i don't understand where you're all coming from

It's okay to be a man who...
  • Is emotionally sensitive
  • Is honest about having feelings
  • Is open about having flaws
  • Likes cute and pretty things
  • Likes dressing in cute and pretty things
  • Is delicate
  • Is elegant
  • Is unsure whether it’s okay to be those things
  • Dances and sings with enthusiasm and heart
  • Empathizes with the feelings and experiences of others
  • Admits being wrong
  • Cries

And it’s understandable that you’re afraid to show all of that to a world that seems determined to erase it from you.

No matter what they say, you are who you are.

camryndwn-deactivated20170625  asked:

What are with all these asks about how you're not perfect😂 like,,, where did that come from? People are hating on mistakes that u make even though you make very few and you always fix them? Like??? I really don't understand why people try and find literally anything that you're doing wrong and use it against you when you're such a good person? And you're sensitive to other people's issues? You dont have to post this publicly if you dont want more of this on your blog.

Hahah awwww first, if you’re asking about the previous ask, I honestly don’t think they meant any harm by it! And I also don’t know what everyone has been through in their lives, and truly I think its important to recognize when I’ve done something wrong. Maybe an ask is asked strongly, but I just assume it’s for good reason and I deserve the treatment. I don’t know if that’s a healthy way of thinking, maybe I have to work on that lol. BUT people like you swoop on up here and offer a beautiful message and that means the world to me, truly. So thank you for bearing with me as I continue to work on things I need to work on.

anonymous asked:

i don't think the first ark is bad or anything, i just feel like it does a bad job representing hxh as a whole. i had a lot of issues with the first half of the chimera ant ark, but i kept going because at that point i was already invested. but when you're just starting and don't know anything about hxh the first ark can really put you off because you think this is all hxh has to offer

oh, totally. the first arc is so different from the rest of hxh for a lot of reasons. one is that we have no understanding of nen, it kind of comes off as some other shounen shows where people can do really outrageously cool/magical things for seemingly no good reason? (”oh, of course hisoka can just magically generate playing cards, okay. that’s just the way it is i suppose.”) but i guess in order to break tropes you need to set them up to begin with and i would reason that’s why the first arc is necessary the way it is. also, we’re able to focus on character introductions because we’re not focusing on learning the magic system.

anyway, a BIG disappointment in the first arc for me was the lack of female characters and how the few that existed were treated. it definitely doesn’t give you a good sense of how the rest of the series is going to be.

anonymous asked:

What the fuck is wrong with me that I can never understand your answers. I know you're trying to make a point, but I don't get it. FML, now I'm depressed.

Cheer up. The point was I had just come from the grocery store where I had no choice but to catch up on the Harry Megan watch according to the tabloid experts displayed in such a way that I had to browse them while being rung up.

I’ve nothing else to say about pimp master Samwise and his supposed sideho parade. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Nothing at all has changed in my mind. Show me all the SM poppycock you can spin out your arse, at the end of the day…. Time. Human nature. I know what I know.

For Your Sass Master (Someecards + Anne Taintor Starters)
  • "Good morning. I see the assassins have failed."
  • "Well that's a level of incompetence I have not seen before."
  • "Did it hurt when you came up out of the ground from Hell?"
  • "I'd call you a douchebag but that'd imply you could get near a vagina."
  • "Here, let me wipe that bullshit from your mouth."
  • "My business isn't your business so unless you're my thong don't be up my ass."
  • "Two things. 1. Where have you been all my life? 2. Can you please go back there?"
  • "I'd like to say I understand your point of view. Unfortunately, I'm not batshit crazy too - so that's impossible."
  • "Your crazy is showing; you might wanna tuck that back in."
  • "Well aren't you just a fun little lollipop triple dipped in psycho."
  • "I feel a spree coming on. It's either a shopping one or a killing one. The choice is totally up to you."
  • "Oh darling, I don't do spite. I do karma."
  • "Look...I'm trying to rant here. Stop interrupting me with 'facts' and 'reason'."
  • "Honey, you couldn't handle half of me."
  • "Think of me as a challenge."
  • "Ladies and gentleman, may I have your undivided attention please; I'm happy to announce that shit just got real."
  • "I propose a toast to the booze for making you all seem tolerable."
  • "If some people were on fire, I'd happily toast marshmallows"
  • "According to serving sizes, I'm a family of four."
  • "Salmonella my ass, I'm eating the batter."
  • "I can't tell if I'm dealing well with life these days or I just don't give a shit anymore."
  • "Of course I talk to myself. Sometimes I need expert advice."
  • "I get enough exercise just pushing my luck."
  • "Put on your life preserver, I'm about to rock this boat."
  • "I think we should just be friends with sexual tension."
  • "You are going to be fine. You come from a strong line of lunatics."
  • "Nothing you say can shock me honey."
  • "Of course you look good. I don't have ugly friends."
  • "I believe we have an opportunity to make some extremely poor choices."
  • "We're total fucking badasses."
  • "You have a sick, twisted mind. Do you want to be my friend?"
How the signs react to 'why I hate your sign'
  • Aries: This is so painfully true, I am an asshole.
  • Taurus: Sad to hear but I do understand where they're coming from.
  • Gemini: Ouchh aha not true, I AM GREAT :-)
  • Cancer: This is mean but true :-(
  • Leo: So accurate I'm scared of myself.
  • Virgo: This is so fake, I fucking hate you and astrology. You're so mean and rude, this isn't true at all. *cries*
  • Libra: This is true. Damn, I didn't realise. I'll try to change.
  • Scorpio: That's only at my worst, you don't know all of me.
  • Sagittarius: Wow, that was... some of that was... I just... yeah. You didn't need to say it like that, but yeah.
  • Capricorn: Some is true. ONLY SOME. The rest is bullshit.
  • Aquarius: So fucking untrue. I am so offended. Maybe other Aquas but not me because I'm a special Aqua *flips hair*
  • Pisces: Ughhhhhh, it's true but I try so hard for it not to be.
Music Sentence Starters
  • "We're running with the shadows of the night."
  • "I want it more than the same routine."
  • "We could make the same mistake or we could turn and run away."
  • "I'll never let you be alone."
  • "When the world falls into pieces you'll be the one voice of reason."
  • "I swear I'd let you go."
  • "Together we fall, together we fly away."
  • "I've got the magic in me."
  • "You and I fighting for the art of war."
  • "I'm a soldier, up against the wall"
  • "I will never fall."
  • "Keep holding on all through the night."
  • "You're so fine, and you're mine."
  • "Getting paid is her forte."
  • "I like the way you work it."
  • "Where is my proposal?"
  • "Marry me, I'll be you queen bee."
  • "You got a tendency for taking all your clothes off."
  • "Oh man, hot damn, I'm falling hard."
  • "Now everything I do seem right."
  • "So let me see you break it down."
  • "Country girl shake it for me, girl."
  • "So come on over and get in my arms, spin me around this big old barn, tangle me up like grandma's yarn."
  • "All I wanna do is get to holdin you, get to know you, and showin you, and get to loving you 'fore this night is through."
  • "It's the terror of knowing what this world is about."
  • "Pray tomorrow takes me higher."
  • "I want everything back but you."
  • "She's has always been neither ball or white."
  • "And to his surprise, she's like tomorrow."
  • "All the time she slips away, close and yet so far."
  • "It's time to follow her tomorrow."
  • "He only thinks today."
  • "This is what I brought you, this you can keep."
  • "Kiss my eyes and lay me to sleep."
  • "This is what I thought, so think me naive."
  • "Or you can start speaking up."
  • "I wonder what would happen if you say what you wanna say."
  • "Honestly, I wanna see you be brave."
  • "Let your words be anything but empty."
  • "Let the words fall out."
  • "See them running for their lives."
  • "Nice work you did. You're gonna go far, kid."
  • "Hey, mister, won't you sell me a fake id?"
  • "It's only twenty minutes till the show."
  • "Just make sure that it looks like me."
  • "I got smoke in my hair."
  • "How'd I get home from the club?"
  • "All my friends say I started shooting doubles..."
  • "I was a rock star, party hard, getting over you come back kid."
  • "I'm in love with a fairy tale, even though it hurts."
  • "I'm already cursed."
  • "Remember that you're not alone."
  • "Take a breath and let it go."
  • "Just keep breathing."
  • "The begins just another end."
  • "Here we go again."
  • "Run away with me."
  • "I wanna be your lost boy."
  • "I'm on fire."
  • "Sister's got a boyfriend daddy doesn't like."
  • "Baby come give me a kiss."
  • "Put me on the cover of the Rolling Stone."
  • "We're a little messed up but we're all alright."
  • "We are the lions."
  • "We're the begin of the end."
  • "Tonight foxes hunt the hounds."
  • "We've already won."
  • "Say I never mattered."
  • "We will teach you how to make boys next door out of assholes."
  • "We are wild."
  • "You're just a hideaway."
  • "You're just a chance I take to keep on dreamin."
  • "Hideaway with me some more."
  • "Wanna say all the things I need to say."
  • "My tongue is weak and every time I try to speak I can say nothing at all."
  • "Sleep well, good night."
  • "I'll hold my tongue for the rest of my life."
  • "I can't keep this up anymore."
  • "Look at the stars instead of the dark."
  • "You'll find your heart shines like the sun."
  • "That's why you've gotta be strong tonight."
  • "You stole my heart."
  • "I let you see the parts of me that weren't all that pretty."
  • "Just give me reason, just a little bits enough."
  • "We can learn to love again."
  • "I'm sorry I don't understand where all of this is coming from."
  • "My dear we still have everything."
  • "You're not broken, just bent."
  • "Our loves enough."
  • "Nothing is as bad as it seems."
Asking The Signs for Advice...
  • Aries: "Fuck it ya know? Just don't let it get to you so much, like fuck it."
  • Taurus: "You kind of have to uh, uninvolve yourself when things start to get unhealthy."
  • Gemini: "Wow...what the fuck... why would they do that to you...? Wow I feel so bad for you oh my God people are fucking assholes..."
  • Cancer: "I totally understand where you're coming from, love. If there's anything I can do please let me know."
  • Leo: "I just wanted to let you know you're amazing and beautiful and fantastic no matter what and when this is all over we're gonna go get some ice cream okay?!"
  • Virgo: "Stop. Do you hear yourself right now? Try to look at it more objectively."
  • Libra: "Well, I think you should just drop it and give everyone another chance. Maybe they'll be sorry for letting you down in due time."
  • Scorpio: "If they did you dirty you have every right to do them just the same if not worse."
  • Sagittarius: "Oh, but who cares about that? We'll get your mind off of it, wanna hang out?"
  • Capricorn: "If you never make a change then how do you expect to see any sort of a result?"
  • Aquarius: "Fuck that just take some time to yourself, watch a movie, put your phone down."
  • Pisces: "Have you tried talking to them and telling them how you felt? Want me to talk to them for you? It's okay love, I'm here, I care."

notally  asked:

Hey, Rosie. I understand you're annoyed by fanfic writers. I don't write it, nor ship you or Rose with anybody. I think you guys are cute & happy together & that's all, but I hope what you meant to say was directed towards the love stories. There's so much fic that isn't just sex & relationships. It's creative writing that people enjoy because the setting &/or characters are already there so they don't have to worry & can just write. I hope you understand where I'm coming from. Lots of love xoxo

Right just to clear this whole thing up because I’ve been getting so many messages about it all.

In my original post the only fanfic I slagged off was about fictional relationships. I didn’t say ALL fan fiction was weird or whatever I specifically said the fanfic that is about relationships.

And I have good reason to say that and stand by what I said because it hurts peoples feelings. I’m a very open, honest and opinionated person on the internet so I tell it like it is but not everyone will be as honest. I think it’s a very messy thing to write about other peoples relationships. And that’s understandable. I said it was weird and Pervy because I think imagining my partner with someone else, no matter WHO they are, is fucking awful and horrible. And it IS pervy to imagine my gf having sex with Grace. I completely stand by what I say.

But if you read it I didn’t criticise all fanfic I said just those that are about relationships. I also said why waste talent and that some of those fanfic writers could write a book. BUT THAT’S JUST MY OPINION!! Which I am entitled to!

Do I feel a book would be more worthwhile? Um, yes. Why? Fanfic is on the internet but only read by those interested and involved. Books are published, marketed and can make you established. Can win you awards. Can make you rich. Can live on in libraries forever. I thought if you write fanfic you’re obviously a writer so just go for it p>

The only thing I see that I said that May be offensive is about the holy trinity. People are right, I cannot talk on their behalf. I was going by videos I’ve seen of them reading out fanfic. Like I said, I’d rather have an established book than a fanfic that can be seen as being mocked. But I can’t tell you guys how Grace, Mamrie and Hannah feels. SORRY to upset you on that. But fanfic written about Rose and Grace personally offends me. And Rose finds it inappropriate.

anonymous asked:

I'm sorry about all the people who say things such as "at least you don't get periods" or "at least you can have sex as many times as you want and not get pregnant" because you're going through something no one should have to go through and instead of comforting you they're making these comments. Your blog is amazing, you are so sweet and strong and you shouldn't have to go through all this bullshit

you are sweet, thank you. I get where the people are coming from, it’s more humor and looking on the bright side. As long as people are willing to understand the bad stuff I am all about looking on the positive side :)

wonder-brat  asked:

To the last anon about being really skinny and not liking it: I understand completely where you're coming from. All through high school I was teased for being so thin and lanky, I was even called anorexic and I made the mistake of letting it get to me. Don't let others tell you what you are, if you're healthy PLEASE stay that way. Curves come with age so don't think it's the end. Everyone is beautiful, always remember that.

True that 💙

anonymous asked:

Why dont you use emojis in you're texts? It looks so fake if you don't cause I'm pretty sure the guys would use a lot of them

Ah, really? I don’t really use emojis all that much when I type except for the blue heart, but I guess I understand where you’re coming from. I’m sorry if I haven’t been relatable. 

BUT FIRST

Let’s see how Mark would bring up the same question anon just asked~

To be brutally honest, I don’t think he’d mind if I was being old fashioned and not using emojis ;)