i don't understand how you're finding me

anonymous asked:

I love your work and I was so happy to find that to had a Tumblr. I don't know if you're the right person to ask, but I really respect how intelligent you are and I'm hoping you can help. I'm a bisexual woman who is in a long term relationship with a man. I love him dearly. But because I'm in a passing relationship, I'm starting to feel the hate from my fellow queers, who are passively shaming me for who I fell in love with. What should I do? I never got treated like this dating women.

I completely understand. I had exactly the same thing happen to me. Gay women mistakenly think that dating a man magically makes you heterosexual, forgetting of course that men don’t magically cure you of your love for women and other genders, and that all that sleeping with a man makes you is sleeping with a man. 

The ‘passing privilege’ is something I specifically want to address. 

We all have passing privilege. All of us have different levels of passing privilege. Every single one of you will pass at some point in your lives, ranging from either just online to every situation you’re in. For most people, when you walk down the street, people assume you’re cishet. When you interact with someone new they ask you about your ‘husband’ or ‘boyfriend’ (and if you have one!) and any children. People assume you are straight. ‘Passing privilege’ is not something exclusive to bisexual folks, and just because there are a few more situations they can pass in, and a few more obstacles they avoid, doesn’t mean they don’t face most of the discrimination like gay folks do. 

FURTHERMORE, bisexuals may sometimes avoid some of the obstacles gay people face when they date someone that appears to make them look like a cishet couple, but in avoiding those, they face something incredibly isolating that we all understand: being invisible, and feeling like no one understands. 

When I was dating a (lovely) man in my mid-twenties, every time someone would say something homophobic, I felt it. Every time someone would assume I was with a man, even though I was actually with a man, I noticed. Every time the government debated gay marriage and gay rights I intimately felt all that stuff because you know what? I’m still queer. I still love women. That part of me didn’t magically disappear. My boyfriend didn’t understand, either, because he was like, “At least that doesn’t affect you anymore!” Yeah, babe. It actually DOES affect me. I’m not straight. 

Worse: my mother acted like I was ‘cured’ when I was dating him. She was so overjoyed, and that broke my fucking heart because nothing had changed about me. I was the same. She just didn’t like the bisexual truth about me. So the idea that I get to have my parents acceptance and love is false, because that’s not what I had. I had conditional acceptance, and believe me, it hurt. Because it wasn’t for all of me. 

On top of that, every time I dated a guy, my lesbian friends would essentially excommunicate me. They’d stop inviting me out for ‘girl drinks’. They’d talk about me behind my back. They’d all have fun without me and the message was clear: you’re not welcome here anymore. Nothing about me had changed at all, nothing: but by dating a man, somehow I was suddenly ‘impure’ and unwelcome in ‘pure’ lesbian spaces. It was disgusting. I even had a lesbian call me a “sperm recepticle” once, which is not only biphobic, but transphobic to the fucking max. 

Bisexual folks face many (all, if they’re dating someone of the same gender!) of the same obstacles gay folks face with the addition of straight people and gay people dismissing them. 

So: don’t let anyone tell you you’re not queer. Don’t let them passively excommunicate you: CALL them on it. Tell them nothing has changed. You’re still attracted to women, and sleeping with a man doesn’t change that one bit. Don’t let them discriminate against you without (gently, or not gently, if necessary!) calling them on it. 

You’re just as queer as they are. You’re just a different sort of queer. You’re not a lesser queer. You’re not an ‘impure’ queer. You’re a different flavour of queer and the rainbow needs all colours <3

Betrayal starters
  • "I know you're hiding something from me."
  • "I trusted you!"
  • "I'm not angry. Just...tell me why."
  • "The truth hurts, doesn't it?"
  • "Tell me. What was I to you?"
  • "You shouldn't have trusted me to begin with."
  • "This has to be a misunderstanding."
  • "You're seeing someone else, aren't you?"
  • "Please...trust me one more time."
  • "I won't forgive you. I'll never forgive you."
  • "I didn't want you to find out this way."
  • "I trust you. Even if I don't understand your reasons, I still trust you!"
  • "Wait. I can explain!"
  • "I lied."
  • "How could I forget what you did?"
  • "You wouldn't understand."
  • "This is goodbye. Don't try and look for me."

kayjaydee17  asked:

I've been playing the 'cute girl who likes shiny things' role with a lot of my POTs, which makes it really easy for me to ask for a gift for the first meeting; I just do the "are you going to bring me something pretty? ;)" thing, but I don't quite know how to change that to ask for something financial (because, lbr, I'd rather have cash than something shiny). I find it a bit harder to be cute when asking for money. Any advice? I know you're more Dommy, though, so I understand if you don't.

Hello!

If you are uncomfortable asking for cash upon meeting, I would suggest the following:

I’m looking forward to meeting you, I was wondering if you could possibly help me out with my cab fare/hair/nails, etc. I want to look my best for you on our date :)

Men have an easier time gifting you cash if they believe it’s for their benefit. Furthermore, by wording it this way, they see it in a perspective where you are doing it for them, rather than for greed ;)

I get so many kind words pelted at me pretty much daily that I have no idea why I haven’t spontaneously combusted yet
I always find things like this comment in tags or on reblogs or in comments just like this and aflpywkwvrjwowbdntkwoqpqjerbtbwkejwjrjrhrjsssehwhwh

On top of that I’m 10 away from 400 followers right now and that’s also internal screaming material

How is this happening
What is this sorcery

Teen Wolf - Sentence Starters
  • "What you've got to do is eat this entire bowl of jello"
  • "You're the bad guy/girl I'm pretty sure helping you is a bad idea"
  • "When has everything ever been so black and white?"
  • "You can't just poke around and expect to find a supernatural train station"
  • "You have no self preservation instincts. How are you my daughter/son?"
  • "You are afraid to remember him/her because you are afraid of what it means"
  • "I'm not the babysitting type"
  • "Why don't you try and help me understand what the hell happened here?"
  • "Plan A never works"
  • "You saved my life once. Now, I'm going to save yours"
  • "Okay that's disconcerting, I should probably have a gun"
  • "Well, I don't think the charities would agree"
  • "I'm not paying for the windows"
  • "______, please, look at me. You're going to make it"
  • "If we're going to be friends, you're going to have to learn to trust me"
  • "Are you telling me we came all the way down here to be stopped by an ordinary key?"
  • "I'm saying there's nothing we can do, legally"
  • "So you listen to all of my phone calls?"
  • "No a body of water? Yes dumb ass, a dead body"
  • "That's great, now moving on..."
  • "That was fun. Anymore lethal weapons you want to try out?"
  • "I am part of an online gaming community that battles mythical creatures"
  • "Are you serious? Have you still not seen Star Wars?"
  • "Can I see you in my office? Where I keep my guns"
  • "you don't need instructions. You're too smart. When have you ever needed instructions?"
  • "You told him his sister/brother came back from the dead by a text?"
  • "How are we supposed to trigger a memory that we don't remember?"
the signs as songs by Beyoncé
  • Aries: Beautiful Liar
  • "You'll never know why are we the ones who suffer;
  • Have to let go, he won't be the one to cry"
  • Taurus: Love On Top
  • "Nothing's perfect, but it's worth it after fighting through my tears and finally you put me first"
  • Gemini: Irreplaceable
  • "I can have another you by tomorrow;
  • So don't you ever for a second get to thinking you're irreplaceable"
  • Cancer: Best Thing I Never Had
  • "Another world, another life;
  • Thank God I found the good in goodbye"
  • Leo: Sweet Dreams
  • "I wish that when I wake up you're there to wrap your arms around me for real and tell me you'll stay by my side"
  • Virgo: Listen
  • "I'm more than what you made of me; I followed the voice you gave to me but now I've gotta find my own"
  • Libra: Crazy In Love
  • "The way that you know what I thought I knew,
  • It's the beat my heart skips when I'm with you;
  • But I still don't understand, just how your love can do what no one else can"
  • Scorpio: Partition
  • "I just wanna be the girl you like, girl you like;
  • The kinda girl you like is right here with me"
  • Sagittarius: Diva
  • "I know you read the paper, the one that they call a queen; Every radio round the world know me 'cause that's where I be"
  • Capricorn: Single Ladies
  • "I need no permission, did I mention, Don't pay him any attention; 'Cause you had your turn, and now you gonna learn what it really feels like to miss me"
  • Aquarius: Countdown
  • "Oh, you got me all gone, don't ever let me go;
  • Say it real loud if you fly, if you leave me you're out of your mind"
  • Pisces: Halo
  • "Hit me like a ray of sun burning through my darkest night; You're the only one that I want, 'Think I'm addicted to your light"

anonymous asked:

Hey sorry to bother you but I kinda need cheering up cos my cats gone missing and I'm worried eeeugh I know it stupid but u cheer me up with your art and how nice you are and bleaugh I'm rambling nm

I hope things get better, m’dude! Here’s a Sakura cheering you on <3

'Miss Saigon' Sentence Starters
  • "Just give that virgin act a rest."
  • "I got an itch and, baby, you'd better scratch it."
  • "They swear like men, they screw like boys."
  • "I will not cry, I will not think."
  • "Man, you need some action to clear your head."
  • "Why does nothing here make sense?"
  • "I want my memories as they were, but now I'll leave remembering her/him."
  • "I have had my fill of pain, I will not look back again. I would rather die."
  • "One and the same, you and I."
  • "When you were in trouble, man, I covered for you!"
  • "You have no right to be here, I'm not a prize you can claim."
  • "Go on and shoot! I will not change my mind."
  • "You are still mine. You're mine until we die."
  • "Stay with me, and hold me tight, and dance like it's the last night of the world."
  • "The time will come when nothing keeps us apart."
  • "What's haunting you?"
  • "There's a big screw loose inside you, I will rip it out of your head!"
  • "Do you see now who has power?"
  • "I am talking of life or death now, I am talking of staying free!"
  • "I'm warning you, for him/her, I'll kill!"
  • "If you want to die in bed, don't care too much for country."
  • "No-one can stop what I must do."
  • "I swear, I'd give my life for you."
  • "She has a child. You have a son/daughter."
  • "Hahahahahaha! I'm depressed."
  • "You will never be free; not as long as there's me!"
  • "He/She betrayed you once, and he will again."
  • "Get back, I tell you, don't shout!"
  • "They'll kill who they find here, don't leave us behind here!"
  • "It could kill her/him to lose you. And maybe, just maybe, you need her/him too."
  • "If you're hers/his, then be hers/his, and forget about me now!"
  • "_____ is smart, she/he'll understand."
  • "I still taste your kisses."
  • "Perfume can cover a stench, that's what I learned from the French."
  • "I'm too good to waste my talent for greed."
  • "Girls can buy tits by the pair, the American dream!"
  • "Just sell your soul and you gain the American dream."
  • "Is this too much? I can never tell."
  • "Hold me one last time."
  • "How in one night have we come so far?"
"I'm breaking up with you.." "Why?"
  • Aries: You don't excite me anymore.
  • Taurus: You don't show me how much you care.
  • Gemini: I'm feeling tied down and I can't handle it.
  • Cancer: I just don't see a future with you.
  • Leo: You don't pay any attention to me anymore.
  • Virgo: I don't feel appreciated.
  • Libra: I don't find you attractive anymore.
  • Scorpio: We just don't have a strong connection anymore.
  • Sagittarius: I don't feel like myself when I'm around you.
  • Capricorn: You're not taking this seriously.
  • Aquarius: You don't understand or accept me for who I am.
  • Pisces: You didn't love me the way I wanted you to.
BAP and BTS finding out their CEO told their gf (you) to break up with him.

Anon said: Could you pls do BAP’s reaction to their ceo telling her that she should break up with him. And he somehow found that out

Anon said: Anyoong ^^ Your reactions are awesome *-* Could you pls do BTS reaction to them finding out that their gf wants to break up with them because the ceo told her so

 _____________________________________________________________ BAP:

Youngjae:

When finding out:

*growl*‘noOO’

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Confronting you:

*sad smile, teary eyes and hoarse broken voice*

’.. You can’t leave me.. I love you’

Zelo:

When finding out:

*quiet whisper*

'Please God have mercy..’

Confronting you:

*at some place with a mic and a shitload of cameras*

'You know what, I quit. I don’t care how many lawsuits I need to file but no one is gonna take you away from me.’

Himchan:

When finding out:

'No way in Hell, did he just..?’

Confronting you:

You: 'Hims, I..’

Himchan: 'Fuck that shit, you’re not going anywhere.’

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Jongup:

When finding out:

'Ah, so today is the day I turn into a murderer?’

Confronting you:

'Living without you will be like living without air. How am I supposed to continue with the burning in my chest increasing until I’m on my back, gasping for air?’

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Yongguk:

When finding out:

'RUde..’

Confronting you:

'You know I won’t let you do this.’

Daehyun:

When finding out:

*blank stare*

Confronting you:

'Why don’t you just rip my heart out aswell if you’re leaving anyway?’

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Bts:

Jimin:

When finding out:

'Wat.’

Confronting you:

'But you LOVE me. How can that mean so little to you? Don’t you understand  I don’t care about my career as much as I care aout you?’

Jin:

When finding out:

'I’d like to see him try’

Confronting you:

’..You’re serious about leaving, aren’t you?’

V:

When finding out:

'Woah, woah, woah, woah, hol’ up a sec.’

Confronting you:

’… You know I USED to like our CEO.. I might just leave the company instead of you leaving me..’

Suga:

When finding out:

*storming though the crowd like*

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Confronting you:

’..I’m not gonna let you leave, you know?’

Jungkook:

When finding out:

'No, she loves me. She would never leave me.’

Confronting you:

'Yeah… about you leaving me and all.. no..’

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Rap Monster:

When finding out:

'How the fuck am I gonna solve this?’

Confronting you:

'Leaving me, how.. pfft.. tss, pff, rude.. yeah no.’

J-hope:

When finding out:

//ft. V//

'Bish wut did u sai’

Confronting you:

'Ah yes, so YOU wanna leave ME for the sake of my CAREER? Do I look like I care what the CEO wants?’

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Relationship Problems {Sentence Starters}
  • "Look, I just don't think this is working."
  • "Don't bother coming back. You're not welcome here."
  • "Who the Hell was she/he?!"
  • "I never meant to hurt you like this."
  • "How can I say I'm sorry and make it up to you?"
  • "How can I even trust you anymore?!"
  • "Do you even understand what you're doing?"
  • "Get the Hell away from me! I hate you!"
  • "Maybe it's time for me to leave."
  • "I know you're cheating on me. I was just afraid to say it."
  • "I have to go. I can't be with you any longer."
  • "Look, I'm sorry! Give me another chance?"
  • "How could you do this to me? To US?!"
  • "Go away. I can't even stand to look at you right now."
  • "Could you find it in your heart to forgive me?"
  • "Don't you dare tell me to 'calm down'!"
  • "What were you doing tonight? Tell me the truth."
  • "You want my FORGIVENESS? Keep dreaming!"
  • "I know you were out with her/him!"
  • "Get out of my house and out of my life!"
  • "I can't trust anything you tell me."
  • "How can I apologize if you won't give me a chance?"
  • "Do you want your knife from my back before you go?"
  • "You promised! You PROMISED me you wouldn't!"
Detachment.
  • Friend: You miss him.
  • Me: How do you know?
  • Friend: You're seeing all these different guys, testing waters and trying to tell yourself you're having fun getting to know people and putting yourself out there but I know you. You're not the kind of girl who goes on dates with strangers you just met just because they seem nice. You're trying to forget him and the only remedy you know how is by some strike of fate you meet someone exactly like him. You're trying to find a replacement, and that's not you. You're not the kind of girl who hurts other people.
  • Me: Well, what if I'm tired? What if this time around I'm tired of being the only one hurting? Of course I miss him, but what else did you want me to do? I will never be enough for him, and I don't think you understand just how much of yourself you lose when you love that much. I lost a huge chunk of myself when I lost him, and this is me trying to pick up and save what didn't fully break.

alldogsaregreatdogs  asked:

You know, as a trans guy it's hard to find cis guys i can relate to, you know? like, most aren't comfortable with femininity or don't really get it. I can relate to you. You're super polite and know about this stuff. And you don't pretend to understand something you've never gone through, instead you acknowledge you'll never fully get it and try to help out how you can, and that makes me very happy. Thanks. :)

Aww!!! That’s wonderful! Soo happy that I can be someone you can relate to! Yeah, I think it’s important to understand that I was brought up in a society that instilled me with a lot internalized bias, and I try every day to learn about the struggles others have to go through, and try to break myself of these internalized things! The best I can do is offer as much support as possible, because, like you said, I can never truly comprehend everything you have to go through. I’m so glad I’m making this an accessible space for you. Hope I can keep learning and growing!

  • Me: *has told multiple girls, to their faces, that I find them cute/pretty/good-looking*
  • Me: *has talked about how gay I am, while I was in front of several people I knew*
  • Me: *literally carried around a notebook decorated with rainbow stickers and words like "pride" and "#lovewins" for a solid month*
  • Heteros: you're GAY??? I don't understand??? I assumed you were a Hetero??? How was I to know you're Gay???

anonymous asked:

You asked me to forgive you and I did, but forgiveness doesn't mean we can stay friends. I didn't deserve what you did to me and I don't think you are capable of understanding how much you hurt me. You're too wrapped up in yourself. You cling to the dark hollows of your life like they're your blood and I couldn't stay and be poisoned too. There was a beauty and strength in you I wanted you to see, but you couldn't let go of your darkness. I couldn't help you. I hope you find someone who can.

After watching Carter's YouNow about why him, Nash, Cam, and Hayes left magcon, I don't really feel like they had a great reason to leave. He said they left because they're all under the same management and they left because "better opportunities" came along. But actually, they just left magcon HOPING their new management would find something better than Magcon. He also mentioned how they don't wanna be branded "Magcon Boys" for the rest of their lives and how they want to be known as individuals. We understand that, and we respect that. Yeah, we call you magcon boys because as a group, that's what you are. We understand that you're individuals and we treat you like individuals. Maybe it's just me and I'm salty af, but I don't really think they had a solid reason to leave Magcon. On top of that, Hayes doesn't even wanna leave Magcon. When Jack G. texted Hayes and asked him what was going on Hayes said they're being forced to leave and it's not his choice whether he wants to leave Magcon or not. No hate please, this is just my opinion.
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All my FT3 piccys! (Please no reposting or cropping me out)

First Kiss
  • Ashton: Another party thrown at your house. Another night of your brother dragging you into everything even though all you want to do was leave and find somewhere away from your house where you could read in peace. Not tonight. Never in fact. You are pulled out of your book by your brother calling your name. You look up and see the bottle in the center of the circle pointing at you. "I'm not even playing," you tell your brother. It wasn't a lie. You are sitting on the very edge of the whole party, curled up with a book in your lap and your headphones on, trying to drown everything out. "Rules are rules, sis. And you're at this party. Into the closet you go," he tells you. You start to protest, but he's so much larger than you and just drags you to the closet, shoving you inside. You don't even know who you're in here with. This game was some hellish mixture of Spin-the-Bottle and Seven Minutes in Heaven, just what you needed. You feel a hand reach out to you, settling on your arm. You jump at the sudden contact. "Hey, hey, relax. We don't have to do anything if you don't want to. I'm Ashton, by the way," the guy says. Your breath catches in your throat. Your brother had shoved you in here because he knew you had a massive crush on Ash. You stutter out your name and he chuckles. "Figures. Your brother knows I think you're pretty," he tells you. "You think I'm what?" Your voice cracks at the end. "Pretty. I think you're pretty and different. You've always got a book in your hands and your cute little glasses on and you're never actually part of our parties. You just, you fascinate me and I never thought you'd ever speak to anyone, let alone me, and I'm rambling now, so I'll stop." You don't know how to respond to his confession. "Ashton?" you ask, deciding on a response. "Yeah?" he responds. You reach out for him, finding his neck in the dark, pulling him close to your body. He understands and his lips find yours in the dark, your first of many, many, many kisses.
  • Calum: Your head is on his lap as a stupid movie plays in the background. Your best friend is finally back from months on tour and you both are too busy catching up to watch a movie. "So, any new guys I need to beat up?" he asks casually. "Or are you still into that guy you said wouldn't give you the time of day?" You laugh and sigh before saying, "Still into that guy." Calum rolls his eyes and tells you, "Either man up and tell him or let it go. He's definitely too thick. You're great. He'll definitely go for you." You bite your lip, thinking if you should actually take his advice. After all, Calum is the guy you are hung up on. If that's what he'd want, you figure you should do just that. You sit up, facing him on the couch. "Cal, I love you," you say simply. "Love you too," he chuckles. "Do you want to restart the movie? I mean, neither one of us were really watching it." You let out a frustrated groan before saying, "No, Calum, I'm in love with you. You're the guy I'm hung up on." His eyes goes wide as they move to look at you. He swallows hard and whispers, "You're not serious." Your breaths start to become shaky because you're sure you just ruined over ten years of friendship in two sentences. "I'm serious," you say. Without hesitation, his lips crash against yours. You gasp in surprise, giving him an opportunity to slide his tongue between your lips. He pushes you back on the couch as his tongue moves expertly against yours. He's now hovering over you on the couch as your hands run up and down his chest. "I've wanted you to say that for over a year," he whispers against your throat where his lips now rest. You laugh, running one of your hands through his hair. You gasp in surprise when you feel his teeth dig into your skin. "Calum," you breathe out. "You're mine now," he whispers in your ear. "I'm making sure everyone else knows that."
  • Luke: You laugh at Luke attempting to sing in falsetto to the song playing on the radio. He laughs when he hears you laugh. You can't wipe the smile off your face when your laughter dies down. This has been the best first date of your life. A drive-in movie with a beautiful, funny, talent boy who knew to bring Sour Patch Kids and liked cuddling. Dates didn't get much better than that. You, despite your mother always telling you to never, ever, ever kiss on the first date, hope he will kiss you when he drops you off. You know you're falling for this boy, dangerously fast, but you're not going to stop yourself and you're pretty sure he isn't stopping either. When he pulls up to your house, he surprisingly gets out before you and opens your door for you. He walks you to your front step, still making you laugh with his bad jokes. "I had a great time tonight," you tell him as you reach your front porch. "Really? Good, because so did I," Luke tells you. "Can I see you again tomorrow?" You laugh at his eagerness. "Tomorrow? Aren't we rushing things?" He hesitates before he starts rambling, "Do you not want to see me tomorrow? I mean, that's okay if you don't, but I want to see you tomorrow. Hell, I don't want to stop seeing you tonight. You're just really pretty and funny and smart and so damn amazing and I'm not good enough for you, but I just don't care anymore. I really want to kiss you too, but I know I shouldn't since it's only our first date-" You cut him off by grabbing him by the collar of his shirt and pulling him down to your level, your lips connecting with his for the first time. He doesn't hesitate to pull your closer, his hands on your hips. You part when you hear the front door open. Your dad is standing there with a disapproving look. You knew he wouldn't like Luke: skinny jeans, lip piercing, in a band. He was your father's nightmare, but he was your dream that was quickly becoming a reality. "Call me?" you tell him. "Oh, definitely," he smiles at you. He nods and waves awkwardly to your father before retreating to his car, your lips still tingling where they met his.
  • Michael: You are sitting next to Michael, Wii remote in your hands and another in his. "Let's make a bet," he tells you. "You win, I have to do something you want me to do. I win, you have to do something I want you to do." You frown and say, "My clothes are staying on, Clifford." He laughs and says, "I promise. It won't be like that." You sigh and give in, making the deal. It's absolutely no surprise when he completely destroys you in Mario Kart. You're terrible at it anyway, let alone playing Michael, who is pretty much the master of Mario Kart. When he wins, you turn to him and say, "What am I doing, Michael? What terrible thing do I have to eat or tweet?" He sighs as he takes the remote from your hands and sets it on the table with his. "I'm not going to make you doing anything. I'm going to ask," he says. "May I kiss you right now?" Your eyes go wide in shock. "You're actually asking?" you choke out. Michael nods softly and says, "I don't know, okay? I'm bad at this romantic stuff. You just, you mean a lot to me and I don't want to screw this up at all." You can't stop the smile forming across your face as you lean in closer to him before pressing your lips to his, shocking him with how forward you're being. He immediately takes over control of the kiss, but doesn't take it too far. When he pulls away, you pout softly. "What?" he asks you, a chuckle in his voice as he speaks. "Why did you stop?" you reply. "Because I'm an idiot," he sighs before kissing you again. This time he deepens the kiss, making you tangle your fingers in his crazy hair as he wraps his arms around you, pulling you into his body. "My girlfriend," he mumbles when you finally pull away. "That wasn't a question, but I say yes anyway," you laugh, making him laugh with you.

anonymous asked:

Hi! I hope I'm not bothering you, but I was wondering if you could give me some advice? I'm starting to become unsure about my gender. I'm really bad at understanding myself, and though I know a lot about gender, I don't know how to "feel" what I am.If it's not to personal, how did you find out your identity?It's ok if you don't want to answer this. I think you're a rad person, and an inspiration, and I thought that you'd be the best person I could ask

I still haven’t found out my identity! It’s 100% ok to question and experiment and play and not know. Not knowing is NOT a problem. So, I have zero answers for you but that’s only because I respect you so much and know that someday, just maybe, you’ll start to live your own answers and I wouldn’t want to take that away from you. 💛💛💛