i don;t know ok

Hi there! 👋🏻

Oh, why yes, I’m wearing my rainbow dress again…don’t judge! It’s comfy and I was seeing completely different people today! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I have SO MANY celebrations this month and next! Today was a birthday brunch AND a birthday afternoon tea. This morning, I was celebrating with one of my oldest friends, and it was wonderful catching up and drinking sake cocktails for hours. This afternoon, I was less enthusiastic about because I don’t love large group activities with a bunch of people I don’t know, but it ended up being an ok time. I am always fascinated by other people’s lives and relationships, so it was an interesting afternoon. I find it so simple to just be content…I really am just happy most of the time, even when I’m not…if that makes sense. I never have any desire for a different life or to have more…I genuinely like who I am, who I’m married to, and what I do. I’m surrounded, usually, by others who feel the same. The people in this afternoon group. They were a mix. It was a good reminder for me of how fortunate I am to have such positive, supportive, motivated, and just generally good-natured friends. 😍 (This afternoon’s party was for a woman I know because she is the husband’s friend’s wife.)

Life is too short for pettiness and gossip. Be kind. Surround yourself with kind people. Life is sooo much better that way. I’m happy for the reminder, but I won’t be hanging out with (most of) those ladies again outside of the husband’s work events.

anonymous asked:

hey its ur local bundle of ten rats in a trenchcoat bored af and wondering who you enjoy getting art of the most bc i have free time and a need to do another animated background thing (but in a simpler style bc my art style never chills the fuck out tbh) - friend emoji dude

aH UH UHHH UHHHUHUH UYHHYGSHFGY I DON’T KNOW AHHH you draw,,, whoever u wanna draw ok,,,,,,,,,,, 

anonymous asked:

nora i'm dumb but how do you put links in description i don't know how to do anything help

html!

ok i tried to paste the code but obvs it just turns into a link i give up. it’s in the tags lmao

update no it’s not it broke there as well just google it
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Sombra didn’t know what she expected from a man clad in leather and an owl-like skull mask. (my own shitposting about sombra inspired this)

Fanon Lotor be like

i am not even sorry just take this

i don’t know, i don’t have an issue with ‘soft sapphic’ culture in and of itself - i understand that it works for a lot of people and i’m fond of any movement that aims to a) unify lesbians + bi/pan girls and b) teach young lgbt kids that their attraction isn’t gross or bad.

however…i do think certain narratives being spread on this site (and in other places where this terminology is used, i’d imagine) do more to contribute to internalised homophobia than they do to reduce it. this is obviously unintentional and i’m not blaming sapphic girls who spread this stuff at all but that doesn’t mean it’s not worth discussing and at least considering.

i see a lot of posts saying things along the lines of ‘love between girls is the purest and best thing in the world!!’ and i understand that these posts are meant to be at least mildly hyperbolic but here’s the thing: a lot of girls who love girls already feel like their love has to be perfect to compensate for the fact that it’s non-heterosexual.

i know that on a personal level it wasn’t useful for me to hear stuff like that (although i might have thought it was for a while). what i actually needed to hear wasn’t ‘love between girls is perfect’, it was ‘love between girls isn’t always going to be perfect and that’s okay. you’re finding love hard and that’s okay.’

i used to have so much anxiety over the fact that i wasn’t having a Pure Gay Experience; the first girl i dated wasn’t the love of my life, sometimes i just wanted to make out with girls i didn’t have feelings for, i had feelings for girls who’d never love me back and that made me bitter and angry and jealous. all of this would have been normal teenage stuff if i was straight but my shame was definitely amplified by the fact that i felt like i had to compensate for being gay by having almost fairytale-style romances.

like i honestly think there is so much value in teaching young sapphic girls that their love won’t be soft and special all the time because they’re human beings no less worthy of love and respect than anyone else. and in teaching straight people that our love isn’t going to be any purer than theirs, but they have to respect it equally anyway. i feel like i’ve said this a million times but i have no interest in activism that only seeks to validate the most ~palatable q*eers~.

listen, women + girls who date each other end up in abusive relationships sometimes. they fight and they split up. they break each other’s hearts. they have meaningless hook-ups with each other. they cheat on each other. sometimes things are bad or just not that special, but the thing young sapphic girls need to learn is that things will go wrong not BECAUSE they’re lesbians or because they’re bi or pan. they go wrong because that’s how life works. and regardless of who they’re dating or fucking or loving, they deserve respect and support.

i don’t want to be a killjoy and i’m not saying that a cutesy post about how every time two girls kiss the moon gets brighter is going to ruin anyone’s life. but i don’t think idealising OR demonising love between girls (or any two lgbt people) is really the way to go with making young gay/bi/pan girls feel better about themselves. don’t teach them to aspire to ideals they can’t reach; teach them to be human and teach them to love themselves and their sexualities regardless.

VLIVE - JUNGKOOK CHAT ROOM

↳ oh hot pink..!
↳ who could I be
↳ nochu come through
↳ the members don’t even know
↳ ok this is Jungkook
↳ put your hands up
↳ ARMY thank you so much
↳ 😘
↳ these days McCree’s accuracy is amazing
↳ now I will shoot at all your hearts ❤️️
↳ I am really grateful to overseas ARMY here too
↳ who is the most handsome in the MV?!
↳ hah
↳ right we’re all handsome hehe
↳ we’re working hard preparing for the concert!
↳ please anticipate a lot
↳ heheh thank you! I’m going to go practice hard again!
↳ see you again! 😙
↳ guns, aim, fire (lyrics from Not Today)❤️️

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AU Idea (I think I'm gonna write it but I don't know)

- ok but Marinette is the MOST popular Instagram model
- it started off as a joke/fun on behalf of Alya

- so like Marinette has all these hella good outfits that she has made but never wore it
- even though they all fit her(as a fashion/design student, SAME. make it for myself but never see it on myself)
- so she decides she needs to get some use into these.
- Alya being the amazing boo she is, decides to make an Instagram of Marinette wearing these outfits and takes secret pictures of her.
- NOT ONE of them show her FACE its covered by a hand or leaf or something
- the account BLOWS UP(so many outfit genres and ideas like from cute to bodycon to street/90’s inspired to grudge to hipster)
- Marinette is oblivious
- until Alya comes barreling into her bedroom in their apartment, screaming THE IT MODEL ADRIEN AGRESTE is FOLLOWING THEM.
- Marinette ends up unconscious on the floor.
- she recovers and cries but eventually soften up to the account and newfound fame because, she looks SO HOT(even though her face is not showing) and she can switch stuff up and use all her items she had made and also cause Adrien is following her.
- companies want her to promote them but she only picks what she likes and ended up promoting Nino’s new album turning him into a DJ sensation(Kinda like flume,chain smokers etc)
- she then gets an intern letter from The Agreste’s and is now working on a photo shoot WHILE going to Univeristy and handling her account with Alya, who is now making a blog. Oh my Gosh.

- Her heels, erratically click as she steps onto the photo shoot platform. Fingers curl tightly around a box of pins. Knuckles white, breathing hard, heart thumping, she lifts a lithe, bandaid covered finger and adjusts the emerald tie of the emerald eyed, blonde Angel in front of her.
“Hey Marinette, do you know the model Ladybug?”
Her face pales considerably.

min yoongi probably.....
  • Jungkook: can i ask something?
  • Yoongi: sure
  • Jungkook: ok what if
  • Jungkook: THEORETICALLY
  • Jungkook: you accidentally ended up adopting 26 lizards
  • Yoongi: um i don't know i've never gone through that
  • Jungkook: oh ok
  • Yoongi:
  • Yoongi: jungkook why is your jacket moving