i don't understand how you are real





i thought i couldn’t fall deeper in loVE BUT I FUCKING HAVE


how is matthew daddario real? i don’t understand how someone can be so good and kind and funny and humble and smart (honor roll you guys) and supportive and talented? like he cooks a mean steak and he’s acting is amazing and his photography is mind-blowing and he mind play this piano? 

one thing i keep seeing is people, like, bringing up how yuri on ice is only letting the gay stuff happen because it’s ‘for straight people’ and a means of commodifying, like it’s not done for the sake of representation, but for the sake of pulling in that audience and making money 

WHICH I GET. and i understand that but also i think it’s a real shame that people are like, seemingly for no reason, trying to disregard what is honestly one of the most genuine and meaningful relationships between two men I’ve ever had the pleasure of seeing develop on screen. not only that, but the fact that they went that extra step and made it canon. they didn’t have to, but they did. 

i also understand people being grumpy over the fact that it’s two guys and not girls IN THAT there’s not enough happy wlw content out there in any case. BUT. i think that’s a whole other can of worms. and for people complaining specifically bc the title is ‘yuri on ice’, like… shut up, tbh. the title wasn’t misleading, you made an assumption and then turned it into a grudge that’s not warranted in any way. 

like, anyone who actually goes into the show and watches it will understand that their relationship isn’t made just for the sake of selling the anime. that may be a part of it, but it’s RADICALLY different from other anime that queerbait or have canon but clearly fetishized queer romances for the sake of appealing to a straight audience who are into it for.. whatever weird uncomfortable reason straight people froth at the mouth over that stuff. there’s real thought and care put into their relationship and it’s development - they aren’t a quick buck to be made, they’re meaningful characters and would be whether or not the romance was there at all, btw, thanks. 

i just think it’s sad and a little disappointing that in the face of something that’s made a lot of people really excited and happy to see, there are those who only want to shame people for being glad it happened, or try to undermine it. i’m all for critisizing shitty tropes and practices, but i think in this case it’d be safe enough to let people have at LEAST a day of being giddy over these two wonderful characters getting together before they feel the need to rain on our parade.

BTS' Complaints
  • Jin: "I just feel like no one truly appreciates my natural beauty. Like look at me. Do you understand how much work I don't do to look like this? Ultimate face goals, right?" *is talking to a statue* "You get me bruh. I appreciate that." *kisses statue*
  • J-Hope: "I love being ARMY's hope. I do. BUT WHO'S MY HOPE?! I HAVE NO HOPE." *single tear slides down cheek*
  • Rap Monster: "I'm the LEADER of this group. THE LEADER. So why don't any of those shits ever listen to me? I deserve more than this considering my status" *hair flip*
  • V: "But why was I called 'V'? Does it really mean victory? There are so many other things it could be instead. Vacuum, vegemite, va-" *gasps* "baNG PD-NIM, YOU SATAN."
  • Jungkook: "Dear Noonas. STOP CALLING ME OPPA. I'M NOT YOUR OPPA. I NEVER WAS YOUR OPPA. I NEVER WILL BE YOUR OPPA. I'M SORRY. Lots of love, Jungkook-ah. (<-- did you see the 'ah'? That's what you use... bye)"

Double Ponytails.

Just days ago, before everything changed, an anon asked me to draw Lirry, because it was a rarely drawn ship. Here’s my current take on Liam and Harry, after all that’s happened - I like to think they had a private moment leaning on each other, connecting to Zayn. So I guess the drawing actually turned out Zirry/Zarriam…but can you blame me?

anonymous asked:

jesus christ please don't give them license to explicitly address fatherhood, don't you understand how this fandom works yet? do you SERIOUSLY think you'd be convinced by "yeah people don't think i'm a dad but I'm a dad" after EVERYTHING that's happened?

Hahahahahahaha! As if they haven’t already taken license to jerk us around. Surely my comment wouldn’t be the ultimate permission they’ve been waiting for.

Would I be convinced that he’s a dad if he addressed it explicitly? FUCK NO, because I can’t turn off my brain. But I’d at least be convinced that that’s what he really wants us to believe (whether the end game is a denial or however the fuck it ends up). Do I think Briana actually birthed a child? HELL THE FUCK NO. This is a shit show and the continual shadiness is killing me.

i fail to understand how refusing to ship real people because you find it creepy and controlling meshes with also finding it totally ok to drag on celebs real relationships like you know better than them, ye who have never met them and will never know them. Those two things don’t mesh. If you find one creepy and controlling, the other is too. 

|| I’m actually tearing up. I was struggling with that this morning, and feeling down because I wasn’t sure anyone really liked me on here anymore.

But then I learned who my real friends are… you guys, I love you so much.

@ftsxenoverse for talking to me about it and understanding.
@skeletonboner for making that user box, like you… you just knew…
@thecrystalizeddemongirl because you are always here for me.
@sonicbrofan-nr1 … I needed to hear that. Thank you.

@before-creation You are just a blessing, man.

And all you other guys out there. I feel so blessed. Thank you. ||

'Don't stop believing' meta to come soon

I’m working on a post/meta on why we should expect that this isn’t the end of sherlock or of tjlc. Should be up later today but I can’t anticipate how long it’ll be. Have faith and keep believing.


PS: If you have absolutely zero faith left, I understand why you feel that way and you should be aware that this blog is still fully tjlc and if you’re not ok with that i suggest unfollowing if that will be better for your health and wellbeing. No offence taken if you unfollow. Stay safe everyone.

Damon is NOT a Credible Bad Boy

I saw a comment on how ‘Stefan is the kind of guy you’d choose in real life’, while ‘Damon is the perfect bad boy in a tv show’. Not exactly quoted, but close enough. All I need is 3 reasons.

#1) Damon bitches and moans about himself 24/7. That’s not a grownup trait. That’s the mark of a selfish, immature victim who never takes control of his own life. Instead, he spends all his time blaming others and shadowing his self loathing with bullshit wisecrack and/or outward abuse toward others. Oftentimes this type of individual will redirect attention off of his faults and onto others so he doesn’t have to answer for his own mistakes. This in turn makes him an insufficient lover, both sexually and emotionally. He always needs some kind of reassurance, and that in and of itself reveals his lack of strength.

#2) Damon has no character growth whatsoever. Even a Bad Boy character has some kind of redemption that actually counts. Damon is forgiven again and again for his own mishaps and murders. The worst part is that his own supposed lover, Elena, lets him get away with raping her friend, killing/almost killing her brother more than once, hurting his own brother (the one person that knows Elena better than anyone), killing Stefan’s best friend (Lexi) for a bullshit reason, and forcing himself into her life again and again without her consent. And he never changes.

#3) Bad boys don’t typically receive a ‘Get out of jail free’ card at every turn by all the characters in the story. The bad boy is the one that gets the short end of the stick (*cough* Stefan *cough*) while the viewer sees the softer side of him. Even in S1, Damon was getting a pass for practically everything: killing the coach, killing Lexi, turning Vicki and being the reason she had to die, coming onto Elena thinking he could manipulate her into kissing him while she was with Stefan, killing Jeremy, and it goes on.

Damon is a hormonal drama queen with a shitty attitude and no actual evidence of manhood. How people can deem such a character as a ‘Bad Boy’ or even likable is beyond me.

BLM and Bucky Barnes

You know that whole “then why did you run” exchange between Black Panther and Bucky Barnes in CA:CW, that has practically become a meme:

I love it, its humorous. But at the same time, what I find so interesting, is how so many white people can so obviously understand why Bucky would run from an hostile authority condemning him upon sight for a crime he didn’t commit, but they fail to provide that same empathy to REAL INNOCENT BLACK MEN LIKE FREDIE GRAY who are killed by police on the daily.

Because when the police fail to provide evidence of criminal intent to justify the police’s excessive force, what’s the catch phrase those same white people fall to in order to condemn those black men as guilty?

“Well, if they weren’t up to something, why did they run?”