i don't usually care about this

the hate on otayuri is ridiculous.

it’s a 2 YEAR AGE GAP.

in sports anime people ship 1st years with 3rd years ALL THE TIME and no says jack shit about it (and those are also 2 year age gaps!!! and there’s nothing wrong with it!!!!!)

it’s also kind of gross how people assume shipping an m/m couple is automatically associated with shipping them sexually. fucking STOP.

Kurt Cobain: was mentally and physically abused by his biological father because he had ADHD and was hyperactive which bothered his dad.

Kurt Cobain: his parents didn’t want him to play with poor kids because he was “better than them” and he was forced to wear a sweater he was allergic to so his mom would brag how her kids “were the best dressed kids in town”

Kurt Cobain: thought he was the reason of his parents divorce since his parents usually argued about his up-bringing which made him feel guilty and embarassed 

Kurt Cobain: witnessed his mother being abused by her boyfriend who once broke her arm and felt guilty because he couldn’t do anything about it

Kurt Cobain: moved to live with his dad in a trailer trying to improve their relationship but his dad ended up marrying another woman after promising his 10 year old son not to remarry

Kurt Cobain: couldn’t get along with his step-mom because he felt that if he would love her he would betray his mom and because his father treated his step-siblings better than him which made him withdrawn and deprssed 

Kurt Cobain: he had minor scoliosis but both of his parents didn’t care which caused several physical problems in the future mainly his stomach problems

Kurt Cobain: was forced by his father to practice sports and left his father’s house when he was 14 after a huge argument because he lost a wrestling match 

Kurt Cobain: his mother didn’t want him to come live with her so he had to move from relative to relative. None of his relatives afforded his stay which made him feel depressed and un-wanted

Kurt Cobain: moved to live with his mom and her husband and he was constantly abused by his step-dad for being a virgin and single and often called him “loser” and “faggot”

Kurt Cobain: was bullied in high school for being friends with a gay boy and because he was intersted in arts while the other boys were interested in sports

Kurt Cobain: started smoking pot when he was 13 to deal with his depression and his mother didn’t bother to stop him because she was also smoking pot that she hid in her jewerly box and she even once took a drag from her son’s joint at a party

Kurt Cobain: got kicked out of his mom’s house at 17 because he brought a girl with him to impress his step-dad who would always brag about how many girls he slept with when he was in Kurt’s age

Kurt Cobain: was homeless when he was just 17 and he would sometimes sleep in the library, in the hospital waiting room or on cardboards and he NEVER complained to anyone about it

Kurt Cobain: had to quit school at 18 to find a job to afford his bread and rent a dirty and smelly shack and he went through several jobs including being a janitor at his own high school

Kurt Cobain: he was kicked out of his appartements several times because he couldn’t afford to pay the rent until moving in with his first girlfriend when he was 21

Kurt Cobain: suffered from severe stomach problems because he had  a pinched nerve in his spine caused by his untreated scoliosis and he didn’t talk about it because he didn’t want to bother people which later made him medicate himself using heroin in littles doses to kill the pain   

Kurt Cobain: would sometimes stop in the middle of the performance to check if the people who stage dived were ok

Kurt Cobain: heard the story of a 14 year old girl who got raped and wrote a song about her (Polly) 

Kurt Cobain: hated sexists, racists and homophobes and didn’t want them to come to his shows and always expressed his annoyance because of their presence

Kurt Cobain: respected women dearly and encouraged feminist movements (like Riot Grrrls) 

Kurt Cobain: tried to quit drugs and went to rehab twice in a row. Once when his wife was pregnant and a second time when his daughter was born

Kurt Cobain: accepted to play a benefit for rape survivors in Bosnia and Herzegovina and didn’t get a dime for his performance

Kurt Cobain: wrote a song about rape (Rape Me) because he wanted to attract media’s attention to that issue and kept playing it despite the critics and the controversy that surrounded the song

Kurt Cobain: played a gay rights benefit supporting No-on-Nine

Kurt Cobain: stopped in the middle of the song to defend a girl who was being harrassed and kicked the man out of the show after making him feel ashamed about himself

Kurt Cobain: used his fame to promote good bands who weren’t famous and was bothered by media’s focus on his band only and openly expressed how he thought bands like Soundgarden and Alice In Chains were better and deserve more recogniation

Kurt Cobain: didn’t want to be called “a voice of a generation” because his drug use was exposed and he didn’t want to influence anybody negatively and he felt that he was judged by media which deepened his depresion because of his insecurity and made his drug addiction worse

Media: Kurt Cobain was a rock star junkie who hated fame and commited suicide because of it at age 27

People: Kurt Cobain is an emo pussy! He was a coward for killing himself and he was a junkie loser! He was always complaining about how his life sucked and the only thing he did is whine and sing about depression!

thenorthernicewing  asked:

How do you feel about a lot of the criticism and general unhappiness directed at SU lately?

I’ve been living my life so I’m not up on the latest discourse. I’ll take a stab at the usual gripes:

  • Production inconsistencies (heights, etc.): Noticeable but not really bothersome to me.
  • Lull in the story: Downtime always precedes lead up to a conflict and/or lore dump. Exciting things will happen eventually.
  • Character/Ship hate: Don’t care

In any case, I’m still gonna be over here in my little corner drawing comics and hunky quartzes and anyone who’s about that life is welcome to join me.

When people are talking about DA characters in modern AUs, they usually give them ordinary professions, and that’s cool, but give me modern AU where darkspawn are still around and Grey Wardens are some kind of special forces with all modern gear

also darkspawn can sense them anyway, so they don’t really care about camouflage

y’all… the podcasters from after/buzz have a special guest on today’s after show. the time should be the same: 9 pm pst, but i‘ll post the link when it’s available.

as usual please refrain from asking about ships, because we’ve seen how cringy that gets and they’re clearly biased towards… you know what sooo..

also the episodes they are commenting today should be space mall and the blade of marmora, and the latter is a very important keith centric episode….so if the guest is steven…oh boy

What Obama opposers were worried about: their excess money being taken away and given to someone who needs it more, being too nice and accidentally letting bad people into the country, conspiracy theories about the president that confirmed their racist and islamophobic views

What Trump opposers are worried about: having essential human rights taken away, having freedom of speech taken away, having access to lifesaving medical care denied, vulnerable refugees from other countries being denied sanctuary, widespread and government-sanctioned racism, sexism, antisemitism, islamophobia, and homophobia, women’s reproductive rights being taken away, having journalistic integrity and the reporting of facts refuted by the government to gaslight the populace, presidential power rising to the point of dictatorship, government backing of war atrocities by Vladimir Putin, the rise of white nationalist and nazi groups, mass government censorship, being deported, being killed by police, having the president insult other world leaders and cause a nuclear war…

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I will have a lot more to say about the new episode of Class in the morning, but for now I just feel the need to mention two things:

1. April’s dad “barricading” the door with a flimsy little end table, proving that no matter how good his intentions are he is still mostly a useless idiot.

2. Matteusz feeling the need to take a slight detour on the way to saving the world so he could jump up on a bench and be even taller than usual for a couple of seconds, proving once again that he is one of the most precious creatures in the whoniverse.

Lazycity Super Sexual Headcanons

Sporty is a switch. Usually a top, can be a powerbottom. Constant consent checks. Super careful starting out but can get a little rough once he loses himself.

Rob is %100 a pillow prince. Very vocal but has trouble making words. Whines. Like. A. Dog.

Glitterdick is bossy as hell. Complete power bottom. Feral and somewhat masochistic. Is he fighting or fucking? Who knows?

Ibuprofen is somewhere between being a strict but gentle Dom and horribly vanilla and it’s a weird mix but it works??

okay, but: yuri on ice soulmates au, the kind where you have their first words on your body somewhere. 

the banquet happens as in canon, but viktor is EVEN MORE lovestruck, because this adorably drunk japanese studmuffin is his soulmate. he has always wondered about the future of his career, knowing that his soulmate would ask him to coach them, but he is unprepared for just how much he wants to throw himself headlong into doing everything he can for this cutie.

only yuuri, blackout drunk as he was, not only doesn’t remember, but also runs away from him the next day.

viktor is pretty crushed about this, thinking that his soulmate doesn’t want him, and nearly quits skating himself. until the stay close to me video. that, to viktor, reads as “i’m sorry for running away, but i’m ready now.” obviously, he immediately rushes off to hasetsu. and hey- yuuri wanted him to coach him, so viktor can kill two birds with one stone!! brilliant!!!

meanwhile, yuuri goes through the exact same freakout as in canon, but with the added stress of trying not to fall for viktor because he’s not his soulmate, damn it! viktor is crushed to find his efforts rebuffed, but tries to give yuuri whatever space he needs- after all, yuuri is the one who reached out and called him to japan. so maybe this is just him being scared of rushing into things- fine, viktor can respect that. they can totally just take things slowly. they don’t have to act like soulmates yet- they can just be boyfriends! 

and sure enough, they grow together over time. china happens, and their relationship takes a huge leap forward. (viktor doesn’t even THINK about threatening to leave yuuri, let alone actually do it, but they still have a much-needed talk in that parking lot.) they make it to barcelona, where they independently buy each other rings. viktor is thrilled beyond belief- finally, he can show his love for yuuri to the world!

(yuuri protests to himself -even harder than in canon- that they’re just good luck charms. so what if he’s been looking up stories of soulmates that didn’t work out. and of purely platonic soulmates. and non-soulmate couples. and every conceivable type of non-traditional relationsh- OKAY, HE’LL ADMIT IT, HE’S GOT IT BAD.)

finally, we get to that scene in the restaurant, where viktor just about has an aneurism. because holy. fucking. shit. HIS SOULMATE HAD NO IDEA THAT THEY HAD ALREADY EXCHANGED WORDS. all of his efforts at being coy, at respecting yuuri’s not wanting to talk about their relationship; it’s all completely backfired. all he’s done is hurt yuuri all this time. he’s the worst soulmate ever, god, how can he ever look yuuri in the face again?!? 

meanwhile, yuuri.exe has crashed. he could have had this AGES ago. EVERYBODY IN THE ENTIRE SKATING COMMUNITY KNEW EXCEPT HIM. why did nobody ever mention- oh god, this explained so many weird comments! chris even has pictures of them posing with their words! (he is a dead man.)

yuuri goes on to win the gold at the grand prix, and he and viktor get married in the most disgustingly adorable ceremony the world has ever seen. the triplets gleefully inform the internet of the whole convoluted story. everyone lives happily ever after. 

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here are some types of girl group fans i’ve encountered in all these years of listening to kpop:

 the ‘special snowflake’ fan. they think that stanning underrated girl groups no one ever heard of and cares about makes them so much better than the whole kpop fandom. usually very openly bitter and petty towards successful and popular female idols. without a doubt, they hate boy groups too. they think they’re superior because they get wet over hello venus’ lime instead of red velvet’s seulgi or something. still waiting for after school to comeback, but everyone except them knows it’s not gonna happen anymore.

✨  the ‘i love all girls’ fan. nothing wrong with them, i’m just genuinely surprised they actually have the energy to love so many girls and have so many biases. always puts emojis or cheesy stuff in the tags about any girl they reblog. they’re like a girl group encyclopedia seriously. they come in more flavors though: hates boy groups, doesn’t care about boy groups, or likes a few of them tho nothing serious.

 the one-fandom fan. ah, now here it gets a bit more complicated. these fans like a certain girl group very much (and a few others too, but never as much as their true loves whoever they may be), but they don’t shy away from constantly putting down other girl groups to uplift their own biases at any given time. usually the groups who have such fans are snsd, twice, gfriend, red velvet, f(x) or blackpink. they usually spend time on twitter and you will always see them fighting between each other. might use the phrase “queens of [uncomfortably specific thing]” when talking about their fave girls.

✨  the ‘i hate twice’ girl group fan. they are the 2017 version of kpop fans who back in the day used to force themselves to like wonder girls or 2ne1 just to piss off sones and snsd. this new type of fan usually stans other girl groups as long as it gives them the chance to make more tweets about hating ‘twix’ or something. usually the groups they like are successful and popular and have been mentioned above. sometimes this type of fan blends in with the ‘one-fandom’ or even ‘special snowflake’, but ya know, there’s always minor differences. these fans live more for hating twice than actually supporting their faves.

the bangtan girl group fan. yes. you read that right. they like a lot of girl groups, but nothing and no one actually beats bangtan in their heart. they usually have aesthetic tumblrs and their descriptions are always like “i’m [name] and i love [bangtan member]”, tho usually it’s jimin, jhope or sometimes suga. but the url is ALWAYS about a girl group, their icon is a female idol, but ya know, their posts say otherwise. might dislike rap monster, tho it’s not always the case.

the ‘i like hardcore concepts only’ fan. these are among some of the most annoying. they like girl groups as long as they have hardcore (no, not sexy) concepts, hip-hop inspired and ya know, other stereotypical masculine bullshit like that. most likely hate cute and feminine girl groups and never miss a chance to say how much they dislike them. is most of the time if not always an army. they used to fall into the ‘i like 2ne1 and boy groups only’ category, but now that 2ne1 is gone, they probably cling to blackpink or red velvet or sometimes f(x). probably stans clc now too.

which one are u? and do u think there’s other types i’ve missed?

Been busy with stuff and things, so have a cropped version of a drawing I did back in 2014 and never posted on this blog

(Please do not repost or use this or any of my art for fanmix covers, graphic edits and so on thanks)

Just watched ep 14 of WFKBJ and saw the ep 15 preview and I’m so overwhelmed with feels ;u;

I just love this drama on so many different levels. It’s so full of heart, so grounded and unpretentious. The emotions portrayed are often so raw, and so so relatable – I truly care about the characters on this show and want each and every one of them to be happy. I’m amazed at how much I’m enjoying this drama because it’s so fluffy and I usually don’t like overly fluffy dramas but this show is fluffy in the most genuine and unpretentious way possible. The show sucks you right in and takes you through a whirlwind of emotions – I’m not the one in a relationship, it’s bok joo and joon hyung, but I feel so giddy with love along with them??

And what I especially love about this show is that it’s free from all the unnecessary angst and misunderstandings which often get blown out of proportion in dramaland. Sure, everyone have their sad moments and low points in life and relationships are never smooth sailing. That’s perfectly normal. BUT these characters eventually talk it out and resolve their problems with maturity. And that’s such an accurate representation of real life because communication is key to any relationship, be it romantic, between siblings, or in friendship.

Have I also mentioned how I love that the drama goes against so many drama cliches? Something happens in the drama, I sense that it’s probably an opportunity to insert a particular drama cliche (piggybacking her after a round of alcohol, shielding her from the splash from a puddle of water, lying to her about visiting your ex……), and my mind goes PLEASE DON’T but I’m subconsciously resigned to the fact that this is dramaland and it’s probably gonna happen anyway but IT DIDN’T HAPPEN and I’m all like bless you scriptwriter-nim.