnot? What did I miss? ~R

1. i complained about me constantly being unable to avoid internet drama
2. bees
3. theres a bee movie meme ask thrown in there somewhere
4. someone asked me my opinion on terfs/swerfs/cgl (causing internet drama, but its okay because they wanted to know they would be safe and welcome here and thats more important)
5. terf/swerf/cgl talk 
6. I have enough in my life to pay attention to what blogs follow me.. me justifying myself in multiple replies as to why i just cant care who follows even if i dont like them
7. im having crazy anxiety over people hating me for not being able to care about this and people are unfollowing already
8. people are sending supportive asks and i’m replying and i’m sure its clogging up peoples dashes causing me more anxiety 

jiyongyu  asked:

I'M HAVING THIS PROBLEM WITH JUNGKOOK TOO AND IT MAKES ME SO MAD LIKE BOY LEAVE ME ALONE HAHA. I just want to focus on Jimin is that so much to ask??? I feel like all of them are wrecking my bias list right now... but mostly JK and IDK HOW TO DEAL WITH IT LOL.

You’re asking the wrong girl lmao I DONT EVEN KNOW WHY JUNGKOOK IS DOING THIS TO ME like nothing special happened he’s just JUNGKOOK.

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anonymous asked:

Well amber certainly made it clear in her 2nd post that this is mostly about her as a soloist. Again, I understand from a business standpoint why sm are reluctant to spend time on her when they have more profitable idols but damn...when you have multiple idols express their disdain and straight out say they feel neglected maybe they should work harder to make them happy. I dont think sm even takes amber seriously. they prob dont think she'll leave so they arent saying anything about it.

She’s in a very difficult situation and SM knows it, that’s for sure. I personally think SM is shooting themselves in the foot with how they’re treating idols. Jessica, the exo boys, Amber, Henry/Zhoumi, f(x) in general. If they continue to do this, they’re going to start losing the best trainees to JYP, YG, and maybe even Bighit or WM. Sure some kids might think the possibility of debuting in SM is worth the risk but with more and more idols vocally expressing the lack of freedom and respect, why would you sign there if you could go elsewhere when creative freedom is becoming more and more common and other agencies that do similarly well or better?

kiokishy  asked:

(1) TALKING ABOUT NARUSASU WITH MY BROTHER I was talking with my him about why they are still producing chapters of the anime (we dont see them anymore)but they are just a bunch of shit and how they are doing it to eventually bring up Boruto.

(2) While we were at it I decided to test something and said:“They should have ended it with the last battle of NvsS, i was great!, and even it would have been more realistic if Naruto and Sasuke would have ended toguether insted of Naruto with Hinata and SasuSaku”(he doesnt know I ship NaruSasu XD).

(3) I was waiting for him to say I was crazy and start a rant  but, his eyes just went wide and got silent for a sencond and then said:“You are right, they relationship and development seemed more fitting for that kind of ending than with any other characthers, even and escene like Korra and Asami in Avatar would had been good ”  I got speechless and I could see even he was suprised for finding himself thinking like that, He wold have accepted a ending with NaruSasu!

(4)My brother who only watch shonen, and say things like: why girls likes series with boyxboy relationships, etc. Also I was suprised and happy because I confirmed that what I see in NaruSasu its not me just fangirling it was something even my brother could see!!!!!.

That’s awesome! Thanks for sharing with me:)

(originally posted on my deviantart, which is sad that i have one still but its useful ok)

(read comic from left to right)

it was originally gonna be a lams but them i was like nah lets just have this thing which is honestly fine cause hamilton does love his wife i refuse to let anyone tell me otherwise but he also loves like everyone else why does everyone have to have such nice asses-

I fucked up that big chunk of text at the end and wrote it while the canvas was flipped so i had to move all the other text and shit it was not a fun time my guys so yes you read it just like a manga gfsdkjhksfgjhklsdfgsfgjhkjhsdfghlsjhlsdfg

i also enjoy how it gets progressively shitter in art style like i just gave up by the second panel

ya.,,.,.,.,.,.,.,…,. anyway have fun


Disclaimer: ok look. i’m a white person, but i dont support ANY OF THAT NASTY SHIT the historical figures did (slavery, sexism, etc) i am a fan of the musical (despite only listening to the music. its a good show ok) and thats it. this was a weird thing that popped into my head, and i had a strong urge to both do it, and “say no to this” (god im going to regret typing that pun so much-) and i caved and did it.
anyway, back to the point.
- I’m white
- The historical figures were not pure and good
- I do not wish to romanticize any of their real-life actions, cause a lot of them were nasty as fuck
- Have a nice day

emmettthedreamwalker  asked:

I'm really upset, I ordered a binder and I measured myself and everything but it didn't fit. Idk what I did wrong but it's really super tight (like too tight).

It can happen. Even when measured correctly there can be some discrepancies in sizing I dont know why. I have heard Underworks is like that, can have the same label sizes and they can be different sizes. I measured perfectly for a L and when it came it was tiny so had to reorder a size up. Its not always as easy to get right as it should be. If you measured right then it probably wasnt your fault, this can still happen. The good thing is they tend to be good about returns if it doesnt fit, just contact them and sort out an exchange. Also describe it all to them so they can help to advise what size you should go for (if its really way too tight one size up might not be enough so its worth checking with them). Delivery from them is pretty quick as well so you shouldnt have to wait too long before you have one you can use. This can happen so dont blame yourself for it. It might cost a bit of time but you will have a good one soon. Dont be tempted to use this one though wait until you get a proper sized one